Lets talk about Steven..Scary

[Miranda123]

We now know that he was 'let down' last year in a relationship, not sure if the girl in question cheated or not but that was the impression given by his Mum on last nights main show, but...........

am I the only one who thinks he is a control freak?

The whole thing about telling Kim that she could go and pick up her stuff at her flat (that she shares with her b/f) but only if she goes with a member of Stevens family!! (Sopranos??) and that she can NOT speak to her b/f about this whole thing, but must wait until Steven comes out (he's so sure that he is gonna be in there longer than her) because he will NOT have her talking to the guy without him being there

Lets ignore the fact that this guy (Sasha, I think) has done f..k all wrong, and has had to suffer the humiliation of watching his bird on TV falling (not sure about that) for another guy, but now that other guy, is calling the shots about Sasha's realationship??

If you are gonna dump someone after a 3 year relationship (3 yrs according to Sasha, 2 according to Kim) then it is downright cruel to take along your new love interest to dump him, Im sure Sasha is not gonna thump her one!

Im not saying its not possible for Steven to fall for her in 5 weeks, he may have, but after 5 short weeks (in fact less, cause they didnt get together straight away, cause for the first two weeks he had his head firmly planted inside Paulines arse) he is now trying to control every aspect of her life!!

He is a typical controlling man, and its very creepy to watch

For him to tell Kimberley what she can and cannot do when she gets out of the house, should be a massive wake up call for her, I would never go anywhere near a guy who thought he could dictate to me about who I see, where I go, and what I do, he's even saying she can move in with his family while he's still in the house, wtf???

I think this is doomed to fail, as I think Kimberly is a lot less into this than he is, but even if she loves him, she should run a mile!

Once he started telling her what to do, I would have told him to do one!

Has anyone on here watch that TV Drama, "Murdered by my Boyfriend"........it all starts with this type of controlling behaviour, creepy!

Maya Angelou: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them, the first time"

[Livia]

It is creepy. Exceedingly creepy. Why isn't a supposedly intelligent, educated woman saying, hold on a minute... that's not going to be the way this plays out.

Loving that you quoted Maya Angelou, Miranda.

[Niamh.]

Great Post Miranda, i agree whole heartedly with everything you said, who the hell does he think he is? And as for Kim she's either a wet door mat or completely playing along with him, either way I have no respect for her

[Daffodil]

Yes Steven is very controlling. But I think we are painting Sacha as a poor wronged boyfriend when in fact he could well be little more than a pimp who doesn't mind his Girlfriend/business partner 'opening it' on TV with a big wally for publicity :shrug:

[Miranda123]

It is creepy. Exceedingly creepy. Why isn't a supposedly intelligent, educated woman saying, hold on a minute... that's not going to be the way this plays out.

Loving that you quoted Maya Angelou, Miranda.

Thanks Livia, I loved her!!!

I think in answer to your question, Kim doesnt actually say anything at all does she??

I mean Ive heard her speak, she definetly moves her mouth around, but she seems to manage to do that without ever actually saying anything at all!! Its bizarre, even in her 'rage' (yes Im aware how funny it is to use an emotional word like rage in the same sentence as Kim) she relied on Helen to fight Ashleigh for her??

[Miranda123]

Yes Steven is very controlling. But I think we are painting Sacha as a poor wronged boyfriend when in fact he could well be little more than a pimp who doesn't mind his Girlfriend/business partner 'opening it' on TV with a big wally for publicity :shrug:

He sounded like an okay guy when he called into BOTS, plus when she went in she said she was dating. I think the poor sap has been turned over!

If he's got any sense, he will dump her before she gets out and put all her stuff in bin bags and give it to Scope!!

[Miranda123]

Great Post Miranda, i agree whole heartedly with everything you said, who the hell does he think he is? And as for Kim she's either a wet door mat or completely playing along with him, either way I have no respect for her

I dont understand any of it Niamh, I wouldnt let my husband talk to me like that and Ive just celebrated 25yrs with him!!

[Glenn.]

