View Full Version : Are women more emotionally stronger than men
thesheriff443
04-02-2014, 08:16 AM
Are women more emotionally stronger than men?
when dealing with emotions that include, jealousy, anger, grief, pride, guilt, affection, disappointment.
from my own experience, women have a greater control of emotions such as anger and disappointment, but fall down when it comes to jealousy and guilt.
what's your opinion on emotions?
arista
04-02-2014, 08:39 AM
Some are
many are not
I would say they're weaker
smeagol
04-02-2014, 09:39 AM
I would say they are far stronger emotionally and have the ability to switch of emotions like robots lol hey they are from venus.
agree the clink in the armour is jealously and guilt but otherwise they are much stronger.
us guys we beat our drums and beat our meat lol so when it comes to emotions we get confused and cant handle things.
women can be cold as ice. its rare in guys
Jesus.
04-02-2014, 09:39 AM
Some are, some aren't. It's more about personality and character, than gender.
AnnieK
04-02-2014, 09:44 AM
It depends on the situation and person rather than gender IMO. I've known some pretty emotionally strong (or cold) people of both sexes. I think some men find emotions difficult to process due to the conditioning that men don't cry but women express themselves easier that way.
Niamh.
04-02-2014, 09:51 AM
Some are, some aren't. It's more about personality and character, than gender.
This! Everyone is different
Nedusa
04-02-2014, 10:29 AM
We most definitely are..................!!!!!!
Kizzy
04-02-2014, 11:05 AM
I think it's more socially acceptable for women to speak about feeling and emotions so me keep theirs hidden a bit, it's changing slowly but in the main women find it easier to deal with their emotions as they express them more freely.
All depends on the individual rather than being gender specific.
GiRTh
04-02-2014, 11:17 AM
I think there are no gender specific differences.
Vicky.
04-02-2014, 11:24 AM
If we are being stereotypical..I think women have better control of anger/affection. Where men tend to be better handling jealousy/pride/grief.
Scarlett.
04-02-2014, 11:44 AM
Emotional strength depends on the person, not the gender.
Livia
04-02-2014, 12:10 PM
It all depends on the individual.
user104658
05-02-2014, 07:31 PM
Depends on the time of month.
O snap!
...in all seriousness though, there's no specific answer. Even speaking in general - it depends. Women are less able to discuss a topic purely hypothetically without bringing their personal experiences and emotions into the equation and letting them ruin rational impartiality. Men tend to debate logically whereas women are more instinctive in their response. That can be either a positive or a negative.
In terms of raw emotion - women seem to have more of a "slow release valve" with emotions like sadness or anger... it builds slowly to a peak and then lingers on. Men on the other hand, tend to bottle up until a pressure point is hit, have an explosion of emotion, and then return to feeling calm fairly quickly. Not sure whether this is biological or environmentally driven, but it probably is in part to do with testosterone and various other hormones, or at least it seems to be.
** DISCLAIMER ** This is of course "the average female" and "the average male" before anyone gets up in arms - there are obviously widely ranging individual differences. Plenty of emotionally driven men and probably at least one female capable of thinking logically out there. Somewhere...
Brother Leon
05-02-2014, 07:40 PM
Women are weaker than men in regards to everything. lolz
I would say they are stronger in some senses cause they're generally more capable of being mean to others (mentally, that is) than men (well straight men). Girls are just quite mean in general lol
lostalex
05-02-2014, 07:49 PM
It all depends on the individual.
omg, yur almost saying that women are like people. :o
Men > Women all day every day. The nicer and more genuine sex all the way
Livia
05-02-2014, 07:59 PM
Women are weaker than men in regards to everything. lolz
Come over 'ere and say that...
omg, yur almost saying that women are like people. :o
Women are like people... only more so.
lostalex
05-02-2014, 08:06 PM
Women are like people... only more so.
people like us
Livia
05-02-2014, 08:44 PM
people like us
Well, like other people. Not like us as in you and I. We're totally unique.
lostalex
05-02-2014, 08:56 PM
Well, like other people. Not like us as in you and I. We're totally unique.
yea, we're like X-Men. :dance:
lol
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King Gizzard
05-02-2014, 09:04 PM
probably
..I think it depends on the individual..everyone has emotions and it's much easier for a male to openly display them than it used to be...in my parent's generation, I think a man would feel that he had to be the 'strong' one and perhaps not always show what he felt or show his emotions and maybe a woman wouldn't have felt comfortable if he did..?...I'm not sure that either gender are more or less emotional than the other one but maybe they sometimes deal with their emotions differently..I think it's better and healthier in general to be 'emotional' and not hold things ...it's just a better balance I think...
