Is Toya mentally ill?

[Gusto Brunt]

How can she get so angry over basically nothing?

[lovebigbrotheruk]

Ridiculously lazy argument.

[Gusto Brunt]

Ridiculously lazy argument.

Well, what normal person behaves like the way she did?

Her behaviour no way reflected the situation.

[lovebigbrotheruk]

Well, what normal person behaves like the way she did?

Her behaviour no way reflected the situation.

A lot of 'normal' people behave like that in instense situations. She's sharing a house with 14 people in a closed off space for goodness sake. Never-mind the fact she is on national TV.

[Gusto Brunt]

A lot of 'normal' people behave like that in instense situations. She's sharing a house with 14 people in a closed off space for goodness sake. Never-mind the fact she is on national TV.

Well, the fact she is on national TV, she should have restrained herself.

She overreacted and I can tell there are massive issues underlying that behaviour.

She's be wronged in so many ways in her life. It just wasn't about the nominations.

[MrWong]

3 butthurt little boys whining about their nom's being removed would piss me off too.

The arrogant ****s need to take a leaf out of Chris/Jale/Chrisophers books on how to take being nominated with good grace.

[Gerbil901]

I don't like Toya but the girl isn't mentally ill. I just think that she is a bit hotheaded and the stress of living with 14 other people and being the PH was getting to her. I do think that she does have some underlying issues that she has but thats about it.

[lovebigbrotheruk]

Well I would have reacted the same and I would not be ashamed of it. You should be criticising the fact three guys ganged up on her, that's disturbing.

[Jemal]

I thin she could have a mental breakdown uno

[Gerbil901]

Well I would have reacted the same and I would not be ashamed of it. You should be criticising the fact three guys ganged up on her, that's disturbing.

Don't really see how it was disturbing. She shouldn't have been running her mouth. They didn't gang up on her she decided to take them all on.

[lovebigbrotheruk]

Don't really see how it was disturbing. She shouldn't have been running her mouth. They didn't gang up on her she decided to take them all on.

Was she meant to shut up and play the victim?

[Gerbil901]

Was she meant to shut up and play the victim?
On the same token were they just supposed to stand there and let her yell at them because she's a woman. Real women don't act like that towards men. Real women don't try to provoke a man to threaten her. If I was one of the men I would've let it rip on her ass too.

[Achilles]

Toya will make up with Ash at some point by talking at him for an hour or so.
The aftermath of the end of show party might go something like this.
LqFs_UGL2OI

[chuff me dizzy]

I thought exactly the same last night ,theres something not working right in her head

[Gerbil901]

I thought exactly the same last night ,theres something not working right in her head

She has some underlying issues but I don't think that there's anything wrong with her mentally. She's just stressed out.

[MrWong]

On the same token were they just supposed to stand there and let her yell at them because she's a woman. Real women don't act like that towards men. Real women don't try to provoke a man to threaten her. If I was one of the men I would've let it rip on her ass too.

According to Helen everything was fine until Winston (provoked) made a comment to Toya.

[Me. I Am Salman]

No, ridiculous petty and offensive thread

[chuff me dizzy]

On the same token were they just supposed to stand there and let her yell at them because she's a woman. Real women don't act like that towards men. Real women don't try to provoke a man to threaten her. If I was one of the men I would've let it rip on her ass too.

Respect has to be earned its not a God given right,and she needs to respect herself before anyone else will respect her

[Gerbil901]

According to Helen everything was fine until Winston (provoked) made a comment to Toya.
I think Winston's response was prompted by her telling everyone "Calm the **** down"

[Gerbil901]

Respect has to be earned its not a God given right,and she needs to respect herself before anyone else will respect her
This :clap1:

[AnnieK]

3 butthurt little boys whining about their nom's being removed would piss me off too.

The arrogant ****s need to take a leaf out of Chris/Jale/Chrisophers books on how to take being nominated with good grace.


Agree with this....

[Kizzy]

She's been randomly bawling then ostracizing anyone who won't swallow her pauline inspired gospel for days now.
It's escalated since she got the power.

[smeagol]

I think she just struggles with stress and is always on the defensive, like a cornered animal out of her comfort zone she see's everything as a attack. so she responds first a lot of the time.
i dont think she's bad. she just needs some help to deal with things better.
nothing hateful there with her. not like other housemates. its a defence a crazy one but a defence just the same.

[Gerbil901]

I think she just struggles with stress and is always on the defensive, like a cornered animal out of her comfort zone she see's everything as a attack. so she responds first a lot of the time.
i dont think she's bad. she just needs some help to deal with things better.
nothing hateful there with her. not like other housemates. its a defence a crazy one but a defence just the same.

Agree

[King Sing]

Well I would have reacted the same and I would not be ashamed of it. You should be criticising the fact three guys ganged up on her, that's disturbing.

Proof this user is a troll.

There is no way that somebody that watched the show, would describe what they saw as that....

Either you are a troll or thick. You choose.

[Achilles]

Well I would have reacted the same and I would not be ashamed of it. You should be criticising the fact three guys ganged up on her, that's disturbing.

It was very disturbing. What I found even more disturbing was that all the other housemates did nothing to stop the horrific crime taking place in front of their eyes. What about Helen too!? When he took Toya into the toilet I went into full panic mode over what he might do to her.

[Anothercat]

She acts like that because she's stupid, you can be educated and stupid as well.

[arista]

How can she get so angry over basically nothing?



No she Upset and Scared

[jet]

If all the OTT, overbearing, self opinionated people in the UK were classed as mentally ill the NHS would be doomed once and for all.

[Razor]

The girl has a chip on her shoulder

[Robodog]

Last night i was genuinely worried about her mental state.

The way she blows up at people is not a normal, balanced reaction to what's occurring in the house.

From the intensity and anger of her argument - she acts and sounds like she is having a major bust up with a long term partner, abusive parent or someone in her life with a lot of dark history.

There is clearly some deep seated anger in her that is looking for an outlet. She has brought that anger with her into the house and she is taking it out on the others around her.

She repeats the same few lines - as if they are pre-rehearsed - about 'showing your true colours' and 'respect' etc. It doesn't matter what the argument is actually about - she says the same things every time.

She is full of contradictions. She forces people to listen to her - but she won't listen to them. She calls people names like 'f*-in idiot' but cannot handle people calling her names back. It's all very one sided.

When she argues, she doesn't seem to care about finding solutions or seeing things from another's perspective - her only aim in these arguments is to dominate people and make herself feel she has the upper hand over others.

So where does that come from?

I would imagine, she has felt dominated by someone or something in her life and it eats away at her - so now she feels she has to 'do it to others before they do it to her'. It's the only thing that explains her behaviour to me. Not very nice for the others to be on the receiving end of and a bit uncomfortable to watch if i'm honest.

So yeah - i used to think she was just a moody girl but last night was pretty extreme so i think she has issues that need dealing with and had them before she came to the BB house for sure.

[jet]

Excellent, interesting post Robodog.
She definitely has anger issues and she sure doesn't like her opinions to be contradicted.

[flamingGalah!]

I don't know about mentally ill, but she is clearly thick...

I expect she is just one of these women who expects to be treated like a princess & thinks she can speak to anyone how she chooses, yet no one should dare speak to her in the same manner, especially men...

Basically she is an aggressive, gobby, opinionated bitch with double standards :smug:

[Fish_Fingers]

Toya will make up with Ash at some point by talking at him for an hour or so.
The aftermath of the end of show party might go something like this.
LqFs_UGL2OI

Love it!! :spin::laugh::hehe:

[Miranda123]

How can she get so angry over basically nothing?

Er.....let me think................

Oh yeah, cause she's a nasty little skank bird who thinks she can shout everyone down with her big gob

they should blank all start singing every time she starts talking lol

[Miranda123]

Last night i was genuinely worried about her mental state.

The way she blows up at people is not a normal, balanced reaction to what's occurring in the house.

From the intensity and anger of her argument - she acts and sounds like she is having a major bust up with a long term partner, abusive parent or someone in her life with a lot of dark history.

There is clearly some deep seated anger in her that is looking for an outlet. She has brought that anger with her into the house and she is taking it out on the others around her.

She repeats the same few lines - as if they are pre-rehearsed - about 'showing your true colours' and 'respect' etc. It doesn't matter what the argument is actually about - she says the same things every time.

She is full of contradictions. She forces people to listen to her - but she won't listen to them. She calls people names like 'f*-in idiot' but cannot handle people calling her names back. It's all very one sided.

When she argues, she doesn't seem to care about finding solutions or seeing things from another's perspective - her only aim in these arguments is to dominate people and make herself feel she has the upper hand over others.

So where does that come from?

I would imagine, she has felt dominated by someone or something in her life and it eats away at her - so now she feels she has to 'do it to others before they do it to her'. It's the only thing that explains her behaviour to me. Not very nice for the others to be on the receiving end of and a bit uncomfortable to watch if i'm honest.

So yeah - i used to think she was just a moody girl but last night was pretty extreme so i think she has issues that need dealing with and had them before she came to the BB house for sure.

I think her only issue is that she is a nasty bint!

[Miranda123]

The girl has a chip on her shoulder

looks like a whole bag of them to me lol

[Miranda123]

No she Upset and Scared

upset and scared? aggh poor bubba

maybe it would be a good idea if she shut her nasty trap then

[joeysteele]

Some people to make a point use angry tones to intimidate others to try to make them fall into line with their views.
I don't think Toya is mentally ill,I just think this is a survival thing from her and she mistakenly believed that to be dominant would gain her respect,not realising any respect needs to be earned.

She has however now gone power crazy and really the sooner that power trip is removed from her or she gets thrown out, the better for her and the other housemates.

How she will cope just being again an ordinary housemate is beyond even thinking about.

[icecakes]

Er.....let me think................

Oh yeah, cause she's a nasty little skank bird who thinks she can shout everyone down with her big gob

they should blank all start singing every time she starts talking lol

Well said.:thumbs: