Sleeping with 5 people in the same night...

[Josy]

Is it an ok thing to sleep with 5 or more people in the same night whether you are male or female?

Discuss.

[MTVN]

Sounds a bit much like hard work

[Jake.]

If it's okay with everybody who has consented, all are over the age of 18 and everybody is aware of what they are doing (to some extent anyway) then I honestly cannot see the problem. If people want to do it, that's their choice.

[Kazanne]

Well I might be a bit old fashioned but I was brought up to think it was kinda special between two people ,so imo it's trampish but if people want to do that kind of thing so be it,I never would.

[Kate!]

Sounds a bit much like hard work

:laugh:

[Kate!]

I wouldn't do it, it's tacky IMO.

[Drew.]

Makes me feel a bit dirty (not in that way) just thinking about it

[Ammi]

..it's not necessarily something that everyone would want to do themselves and certainly something that I wouldn't but that doesn't mean that it's not ok if everyone involved are fine with it then it really is up to them...

[Jake.]

Tbh you hear about so many of these 'lads' going on about how they'd love to have threesomes/foursomes and it seems more socially acceptable

[Jesus.]

I dread to think of the smell, but if it's 6 consenting adults, then it's fine if they're all up for it.

[Josy]

If it's okay with everybody who has consented, all are over the age of 18 and everybody is aware of what they are doing (to some extent anyway) then I honestly cannot see the problem. If people want to do it, that's their choice.

..it's not necessarily something that everyone would want to do themselves and certainly something that I wouldn't but that doesn't mean that it's not ok if everyone involved are fine with it then it really is up to them...

Yes everyone has consented and are of age etc the point of the thread is to see what you personally think of it, not what the people taking part think of it. :laugh:

[Josy]

I personally think it's disgusting

[Kate!]

I'd never want to have a threesome or more, sex should be (IMO) kept between two people. I'd find it weird and embarrassing, but I wouldn't criticise anyone for doing it if that's what floats their boat.

[mizzy25]

god I can barely be bothered to have sex with one person let alone five lol

[thesheriff443]

its very unlikely that the average person would be in that position in real life unless you are at a swingers venue, a prostitute or being spit roasted.
sex in general is overrated,
cant really see what you can get from that many partners in one sitting:joker: apart from problems, sexual or emotional.

[Ammi]

Yes everyone has consented and are of age etc the point of the thread is to see what you personally think of it, not what the people taking part think of it. :laugh:

...tbh, I don't really think anything about it or about whoever chooses to do it but I wouldn't personally do it myself..I know that I wouldn't anyway because I have a partner but I never would have...

[michael21]

Is it an ok thing to sleep with 5 or more people in the same night whether you are male or female?

Discuss.

yes it fine count me in :evilgrin:

[Me. I Am Salman]

It's vile but I wouldn't judge anyone for it because each to their own

[Kazanne]

god I can barely be bothered to have sex with one person let alone five lol

:joker::joker:

[Cherie]

its very unlikely that the average person would be in that position in real life unless you are at a swingers venue, a prostitute or being spit roasted.
sex in general is overrated,
cant really see what you can get from that many partners in one sitting:joker: apart from problems, sexual or emotional.

Not for me but some people seem to like it :laugh:

[Benjamin]

I personally wouldn't do it (I have done 3, lol) but if others want to I don;t really care. Everyone has their own things they want to do in life.

[Ammi]

..hmmm, I guess it depends on the circumstances but maybe what I might wonder is why someone would feel the need to do that..(other than the obvious..)..but whether they had low self esteem and it was a way in which they somehow felt 'loved'....but maybe that's looking into it too deeply...

[GiRTh]

I personally wouldn't do it (I have done 3, lol) but if others want to I don;t really care. Everyone has their own things they want to do in life.
Tell us more. :shocked:

[Benjamin]

Tell us more. :shocked:

I was 18, drunk and ended up with a group of guys and went back to theirs. I'm not going into further detail about it, but I had a fun night. Felt like a right roughian the next morning though and swore I'd never do it again. :laugh:

[Cherie]

I personally wouldn't do it (I have done 3, lol) but if others want to I don;t really care. Everyone has their own things they want to do in life.

3 different people or a threesome?

[GiRTh]

I was 18, drunk and ended up with a group of guys and went back to theirs. I'm not going into further detail about it, but I had a fun night. Felt like a right roughian the next morning though and swore I'd never do it again. :laugh:Was it three women and just you?

[Benjamin]

3 different people or a threesome?

It was a foursome, so that is 3 people in one night.

[Benjamin]

Was it three women and just you?

Yes I love sleeping with women.

[GiRTh]

Yes I love sleeping with women.Good lad. Get in there.:devil:

[Marc]

All that semen

[Cherie]

It was a foursome, so that is 3 people in one night.

Get you and your stamina

All that semen

:joker:

:

[Benjamin]

Mars, so disgusting.

