Dappy gets in trouble for anti-gay remark

[*mazedsalv**]

http://www.dailystar.co.uk/tv/big-brother/359234/Dappy-rapped-for-bent-jibe-on-CBB

http://tellymix.co.uk/reality-tv/big-brother/171585-celebrity-big-brother-2014-dappy-given-third-warning.html

On his third warning already!

[Shaun]

sigh

[smeagol]

jeez how is that a warning or anti gay wtf is going on lol

[Chuckyegg]

This is not a house of ordinary people. It's a place of ignorant unlikeable unfamous fools and I'm on the right track by not watching it.

[Brother Leon]

Third warning FFS :joker:

[Jamesy]

Oh really. For using the word 'bent'. Are the producers just all overly sensitive gay men?

[Niamh.]

Oh really. For using the word 'bent'. Are the producers just all overly sensitive gay men?

Is bent really offensive? (excuse my ignorance) I suppose it's probably used in a negative manner but Heterosexual people are regularly referred to as straight?

[Brother Leon]

When I read the title I assumed he probably dropped the F Bomb. I'll wait to see it tonight in the highlights I suppose. It doesn't look too malicious just reading it tbf.

[Black Dagger]

pmsfl dappy </3

[user104658]

Is bent really offensive? (excuse my ignorance) I suppose it's probably used in a negative manner but Heterosexual people are regularly referred to as straight?

Shhhh don't be trying to apply such silly notions as "logic" to these sorts of discussions. Heterosexual people are both "straight" and "hetero". Homosexual people are NEVER "bent" or "homo". That's just the rules.

[user104658]

Also, lulz at Evander's son "defending his dad" with this gem:

"He treats everyone like a human being… even if they are homosexual."

:joker:. Even if, eh.

[Chuckyegg]

Oh really. For using the word 'bent'. Are the producers just all overly sensitive gay men?

No
Some of them are Breeders. How's that for a word?

[Jamesy]

No
Some of them are Breeders. How's that for a word?

No worse than 'bent' to be honest, ha.

It just seems like a silly thing for singular words to be taken out and used to warn them. Hardly the most offensive thing in the world, especially when you compare it to Evanders comments the other night.

Just seems to be another thing the producers are doing for the sake of showing support for gays and creating some form of drama so the media can hook onto it for 5 minutes.

[Chuckyegg]

"Have you ever sucked your own"?
....is a level of conversation that will not be making me tune in.

[Stevep]

"Have you ever sucked your own"?
....is a level of conversation that will not be making me tune in.

I'm watching, but i agree it's a bit too smutty this year.

[Josy]

I haven't read the article yet but third warning? why haven't we seen them then?

[user104658]

I haven't read the article yet but third warning? why haven't we seen them then?

I get the impression that the others aren't rule breaks, just a level of "casual" swearing in general that means entire normal conversations are off limits for the HL show (as even after the watershed, there are guidelines on "excessive, unnecessary" swearing before 11pm).

[Lee.]

Hmm.. Bent isn't a word I would use personally as I do think it's normally used in quite a derogatory way... And I have to say I'd find it slightly offensive if somebody in my company used it :conf: I don't know really.. How do the gay forum members feel about this word?

[armand.kay]

Lmao bb is a mess.

[Stevep]

Seems unfair that they showed Holyfield's warning to the nation and not the Dappy incident.

[AnnieK]

Round here, people use bent as a term for people who are a bit dodgy....not gay. Like someone who sells things off the bak of a lorry would be classed as a bit bent!

[Vanessa]

Seems unfair that they showed Holyfield's warning to the nation and not the Dappy incident.

This! :nono:

[Niamh.]

Hmm.. Bent isn't a word I would use personally as I do think it's normally used in quite a derogatory way... And I have to say I'd find it slightly offensive if somebody in my company used it :conf: I don't know really.. How do the gay forum members feel about this word?

mmm, I would never use it myself either but I suppose I might refer to myself as straight

[Kyle]

Round here, people use bent as a term for people who are a bit dodgy....not gay. Like someone who sells things off the bak of a lorry would be classed as a bit bent!

Same here, a shady character that sells knocked off goods. Also means a copper that's not in his career for the right reasons.

Oh well, there's another word that's now offensive. Fan****intastic.

[lime]

Maybe thats why "bent" is considered offensive when refering to gays ..because it's refering to someone who is gay as shady /dodgy.:shrug:

[Glenn.]

Hmm.. Bent isn't a word I would use personally as I do think it's normally used in quite a derogatory way... And I have to say I'd find it slightly offensive if somebody in my company used it :conf: I don't know really.. How do the gay forum members feel about this word?

To me I find the word 'bent' offensive. When you stand it up against the term 'straight', it implies an abnormality.

[Sophiee]

wouldn't be surprised if he gets thrown out of the house. I sort of hope he keeps up this behaviour just so he will :D.

[Kyle]

Maybe thats why "bent" is considered offensive when refering to gays ..because it's refering to someone who is gay as shady /dodgy.:shrug:

Nah I just reckon it's the antithesis of hetero people being straight.

[Lee.]

To me I find the word 'bent' offensive. When you stand it up against the term 'straight', it implies an abnormality.

Yeah, that's how I see it too

[Niamh.]

To me I find the word 'bent' offensive. When you stand it up against the term 'straight', it implies an abnormality.

Yeah, that's how I see it too

That makes sense I suppose.

[Bojangles]

I'd rather they warned him about playing with himself every whip stitch.

[Niamh.]

I'd rather they warned him about playing with himself every whip stitch.

Or tell him to pull his stupid pants up

[Glenn.]

Or just throw him out

[Bojangles]

Or tell him to pull his stupid pants up

Yep that too.

[Jords]

To answer his question, yes he does.

[Black Dagger]

I'm sure some who had no issue with Evander's comments will be LGBT ambassadors now because it's Dappy.

[chuff me dizzy]

Oh really. For using the word 'bent'. Are the producers just all overly sensitive gay men?

Pathetic ,either producers are as you say oversensitive gays or the PC brigade are again in top gear

[erinp5]

maybe he meant corrupt.

[Niamh.]

anyway, how would doing it too himself make him gay? :suspect:

[Apple202]

meh

[Apple202]

don't get how this got a warning yet evander didn't get anything but w/e :conf:

[Lee.]

don't get how this got a warning yet evander didn't get anything but w/e :conf:

Evander did get a warning? Did he not??

[Kizzy]

Ah I get it this is this years angle maybe?
you have motormouth dappy, southern American christian evander,1980's reject bigot jim, in with sexually complex ollie, sexually voracious bisexuals jasmine and luisa, liz who steals sperm, randy lee and casey and camp old lionel.....
Hmmm, wonder why sexuality is the hot topic?

[Lostie!]

"Do I look bent to you".

Ah, yes, because being gay means you have a specific "look". Fool.

[Kazanne]

Round here, people use bent as a term for people who are a bit dodgy....not gay. Like someone who sells things off the bak of a lorry would be classed as a bit bent!

Same here Annie :hugesmile:

[Jemal]

Bb is annoyin with these things now

[Z]

Ah I get it this is this years angle maybe?
you have motormouth dappy, southern American christian evander,1980's reject bigot jim, in with sexually complex ollie, sexually voracious bisexuals jasmine and luisa, liz who steals sperm, randy lee and casey and camp old lionel.....
Hmmm, wonder why sexuality is the hot topic?

I just can't figure it out!

[Glenn.]

I haven't actually heard the term 'bent' since I was in school. If I've heard it since it's probably about bent coppers and dodgy stuff like what Annie mentioned.

It obviously shows dappy's mentality. Immature moron

[Z]

:shrug: I don't think it's that surprising to hear him say the word bent

[Samm]

I'm not that surprised, I still like him a bit tbh

[Niamh.]

:shrug: I don't think it's that surprising to hear him say the word bent

Yeah, he's like the model sacha baron cohen used for Ali G

[Kizzy]

It's just a colloquialism isn't it?
Why don't they just give everyone a short list of what we can say and have done with it..
The only conversation anyone will have soon will begin 'I'm offended you're offended!' :laugh:

[Kizzy]

It's just a colloquialism isn't it?
Why don't they just give everyone a short list of what we can say and have done with it..
The only conversation anyone will have soon will begin 'I'm offended you're offended!' :laugh:

[chuff me dizzy]

It's just a colloquialism isn't it?
Why don't they just give everyone a short list of what we can say and have done with it..
The only conversation anyone will have soon will begin 'I'm offended you're offended!' :laugh:

Its the future Kizzy !!

[Rob!]

I'm gay. I'm not offended by this. :idc:

[Bluerang1]

Pathetic ,either producers are as you say oversensitive gays or the PC brigade are again in top gear

This.

"Do I look bent to you".

Ah, yes, because being gay means you have a specific "look". Fool.

Exactly so gays need to stop comparing whatever they're facing to race struggles.

[erinp5]

I'm gay. I'm not offended by this. :idc:

I read your post and I agree with the author.
Pink News article about Evander.

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2014/01/07...er-holyfields/

[Northern Monkey]

This is beyond stupid now.First Evander gets scolded for explaining his beliefs when asked!Now apparently you can't say bent?I will say bent for as long as i get called straight.Ridiculous.C5 really need to stop being so scared of ofcom or for better or worse reality TV will cease to exist.

[chuff me dizzy]

This is beyond stupid now.First Evander gets scolded for explaining his beliefs when asked!Now apparently you can't say bent?I will say bent for as long as i get called straight.Ridiculous.C5 really need to stop being so scared of ofcom or for better or worse reality TV will cease to exist.

:worship:

[Jemal]

Bent

[Apple202]

This.



Exactly so gays need to stop comparing whatever they're facing to race struggles.

Fairly sure that is not at all what the poster you quoted meant

[arista]

Is bent really offensive? (excuse my ignorance) I suppose it's probably used in a negative manner but Heterosexual people are regularly referred to as straight?


Rylan Clark is a trouble maker

[arista]

I'm gay. I'm not offended by this. :idc:



Thats Good,
its all getting political in there, sadly

[Lostie!]

Exactly so gays need to stop comparing whatever they're facing to race struggles.

Huh?

Bigotry is bigotry, why are some people hell-bent on making it a competition. "No, this minority had it worse! NOO, THIS ONE DID!" All forms of discrimination are as bad as each other, people who try to make out that homophobia is somehow not as bad as racism are clearly uneducated on the effects it's had on some people.

Actually, how does your post at all relate to what I said? :conf: Unless you're jumping on the fact that I said gay people don't have a "look", and then decided to talk about how racism is worse because people are discriminated against for what they look like? I'm not sure how that makes homophobia somehow less of a problem, both are people being treated differently because of who they are. There was a time when simply being gay could land you in prison, but you're right, that wasn't a big deal.

As for the "look" thing, my point was that some ignorant people still DO think that gay men look and act a certain way.

Also, why is it always suggested that the only people pissed off by supposed-homophobia are "the gays"? "The gays" aren't the only ones who object to homophobic slurs, you know?

[Glenn.]

I also love how homosexuals are referred to as 'the gays'

[letmein]

I'm gay, and that's nothing compared to what Evander said, a statement which may go down as the most repulsive statement since the Shilpa Shetty incident.

[Pete.]

Thank ****. Dappy showing his true colours and will be evicted yay

[letmein]

This.



Exactly so gays need to stop comparing whatever they're facing to race struggles.

That makes absolutely no sense.

[letmein]

Huh?

Bigotry is bigotry, why are some people hell-bent on making it a competition. "No, this minority had it worse! NOO, THIS ONE DID!" All forms of discrimination are as bad as each other, people who try to make out that homophobia is somehow not as bad as racism are clearly uneducated on the effects it's had on some people.

