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arista
23-03-2014, 08:43 AM
What is this TV Comics name ?


TV comic 'groomed' tragic overdose teenager: 18-year-old's mystery death after star 'showered him with gifts then made sexual advances'

[Ben Cowburn was studying a fashion course in London, an inquest heard
He met comedian 'Mr X', who made advances and bought gifts
True identity of TV star has been protected after agreement with coroner
Ben was due to work as Mr X's stylist, but this was cancelled
But he later admitted the relationship made him feel 'dirty and used'
He was found dead in his bedroom in 2010 with a plastic bag nearby
His sister told the inquest: 'We had concerns about him being groomed' ]


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2586932/TV-comic-groomed-tragic-overdose-teenager-18-year-olds-mystery-death-star-showered-gifts-sexual-advances.html#ixzz2wm0lZ6Hl

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2014/03/22/article-2586932-1C807D9100000578-110_306x795.jpg


http://media.skynews.com/media/images/generated/2014/3/22/297832/default/v1/mail-1-329x437.jpg

arista
23-03-2014, 02:09 PM
Massive Amounts have viewed this



There must be a List of UK Comedy Men (who are gay)
they can post,

Black Dagger
23-03-2014, 02:14 PM
I think I have got it.

Always thought the person in question was quite funny as well.

Marsh.
23-03-2014, 02:24 PM
It's Jim's fault.

:umm2:

Loukas
23-03-2014, 02:45 PM
the only 2 gay comedians i can think of on the spot are Alan Carr and Graham Norton but i can't see either of them doing it!

arista
23-03-2014, 02:46 PM
It's Jim's fault.

:umm2:


No Has has a Happy Lady


So he is not on the list.

arista
23-03-2014, 02:47 PM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2014/03/22/article-2586932-1C80801400000578-925_306x407.jpg

does he have a hair net on?

Crimson Dynamo
23-03-2014, 02:47 PM
Why not just arrest all gay comedians and then they will at least have the culprit. It will be sad for the innocent ones that go to jail but thems the breaks.

arista
23-03-2014, 02:48 PM
the only 2 gay comedians i can think of on the spot are Alan Carr and Graham Norton but i can't see either of them doing it!


True I would not think so.

Crimson Dynamo
23-03-2014, 02:49 PM
True I would not think so.

What about Izzard?

arista
23-03-2014, 02:49 PM
Why not just arrest all gay comedians and then they will at least have the culprit. It will be sad for the innocent ones that go to jail but thems the breaks.


what if its a Closet Gay?

Black Dagger
23-03-2014, 02:49 PM
Why not just arrest all gay comedians and then they will at least have the culprit. It will be sad for the innocent ones that go to jail but thems the breaks.

:umm2:

Crimson Dynamo
23-03-2014, 02:49 PM
:umm2:

Life in the City

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 02:50 PM
OMG! This is so sad. :bawling:

arista
23-03-2014, 02:50 PM
What about Izzard?


No never in one country long enough

Crimson Dynamo
23-03-2014, 02:50 PM
what if its a Closet Gay?

Yes like Corden?

arista
23-03-2014, 02:50 PM
Yes like Corden?


I am not aware he is?

arista
23-03-2014, 02:51 PM
OMG! This is so sad. :bawling:


Yes the Death is Very Sad, so young

Thats why we need the TV Comedy Mans name

Loukas
23-03-2014, 02:56 PM
Why not just arrest all gay comedians and then they will at least have the culprit. It will be sad for the innocent ones that go to jail but thems the breaks.

im gonna simply ignore this foolishness tbh. A white man with short brown hair and brown eyes rapes a woman, so the only way of catching the guy is catching all straight men with short brown hair and brown eyes, of course!

Marsh.
23-03-2014, 02:59 PM
does he have a hair net on?

:laugh:

Jack_
23-03-2014, 03:01 PM
How was it 'grooming'? They were in a legal and consensual relationship. Typical Mail homophobia :rolleyes:

Did some research though and I didn't even know the comedian in question was gay, how baffling

Marsh.
23-03-2014, 03:02 PM
Who is it?

Jack_
23-03-2014, 03:04 PM
I'm not sure if it can be said on here for legal reasons? If you type Ben Cowburn into the Twitter search box though it'll tell you

His Twitter account is still active as well which is quite disturbing

Black Dagger
23-03-2014, 03:05 PM
People are going to lap it up and want his head on a stick ffs.

Shaun
23-03-2014, 03:06 PM
Eddie Izzard is straight...

Me. I Am Salman
23-03-2014, 03:08 PM
14058654001008640

:unsure:

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 03:09 PM
I just saw the name of that person on twitter. OMG! I must say, i'm shocked. :eek:

Loukas
23-03-2014, 03:15 PM
I just saw the name of that person on twitter. OMG! I must say, i'm shocked. :eek:

i can't see it, is it SKA? :/

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 03:17 PM
i can't see it, is it SKA? :/

Yes, i think so. OMG!

Jack_
23-03-2014, 03:18 PM
yes

Me. I Am Salman
23-03-2014, 03:20 PM
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Bja1s5cIYAAPbh_.jpg

just posting a screenshot of his FB friends I mean nothing by it :whistle:

arista
23-03-2014, 03:23 PM
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Bja1s5cIYAAPbh_.jpg

just posting a screenshot of his FB friends I mean nothing by it :whistle:



Yes Stephen K.Amos
could be the one,
or Not the one

Crimson Dynamo
23-03-2014, 03:25 PM
he is a comedian?

who knew?

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 03:25 PM
There was another name that appeared as well on twitter, but he's way too young i think. :suspect:

arista
23-03-2014, 03:25 PM
How was it 'grooming'? They were in a legal and consensual relationship. Typical Mail homophobia :rolleyes:

Did some research though and I didn't even know the comedian in question was gay, how baffling



When did it Start
Also Bens C.'s own words

arista
23-03-2014, 03:26 PM
There was another name that appeared as well on twitter, but he's way too young i think. :suspect:


Chuck It in the Mix

arista
23-03-2014, 03:27 PM
he is a comedian?

who knew?



Amos
says he is when he goes on the Wright Stuff Panel


And bet Matt Wright has the name,

Loukas
23-03-2014, 03:28 PM
https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Bja1s5cIYAAPbh_.jpg

just posting a screenshot of his FB friends I mean nothing by it :whistle:

why is their not add option by this name? Do you have him on Facebook Salman? lol

Me. I Am Salman
23-03-2014, 03:29 PM
why is their not add option by this name? Do you have him on Facebook Salman? lol

it's a screenshot I found on twitter

arista
23-03-2014, 03:30 PM
it's a screenshot I found on twitter


Well Done Insp Salman

Loukas
23-03-2014, 03:31 PM
it's a screenshot I found on twitter

gotcha :thumbs:

james130
23-03-2014, 04:10 PM
I did always think (insert comic) was a little bit weird... :idc:

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 04:15 PM
This story has just appeared on my timeline on facebook. Truly tragic. :sad:

arista
23-03-2014, 04:34 PM
This story has just appeared on my timeline on facebook. Truly tragic. :sad:


which Storry


The papers

or

his facebook

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 04:36 PM
which Storry


The papers

or

his facebook

It's from a blog i'm following.

arista
23-03-2014, 04:39 PM
It's from a blog i'm following.


Thats OK


Maybe you will get the TV Stars name first

Crimson Dynamo
23-03-2014, 04:39 PM
A sordid tale that no good will come of and not great for the gay cause one imagines

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 04:40 PM
Thats OK


Maybe you will get the TV Stars name first

It's already on twitter. I think it's that person.

arista
23-03-2014, 04:40 PM
It's already on twitter. I think it's that person.


what

Amos?

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 04:41 PM
what

Amos?

Could be. He was following him on twitter.

arista
23-03-2014, 06:42 PM
Stephen K Amos: 'I don't want to be labelled "the black gay comic"'

http://www.theguardian.com/theobserver/2010/oct/24/stephen-k-amos-interview

A link from 2010


Of Course It may Not Be Him

armand.kay
23-03-2014, 07:29 PM
I don't get it what did the comedian in question do that's illegal wasn't the boy 18?

Marsh.
23-03-2014, 07:32 PM
I don't get it what did the comedian in question do that's illegal wasn't the boy 18?

I don't think they're saying that having a relationship was illegal are they?

From what I've gathered he just took advantage of a naive person, got him involved in some illegal activities (drugs etc), treated him appallingly resulting in his suicide.

But I could be wrong. Of course the Daily Mail are using it to emphasise the gay angle.

Crimson Dynamo
23-03-2014, 07:32 PM
I don't get it what did the comedian in question do that's illegal wasn't the boy 18?

did you read the allegations on the DM story. sordid, vile?

armand.kay
23-03-2014, 07:34 PM
My bad I didn't notice the read more bit in the op.

