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Benjamin
18-04-2014, 12:51 PM
When Lindsay Jaynes tweeted Delta Airlines's customer service account last Friday asking about its policy regarding breastfeeding her infant on an upcoming flight, the response sparked a social media firestorm.

"Lindsay unfortunately you are not able to breast feed if you don't have a cover up," the airline representative tweeted. "I'm sorry."

Parenting blogs picked up on the story, noting that 45 states have laws allowing women to breastfeed in public. After hours of uproar, Delta tweeted a generic apology: "Delta welcomes breastfeeding mothers and babies on our flights. We sincerely apologize for the misinformation."

Despite the clarification from Delta, many breastfeeding advocates are still angry, calling for the airline to publish its official policy on breastfeeding and improve training of customer relations staff.

"Delta is currently trying to backpedal its way out of this public relations nightmare, but moms observe, listen and remember when one of their own is discriminated against," writes Monica Beyer on the blog She Knows Parenting.

Jessica Martin-Weber on her blog, the Leaky Boob, recalls a 2006 incident when a woman on a Delta commuter flight in Vermont was forced off her flight because she refused to cover herself with a blanket while breastfeeding. She sued the airline and received an out-of court settlement.

"This is why breastfeeding needs to be normalized, as silly as that may sound," Martin-Weber writes. "It is also why discrimination against mothers, regardless of how they feed their children, needs to stop."

Kelly Kautz, on her blog One Woman Marketing, noticed an earlier Delta promotional tweet about the often-debauched Mardi Gras celebrations in New Orleans that in hindsight seems particularly tin-eared given its recent misstep:

"Flash us your … smile & book now to celebrate #MardiGras in #NOLA," read the tweet. "Save us some beads!"

"So... it's fine to flash your boobs in public, as long as you're not feeding your child," Kautz writes. "I shouldn't be surprised. Society has been sending this mixed message to mothers for generations. But to have it so demonstrated so clearly, on the social media feed of a major airline, is mind-blowing."

US culture, from Girls Gone Wild exploits to flesh-laden advertising, glorifies breasts as sex objects. It's an association that pro-breastfeeding groups are fighting against.

"Breastfeeding is NOT a sexual act," breastfeeding advocate Mayim Bialik, who plays Amy Farrah Fowler on the TV show The Big Bang Theory, recently told Huffington Post.

There is no doubt that breastfeeding makes some people uncomfortable. The result is that, by becoming the public face of public breastfeeding, Lindsay Jaynes's Twitter feed has exploded with opponents blaming her for the row with Delta.

"When you're comfortable with men flopping their winkies at you, then you can flop your boobs around," tweeted Florida-based talk radio host Ray Junior.

Others called her "quite disrespectful" and said she was baiting Delta to "create a firestorm" and needed to "grow up".

Funny, feeding a baby seems like a pretty grown-up thing to do.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-echochambers-26361270

I have to agree, I have no issue with women breast feeding but surely having a cover up is not a bad thing, not all of us want to be seeing that happen.

Kizzy
18-04-2014, 12:56 PM
Seeing what happen?... you travel extensively ben what do you do when women are topless on the beach,walk around with your eyes closed?

Benjamin
18-04-2014, 12:58 PM
Seeing what happen?... you travel extensively ben what do you do when women are topless on the beach,walk around with your eyes closed?

I don't make a habit of looking at women's breasts on the beach, nor do I often frequent beaches that have topless women.


I didn't give birth to the child, why should I have to watch it be breast fed? I don't see the issue with a cover up being used or there being a private area on planes for mothers to be able to feed their child in peace.

Kizzy
18-04-2014, 01:04 PM
What makes you think you'll be forced to watch?

Benjamin
18-04-2014, 01:05 PM
Well if the lady next to me on the plane starts breast feeding (not that I am going to watch, never said forced to watch) but it would make me feel uncomfortable and then I would have to constantly divert my gaze the other way. Why should I or others be made to feel like that?

I really don't see an issue with a cover up or a private area for mothers to feed their children. Do you disagree?

Me. I Am Salman
18-04-2014, 01:08 PM
Just cover up you annoying ****s, it's the airline policy and it isn't a big deal. There are more important problems in the world

Shaun
18-04-2014, 01:08 PM
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/blogs-echochambers-26361270

I have to agree, I have no issue with women breast feeding but surely having a cover up is not a bad thing, not all of us want to be seeing that happen.

Look away, then.

Babies having to eat > you feeling uncomfortable. When did everybody get so entitled?

Kizzy
18-04-2014, 01:12 PM
I do disagree with them being ushered away like it's unnatural yes. Having a baby crying as it's starving is preferable to you then?

arista
18-04-2014, 01:14 PM
Look away, then.

Babies having to eat > you feeling uncomfortable. When did everybody get so entitled?

Yes Shaun
a better Man you are

Jessica.
18-04-2014, 02:02 PM
I wouldn't really have a problem with it tbh. Although if it was me I would definitely cover up anyway. :joker:

Jack_
18-04-2014, 02:10 PM
People should be able to get their tits out if they want wherever anyway so I don't even care, let her breastfeed

Me. I Am Salman
18-04-2014, 02:13 PM
People should be able to get their tits out if they want wherever anyway so I don't even care, let her breastfeed

Yeah it's not a big deal and neither is being asked to cover up :shrug:

Jack_
18-04-2014, 02:16 PM
I don't see why the sight of a tit would offend anyone, but then I think people should be able to walk down the street naked if they wanted so perhaps I'm not the best person to ask for an opinion on this

I agree with what Shaun said though

Marsh.
18-04-2014, 02:22 PM
Just cover up you annoying ****s, it's the airline policy and it isn't a big deal. There are more important problems in the world

You're calling breast feeding mothers ****s? :suspect:

user104658
18-04-2014, 06:58 PM
Options: sit on a plane where a baby is being breastfed, or sit on a plane with a crying baby. I know which option I would go for. Breast feeding is generally fairly discreet, the nipple area is covered by the babys head, you wouldn't see any more than with a low-cut top! On top of that... why would you be looking, anyway? Baby or no baby - why would you be staring at a stranger's chest? Just don't watch??

Vanessa
18-04-2014, 07:01 PM
It makes me feel a bit uncomfortable, to be honest. But i would just look the other way. :hugesmile:

Z
18-04-2014, 07:22 PM
Not a big deal to me, women should be able to breast feed in public

Livia
18-04-2014, 07:22 PM
I don't see the problem asking her to cover up. Breast feeding is a natural function. So is having sex. I don't want to watch people do either in public.

thesheriff443
18-04-2014, 07:28 PM
I don't see the problem asking her to cover up. Breast feeding is a natural function. So is having sex. I don't want to watch people do either in public.

just a quick look:joker:

AnnieK
18-04-2014, 07:52 PM
Unless you actually stare at a breast feeding mother 9 times out of 10 you wouldn't know if she's feeding or just holding her baby...I'm sure most women on a plane would use scarf or something I would imagine

GypsyGoth
18-04-2014, 07:58 PM
I don't have an issue with moms feeding their babies.

Kizzy
18-04-2014, 08:32 PM
I don't see the problem asking her to cover up. Breast feeding is a natural function. So is having sex. I don't want to watch people do either in public.

They are nothing alike ... nothing.

user104658
18-04-2014, 10:11 PM
I don't see the problem asking her to cover up. Breast feeding is a natural function. So is having sex. I don't want to watch people do either in public.

So is breathing. There are lots of people that I don't want to see breathing in public, private, or anywhere else... but those pesky buggers just keep doing it. And I look the other way, so as not to be repulsed.

Livia
19-04-2014, 03:03 PM
So is breathing. There are lots of people that I don't want to see breathing in public, private, or anywhere else... but those pesky buggers just keep doing it. And I look the other way, so as not to be repulsed.

That's rather a stretched analogy.

How about conceiving a baby in public? That's another natural thing...

Women are entitled to feed their babies when they need to but I just don't understand what the problem is with being a little discreet about it.

user104658
19-04-2014, 08:00 PM
That's rather a stretched analogy.

How about conceiving a baby in public? That's another natural thing...

Women are entitled to feed their babies when they need to but I just don't understand what the problem is with being a little discreet about it.

It's no more a stretched analogy than comparing breastfeeding to sexual intercourse, is it? I suppose the most accurate comparison would be eating. After all, breastfeeding is just a baby eating. It is in no way sexual. If someone can't separate breasts from sex, that is THEIR issue.

And to further the comparison: I often find people eating in public to be an issue for me. Like when people have a sandwich and take a bite, and you can see their drool all over the bitten bit, and the bread is all moist and sometimes there's a string of dribble to their mouth. yuck! I find it utterly repulsive.

You know what I don't do? Expect them to put a napkin over their head while they eat. It would certainly make things more "comfortable" for me, but it would also be... Well... a ****ing ridiculous request borne purely of my own personal distaste. I'd fully expect to be told to piss off. I wouldn't then call that person "inconsiderate" for not complying with my petty and ultimately pointless demands.

Vicky.
19-04-2014, 09:01 PM
Personally I would cover up anyway without being asked, its probably wrong but I would be too embarassed to just get them out in public.

Though I have seen people do it and tbh the babies head covers everything anyway so I dont really see the big deal :shrug:

InOne
19-04-2014, 09:07 PM
I might notice it but then just never give it a second thought. Don't really get the big deal about it all, do people sit there just staring or something? lol

Gstar
19-04-2014, 11:28 PM
A big fuss over nothing, who cares if someone is breastfeeding :s

Josy
19-04-2014, 11:30 PM
I cleaned this thread, stop the arguing now please.

Headie
19-04-2014, 11:46 PM
I cleaned this thread, stop the arguing now please.

Josy and her OCD with cleanliness :laugh:

Kizzy
19-04-2014, 11:58 PM
The only drawback is.....
http://www.canadianfamily.ca/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/oreo-ad-breastfeeding-490x343.jpg

arista
20-04-2014, 05:10 AM
I might notice it but then just never give it a second thought. Don't really get the big deal about it all, do people sit there just staring or something? lol


Yes some do
in anger and some in joy for the women
and some like Sheriff - possible more seedy looking.

Kizzy
22-04-2014, 11:59 AM
Some like who?... don't tar people with your brush arista.

arista
22-04-2014, 12:00 PM
Some like who?... don't tar people with your brush arista.



OK
I am Smacked

Niamh.
22-04-2014, 01:00 PM
Look away, then.

Babies having to eat > you feeling uncomfortable. When did everybody get so entitled?

This ^ jesus Christ, what the hell is wrong with people