[Marc]

Look who's calling me disgusting, Mr Pin Cushion :idc:

[Benjamin]

Look who's calling me disgusting, Mr Pin Cushion :idc:

At least I get some :pipe:

[Marc]

I quite like walking normally :pipe2:

[Benjamin]

I quite like walking normally :pipe2:

I doubt you can walk normally, that sack must be bulging after getting none :pipe:

[Marc]

:laugh: Not if I let it all out on a regular occasion

[Benjamin]

:laugh: Not if I let it all out on a regular occasion

Oh what a grim thought.

[Marc]

Can you please stop perving

[Benjamin]

no. ha2

[GiRTh]

:shocked: :joker:

[Kazanne]

what are you two like?:joker::joker:

[GiRTh]

All that semenMarc makes a good point. I hope they had a good wipe down afterwards. They'll end up with streaks if they dont.

[Marc]

Must have ruined Ben's fake tan

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Don't think my vagina was designed for such an event.

[GiRTh]

Must have ruined Ben's fake tan:joker:

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Actually I take it back. Give me all 5 members of Avenged and my vagina will co-orperate.

[Marc]

Do you not have control over your vagina

[Benjamin]

I do not fake tan. Just jealous that I don't burn in the sun. :idc:

[Natalie.]

If that's what someone wants to do then yeah it's fine but I couldn't do it, would feel dirty

[Jake.]

Ben's true reason for supporting Luisa being revealed

[Z]

I don't have any issue with group sex because everyone involved has consented to that; but one person having sex with five individuals to me implies five different encounters; so maybe one after a dinner date, one at pre-drinks, one in a club, one after a club and then another one on the way home; not just five people queuing up to have sex with the one person. So I don't think those five people are going to be consenting to having sex with someone's sloppy fifths. I think it's disgusting behaviour and I don't think there's any justifying it, it's trampy and deserves to be looked down upon.

[Smithy]

Yes, it is ok, it's nobody else's business who anyone sleeps with

[Benjamin]

I don't have any issue with group sex because everyone involved has consented to that; but one person having sex with five individuals to me implies five different encounters; so maybe one after a dinner date, one at pre-drinks, one in a club, one after a club and then another one on the way home; not just five people queuing up to have sex with the one person. So I don't think those five people are going to be consenting to having sex with someone's sloppy fifths. I think it's disgusting behaviour and I don't think there's any justifying it, it's trampy and deserves to be looked down upon.

Well aren't we Mr. Judgmental. It does not deserve to be looked down upon just because you happen not to want to do it.

[Z]

Well aren't we Mr. Judgmental. It does not deserve to be looked down upon just because you happen not to want to do it.

You don't think there's something disgusting about someone who has sex with five different people in one night, none of whom have any knowledge about the others? I said I don't have any problem with group sex, that's an entirely different thing, because everyone there knows what they're getting into. I don't think many people would agree to have sex with someone if they knew they were that person's fifth conquest of the day.

[AnnieK]

No problem with it if that's what people want to do. I wouldn't but each to their own...

[Benjamin]

You don't think there's something disgusting about someone who has sex with five different people in one night, none of whom have any knowledge about the others? I said I don't have any problem with group sex, that's an entirely different thing, because everyone there knows what they're getting into. I don't think many people would agree to have sex with someone if they knew they were that person's fifth conquest of the day.

If someone is willing to just have sex there and then with somebody then I don;t think they really care tbh.

Like I said I wouldn't do it, but I'm not going to look down at others for doing it, each to their own.

[Jake.]

Yeah, I thought that Josy meant in the op that the case is of somebody who has sex with five people all of whom have consented to it, I do agree with Greg that gping around and meeting multiple, random people in one night is a completely different topic

[GiRTh]

If someone is willing to just have sex there and then with somebody then I don;t think they really care tbh.

Like I said I wouldn't do it,but I'm not going to look down at others for doing it, each to their own.But you almost already have.

[Z]

If someone is willing to just have sex there and then with somebody then I don;t think they really care tbh.

Like I said I wouldn't do it, but I'm not going to look down at others for doing it, each to their own.

I wouldn't have sex with more than one person in one day; so I'm putting myself in the position where if I were to have sex with someone, only to later find out I was lucky number five, I would be disgusted. They could be spreading diseases, they had no regard for your health, they were solely thinking about themselves and their own high sex drive. I would feel sick if I found out I'd been used by someone like that; and I would absolutely judge someone negatively if they were boasting about having sex with five people in one night. I would never get with somebody who would do that.

[Jake.]

But you almost already have.

That's different though imo, Ben went back with a group, he didn't go out on five dinners with random people, having sex with each

[Z]

That's different though imo, Ben went back with a group, he didn't go out on five dinners with random people, having sex with each

Yeah I'm not talking about group sex, I'm talking about five separate sexual acts with five separate people who are all unaware of the other encounters. I find that behaviour completely disgusting and unacceptable.

[Jake.]

Yeah I'm not talking about group sex, I'm talking about five separate sexual acts with five separate people who are all unaware of the other encounters. I find that behaviour completely disgusting and unacceptable.