I've been noticing this sort of behaviour before last nights episode. I've seen it happen first hand so know the warning signs.

I hope Kimberley's family/friends pick up on this and warn her, she seems rather stupid to see it herself.

[Miranda123]

I've been noticing this sort of behaviour before last nights episode. I've seen it happen first hand so know the warning signs.

I hope Kimberley's family/friends pick up on this and warn her, she seems rather stupid to see it herself.

Something about her facial expression, (I know its usually frozen in place) last night when he said that she couldnt go back to her flat alone, tells me that she was shocked, but she needs to tell him to back the fu.k off before either of them leave.

This is the one time that she needs to open her mouth and say do one!

[puzzled]

Spot on, Miranda. His whole family is weird and controlling. All of them go for facials and eyebrow plucking every week? Who'd want to marry into that mess? He's needy, controlling, and dim. What a catch.

[Josy]

Agree with everything in the OP.

I do think Kim was a bit surprised at a couple of things he said when they were both sat outside (and he was saying she wouldn't be speaking to Sasha alone) but then she clearly never let it affect her much.

[Beso]

I think he's just trying to implement every situation into his gameplan..thus he talks crap most of the time.

[Cherie]

Kimborely is a playboy bunny she will have met alot of Stevens in her past, she is playing the girl next door who has met the love of her life beautifully, never mind Chris the actor Kimborely has managed to make some of the public forget she is a liar and a cheat lol she will eat Steven up and spit him out when he has served his purpose :hehe:

[smeagol]

all cause he is a mummys boy and needs constant attention . he will be breast feeding on kim soon and suck that cow dry lol

[Miranda123]

Spot on, Miranda. His whole family is weird and controlling. All of them go for facials and eyebrow plucking every week? Who'd want to marry into that mess? He's needy, controlling, and dim. What a catch.

lol can you imagine, they sound like something out of Psychoville!!

Like Towie on acid!!!

[Miranda123]

all cause he is a mummys boy and needs constant attention . he will be breast feeding on kim soon and suck that cow dry lol

thats a weird picture you paint there Smeagol, but possibly accurate lol

I wouldnt mind betting, he is still breast fed at home!

[Crimson Dynamo]

he is emotionally very immature


I am still not that convinced that he is straight

[Livia]

I think he's straight... I just think he's one of those men who is a bit of an old woman.

[HBB1508]

He really gives me the creeps and is far to controlling but I think Kim is playing him as much as he is using her (no puns intended!).

[Cherie]

He really gives me the creeps and is far to controlling but I think Kim is playing him as much as he is using her (no puns intended!).

Yes she is and trust me Kim is going to come out of this looking alot better than Steven, he is a laughing stock now give him another week the mind boggles, just watched a clip of him saying "he is in a relationship" :hehe:

[Crimson Dynamo]

Did Kim say why she had not told Steven?

[Cherie]

Did Kim say why she had not told Steven?

No (I'm saying this in a very quiet voice while staring at the ceiling btw)

[Metalface Mark]

It was discussed in another thread (http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forums/showthread.php?t=256480&highlight=)

The consensus is that yes, he is creepy!

[billy123]

I get the impression he has been brought up in a very regimented fashion entirely aimed at him growing up with good business acumen.
Pushy parents that have made him focus his whole life on being director of a company much like they are.
It was telling when he said in the diary room when upset about something "I resign" when talking about an argument with someone (it might have been Kim im not sure)

He seems really emotionally unequipped and immature when it comes to personal matters.
He is a very strange turkey but i dont think he is nasty he just seems really ill equipped at dealing with life thanks to a strange upbringing that hasnt allowed him to go out and learn from his own mistakes.

[Chuckyegg]

He's behaving like a classic passive aggressive controlling monster. Women should run a mile.

[Cherie]

He's behaving like a classic passive aggressive controlling monster. Women should run a mile.

