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jet
11-01-2014, 12:29 AM
He is stuck in early adolescence. He has no self awareness whatsoever and he keeps making the same mistakes and expecting different results. Then he cries and expects people to understand and comfort him in the absence of his Mummy. I have never seen such an immature and emotionally under - developed 30 something. I'm beginning to think maybe he's a sandwich short of a picnic?

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
11-01-2014, 12:31 AM
What a legendary housemate Lee ryan is #Allrise

Josy
11-01-2014, 12:34 AM
Definitely agree with you that he's very immature although I don't agree about him being a bit simple, he just thinks he can do whatever he likes and when the **** hits the fan he can blame it on everyone else or if that fails he turns on the waterworks, he's an absolute sleaze of a man.

Josy
11-01-2014, 12:34 AM
What a legendary housemate Lee ryan is #Allrise

Do you actually have anything worth discussing to add to this thread?

Z
11-01-2014, 12:35 AM
D'you know what I think it is? I think it's because most people, as teenagers, go through this process of sleeping around, getting rejected, breaking hearts, having their heart broken and by the time they're in their mid-late twenties they've learned that they can't do whatever they want to other people or they can expect to be treated the same way back. Lee has never had to deal with any of that because he was famous from a young age, slept with anything with a pulse and never had to deal with the consequences because for every heart broken girl and her mates who think he's scum, there's some other girl willing to sleep with him. He's never learned his lesson.

KingOfTheMods
11-01-2014, 12:35 AM
He is stuck in early adolescence. He has no self awareness whatsoever and he keeps making the same mistakes and expecting different results. Then he cries and expects people to understand and comfort him in the absence of his Mummy. I have never seen such an immature and emotionally under - developed 30 something. I'm beginning to think maybe he's a sandwich short of a picnic?

He's always been told it's not his fault and he did nothing wrong by the idiots that surround him. The guy is a walking bellend, with a planet sized ego.

jet
11-01-2014, 12:47 AM
D'you know what I think it is? I think it's because most people, as teenagers, go through this process of sleeping around, getting rejected, breaking hearts, having their heart broken and by the time they're in their mid-late twenties they've learned that they can't do whatever they want to other people or they can expect to be treated the same way back. Lee has never had to deal with any of that because he was famous from a young age, slept with anything with a pulse and never had to deal with the consequences because for every heart broken girl and her mates who think he's scum, there's some other girl willing to sleep with him. He's never learned his lesson.

I get what you are saying, but how many boy band members are like him? I can't think of one who is as immature and with no self awareness to that extent. He treats women like objects to play with and to massage his ego and has no idea even how to at least portray himself in a good light. He acts like a kid in a candy shop who thinks he can have it all then cries for his Mummy to hug him and make it better when he gets a sore tummy.
I honestly think there is something not right with him. Maybe arrested development? He shouldn't have been put in the house. :nono:

rionablue
11-01-2014, 12:51 AM
its not often I agree with ya Jet ( Like about Jasmine) but hear hear to what you have to say about childish Lee x

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
11-01-2014, 12:53 AM
Do you actually have anything worth discussing to add to this thread?

Just beccause your perception is not the same about Lee Ryan does not mean others can't praise him.... :xyxwave: The topic is about Lee being a kid so im saying he is a legendary housemate, any problems mod? :nono:

Josy
11-01-2014, 12:57 AM
Just beccause your perception is not the same about Lee Ryan does not mean others can't praise him.... :xyxwave: The topic is about Lee being a kid so im saying he is a legendary housemate, any problems mod? :nono:

Yes I have a problem when your only contributions to threads is posting things like 'Top Lad' 'What a legendary housemate Lee ryan is' '#Allrise'

Maybe you should get involved in the conversation and elaborate on your reasons for those comments, it would add a hell of a lot more to the topic.

Z
11-01-2014, 12:58 AM
I get what you are saying, but how many boy band members are like him? I can't think of one who is as immature and with no self awareness to that extent. He treats women like objects to play with and to massage his ego and has no idea even how to at least portray himself in a good light. He acts like a kid in a candy shop who thinks he can have it all then cries for his Mummy to hug him and make it better when he gets a sore tummy.
I honestly think there is something not right with him. Maybe arrested development? He shouldn't have been put in the house. :nono:

Hard to say really; would we have known Lee is like this if there had been two different housemates in there instead of Casey and Jasmine? It depends on the combination of people and what we, the public, get to see... but it's a behaviour that isn't limited to boy band members, I think many famous men are guilty of the same behaviour as Lee - if you have women throwing themselves at you, you sleep with as many as you can, then regardless of how ****ty you treat women in general, you are never going to feel apologetic for the way you treat them and you will become accustomed to this way of treating the opposite sex. How many famous men do we hear about having affairs? It's really common. Most people have the emotional maturity to not act like Lee but there are plenty out there who are just like Lee Ryan.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
11-01-2014, 01:00 AM
Yes I have a problem when your only contributions to threads is posting things like 'Top Lad' 'What a legendary housemate Lee ryan is' '#Allrise'

Maybe you should get involved in the conversation and elaborate on your reasons for those comments, it would add a hell of a lot more to the topic.

No thanks i only wish to say 1 line in all threads and you can't force me to elaborate it's my opinion....

Josy
11-01-2014, 01:02 AM
No thanks i only wish to say 1 line in all threads and you can't force me to elaborate it's my opinion....

No I can't force you to elaborate but if one comment is all you can muster up about a housemate that you think is legendary then well that says it all tbh.

Carry on :idc:

Im_Juz_ChiLLin
11-01-2014, 01:06 AM
No I can't force you to elaborate but if one comment is all you can muster up about a housemate that you think is legendary then well that says it all tbh.

Carry on :idc:

My mom always said that there would be haters. Not everyone can love ya. #GreatAdvise

Z
11-01-2014, 01:10 AM
My mom always said that there would be haters. Not everyone can love ya. #GreatAdvise

No one's hating... just interested to hear your opinions about what makes Lee so great. Most people are discussing why they think he's a bad guy so it'd be interesting to hear why you think he's great, that's all. We're here to discuss! :)

jet
11-01-2014, 01:31 AM
Hard to say really; would we have known Lee is like this if there had been two different housemates in there instead of Casey and Jasmine? It depends on the combination of people and what we, the public, get to see... but it's a behaviour that isn't limited to boy band members, I think many famous men are guilty of the same behaviour as Lee - if you have women throwing themselves at you, you sleep with as many as you can, then regardless of how ****ty you treat women in general, you are never going to feel apologetic for the way you treat them and you will become accustomed to this way of treating the opposite sex. How many famous men do we hear about having affairs? It's really common. Most people have the emotional maturity to not act like Lee but there are plenty out there who are just like Lee Ryan.

I doubt they would be so immature and stupid to do it on a reality TV show though - and if they did I doubt they would keep making the same mistakes and cry buckets about how misunderstood they were and how it wasn't their fault...no, there is something not right with that man/child.
He hasn't the self awareness to redeem himself and it's going to get worse the longer he is in there - he needs to be voted out asap for his own good.

Z
11-01-2014, 01:37 AM
Yeah I agree with you, Lee is extremely immature in both his actions and in his emotional response to those actions. I've really not been impressed by him in Big Brother at all, from the word go he was proving himself to be an idiot - but there were plenty of stories about him back in the day and I watched The Big Reunion and got a taster for his immaturity on there too. He said Liz McLarnon must still fancy him because she flinched when Blue walked into the rehearsal room for the first time and burst out laughing (they were engaged when they were younger) - absolutely no awareness of other people's emotions at all. Pillock.

Ultimately though I don't think this will stick to him - it's been his way for at least a decade and he's not really done anything especially awful all things considered, it's not going to kill Blue's career off or anything, it'll keep him in the papers and boost their profile a bit, which is the end goal isn't it?

Ammi
11-01-2014, 05:33 AM
..I don't think it's immaturity, he just has no respect for females or maybe other people in general and doesn't seem to be able to see anything from another point of view...there are many people like that and of different ages, it's just having no self awareness at all...

Lister of Smeg
11-01-2014, 05:50 AM
Still not seeing what so special about this little scrot ?. He's a 90s has been or should I say never was I guarantee he has little to know male friends on the outside .

Gusto Brunt
11-01-2014, 06:23 AM
As I have said before Lee Ryan is a charmed fella. Apparently good looking, women just throw themselves at him and he doesn't even have to try.

All he has to do is try to kiss them and they respond.

No wonder he's like a '14 year old' Kid in a sweet shop. He doesn't have to grow up. He enjoys having fun.

So far he's had a BJ off Casey and probably a couple of hand jobs under the sheets. And from Jasmine, well from last night we discovered he performed cunnilingus on her in the toilet. The fact she probably asked for this makes my opinion of her go to ground floor level.

This says less about Lee really than it does about Jasmine and Casey (who I used to like . Both of these women are an utter disgrace, that they could offer themselves like common prostitutes to a man they barely know. Awful that it might happen in the real world.

Even more shocking that both women would allow their dignity to be stripped on live TV.

So yeah, Lee is immature, but who can blame him when he's having the same 'fun' he had when he was about 16.

Lister of Smeg
11-01-2014, 08:40 AM
As I have said before Lee Ryan is a charmed fella. Apparently good looking, women just throw themselves at him and he doesn't even have to try.

All he has to do is try to kiss them and they respond.

No wonder he's like a '14 year old' Kid in a sweet shop. He doesn't have to grow up. He enjoys having fun.

So far he's had a BJ off Casey and probably a couple of hand jobs under the sheets. And from Jasmine, well from last night we discovered he performed cunnilingus on her in the toilet. The fact she probably asked for this makes my opinion of her go to ground floor level.

This says less about Lee really than it does about Jasmine and Casey (who I used to like . Both of these women are an utter disgrace, that they could offer themselves like common prostitutes to a man they barely know. Awful that it might happen in the real world.

Even more shocking that both women would allow their dignity to be stripped on live TV.

So yeah, Lee is immature, but who can blame him when he's having the same 'fun' he had when he was about 16.

Sad isnt watching pretty young girls fall at the feet of this effeminate sleaze ball.

rusticgal
11-01-2014, 10:47 AM
He is stuck in early adolescence. He has no self awareness whatsoever and he keeps making the same mistakes and expecting different results. Then he cries and expects people to understand and comfort him in the absence of his Mummy. I have never seen such an immature and emotionally under - developed 30 something. I'm beginning to think maybe he's a sandwich short of a picnic?

Totally agree.... he seems to think he is stil popular...he seems to think that because the public voted to put him in the 'bolt hole' and not evict that he has misread the situation and that the public still like him.
The blokes in complete denial about everything....he has made a complete twat of himself....and whatever he tries to do NOTHING will redeem him. But just watch he will be all over someone tonight and back to the same childish behaviour.
I just love watching these people dig themselves a hole...:joker:

flamingGalah!
11-01-2014, 11:30 AM
I found it amusing when he told the 'hilarious' story to Casey about how he picked up the 5 girls in a night club, then shagged one each day the next week. He tried making out he behaved like that because he was only 19, yet he still behaves in the exact same way now! The guy is a total & complete utter arsehole & any woman should have some dignity & run for the hills if this sleeze tries to chat them up...

Bojangles
11-01-2014, 11:32 AM
He's a spoilt Mummy's boy.

Beastie
11-01-2014, 11:38 AM
I wouldn't kick him out of bed and plus he's a brilliant housemate!

flamingGalah!
11-01-2014, 12:11 PM
I wouldn't kick him out of bed and plus he's a brilliant housemate!

:facepalm:

Z
11-01-2014, 01:28 PM
He's such a prat, makes me angry!

MachoPoodle
12-01-2014, 11:43 AM
Even if he wasn't such a sleaze, I wouldn't get his appeal. I certainly don't agree he's especially good looking, he's seems pretty boring (self involved people almost always are) and that voice of his is ****ing annoying.

sassysocks
12-01-2014, 11:57 AM
Even if he wasn't such a sleaze, I wouldn't get his appeal. I certainly don't agree he's especially good looking, he's seems pretty boring (self involved people almost always are) and that voice of his is ****ing annoying.

Thank god for women with bad taste I say, leaves the more attractive ones for the rest of us. Lee is very average in looks or less and far below in character. He is a tiresome bore with the personality of a brick. Anyone who could fancy that deserves no better.

smeagol
12-01-2014, 12:37 PM
his main problem is he is sooooooooooooo spoilt. thts why he puts on the 5 yr old routine of pretending to cry when things go tits up, very sad guy. he is all bout himself in everything he does and says.

Bottom line - Total twat

MachoPoodle
12-01-2014, 02:19 PM
his main problem is he is sooooooooooooo spoilt. thts why he puts on the 5 yr old routine of pretending to cry when things go tits up, very sad guy. he is all bout himself in everything he does and says.

Yup. Spot on.

Kazanne
12-01-2014, 02:26 PM
:facepalm:

:joker::joker:There's always one

Ammi
12-01-2014, 02:27 PM
..I think he's probably one of the most narcissistic people I have ever seen...