Yeah don't worry I knew what you was referring to :laugh:

[Benjamin]

I wouldn't have sex with more than one person in one day; so I'm putting myself in the position where if I were to have sex with someone, only to later find out I was lucky number five, I would be disgusted. They could be spreading diseases, they had no regard for your health, they were solely thinking about themselves and their own high sex drive. I would feel sick if I found out I'd been used by someone like that; and I would absolutely judge someone negatively if they were boasting about having sex with five people in one night. I would never get with somebody who would do that.

They could be spreading diseases? What is to say they are not having safe sex? People who have sex just once could spread a disease.

Like I said if somebody is willing to just have sex with somebody there and then (and without a condom) they are clearly not thinking about their own health and so I doubt they would even think about how many people that person may have slept with that night, day, week, month, life.

[GiRTh]

That's different though imo, Ben went back with a group, he didn't go out on five dinners with random people, having sex with each
A group of girls and drilled them all the lucky b*stard.

[Z]

They could be spreading diseases? What is to say they are not having safe sex? People who have sex just once could spread a disease.

Like I said if somebody is willing to just have sex with somebody there and then (and without a condom) they are clearly not thinking about their own health and so I doubt they would even think about how many people that person may have slept with that night, day, week, month, life.

HPV, genital warts, genital herpes, oral herpes, scabies, crabs, glandular fever... unless they're wearing some kind of condom-mouth guard-body suit hybrid, then yes, they could quite easily be spreading diseases.

What if it was a Lee Ryan type that had inspired this debate instead of Luisa Zissman? Someone who we've seen plays women and has more than one on the go at a time? What if this hypothetical man has five separate women thinking they're exclusive and he's having sex with all of them but in his mind he's single - would you defend that Ben? As always, each to their own, but I don't see how anyone can defend this kind of behaviour, personally.

[Ammi]

..I guess I can't understand why anyone judges anyone else's sex life or even has it occupy their thoughts at all..it's a completely personal thing and there are lots of things that I'm sure that I wouldn't personally do but have no problem if others do..I don't necessarily want to hear about it though because I have no interest in anyone else's personal sex life and never have but I would say that of the things that I do find 'disgusting' in life, other people's sex lives is one of them...

[Z]

..I guess I can't understand why anyone judges anyone else's sex life or even has it occupy their thoughts at all..it's a completely personal thing and there are lots of things that I'm sure that I wouldn't personally do but have no problem if others do..I don't necessarily want to hear about it though because I have no interest in anyone else's personal sex life and never have but I would say that of the things that I do find 'disgusting' in life, other people's sex lives is one of them...

But you can say that about anything a bit unpleasant in life - we only care about issues if they affect us personally. I'm only judging it and having it "occupy my thoughts" because we have a thread discussing it at the moment. I don't care what other people do with their bodies unless it affects mine. I wouldn't care if my brother told me he'd slept with five people in one night but I would care if someone I'd been intimate with told me the same.

[Benjamin]

HPV, genital warts, genital herpes, oral herpes, scabies, crabs, glandular fever... unless they're wearing some kind of condom-mouth guard-body suit hybrid, then yes, they could quite easily be spreading diseases.

What if it was a Lee Ryan type that had inspired this debate instead of Luisa Zissman? Someone who we've seen plays women and has more than one on the go at a time? What if this hypothetical man has five separate women thinking they're exclusive and he's having sex with all of them but in his mind he's single - would you defend that Ben? As always, each to their own, but I don't see how anyone can defend this kind of behaviour, personally.

No offence Zee but I'd care if you didn't try and come across all high and mighty with your opinion. and my choice to defend that kind of behaviour.

Having people think you are exclusive is different from just sleeping with somebody, as that is a level of trust, and not what we are discussing? I'm referring to just instant one-night hook-ups, with which people just have sex there and then.

And if they are wearing condoms it is no different to somebody having sex with 5 people in a month, the health risks are the same (unless you mean having sex with 5 people ever night). If they choose not to use condoms then both people are at risk regardless of how many people they sleep with, and that is just stupidity on both party's.

But again, I don't go out and do that, but if people want to then let them. It doesn't effect me, I wouldn't sleep with them and it is their choice.

[Z]

No offence Zee but I'd care if you didn't try and come across all high and mighty with your opinion. and my choice to defend that kind of behaviour.

Having people think you are exclusive is different from just sleeping with somebody, as that is a level of trust, and not what we are discussing? I'm referring to just instant one-night hook-ups, with which people just have sex there and then.

And if they are wearing condoms it is no different to somebody having sex with 5 people in a month, the health risks are the same (unless you mean having sex with 5 people ever night). If they choose not to use condoms then both people are at risk regardless of how many people they sleep with, and that is just stupidity on both party's.

But again, I don't go out and do that, but if people want to then let them. It doesn't effect me, I wouldn't sleep with them and it is their choice.

Lol. I'm discussing the topic, you're the one calling me judgmental and high and mighty, I haven't been condescending to you, I've asked you your opinions and have provided you with reasons why I think it's disgusting, you haven't said anything other than you wouldn't judge someone for doing it.