I think he was trying to be a hero, maybe Kim said her b/f might get aggressive, we don't know what prompted him to tell her his family would help her "remove her goods" :laugh:

[Chuckyegg]

I think he was trying to be a hero, maybe Kim said her b/f might get aggressive, we don't know what prompted him to tell her his family would help her "remove her goods" :laugh:

He has forbidden her to do a number of things. If they have a relationship after this show she would do well not to even glance at another man or else Steven will do his creepy "cuddle/restrain" manoeuvre on her.

[Cherie]

He has forbidden her to do a number of things. If they have a relationship after this show she would do well not to even glance at another man or else Steven will do his creepy "cuddle/restrain" manoeuvre on her.

You won't see Kim for dust unless she can squeeze a mag deal out of it, if she can't it will be a reconciliation with Stavros or whatever his name is or back to Hugh at the Mansion. Steven and Kim in a love nest of their own just will not happen.

[Johnnyuk123]

Here is Steven admitting to getting a married woman preggers and going through her handbag. Not creepy at all.:joker::joker::joker:

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x212v17_steven-goode-had-an-affair-with-a-married-woman_shortfilms?from_related=related.page.int.gra vity-only.a8039fa4bba4be94dab800c1ee6fede2140492152

[Marsh.]

He's behaving like a classic passive aggressive controlling monster. Women should run a mile.

Controlling her like a ventriloquist dummy. :hehe: Where does he put his hand?

[Me. I Am Salman]

I can't believe steve was born in 1991
he looks well over 30.

[Yoshi888]

Who tells a girl to open it the first time they are sexually together and on TV! My god the man is a child who no doubt still gets bitty.

[Nell_McCoy]

Steven is obviously a jealous control freak who is showing all the early warning signs of being emotionally abusive, despite that, his "feelings" for her are real, but with men like that the word "love" translates into "own" However I don't believe for a second Kim would accept a man talking to her like that in "real life" she is playing a game. I think she could quite possibly be the most devious and manipulative person in that house. Every single thing she says is for her own benefit eg throwing Ashleigh to the wolves to distract attention away from the meeting of four, urging Helen not to raise certain issues, pretending she is her mate and doesn't want her to get into trouble but all she actually cares about is preventing Helen finding out what part Kim herself has played in the shennanigans to keep Ash up. So I wouldn't worry to much about Kim she's tougher than Helen and Steven can't hurt her, but I fear for the emotional health of the hordes of silly women who will throw themselves at that big, sexist creep when he gets out.

[Daffodil]

Steven is obviously a jealous control freak who is showing all the early warning signs of being emotionally abusive, despite that, his "feelings" for her are real, but with men like that the word "love" translates into "own" However I don't believe for a second Kim would accept a man talking to her like that in "real life" she is playing a game. I think she could quite possibly be the most devious and manipulative person in that house. Every single thing she says is for her own benefit eg throwing Ashleigh to the wolves to distract attention away from the meeting of four, urging Helen not to raise certain issues, pretending she is her mate and doesn't want her to get into trouble but all she actually cares about is preventing Helen finding out what part Kim herself has played in the shennanigans to keep Ash up. So I wouldn't worry to much about Kim she's tougher than Helen and Steven can't hurt her, but I fear for the emotional health of the hordes of silly women who will throw themselves at that big, sexist creep when he gets out.

Well said.

[Apenguin]

We now know that he was 'let down' last year in a relationship, not sure if the girl in question cheated or not but that was the impression given by his Mum on last nights main show, but...........

am I the only one who thinks he is a control freak?

The whole thing about telling Kim that she could go and pick up her stuff at her flat (that she shares with her b/f) but only if she goes with a member of Stevens family!! (Sopranos??) and that she can NOT speak to her b/f about this whole thing, but must wait until Steven comes out (he's so sure that he is gonna be in there longer than her) because he will NOT have her talking to the guy without him being there

Lets ignore the fact that this guy (Sasha, I think) has done f..k all wrong, and has had to suffer the humiliation of watching his bird on TV falling (not sure about that) for another guy, but now that other guy, is calling the shots about Sasha's realationship??

If you are gonna dump someone after a 3 year relationship (3 yrs according to Sasha, 2 according to Kim) then it is downright cruel to take along your new love interest to dump him, Im sure Sasha is not gonna thump her one!