Vanessa
23-03-2014, 07:38 PM
I don't think they're saying that having a relationship was illegal are they?

From what I've gathered he just took advantage of a naive person, got him involved in some illegal activities (drugs etc), treated him appallingly resulting in his suicide.

But I could be wrong. Of course the Daily Mail are using it to emphasise the gay angle.

Poor boy. This story is just heartbreaking.

Crimson Dynamo
23-03-2014, 07:39 PM
he was vulnerable...

Firewire
23-03-2014, 07:44 PM
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2014/03/22/article-2586932-1C80801400000578-925_306x407.jpg

does he have a hair net on?

looks like S K A

Me. I Am Salman
23-03-2014, 07:48 PM
http://cdn.thisisbigbrother.com/customavatars/avatar5970_70.gif

does he have a hair net on?

arrest this scumbag

arista
23-03-2014, 10:10 PM
looks like S K A



may be Stephen K Amos


And if his Agent is looking

It may not be him.

Kizzy
24-03-2014, 12:55 AM
Hey if Barrymore can get away with bodies bobbing about in his pool I'm guessing whoever it is will be on the next CBB.

daniel-lewis-1985
24-03-2014, 06:38 PM
Why has no one mentioned Michael Barrymore.

I know from personal experience that guys a ****ing perv!

Vanessa
24-03-2014, 06:40 PM
Why has no one mentioned Michael Barrymore.

I know from personal experience that guys a ****ing perv!

It doesn't look like Barrymore in the picture.

daniel-lewis-1985
24-03-2014, 06:41 PM
It doesn't look like Barrymore in the picture.

True actually I just noticed the picture, that's definitely a black man.

I didn't know ska was gay, must have missed that one.

Ninastar
24-03-2014, 06:44 PM
looks like S K A

HAHAHA OMFG

arista
24-03-2014, 06:45 PM
Why has no one mentioned Michael Barrymore.

I know from personal experience that guys a ****ing perv!



Because he was not on the Facebook Link
like SKA

Ben94
26-03-2014, 02:14 AM
https://scontent-a-lhr.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/t1.0-9/1962794_10151977586688053_1487222306_n.jpg

Marsh.
26-03-2014, 02:30 AM
:eek:

Shaun
26-03-2014, 02:59 AM
ben's alive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

arista
26-03-2014, 08:45 AM
https://scontent-a-lhr.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/t1.0-9/1962794_10151977586688053_1487222306_n.jpg





Yes B94

Vanessa
26-03-2014, 10:38 AM
Yes B94

It was him then! :eek:

Firewire
26-03-2014, 10:52 AM
HAHAHA OMFG

i just realised that it made me sound incredibly racist omfg

Livia
26-03-2014, 11:04 AM
I'm a bit unclear about this whole thing. Someone was treated badly and committed suicide. The fact that the person who treated them badly was famous means... what? It means that their career can be ended by the media in a way that would never happen if he was, say, a banker or a dustman. If he wasn't famous, I wonder if the word "groomed" would have been used, with or without inverted commas.

Vanessa
26-03-2014, 11:08 AM
I'm a bit unclear about this whole thing. Someone was treated badly and committed suicide. The fact that the person who treated them badly was famous means... what? It means that their career can be ended by the media in a way that would never happen if he was, say, a banker or a dustman. If he wasn't famous, I wonder if the word "groomed" would have been used, with or without inverted commas.

I think it's more than that, Livia. Something serious must have happened for the boy to feel suicidial.

Livia
26-03-2014, 11:11 AM
I think it's more than that, Livia. Something serious must have happened for the boy to feel suicidial.

How do you know that though? People are filling in the gaps in the story with their own imagination. And once again I ask, would it be in the media if the person involved wasn't famous, and why is the word "grooming" being used.

Vanessa
26-03-2014, 11:12 AM
How do you know that though? People are filling in the gaps in the story with their own imagination. And once again I ask, would it be in the media if the person involved wasn't famous, and why is the word "grooming" being used.

I just don't think you'd feel that low without something really bad happening. I just want to know what happened.

Livia
26-03-2014, 11:17 AM
I just don't think you'd feel that low without something really bad happening. I just want to know what happened.

People feel low enough to take their own lives every day of the week, sadly. You don't need to know the details of all of them! People are only interested in this because the person involved may be a celebrity and it's salacious gossip.

Vanessa
26-03-2014, 11:19 AM
People feel low enough to take their own lives every day of the week, sadly. You don't need to know the details of all of them! People are only interested in this because the person involved may be a celebrity and it's salacious gossip.

It's just such a sad story. The boy was so young and had his whole life ahead of him.

arista
26-03-2014, 11:19 AM
It was him then! :eek:


Yes SKA looks like the one


If his Agent is viewing this thread :
He may not be the one

arista
26-03-2014, 11:20 AM
http://files.list.co.uk/images/2009/08/10/stephenkamos-lst065537.jpg

Livia
26-03-2014, 11:21 AM
It's just such a sad story. The boy was so young and had his whole life ahead of him.

Sadly, it's common. It's just as sad when there's no alleged celebrity involvement, and consequently no witch-hunt.

Vanessa
26-03-2014, 11:22 AM
Sadly, it's common. It's just as sad when there's no alleged celebrity involvement, and consequently no witch-hunt.

That's true. :(

Livia
26-03-2014, 11:22 AM
Yes SKA looks like the one


If his Agent is viewing this thread :
He may not be the one

It's not his agent you need to worry about arista. It's his lawyer.

Livia
26-03-2014, 11:22 AM
That's true. :(

It is sad though... his family must be in bits.

Beso
26-03-2014, 11:36 AM
How unfunny of him.

arista
26-03-2014, 11:55 AM
It's not his agent you need to worry about arista. It's his lawyer.


I checked his agent
they have a Legal man



So again
I must point out
it many not be him

Denver
08-05-2017, 02:09 PM
People feel low enough to take their own lives every day of the week, sadly. You don't need to know the details of all of them! People are only interested in this because the person involved may be a celebrity and it's salacious gossip.
He told a nurse that he was raped by a TV comic


www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2592539/Revealed-Tragic-Ben-Cowburn-told-nurse-TV-comic-raped-family-demand-know-medic-not-heard-inquest.html

UserSince2005
08-05-2017, 02:16 PM
So who was it?

Steven K Amos?

how gross.

Denver
08-05-2017, 02:19 PM
google the names together to tell you

UserSince2005
08-05-2017, 02:20 PM
It seems like half of the problems are also the fact that it was a man that did this, had a women raped him would he have committed suicide. poor boy was probably very confused by his sexuality and that is why he let the celebrity take advances and ply him with drink. But society is still so unaccepting and so the shame was 100 times worse and he could cope. very sad story

Denver
08-05-2017, 02:22 PM
No he was mentally ill and the person took advantage it has nothing to do with sexuality

Firewire
08-05-2017, 02:34 PM
What a warped point of view you have

Denver
08-05-2017, 02:38 PM
I dont get how it is a warped sense of mind? when i only putting what is in the media

Withano
08-05-2017, 04:19 PM
google the names together to tell you

Ergh, I just did this and it came up with a tibb-like forum, but it was called godlikeproductions, and it was full of devout hetero christians. It was like some weird parallel universe. They titled this exact same thread 'Homosexuality got this kid killed. Gay "star" grooms teen who ends up committing suicide after feeling disgusted by the gay acts' and the users made posts about all lgbts being pedos. I hate the world sometimes!

Also, I don't think you have a warped idea of the story. I think its entirely plausible that his mental health and the treatment from the man that led to his suicide could be bi-directional. His mental health could have made his relationship worse, which in turn made his mental health worse, which made his relationship worse etc. Its a good theory.

Withano
08-05-2017, 04:33 PM
Oh actually theyre not christians, theyre alien conspiracists. It was still weird though.

Wizard.
08-05-2017, 04:43 PM
I know people who knew Ben but I didn't know much else

That comedian is creepy looking as **** and why would a teenager go near his old haggard ass? Guess hindsight is 20/20 RIP

Denver
08-05-2017, 04:46 PM
I know people who knew Ben but I didn't know much else

That comedian is creepy looking as **** and why would a teenager go near his old haggard ass? Guess hindsight is 20/20 RIP

I guess with mental illness it is easier to get attach to someone who says all the right things and easy to trust them

Wizard.
08-05-2017, 04:48 PM
I guess with mental illness it is easier to get attach to someone who says all the right things and easy to trust them

I would have kicked him in the balls and told him to piss off but that's just me I guess you're right.

UserSince2005
08-05-2017, 04:51 PM
Steven K Amos is creepy as ****, I remember he did some documentary about penis size where he measured a load of rugby players and his own and he was very big and was so proud of it. Gross man. Poor Ben.