Actually, nobody specified the context of what we were discussing, which is why I brought the exclusivity aspect into the discussion because I think it's worth discussing - if you don't want to then that's up to you, I'm just giving my opinions. Regardless of the level of intimacy between the person sleeping with five people and the five individuals, I still find it disgusting behaviour. The health risks absolutely are not the same - if you sleep with five people in a night and then discover you've contracted something (and condoms can break, let's not forget) - you may have infected four people or you may have infected none because you caught it from your fifth partner. If you had sex with five people in a month you would be able to figure out when you caught the infection/disease by taking incubation into account and you would be able to be responsible about informing people. As I said to Ammi, I am responding to this topic by putting myself in the shoes of one of these five hypothetical partners. I don't care if anyone else does it, as long as it doesn't affect me personally. I don't know why you found my posts to be so offensive to you because that wasn't the intention, I'm sorry that you were offended.

[Ammi]

But you can say that about anything a bit unpleasant in life - we only care about issues if they affect us personally. I'm only judging it and having it "occupy my thoughts" because we have a thread discussing it at the moment. I don't care what other people do with their bodies unless it affects mine. I wouldn't care if my brother told me he'd slept with five people in one night but I would care if someone I'd been intimate with told me the same.

...yeah, I agree that we do feel more emotional about stuff that we have personal experiences/associations with..that's definitely how I am anyway, when something really does bother me, it's usually because of a past association, which could be my own or someone else that I know and it's caused physical harm/violence etc...I guess that (so long as we're talking about the obvious precautions etc..)..I can't see that people's sex lives causes any harm to anyone other than possibly themselves...

[Benjamin]

Lol. I'm discussing the topic, you're the one calling me judgmental and high and mighty, I haven't been condescending to you, I've asked you your opinions and have provided you with reasons why I think it's disgusting, you haven't said anything other than you wouldn't judge someone for doing it.

Actually, nobody specified the context of what we were discussing, which is why I brought the exclusivity aspect into the discussion because I think it's worth discussing - if you don't want to then that's up to you, I'm just giving my opinions. Regardless of the level of intimacy between the person sleeping with five people and the five individuals, I still find it disgusting behaviour. The health risks absolutely are not the same - if you sleep with five people in a night and then discover you've contracted something (and condoms can break, let's not forget) - you may have infected four people or you may have infected none because you caught it from your fifth partner. If you had sex with five people in a month you would be able to figure out when you caught the infection/disease by taking incubation into account and you would be able to be responsible about informing people. As I said to Ammi, I am responding to this topic by putting myself in the shoes of one of these five hypothetical partners. I don't care if anyone else does it, as long as it doesn't affect me personally. I don't know why you found my posts to be so offensive to you because that wasn't the intention, I'm sorry that you were offended.

You say to me that you don't see why anyone would defend this and that it is disgusting; comes across high and mighty and judgmental to me.

I've said what I needed to say on the topic, so I'll leave my opinion there. :tongue:

[Z]

You say to me that you don't see why anyone would defend this and that it is disgusting; comes across high and mighty and judgmental to me.

I've said what I needed to say on the topic, so I'll leave my opinion there. :tongue:

I would like somebody to defend it for me and provide some counter points, because all I can think of are negatives. That's kind of the point of a debate, you enter it with your opinions and you discuss them with like minded people and people with entirely different opinions and hopefully at the end of it, all of you have learned something and maybe some of you have had your minds changed. I didn't intend to come across as high and mighty, I just feel very strongly about the topic we're discussing.

[Smithy]

I wouldn't have sex with more than one person in one day; so I'm putting myself in the position where if I were to have sex with someone, only to later find out I was lucky number five, I would be disgusted. They could be spreading diseases, they had no regard for your health, they were solely thinking about themselves and their own high sex drive. I would feel sick if I found out I'd been used by someone like that; and I would absolutely judge someone negatively if they were boasting about having sex with five people in one night. I would never get with somebody who would do that.

But if you were just hooking up with someone it's not likely you're gonna see them again, so why does it matter, if they're having safe sex then there's nothing wrong with it

[Lee.]

I'm with Greg on this one. Slags

[Benjamin]

Okay well firstly, I'm not going to defend anyone that has a hook-up without a condom, regardless of whether it's one person a year or 5 a night, it's completely irresponsible; but again if people choose to then that is their choice and their own risks. But both parties are to blame for that.

But if using condoms then I see no need why people cannot have as much sex as they like. If somebody who has sex with 5 people a night has the condom break, I doubt they will then go on to have sex with others that night. It;s not disgusting or dirty, it's human nature to have sex, some people just like it more than others, It isn't wrong, even if you don't personally want to live like that.

[GiRTh]

Are you two still at it?

[Z]

Are you two still at it?