..EDIT:..I always personally think that 'emotional ' people tend to be more relaxed and happier once they've let their emotions out but it does depend on the person...
Apple202
05-02-2014, 09:16 PM
Men > Women all day every day. The nicer and more genuine sex all the way
no way, girls > boys
lostalex
05-02-2014, 09:21 PM
boys:
http://www.miami.com/sites/migration.miami.com/files/images/alg_jay-leno.jpg
girls:
http://www3.images.coolspotters.com/photos/235611/ellen-degeneres-profile.jpg
I like girls. (except when it comes to ****ing and loving them, then i pick boys, but only gay boys, not straight boys)
Hard to really measure emotional strength, it's not something you can quantify. I think women are better at dealing with their emotional responses to things, you're far more likely to hear a woman open up about what's troubling her in a frank and honest manner than you'd hear a man do it; but then men are often better at coping in a crisis I've found so it really depends on the situation.
the truth
06-02-2014, 12:22 AM
I would say they are far stronger emotionally and have the ability to switch of emotions like robots lol hey they are from venus.
agree the clink in the armour is jealously and guilt but otherwise they are much stronger.
us guys we beat our drums and beat our meat lol so when it comes to emotions we get confused and cant handle things.
women can be cold as ice. its rare in guys
I disagree. what youre saying in your example is really a person being crueller is being stronger. I dont believe that. though I dont believe women are geenrally crueller. jealousy on the other hand, oh boy
Marsh.
06-02-2014, 12:54 AM
I'd say they're more comfortable being open with their emotions in general but overall strength of emotions isn't really predicated on your gender.
But being more open is more due to the social stigma of an emotional man meaning they are more self conscious about it.
Kizzy
06-02-2014, 01:16 AM
That's kind of where I was going lads have a harder time during socialisation, having the 'boys don't cry' thing, and peer pressure makes it difficult to chat with friends about emotions and all that stuff.
the truth
06-02-2014, 02:21 AM
That's kind of where I was going lads have a harder time during socialisation, having the 'boys don't cry' thing, and peer pressure makes it difficult to chat with friends about emotions and all that stuff.
probably still true. theres definitely fewer outlets for men to express their emotions. I dont believe sexism really exists to be honest, at all. and I dont think the fact is less socially acceptable for men to express themselves is a sexist thing against men....its just part of the social cycle and a by product of previous generations. people are bullied and exploited, the strong exploit the weak andvulnerable sometimes the rich often exploit the poor, but not always. I dont believe sexism exists.
Marsh.
06-02-2014, 02:24 AM
I dont believe sexism exists.
:conf: Of course it does.
If someone is judged on the basis of their gender = sexism. Of course that happens, for both men and women.
Jack_
06-02-2014, 02:28 AM
I don't believe your biological sex can determine whether you're emotionally strong or not, it's down to individual characters.
Though the points raised about women finding it easier to express their emotions while men are expected to keep a lid on that kind of thing is definitely true and is also quite damaging.
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=246293
Kizzy
06-02-2014, 02:34 AM
I don't believe your biological sex can determine whether you're emotionally strong or not, it's down to individual characters.
Though the points raised about women finding it easier to express their emotions while men are expected to keep a lid on that kind of thing is definitely true and is also quite damaging.
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=246293
It could go back as far as being a primal thing.. hunter gatherers and nurturers, or just be a cultural patriarchy thing?
Will watch those vids tomorrow, what is that some uni work?
the truth
06-02-2014, 02:47 AM
:conf: Of course it does.
If someone is judged on the basis of their gender = sexism. Of course that happens, for both men and women.
that example you gave is pretty overly simplistic, someone who judges someones entire existence based on their gender alone, is mentally ill...that is simply an extreme example of ignorance, stupidity and can be discriminating either way. life is nearly always infinitely more complex and people judge others on all kinds of stuff, stuff that could appear stupid and yes in some ways discriminating too...some people judge on appearance, on clothes, on what car they drive, what ob they do, what money they earn, what their family is like, what their body is like, what their hairstyle is like, what education they have, what country theyre from, what music they like, what friends they have, how much booze they drink etc etc etc its goes on and on.....
but sexism is a stupid word that gets perverted misinterpreted , misused and abused, its a ddangerously misunderstood word that everyone has lost the meaning of anyway. The crazy belief peddled by certain people in society who probably make a lot of money from creating division, peddle the idea that millions of people hate or discriminate against another person simply because of gender is simply crazy. if anything this false dicotomy and the lie that sexism even exists has actually created a war of the genders that never existed. its a sad self fulfilling prophecy, that many weak minded people have fallen for. sexism doesnt exist. the best way go fight the devil is not to feed his fire.
those who peddle division are devils advocates and create huge division.
if you want to pick out individual examples we all hear where this man said women cant park cars , someone else says men shouldnt cry, and others say foreign people should come and take our jobs, some say old people should be stuck in homes , some even say they need euthanasia etc these are all the comments we all here and it doesnt have to be worded an ism, racism, sexism, ageism, etc these are dangerous all embracing over simplictic words. the people in these examples, may be somwhere between stupid, ignorant, uneducated, some are plain nasty, some are rude, some are weak minded, some ar e ill informed, some are bigoted, some of them have distorted thoughts asa by product of a terrible upnringing, the variables are endless
to simply tar some racist, sexist is too big a step, too easy to tarnish and to hurl these phrases.
it is a nonsense and a very very dangerous nonsense, which devalues real abuse and real victims in society
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Marsh.
06-02-2014, 03:13 AM
that example you gave is pretty overly simplistic, someone who judges someones entire existence based on their gender alone, is mentally ill.
Where did I say entire existence? :conf:
Someone being passed over for a job in preference of the other gender is an example of sexism. Presuming someone is better suited to a position because they're male or female without taking into account their individual skills/qualities is sexism. Just as passing someone over because they're older/younger is ageist.
It's not devaluing anything, it's pointing something out.
the truth
06-02-2014, 04:14 PM
Where did I say entire existence? :conf:
Someone being passed over for a job in preference of the other gender is an example of sexism. Presuming someone is better suited to a position because they're male or female without taking into account their individual skills/qualities is sexism. Just as passing someone over because they're older/younger is ageist.
It's not devaluing anything, it's pointing something out.
nah that doesnt happen. people employ people based on who will do best for their business. its surely a backward step though to lower the standards of entrance to get into the fire brigade or army front line, to ensure a quota of women. the market place is not a fair and just place. if it was then the vast majority of disabled people may get more work opportunity. the market place is mildy regulated place where the stakeholders go withwhat creates the biggest profit. sexism doesnt exist and it has nothing to do with the process at all.
Niamh.
06-02-2014, 04:16 PM
nah that doesnt happen. people employ people based on who will do best for their business. its surely a backward step though to lower the standards of entrance to get into the fire brigade or army front line, to ensure a quota of women. the market place is not a fair and just place. if it was then the vast majority of disabled people may get more work opportunity. the market place is mildy regulated place where the stakeholders go withwhat creates the biggest profit. sexism doesnt exist and it has nothing to do with the process at all.
never happens? Ever? lol ok then
Jesus.
06-02-2014, 04:18 PM
never happens? Ever? lol ok then
Hush down little lady. Men be talking.
Jesus.
06-02-2014, 04:19 PM
...and 2 sugars when you get a minute.
Niamh.
06-02-2014, 04:20 PM
:laugh:
Redway
06-02-2014, 05:15 PM
I dont believe sexism exists.
Sure it does. You're a living testament.
Marsh.
06-02-2014, 05:48 PM
nah that doesnt happen.
:laugh:
Do you need any assistance pulling your head out of the sand or do you enjoy the ignorance? :hugesmile:
the truth
06-02-2014, 06:38 PM
:laugh:
Do you need any assistance pulling your head out of the sand or do you enjoy the ignorance? :hugesmile:
hey thats emu - ist
sassysocks
08-02-2014, 08:11 PM
I disagree. what youre saying in your example is really a person being crueller is being stronger. I dont believe that. though I dont believe women are geenrally crueller. jealousy on the other hand, oh boy
Many men have been imprisioned for killing their wives/girlfriends out of jealousy - far less women. Men's jealousy is usually more extreme, controlling and violent.
sassysocks
08-02-2014, 09:01 PM
probably still true. theres definitely fewer outlets for men to express their emotions. I dont believe sexism really exists to be honest, at all. and I dont think the fact is less socially acceptable for men to express themselves is a sexist thing against men....its just part of the social cycle and a by product of previous generations. people are bullied and exploited, the strong exploit the weak andvulnerable sometimes the rich often exploit the poor, but not always. I dont believe sexism exists.
If sexism doesn't exist, neither does racism. People can't have it both ways.
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