Im not saying its not possible for Steven to fall for her in 5 weeks, he may have, but after 5 short weeks (in fact less, cause they didnt get together straight away, cause for the first two weeks he had his head firmly planted inside Paulines arse) he is now trying to control every aspect of her life!!

He is a typical controlling man, and its very creepy to watch

For him to tell Kimberley what she can and cannot do when she gets out of the house, should be a massive wake up call for her, I would never go anywhere near a guy who thought he could dictate to me about who I see, where I go, and what I do, he's even saying she can move in with his family while he's still in the house, wtf???

I think this is doomed to fail, as I think Kimberly is a lot less into this than he is, but even if she loves him, she should run a mile!

Once he started telling her what to do, I would have told him to do one!

Has anyone on here watch that TV Drama, "Murdered by my Boyfriend"........it all starts with this type of controlling behaviour, creepy!

Maya Angelou: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them, the first time"

Something not quite right with Steven he is coming across as a control freak & the fact he doesn't even try to hide what he is saying tells me he is used to acting in this manner! He is desperate not to be put up for eviction, he is desperate to be liked by all housemates, I believe watching what I have, That Steven rules the roust in that house & that includes Helen He is very manipulative..I noticed last night when he said, You have made me do this, you made me fall in love with you, He Gives me the creeps!

[lily.]

His behaviour is rather disturbing.

It wouldn't matter if he looked like Ryan Gosling, I would run a mile in the other direction from a guy who behaved that way.

[Achilles]

He is the type who will slap a woman during a row and then put his hands over his mouth and say "I'm sorry, I have never done that before, I would never do that, I don't know what happened, you can ask my mother, my father, my brother, my sister, my gran, my grandad up in heaven, they will all tell you the same, Steven is not like that" and continue for around 6 hours

[puzzled]

Here is Steven admitting to getting a married woman preggers and going through her handbag. Not creepy at all.:joker::joker::joker:

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x212v17_steven-goode-had-an-affair-with-a-married-woman_shortfilms?from_related=related.page.int.gra vity-only.a8039fa4bba4be94dab800c1ee6fede2140492152

OMG, he has to be the neediest, dumbest, most idiotic male creature on the planet! Something bent about his latest "love," too. Where's the barf bucket? :yuk:

[Northern Monkey]

I would'nt take any of it too serious with them two tbh.They're fame *****s.

[erinp5]

More from Stevens girlfriend

http://bigbrotherxtra.co.uk/news/?p=2161

[KADENACY]

More from Stevens girlfriend

http://bigbrotherxtra.co.uk/news/?p=2161

Kimberly Kisselovich Sasha Freemind Steven Goode OPEN IT - oh and Michelle Liddiard

Tonight's Big Brother UK 15 showed Steven asking Kimberly if she would
marry him one day - or words to that effect. She said "yes",but rolled her eyes in doing so! Judy James says that Kimberly Kisselovich is not in love with Steven Goode. Kimberly is a lying,ruthless,money-grabbing bitch of
a Playboy model businesswoman who is just using Steven for all she can get
in the showmance department,then she'll probably return to her boyfriend
of three years,Sasha Freemind - that's probably another one of her lies:She said it was two years,but may be she said that instead of three years to try and make their relationship sound less serious! Kimberly probably also invented her so-called "Summer Break" for the same reason.
As for Steven and his girlfriend,Michelle Liddiard,he had an affair with an American woman last year while he was with Michelle Liddiard.And how sincere is he towards Kimberly?,because he could be using her for a lucrative showmance.......

KADENACY

[Achilles]

Didn't Steven's mum say something like "she came round to see the other boys too"? Or was I watching an episode of League of Gentlemen and got confused?

[Robodog]

Totally agree with OP

He is a narcissist - in love with his own reflection

He talks of being in love with Kim but there is no vibe, no joy, no feeling of love between them whatsoever - it's sooo obvious

He is treating her like a blank cinema screen and he projecting his own film onto the screen and falling in love with that ! It's all about HIS projection - not who she actually is in reality!