Yeah, and then Ben's gonna be at it with another four people after me :fist:

[GiRTh]

Yeah, and then Ben's gonna be at it with another four people after me :fist::joker:

[Benjamin]

Yeah, and then Ben's gonna be at it with another four people after me :fist:

Least I use condoms ;)

[Smithy]

Okay well firstly, I'm not going to defend anyone that has a hook-up without a condom, regardless of whether it's one person a year or 5 a night, it's completely irresponsible; but again if people choose to then that is their choice and their own risks. But both parties are to blame for that.

But if using condoms then I see no need why people cannot have as much sex as they like. If somebody who has sex with 5 people a night has the condom break, I doubt they will then go on to have sex with others that night. It;s not disgusting or dirty, it's human nature to have sex, some people just like it more than others, It isn't wrong, even if you don't personally want to live like that.

exactly

[Z]

Okay well firstly, I'm not going to defend anyone that has a hook-up without a condom, regardless of whether it's one person a year or 5 a night, it's completely irresponsible; but again if people choose to then that is their choice and their own risks. But both parties are to blame for that.

But if using condoms then I see no need why people cannot have as much sex as they like. If somebody who has sex with 5 people a night has the condom break, I doubt they will then go on to have sex with others that night. It;s not disgusting or dirty, it's human nature to have sex, some people just like it more than others, It isn't wrong, even if you don't personally want to live like that.

I suppose the issue for me is that there's an element of secrecy involved in sleeping with five people in one night... it comes across as sly and shameful to me, how likely is it that you're gonna tell someone that you've already been with 1-4 people that night? Not very IMO... so there's deception involved and that isn't okay to me - which is why I made a point of pointing out the difference between that and group sex; because group sex, everyone knows what's going on and the chances are all of you have probably planned it and know you're all in the clear for STDs; or if you don't then you can at least get in touch with everyone if something crops up and there's no betrayal there, everyone has to accept responsibility... I don't have a problem with sex workers in Amsterdam, to give a better example, because they do regular STD checks and everybody knows what they're getting into if they sleep with a sex worker - you know they've probably had sex with at least one other person that day or will sleep with other people after you in that same night.

[Doogle]

I see nothing wrong with it

[Z]

Least I use condoms ;)

You'd better not have given me herpes :fist:

:tongue:

[Benjamin]

You'd better not have given me herpes :fist:

:tongue:

More likely you gave it to me :tongue:

[Smithy]

I suppose the issue for me is that there's an element of secrecy involved in sleeping with five people in one night... it comes across as sly and shameful to me, how likely is it that you're gonna tell someone that you've already been with 1-4 people that night? Not very IMO... so there's deception involved and that isn't okay to me - which is why I made a point of pointing out the difference between that and group sex; because group sex, everyone knows what's going on and the chances are all of you have probably planned it and know you're all in the clear for STDs; or if you don't then you can at least get in touch with everyone if something crops up and there's no betrayal there, everyone has to accept responsibility... I don't have a problem with sex workers in Amsterdam, to give a better example, because they do regular STD checks and everybody knows what they're getting into if they sleep with a sex worker - you know they've probably had sex with at least one other person that day or will sleep with other people after you in that same night.

That's kinda irrelevant though, cause it's just your assumption that someone isn't gonna be honest about how many people they've slept with.

If you're having a one night stand or are just randomly hooking up with someone, you're not gonna go looking for the virgin mary, you're looking for someone whose after the same thing you are, a release, if i was like that, I honestly wouldn't care how many people they'd slept with that night

[Z]

That's kinda irrelevant though, cause it's just your assumption that someone isn't gonna be honest about how many people they've slept with.

If you're having a one night stand or are just randomly hooking up with someone, you're not gonna go looking for the virgin mary, you're looking for someone whose after the same thing you are, a release, if i was like that, I honestly wouldn't care how many people they'd slept with that night

I don't think it's irrelevant but yes it is just my assumption.

If you're having a one night stand, yes you want to hook up with someone but that's not to say you're going to get with someone if you know they've been with four people already in that same day? There are plenty of comments made about people being easy if they sleep around and have we not seen enough "woman sleeps with two men around the same time, nobody knows who the father is" situations to recognise that sleeping around is at least inadvisable? I just don't know why you would choose to sleep with lots of different people when you could more easily fulfill your sexual appetite by just having lots of sex with one person, nobody here has said that they do sleep with lots of different people so I've not really seen any arguments about why somebody would choose to behave in such an extreme way...

[Smithy]

I don't think it's irrelevant but yes it is just my assumption.

If you're having a one night stand, yes you want to hook up with someone but that's not to say you're going to get with someone if you know they've been with four people already in that same day? There are plenty of comments made about people being easy if they sleep around and have we not seen enough "woman sleeps with two men around the same time, nobody knows who the father is" situations to recognise that sleeping around is at least inadvisable? I just don't know why you would choose to sleep with lots of different people when you could more easily fulfill your sexual appetite by just having lots of sex with one person, nobody here has said that they do sleep with lots of different people so I've not really seen any arguments about why somebody would choose to behave in such an extreme way...

But when you're hooking up, it's just for a sexual release, so why would you care, you're not particularly picky about the person, as long as you're attracted to them and they're after the same thing as you, and no it's not, sleeping around without protection is inadvisable, because that's irresponsible, you could, but that'd be your choice, just like it'd be someone else's choice to sleep with lots of people, if they're being safe, there's really nothing wrong with it

[Z]

But when you're hooking up, it's just for a sexual release, so why would you care, you're not particularly picky about the person, as long as you're attracted to them and they're after the same thing as you, and no it's not, sleeping around without protection is inadvisable, because that's irresponsible, you could, but that'd be your choice, just like it'd be someone else's choice to sleep with lots of people, if they're being safe, there's really nothing wrong with it

Fair enough. I know I would feel betrayed if I found out someone I'd slept with had slept with other people in the same night, but maybe that's just me.

[Vicky.]

Meh. Personally I wouldnt do it, I would feel cheap and dirty tbh. But if others want to, let them get on with it. Its their health they are risking, not mine :S

[Jake.]

Fair enough. I know I would feel betrayed if I found out someone I'd slept with had slept with other people in the same night, but maybe that's just me.

I really do get where you are coming from, though it would depend on what you was originally meeting that person for, If it was just for sex, and you knew that, then you couldn't really expect the other person to stay exclusive, and in that respect, it wouldn't really matter how many times that person had had sex in the past day/week/month/year

[AnnieK]

Fair enough. I know I would feel betrayed if I found out someone I'd slept with had slept with other people in the same night, but maybe that's just me.

To be honest though...on one night hook ups, feelings don't come into it in that way. If it was a long term thing then you could feel betrayed but on a casual thing there are no emotions involved in that way so why would you feel betrayed, no promises have been made or broken...it's just sex

[Z]

Meh. Personally I wouldnt do it, I would feel cheap and dirty tbh. But if others want to, let them get on with it. Its their health they are risking, not mine :S

I agree with this unless I was one of the five people, working on the assumption that they weren't going to tell me they'd slept with other people that night as well - then it's my health they're risking and I take issue with that.

[Z]

To be honest though...on one night hook ups, feelings don't come into it in that way. If it was a long term thing then you could feel betrayed but on a casual thing there are no emotions involved in that way so why would you feel betrayed, no promises have been made or broken...it's just sex

Depends if we're talking about specifically meeting up with someone to have sex (like using some kind of app or website) or meeting someone in a club, taking a shine to them and hooking up with them - because with the former there's an emphasis on discreet behaviour and the knowledge that it's just sex, whereas with a hook up in a club you had to like that person enough to go home with them so in my opinion, feelings do come into it to some extent and you would feel betrayed if you found out they'd given you something because of their active sex life. My opinion stays the same if it's five people in one week, too.

[Vicky.]

I agree with this unless I was one of the five people, working on the assumption that they weren't going to tell me they'd slept with other people that night as well - then it's my health they're risking and I take issue with that.

Hmm I guess. I dont think of it like that as I am now in a long term relationship and dont HAVE to worry about my health really :laugh:

Mind if you go back home with someone you just met, them being a dirty bastard is a risk you take. Yeah sleeping with 5 seperate people in a night doesnt necessarily make you a dirty bastard (as someone pointed out, could be using protection) but they are quite a higher risk than someone who rations their sex :joker:

[Z]

Hmm I guess. I dont think of it like that as I am now in a long term relationship and dont HAVE to worry about my health really :laugh:

Mind if you go back home with someone you just met, them being a dirty bastard is a risk you take. Yeah sleeping with 5 seperate people in a night doesnt necessarily make you a dirty bastard (as someone pointed out, could be using protection) but they are quite a higher risk than someone who rations their sex :joker:

Exactly - if you're like me and only come into contact with (ooooooops) a human being about once a year, you know exactly where you caught your unfortunate condition from :joker: maybe I don't have a problem with sleeping with 5 people in the same night at all... maybe I'm just bitter... :laugh:

[AnnieK]

Depends if we're talking about specifically meeting up with someone to have sex (like using some kind of app or website) or meeting someone in a club, taking a shine to them and hooking up with them - because with the former there's an emphasis on discreet behaviour and the knowledge that it's just sex, whereas with a hook up in a club you had to like that person enough to go home with them so in my opinion, feelings do come into it to some extent and you would feel betrayed if you found out they'd given you something because of their active sex life. My opinion stays the same if it's five people in one week, too.

If you hook up with a stranger in a club and go back for sex that night I can't believe there are that many emotions...it's more like drunken fuelled horniness IMO.

[Vicky.]

Exactly - if you're like me and only come into a human being about once a year, you know exactly where you caught your unfortunate condition from :joker: maybe I don't have a problem with sleeping with 5 people in the same night at all... maybe I'm just bitter... :laugh:

:umm2:

Unfortunate choice of wording

[Jake.]

:umm2:

Unfortunate choice of wording

omg :joker:

[Z]

:umm2:

Unfortunate choice of wording

:laugh2: OMG I missed words out, LOL! :laugh3:

[Ammi]

Fair enough. I know I would feel betrayed if I found out someone I'd slept with had slept with other people in the same night, but maybe that's just me.

..yeah, you would if you had a commitment, I think anyone would but I guess I was going on the assumption that there were no feelings involved...

[Smithy]

If you hook up with a stranger in a club and go back for sex that night I can't believe there are that many emotions...it's more like drunken fuelled horniness IMO.

Yeah and if you're going back home with them, you're probably lucky #5 at least you get a bed for the night

[Benjamin]

Yeah and if you're going back home with them, you're probably lucky #5 at least you get a bed for the night

:joker:

[AnnieK]

Yeah and if you're going back home with them, you're probably lucky #5 at least you get a bed for the night

Yeah....:laugh:

[smudgie]

:dazzler: there were ten in a bed and the little one said rollover..rollover.

Whatever turns you on..it is obviously only sexual pleasure you are seeking, nothing to do with low self esteem..more to do with a high sex drive and sense of adventure.
Get it out of your system before you meet your soulmate.:devil:

[Z]

Yeah and if you're going back home with them, you're probably lucky #5 at least you get a bed for the night

:joker:

[Nedusa]

Let's hope he had plenty of change for the condom machine !!!

[user104658]

Errrrrrmm... morally, I have no issue with it. Sex can be just sex (it doesn't HAVE to be, but it CAN be, and for the vast majority of people having one night humpfests, emotions aren't really part of the package).

Physically? I can only imagine... chafey? You could use a lot of lube, I guess. Or if it was five 5-minute quickies I guess it wouldn't technically be any different to one 25-minute session with one person... but still, by the 5th time it can't be feeling great. And from a male perspective, by the 4th "happy moment" within a few hours it tends to be a dry-jizz which (IMO) is seriously uncomfortable. Even the 3rd is usually just an unsatisfying spittle. And the 5th? I reckon it would probably just hurt. Haha.

[Kizzy]

It must have an element to it of instant gratification or something?
With no emotions involved it's just sex and seems so carnal and base.
It's not for me, I alone have to be adored by my partners so it wouldn't work :laugh:

[Niamh.]

Personally I think it's a bit manky and wouldn't do it myself (for both men and women) each to their own though i guess but I'd hope that i never unwittingly ended up with someone who did that alot, you'd never know what you'd catch :/

[Jesus.]

Personally I think it's a bit manky and wouldn't do it myself (for both men and women) each to their own though i guess but I'd hope that i never unwittingly ended up with someone who did that alot, you'd never know what you'd catch :/

Can't catch anything twice :idc:

[Niamh.]

Can't catch anything twice :idc:

:notimpressed:

[Livia]

I couldn't sleep with five people in a night. I'd have to send two of them home.

[Ramsay]

I was once quite close to having a sixsome but luckily we all smoked a joint and fell asleep instead

[Niamh.]

I was once quite close to having a sixsome but luckily we all smoked a joint and fell asleep instead

:laugh2:

[Benjamin]

I couldn't sleep with five people in a night. I'd have to send two of them home.

Like an Apprentice style system? The two that fail to impress the most get fired?

[Lee.]

Even if I were single, I have too much self respect to let 5 different men use my body for their own satisfaction.. I would get no pleasure from it whatsoever. My mind needs stimulated first I'm afraid and a quick 5 minute **** does not appeal to me in the slightest!

[Smithy]

Even if I were single, I have too much self respect to let 5 different men use my body for their own satisfaction.. I would get no pleasure from it whatsoever. My mind needs stimulated first I'm afraid and a quick 5 minute **** does not appeal to me in the slightest!

Well thats ok for you, but just because someone has lots of sex with different people doesn't mean they have low self respect, self respect is about doing things that make you happy, if that's having lots of sex, then each to their own

[Livia]

Like an Apprentice style system? The two that fail to impress the most get fired?

Hmmm never thought about it like that. But yeah, if you like!

[Lee.]

Well thats ok for you, but just because someone has lots of sex with different people doesn't mean they have low self respect, self respect is about doing things that make you happy, if that's having lots of sex, then each to their own

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

[Z]

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

Yeah I agree with this. Maybe that makes me judgmental but I can live with that.

[Lee.]

Yeah I agree with this. Maybe that makes me judgmental but I can live with that.

I care not one jot. :)

[Niamh.]

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

The same goes for men though imo. I'd be thinking about how manky it is, you know sleep with one guy and you're sleeping with everyone he has too, disease wise

[Lee.]

The same goes for men though imo. I'd be thinking about how manky it is, you know sleep with one guy and you're sleeping with everyone he has too, disease wise

Yeah definitely! But unfortunately, men don't get labelled as town bikes or slags or as having bad reputations! A loose woman is far more talked about than a slag of a man.

[Niamh.]

Yeah definitely! But unfortunately, men don't get labelled as town bikes or slags or as having bad reputations! A loose woman is far more talked about than a slag of a man.

Yeah definitely which shouldn't be the case, but it is true that it happens that way.

[Lee.]

Yeah definitely which shouldn't be the case, but it is true that it happens that way.

Yip, and as awful as it is, it's not going to change.. However, even if everything were to be all lovely and equal and fair, I still think shagging 5 men or women in one night is pretty disgusting. :yuk:

[Tom4784]

Sleeping with five different people in one night just sounds knackering. It'd be like running a very fleshy gauntlet.

[Livia]

How about sleeping with the same person, five times?

[Kazanne]

I think its different for women as bodily fluids actually enter the body,in men its external

[Livia]

I think its different for women as bodily fluids actually enter the body,in men its external

Shut up Kazanne, you're taking all the romance out of it for me.

[Kazanne]

Shut up Kazanne, you're taking all the romance out of it for me.

:joker: Sorry Livia,I am all zipped up now,I wont put that image out there again:hugesmile:

[Jesus.]

I think its different for women as bodily fluids actually enter the body,in men its external

Close your eyes then.

[Kazanne]

Close your eyes then.

I do :hugesmile:

[thesheriff443]

I do :hugesmile:

:shocked:

[thesheriff443]

How about sleeping with the same person, five times?

im not sure, but I will give it a go:joker:

[Jesus.]

I don't think she was advertising, Sheriff.

[Kazanne]

:shocked:

:shocked:Why are you shocked sheriff:hugesmile:

[thesheriff443]

I don't think she was advertising, Sheriff.

if you don't ask you don't get:joker:

[thesheriff443]

:shocked:Why are you shocked sheriff:hugesmile:

I was thinking you would want to see what's going on!:hugesmile:

[Kazanne]

I was thinking you would want to see what's going on!:hugesmile:

:devil:

[user104658]

How about sleeping with the same person, five times?

I reckon it's physically impossible. I've genuinely never made it past 3 in a night and the third one was very uncomfortable and the erection it came from was barely passable, more akin to a chubby.

[Kyle]

Yeah I agree with this. Maybe that makes me judgmental but I can live with that.

I think you are perfectly entitled to your way of thinking. It's certainly fine if anybody wants to have consensual sex with 5 different people in one night but I don't think people should be chastised if they happen to take a dim view of it.

[Lee.]

I reckon it's physically impossible. I've genuinely never made it past 3 in a night and the third one was very uncomfortable and the erection it came from was barely passable, more akin to a chubby.

:joker:

[thesheriff443]

I think you are perfectly entitled to your way of thinking. It's certainly fine if anybody wants to have consensual sex with 5 different people in one night but I don't think people should be chastised if they happen to take a dim view of it.

hey kyle where have you been:nono:

[Kyle]

hey kyle where have you been:nono:

Nah then Sheriff you horny pineapple. How's it going?

[thesheriff443]

Nah then Sheriff you horny pineapple. How's it going?

its ok my good man, and you?
where been hiding?, josy's wardrobe!:joker:

[Livia]

I reckon it's physically impossible. I've genuinely never made it past 3 in a night and the third one was very uncomfortable and the erection it came from was barely passable, more akin to a chubby.

Not going here on the grounds that I may incriminate myself.

[Nedusa]

Serious Debate or News Story.......???????

[user104658]

Serious Debate or News Story.......???????

All three?

[smeagol]

you would need to be in a orgy to have sex with 5 people in one night. if you are then its fine but no one has sex with 5 people in a night , its bull..

[Kyle]

its ok my good man, and you?
where been hiding?, josy's wardrobe!:joker:

Yeh, just got back from there. Turns out I'm now friends with a talking lion and helped overthrow an evil White witch who turned people to stone.

[Kyle]

Serious Debate or News Story.......???????

It's a mass debate.

[thesheriff443]

Yeh, just got back from there. Turns out I'm now friends with a talking lion and helped overthrow an evil White witch who turned people to stone.

don't tell me, you slept with all of them:joker:

[Ninastar]

i even like the idea of sleeping with one person after having just met them... never mind 5.

if its some sort of orgy then fair enough but 5 separate people is totally disgusting

[Z]

How about sleeping with the same person, five times?

I think that's good, I'd rather all the mad shaggers were satisfying each other rather than acting like a grabbing claw at the fun fair going for a different toy with each of the 5 chances you get for your pound coin

[GypsyGoth]

i even like the idea of sleeping with one person after having just met them

A Freudian slip? :laugh:

[GypsyGoth]

But yea regarding the thread topic, it does sound gross and not for me, but if others enjoy it, then I don't mind what they get up to.

[Niamh.]

Yip, and as awful as it is, it's not going to change.. However, even if everything were to be all lovely and equal and fair, I still think shagging 5 men or women in one night is pretty disgusting. :yuk:

Yeah, I agree with that

[smudgie]

I reckon it's physically impossible. I've genuinely never made it past 3 in a night and the third one was very uncomfortable and the erection it came from was barely passable, more akin to a chubby.

It is very possible.:hugesmile: