View Full Version : Even if Chris does fancy Ashleigh that does not make him creepy
Yoshi888
31-07-2014, 10:17 PM
She is a very hot girl so it would be more creepy to me if he did NOT fancy Ashleigh as that would be weird .
Amy Jade
31-07-2014, 10:22 PM
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joeysteele
31-07-2014, 10:23 PM
I agree actually that he isn't creepy,I have no problem either with his friendship with Ashleigh,they both seem content as friends and that has nothing to do with anyone.
I for instance am 22 and I have female friends who are in their 40s and indeed into and well over their 50s too,I call them friends on an equal status with friends more my own age and I would never consider that or them creepy at all.
So yes, I agree Chris shouldn't be thought of as creepy,Ashleigh is 18 and even if it were more than friendship, which obvously it isn't, they are infact both adults anyway.
I don't get this 'issue' with age, to me age is just a number, meaningless,it is the people that matter not the ages of them.
VanessaFeltz.
31-07-2014, 10:23 PM
I agree actually that he isn't creepy,I have no problem either with his friendship with Ashleigh,they both seem content as friends and that has nothing to do with anyone.
I for instance am 22 and I have female friends who are in their 40s and indeed into and well over their 50s too,I call them friends on an equal status with friends more my own age and I would never consider that or them creepy at all.
So yes, I agree Chris shouldn't be thought opf as creepy,Ashleigh is 18 and even of it were more than friendship, which obvously it isn't, they are infact both adults anyway.
I don't get this 'issue' with age, to me age is just a number, meaningless,it is the people that matter not the ages of them.
This.
LukeB
31-07-2014, 10:26 PM
its a silly nickname
rubymoo
31-07-2014, 10:27 PM
I don't find Chris creepy, i think he's just a nice guy who's taken a shine to her, he doesn't stand a chance with her as she's got a boyfriend, and even if he does fancy her, why not she's an attractive girl!
Jordan.
31-07-2014, 10:27 PM
The Ashleigh thing isn't the only thing that makes him creepy, he just is in general.
waterhog
31-07-2014, 10:27 PM
i like this post - not seen tonights show yet but i have faith in chris.
Brother Leon
31-07-2014, 10:30 PM
His treatment of Pav regarding Ashleigh and his general need to be the White Knight when it isn't needed is what makes him creepy. Not the fact he fancies her.
rubymoo
31-07-2014, 10:32 PM
His treatment of Pav regarding Ashleigh and his general need to be the White Knight when it isn't needed is what makes him creepy. Not the fact he fancies her.
He was just warning Pav off....if he was a dog he'd have pee'd around her:hehe:
mrflibble
31-07-2014, 10:34 PM
Nothing wrong with fancying Ashleigh or any other adult. Really don't know what the concern is. He's awkward, but not creepy.
Lstan
31-07-2014, 10:37 PM
His treatment of Pav regarding Ashleigh and his general need to be the White Knight when it isn't needed is what makes him creepy. Not the fact he fancies her.
this was kinda what i was about to say-people only started calling him creepy when he did this. i wonder if he would still be doing it if not for the public power task.
BigBrotherfan4ever
31-07-2014, 10:41 PM
I agree actually that he isn't creepy,I have no problem either with his friendship with Ashleigh,they both seem content as friends and that has nothing to do with anyone.
I for instance am 22 and I have female friends who are in their 40s and indeed into and well over their 50s too,I call them friends on an equal status with friends more my own age and I would never consider that or them creepy at all.
So yes, I agree Chris shouldn't be thought of as creepy,Ashleigh is 18 and even if it were more than friendship, which obvously it isn't, they are infact both adults anyway.
I don't get this 'issue' with age, to me age is just a number, meaningless,it is the people that matter not the ages of them.
Your dead right joey
rubymoo
31-07-2014, 10:41 PM
this was kinda what i was about to say-people only started calling him creepy when he did this. i wonder if he would still be doing it if not for the public power task.
He's been called creepy from the beginning, but i just see him as socially awkward:spin:
Waynoo
31-07-2014, 10:51 PM
he's a creep end of
jscoo47
31-07-2014, 11:00 PM
The fact is that Ashleigh has never felt uncomfortable around Chris and never felt that he was creepy in any wary. If she has no problem with it why is everybody getting so worked up. When Danielle went she needed a friend and gravitated towards Chris. I think she values his friendship.
Yoshi888
31-07-2014, 11:05 PM
The fact is that Ashleigh has never felt uncomfortable around Chris and never felt that he was creepy in any wary. If she has no problem with it why is everybody getting so worked up. When Danielle went she needed a friend and gravitated towards Chris. I think she values his friendship.
Simple people see their own reflection and it's a creepy one when they see chris and Ashleigh
LukeB
31-07-2014, 11:05 PM
ashleigh isnt callin him creepy so he isnt creepy
Oh!...is it because of the way that he fancies the China-Doll that he's been called 'Creepy-Chris'? :shocked: ....I thought that it was because of the way he tries to creep up all of the other housemate's arses!...SILLY ME! :creep:
the age is not an issue, it's the way that he has acted on his attraction too ashleigh which has come across as creepy
Jamie585
31-07-2014, 11:27 PM
He saved himself a little tonight for me! I think we just needed clarification from him that he didn't look at her in a sexual way, although his previous actions did seem very creepy to many.. I'm glad he has reigned it in!!
The fact is that Ashleigh has never felt uncomfortable around Chris and never felt that he was creepy in any wary. If she has no problem with it why is everybody getting so worked up. When Danielle went she needed a friend and gravitated towards Chris. I think she values his friendship.
That's a difficult one. Creepy is not the right description for his behaviour. Awkward is probably more accurate, and when its downgraded to that then its not such a big deal.
Its not a crime to have attractive female friends of whatever age. However, it is more unusual to constantly hug those friends or follow them around like a lost puppy dog, which is largely down to the artificial environment created in the house. So people looking at that from the outside will see it as a bit weird = creepy
Johnnyuk123
31-07-2014, 11:36 PM
The Ashleigh thing isn't the only thing that makes him creepy, he just is in general.
Your a big Ashleigh fan and her best mate is Chris so i don't understand the hate towards Chris knowing Ashleigh loves her friend. Explain?
Johnnyuk123
31-07-2014, 11:38 PM
That's a difficult one. Creepy is not the right description for his behaviour. Awkward is probably more accurate, and when its downgraded to that then its not such a big deal.
Its not a crime to have attractive female friends of whatever age. However, it is more unusual to constantly hug those friends or follow them around like a lost puppy dog, which is largely down to the artificial environment created in the house. So people looking at that from the outside will see it as a bit weird = creepy
The only time it became creepy was when Danielle lied to them. simples.:joker:
Bedouin
01-08-2014, 12:43 AM
100%
"Creepy" is just a meaningless slur with no content anyway.
HBB1508
01-08-2014, 08:23 AM
I don't find Chris creepy at all and I'm glad he explained himself last night. People judging him by their own sorry standards is just wrong imo.
Northern Monkey
01-08-2014, 08:40 AM
I agree actually that he isn't creepy,I have no problem either with his friendship with Ashleigh,they both seem content as friends and that has nothing to do with anyone.
I for instance am 22 and I have female friends who are in their 40s and indeed into and well over their 50s too,I call them friends on an equal status with friends more my own age and I would never consider that or them creepy at all.
So yes, I agree Chris shouldn't be thought of as creepy,Ashleigh is 18 and even if it were more than friendship, which obvously it isn't, they are infact both adults anyway.
I don't get this 'issue' with age, to me age is just a number, meaningless,it is the people that matter not the ages of them.yeah agree with this.I think the more "creepy" thing was the posessiveness and trying to ward Pav off.None of his business.
Jords
01-08-2014, 08:42 AM
I dont find the fact he fancies Ashleigh (which he obviously does) creepy but the constant concern and attention he gives to Pav and his 'stares' is. I dont mind Chris but its been a bad week pal.
duclos
01-08-2014, 08:58 AM
He's not creepy. He's just a bit awkward. Remember he said he's always been an outsider and I feel the same way. I would be a bit awkward if I was in the house and most definitely not creepy.
I noticed in that recent video uploaded where Chris discusses age with Ashleigh, when he said i want to be friends with you forever, she responded with single word yes answers over and over again .....doesn't strike me as a friendship at all
Tarryn
01-08-2014, 11:49 AM
This really annoys me.
So when a person get's to 30 they should stop fancying anyone younger than them ?.
I don't see Ashleigh complaining about the attention she receives.
Chris is her friend. The people who say it's creepy have their own issues.
It's no other persons business who they fancy. Get a life.
For me, the Chris/Ashleigh friendship is the only true one in there.
HBB1508
01-08-2014, 11:58 AM
This really annoys me.
So when a person get's to 30 they should stop fancying anyone younger than them ?.
I don't see Ashleigh complaining about the attention she receives.
Chris is her friend. The people who say it's creepy have their own issues.
It's no other persons business who they fancy. Get a life.
For me, the Chris/Ashleigh friendship is the only true one in there.
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I don't think it's anything to do with fancying Ashleigh -
It may be to do with his awkwardness.
"Creepy" may be an empty term - hard to objectify - but it is more like an instinctive kind of reaction - rightly or wrongly.
I found Chris difficult to watch when he was talking to Helen and the whole "tears" thing too - as well as the weird interaction with Pav. Maybe it is just because he comes across as a bit socially inept, I'm not sure, but it can be really uncomfortable to watch his interactions at times.
Tarryn
01-08-2014, 12:16 PM
I don't think it's anything to do with fancying Ashleigh -
It may be to do with his awkwardness.
"Creepy" may be an empty term - hard to objectify - but it is more like an instinctive kind of reaction - rightly or wrongly.
I found Chris difficult to watch when he was talking to Helen and the whole "tears" thing too - as well as the weird interaction with Pav. Maybe it is just because he comes across as a bit socially inept, I'm not sure, but it can be really uncomfortable to watch his interactions at times.
I get that sometimes he is awkward & I really wish he did not seek Helen's approval so much but being awkward is not his fault, it's just who he is.
Calling him creepy is really nasty. Some people find it difficult to express their emotions.
I agree "creepy" is a very unpleasant term. I also admit that he has made my "skin crawl" in a number of occasions and I do associate "creepiness" with that - but I'm not saying there's anything right about it - just the way I reacted on occasions - so I have understood where people have come from when they say it.
It could be just that his kind of awkwardness does better in real life interaction and doesn't travel well down the tv lens.
Edited out - forum lag caused a double post :P
jscoo47
01-08-2014, 12:46 PM
I don't think it's anything to do with fancying Ashleigh -
It may be to do with his awkwardness.
"Creepy" may be an empty term - hard to objectify - but it is more like an instinctive kind of reaction - rightly or wrongly.
I found Chris difficult to watch when he was talking to Helen and the whole "tears" thing too - as well as the weird interaction with Pav. Maybe it is just because he comes across as a bit socially inept, I'm not sure, but it can be really uncomfortable to watch his interactions at times.
I believe that Chris feels intimidated by Helen. If I was in the house I might well have done the same as Chris, ie trying to form some kind of bond to make her bitching stop. Like many other I feel he is awkward in social situations, but nobody betters him in the diary room, he is always spot on
rionablue
01-08-2014, 12:48 PM
His treatment of Pav regarding Ashleigh and his general need to be the White Knight when it isn't needed is what makes him creepy. Not the fact he fancies her.
Spot on Brother Leon. He is beginning to make my skin crawl now. I am looking at him in a whole different light and I used to really like him
Jules2
01-08-2014, 02:11 PM
I agree actually that he isn't creepy,I have no problem either with his friendship with Ashleigh,they both seem content as friends and that has nothing to do with anyone.
I for instance am 22 and I have female friends who are in their 40s and indeed into and well over their 50s too,I call them friends on an equal status with friends more my own age and I would never consider that or them creepy at all.
So yes, I agree Chris shouldn't be thought of as creepy,Ashleigh is 18 and even if it were more than friendship, which obvously it isn't, they are infact both adults anyway.
I don't get this 'issue' with age, to me age is just a number, meaningless,it is the people that matter not the ages of them.
Brilliant post......
Jules2
01-08-2014, 02:17 PM
He was just warning Pav off....if he was a dog he'd have pee'd around her:hehe:
Bearing in mind how the three past HMs had blackened Pav's name and how the public had reacted to Pav on eviction nights, Chris was looking out for him. As he said it was told in private (they do forget the cameras lol). Pav was always seeking confirmation as to why and what happened at that task. Chris was honest with him whereas Mark shied away from the truth. Chris has always been honest so we cannot knock him when Pav sought the truth. What is the point of asking if one is told lies?
Nothing creepy about Chris...
Jules2
01-08-2014, 02:25 PM
this was kinda what i was about to say-people only started calling him creepy when he did this. i wonder if he would still be doing it if not for the public power task.
I think you will find that the name was given to him on one instance in the house. Cant remember by whom. When the others were talking "filth" etc. he would creep away from the situation and sit on his own or with Ashleigh and Danielle. They to did not like the chat. Fair dos, let those who want to be sordid do so but not everyone has to listen so he had the right to do so.
It is narrowminded people who have put the age factor into play, now if a good looking bloke like Ash and of the same age were in the same situation, would he have been criticised? No one would have thought anything of it.
Chris gave a good talk in the DR directed at the public, he talked sense and a lot of people should take note. As I have said it was Ashleigh who instigated the friendship further, are we questioning her motives? No need to she needed support and friendship in, at that time, a negative house.
Jules2
01-08-2014, 02:28 PM
he's a creep end of
Oh to be so wise.........end of!!!
Kazanne
01-08-2014, 02:31 PM
I like Chris ,the only thing I didn't like was his warning to Pav,the guy must have felt a tad akward,Ashleigh is not his property,she doesn't need a baby sitter,and I'm sure she is quite capable of telling Pav herself,she hasn't a problem with it,so Chris should just leave it alone.
Denver
01-08-2014, 03:53 PM
It is when your telling men not to look at her
Achilles
01-08-2014, 03:57 PM
It is when your telling men not to look at her
Not if you are under the impression they are perving because you have been fed that information from ex housemates. Notice how BB completely edited out the Danielle reference TWICE from the main highlights show? Did you notice that?
Denver
01-08-2014, 03:59 PM
Not if you are under the impression they are perving because you have been fed that information from ex housemates. Notice how BB completely edited out the Danielle reference TWICE from the main highlights show? Did you notice that?
Dannielle admitted she made it up because she was bitter at the end of the day he had no right to confront pav
Achilles
01-08-2014, 04:04 PM
Dannielle admitted she made it up because she was bitter at the end of the day he had no right to confront pav
Ashleigh is Chris' friend. He loves her as a friend, thinks the world of her as he has stated several times. Danielle said to Ashleigh, Chris and Mark that Pav was infatuated with Ashleigh and always staring. That part of the conversation was edited out of the main highlights show. It was edited out AGAIN on the most recent main highlights show. A casual viewer has no idea that Danielle said those comments to the Power Alliance.
Because of the heavy boos, Chris believe that what the ex housemates said was true, so he was being protective of his friend.
IF Pav WAS a perv, would Chris be in the wrong for looking out for Ashleigh, his FRIEND?
He is only wrong because he was given misinformation from bitter ex housemates and a bigot crowd mislead him
Denver
01-08-2014, 04:08 PM
Ashleigh is Chris' friend. He loves her as a friend, thinks the world of her as he has stated several times. Danielle said to Ashleigh, Chris and Mark that Pav was infatuated with Ashleigh and always staring. That part of the conversation was edited out of the main highlights show. It was edited out AGAIN on the most recent main highlights show. A casual viewer has no idea that Danielle said those comments to the Power Alliance.
Because of the heavy boos, Chris believe that what the ex housemates said was true, so he was being protective of his friend.
IF Pav WAS a perv, would Chris be in the wrong for looking out for Ashleigh, his FRIEND?
He is only wrong because he was given misinformation from bitter ex housemates and a bigot crowd mislead him
Even ashliegh boyfreind said he should not of said anything
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