Actually, how does your post at all relate to what I said? :conf: Unless you're jumping on the fact that I said gay people don't have a "look", and then decided to talk about how racism is worse because people are discriminated against for what they look like? I'm not sure how that makes homophobia somehow less of a problem, both are people being treated differently because of who they are. There was a time when simply being gay could land you in prison, but you're right, that wasn't a big deal.

As for the "look" thing, my point was that some ignorant people still DO think that gay men look and act a certain way.

Also, why is it always suggested that the only people pissed off by supposed-homophobia are "the gays"? "The gays" aren't the only ones who object to homophobic slurs, you know?

Don't even get into a conversation with them, seriously.

[letmein]

It's just a colloquialism isn't it?
Why don't they just give everyone a short list of what we can say and have done with it..
The only conversation anyone will have soon will begin 'I'm offended you're offended!' :laugh:

I was saying something like this during the last series. They should give them a list of topics not to discuss like not discussing nominations.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

No
Some of them are Breeders. How's that for a word?

I take offence to this. I wasn't created solely to open my legs and pop out kids.

[Vicky.]

Round here, people use bent as a term for people who are a bit dodgy....not gay. Like someone who sells things off the bak of a lorry would be classed as a bit bent!

Same here

[Josy]

I was saying something like this during the last series. They should give them a list of topics not to discuss like not discussing nominations.

Which would completely defeat the purpose of reality TV, conversation of all sorts come up in real life why should it be stopped on BB?

[starry]

I wonder if the producers are under the wrong impression that a huge percentage of the viewers are gay? Maybe that's why they gave us Dowling as a presenter?

[sampvt]

This years show is weird. As far as I am aware, there are no gay HM,s but all the forum can talk about is gay issues. If gay people took a leaf out of the Asian, coloured and Jewish books and simply looked down on anti,s comments, they would be more than accepted into society, but whilst there are gay people out there magnifying every little thing they disagree with, their lifestyle and ways will always be hard to be integrated.

Many years ago black power and blacks civil rights were all over the place, nowadays we hear very little about racism due to the fact that most of us support coloured people and racists are given a really hard time. I don't condone gay bashing nor racism, in fact I abhor it but if gay people stopped getting so heavy and started laughing at these fools instead. they will always find themselves in a rock or a hard place.

The anti,s need pitying not slandering, that way many will keep their opinions to themselves. I am sorry but a lot of gay people make a rod for their own back. My views may be wrong but they are a personal and non biased opinion that sympathise with what some people have to put up with, and not a dig at gays.

[Redway]

Pathetic. Evander's was perfectly justified but for saying 'bent' - really?

[Black Dagger]

Homos are sensitive really.

I didn't even think bent was still a term though, he's not down with the youth

[Black Dagger]

Thank ****. Dappy showing his true colours and will be evicted yay

you do know it's vote to save and he's going nowhere in a hurry right?

[toronto_matt]

This is not a house of ordinary people. It's a place of ignorant unlikeable unfamous fools and I'm on the right track by not watching it.

if your not watching why are you here?

[Lostie!]

Homos are sensitive really.

I didn't even think bent was still a term though, he's not down with the youth

Ah, yeah, if a gay person objects to homophobic language, they're just "sensitive". Then, considering you're throwing out a bit of bigotry yourself, no wonder you don't have a problem with it.

Oh, and you might like to know that:

1. It's not just "homos" who complain about supposed-homophobia.
2. Not all "homos" are the same. Seriously, you only show yourself up by trying to group an entire range of people in together. :)

[Vicky.]

Ah, yeah, if a gay person objects to homophobic language, they're just "sensitive". Then, considering you're throwing out a bit of bigotry yourself, no wonder you don't have a problem with it.

Oh, and you might like to know that:

1. It's not just "homos" who complain about supposed-homophobia.
2. Not all "homos" are the same. Seriously, you only show yourself up by trying to group an entire range of people in together. :)

BD is actually a 'homo'. Which kinda emphasizes your second point :p

[sampvt]

Im a homo, a homosapian, lol.

[Z]

if your not watching why are you here?

I haven't seen even a second of this series but I'm still commenting in threads in the forum