'I said it in front of a group so people could stop me..'

[Jake.]

Yet Mark 'needs to shut the **** up' for calling her out?

[Jase.]

:joker: She's a ****ing mess.

[Jords]

haha nicely contradicted Helen

[Kizzy]

It's as if she can't help but react, and then when she stops to rationalise it she finds some perspective... but in the moment is totally blinkered.

[Ammi]

Yet Mark 'needs to shut the **** up' for calling her out?

..it's always the same though isn't it with people who advocate the 'saying it to your face' is admirable/free speech type thing/she's just being 'real'...it's fine when it's them but if anyone does the same to them/criticises them in anyway, they need to hush up right now...always right, always right, always right..no one else speak, always right....

[mooo]

:joker: She's a ****ing mess.

This :smug:

[rubymoo]

Made me laugh (at her)

Doesn't she realise that bullies often work in groups and often have an audience, that's what makes them feel powerful and what humiliates the victim.

Agreed she is a mess!