Really looking forward to him coming out to boos

[CaudleHalbard]

Steven is in love with himself. He's projecting that love onto Kimbot.

PS: Can I be BB psychologist? :D

[Achilles]

Steven is in love with himself. He's projecting that love onto Kimbot.

PS: Can I be BB psychologist? :D

No because of your lazy use of "Kimbot" :tongue:

[KADENACY]

Didn't Steven's mum say something like "she came round to see the other boys too"? Or was I watching an episode of League of Gentlemen and got confused?

Kimberly Kisselovich Sasha Freemind Steven Goode Open It - oh and Michelle Liddiard

Yes.Steven's mother did say that Steven's girlfriend,Michelle Liddiard ,visited Steven's family frequently. But the relationship between Michelle Liddiard and Steven Goode is apparently far more serious than his mother made it out to be,a case of his
mother glossing over things in order to save Steven's face.......

KADENACY

[Robodog]

Steven is in love with himself. He's projecting that love onto Kimbot.

PS: Can I be BB psychologist? :D

Only if you let me write your opinions for you like i did in the post above yours

[Rob!]

Steven is completely ridiculous. I don't understand how you can talk about marriage and moving into together and throw orders around about not sorting stuff out with her "ex" or whatever he is...when they've known each other 5 weeks. Kimberley is best off away from him completely and if Steven were to leave she'd be ten times more interesting I think. He's suffocating her. Another example of a showmance completely ruining a housemate :bored:

[Rob!]

Controlling her like a ventriloquist dummy. :hehe: Where does he put his hand?

I think we have seen that enough to know exactly where his hand goes :smug:

[Lstan]

We now know that he was 'let down' last year in a relationship, not sure if the girl in question cheated or not but that was the impression given by his Mum on last nights main show, but...........

am I the only one who thinks he is a control freak?


nope, i said the same thing on another post totally creeped out about how he talks to others in the house too

[Daffodil]

I guess The Family Business is relying on Steven's future publicity dosh to hold the firm up. If he was really dating that girl, the family need to be ashamed, especially the mother.

[Vanessa]

he has a slight touch of norman bates on him. :joker:

[KADENACY]

Kimberly Kisselovich Sasha Freemind Steven Goode Open It - oh and Michelle Liddiard

Yes.Steven's mother did say that Steven's girlfriend,Michelle Liddiard ,visited Steven's family frequently. But the relationship between Michelle Liddiard and Steven Goode is apparently far more serious than his mother made it out to be,a case of his mother glossing over things in order to save Steven's face.......

KADENACY
Kimberly Kisselovich Steven Goode Sasha Freemind Michelle Liddiard Open It

This article and Big Brother's Bit On The Side video film:-
http://bigbrotherxtra.co.uk/news/?p=2142

confirms what I said above:Steven Goode's mother was lying.......or as I put
it:glossing things over about Steven's girlfriend,Michelle Liddiard.
Steven Goode's girlfriend,Michelle Liddiard,
Michelle Liddiard,Steven Goode's girlfriend.Big Brother UK 15 2014:-
http://i1153.photobucket.com/albums/p518/FODEN-XESS/PEOPLE/BIGBROTHERMichelleLiddiardStevenGoodesestrangedgir lfriendBigBrotherUK152014_zps1ec90df9.jpg (http://s1153.photobucket.com/user/FODEN-XESS/media/PEOPLE/BIGBROTHERMichelleLiddiardStevenGoodesestrangedgir lfriendBigBrotherUK152014_zps1ec90df9.jpg.html)

KADENACY

[Djgmkuk]

I feel so sorry for Kimberly....Steven is a complete control freak and has some serious problems he should sort out if he wants to have any sort of meaningful relationship in the future.

I can see Kim is starting to realise what he is like and my money is she will run a mile from him first chance she gets when leaving bb house.

Can no one else see that guy is a total bully, and complete nutcase

RUN KIM...as fast as feet can go...he is not a keeper:dog::dog::dog::nono: