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daniel-lewis-1985
05-08-2014, 08:13 PM
I see posts from alot members on here reffering to the housemates as sluts, evil, making personal insults about their family and accusations even the mi5would laugh at.

So im asking to both onlookers and the people making the comments....Do you think its right to call families media *****s or the housemates these names when they haven't displayed behaviour of the true meaning of the words posted?

Yeah it's all well and good to debate but calling the housemates *****, perverts and acting as if you know everything about them including their familys is a bit far and with no live feed makes the people doing so look foolish and completely under the influence of a manipulated edit.

Its very hard for any of us to have an actual plausible or credible discussion this year with no live feed whatsoever I don't think any of us can really comment on anything other than the editing of the show which I think should be the main focus now as its so obvious when comparing youtube vids to the highlights that what you see is NOT what you get.

Marsh.
05-08-2014, 08:16 PM
I agree.

Except Steven's family are the definition of media *****s.

daniel-lewis-1985
05-08-2014, 08:16 PM
I agree.

Except Steven's family are the definition of media *****s.

Oh yeah 100% on that one actually lol.

Samm
05-08-2014, 08:17 PM
I'm not surprised it happens every on season

Jake.
05-08-2014, 08:18 PM
It's making me not want to come into this section.. Those making the same comments are the same people who call out twitter trolls for being the scum of the earth..

A few comments about Ashleigh's skin made me laugh.. Would people make fun of their sons/daughters acne?

waterhog
05-08-2014, 08:21 PM
there is no need for such disrespect. everything can be said but choice of words is vital.

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:28 PM
most of the ridiculous insults come from the older members

:clap1: hating on a 18 year old:hehe:

bots
05-08-2014, 08:29 PM
whats ironic is that some of the descriptions i've seen laid on the hm's would better describe the poster themselves

Tarryn
05-08-2014, 08:29 PM
I'll admit to using the word Bitch, but as for the others, sometimes people get far too personal.
It's sad but almost every forum I go onto no matter what the subject there a nasty people.

MrWong
05-08-2014, 08:30 PM
I'm embarrassed for them tbh.

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:33 PM
the main one is 'spots' i find that so horrid! espically when they said this about toya! she has ache! fgs

people are going over board with ashleigh hate. i mean yes she will have haters but they always talk about her and when she bitches its a big story but when we see helen,ash,christopher,mark,chris bitching no one makes a fuss. i just proved my point that everyone bitches its 2014 and big brother you expect to see people talking about people you not going to get along with each other are you

MrWong
05-08-2014, 08:33 PM
I'll admit to using the word Bitch, but as for the others, sometimes people get far too personal.
It's sad but almost every forum I go onto no matter what the subject there a nasty people.

I think it's ok to call someone out for being a bitch.

It's the petty comments about people's appearance that's the most pathetic.

billy123
05-08-2014, 08:33 PM
:clap1: hating on a 18 year old:hehe:You are applauding a comment that has been deleted for baiting other forum users :crazy:

chuff me dizzy
05-08-2014, 08:35 PM
:clap1: hating on a 18 year old:hehe:

"Hating on " :conf::conf:

Ruffle
05-08-2014, 08:40 PM
Totaly agree believe me it is ten time worse on digital spy I had to come of the part about what thy say being more a reflexion on the poster the edit plays a big part in how we see the housemates we realy do need some live feed to get some idea how housemates interact but we don't and it is now staged for entertainment only

Jordan.
05-08-2014, 08:42 PM
:clap1: hating on a 18 year old:hehe:

glad you quoted me, a mod tried to remove the truth

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:42 PM
Totaly agree believe me it is ten time worse on digital spy I had to come of the part about what thy say being more a reflexion on the poster the edit plays a big part in how we see the housemates we realy do need some live feed to get some idea how housemates interact but we don't and it is now staged for entertainment only

they should learn if they aint got anything nice to say dont say it at all :p personal comments are vile

Ramsay
05-08-2014, 08:43 PM
Yeah its pretty crazy to see people take the show so serious. pretty sad like.

Jordan.
05-08-2014, 08:43 PM
You are applauding a comment that has been deleted for baiting other forum users :crazy:

it wouldn't be baiting if it wasn't true

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:45 PM
glad you quoted me, a mod tried to remove the truth

more reason to vote ashleigh to win tbh to show everyone who is the boss

daniel-lewis-1985
05-08-2014, 08:46 PM
The comment Helen had to read about herself from a viewer was a classic example.

"Helen is everything that's wrong with the world" hahaha what a saddo.

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:46 PM
i have said scum about a housemate but i was explaining all bullies are scum and its my opinion because its true, im strongly against it

rubymoo
05-08-2014, 08:46 PM
Some people forget it's a show, they get too wrapped up in it and take it all way too personally.

Name callings always a no no and the families and friends are irrelevant to the HM's antics!

billy123
05-08-2014, 08:47 PM
it wouldn't be baiting if it wasn't trueDont be so mad :joker:

Marsh.
05-08-2014, 08:49 PM
The comment Helen had to read about herself from a viewer was a classic example.

"Helen is everything that's wrong with the world" hahaha what a saddo.

Yeah, I thought that was a bit harsh. :hehe:

Marsh.
05-08-2014, 08:49 PM
it wouldn't be baiting if it wasn't true

:conf: Uh, yes it would be baiting if it's not true. You used a double negative. :joker:

Ruffle
05-08-2014, 08:50 PM
they should learn if they aint got anything nice to say dont say it at all :p personal comments are vile

Spot on thy are it's nice to be on a forum that addresses the problem

Jordan.
05-08-2014, 08:51 PM
Dont be so mad :joker:

you was the one crying that someone applauded the comment flower

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:52 PM
you was the one crying that someone applauded the comment flower

and im not sorry :hehe: i only applaud the truth and nothing but the truth

Marsh.
05-08-2014, 08:53 PM
So a thread calling out the attacking of housemates has turned into attacking the forum members.

Double standards much? :joker:

Kazanne
05-08-2014, 08:53 PM
I see posts from alot members on here reffering to the housemates as sluts, evil, making personal insults about their family and accusations even the mi5would laugh at.

So im asking to both onlookers and the people making the comments....Do you think its right to call families media *****s or the housemates these names when they haven't displayed behaviour of the true meaning of the words posted?

Yeah it's all well and good to debate but calling the housemates *****, perverts and acting as if you know everything about them including their familys is a bit far and with no live feed makes the people doing so look foolish and completely under the influence of a manipulated edit.

Its very hard for any of us to have an actual plausible or credible discussion this year with no live feed whatsoever I don't think any of us can really comment on anything other than the editing of the show which I think should be the main focus now as its so obvious when comparing youtube vids to the highlights that what you see is NOT what you get.

Some is banter,I do it myself ,but some go way over the top,but all in all,its a game ,people get passionate about it,hell even dream about it ,they will all be forgotten in a few weeks.

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:53 PM
Spot on thy are it's nice to be on a forum that addresses the problem

there loads of problems on here

1.no one makes a fuss on other people bitching but just ashleigh, big brother is a show where everyone mainly talks about people.
2.personal comments

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:54 PM
Some is banter,I do it myself ,but some go way over the top,but all in all,its a game ,people get passionate about it,hell even dream about it ,they will all be forgotten in a few weeks.

:hehe: we argue but i dont dislike you btw

billy123
05-08-2014, 08:54 PM
you was the one crying that someone applauded the comment flower
Why are you getting all bent out of shape about it :conf: I didnt delete your hateful comment it must have been deemed as out of order to be deleted i think you need to calm down a bit hun.

sampvt
05-08-2014, 08:55 PM
I agree its disgusting to post stuff with no evidence, but there again some comments are based on opinions that are driven over the top by other posts that solicit nasty retorts due to the nature of the comments made against them.

I mean there are even people on this site that post things about dreams and being spunked on in a shower, hardly something most of us want to read eh. Now there is a debate we all need to address.

LukeB
05-08-2014, 08:57 PM
I agree its disgusting to post stuff with no evidence, but there again some comments are based on opinions that are driven over the top by other posts that solicit nasty retorts due to the nature of the comments made against them.

I mean there are even people on this site that post things about dreams and being spunked on in a shower, hardly something most of us want to read eh. Now there is a debate we all need to address.

sorry you say nasty stuff to ashleigh we all do it tbh

but the only word im not sorry about is scum because im against bullying and i think there scums

chuff me dizzy
05-08-2014, 08:57 PM
there loads of problems on here

1.no one makes a fuss on other people bitching but just ashleigh, big brother is a show where everyone mainly talks about people.
2.personal comments

A word in your shell-like flower this show is not all about Ashleigh ,some of us don't giving a flying one about her

Samm
05-08-2014, 08:58 PM
A word in your shell-like flower this show is not all about Ashleigh ,some of us don't giving a flying one about her

Don't comment in the threads about her if you don't care then..

reece(:
05-08-2014, 08:58 PM
This section has just become down right depressing recently, I don't visit as much now in comparison to the start of the series.

daniel-lewis-1985
05-08-2014, 08:59 PM
I agree its disgusting to post stuff with no evidence, but there again some comments are based on opinions that are driven over the top by other posts that solicit nasty retorts due to the nature of the comments made against them.

I mean there are even people on this site that post things about dreams and being spunked on in a shower, hardly something most of us want to read eh. Now there is a debate we all need to address.

Stop baiting and bringing hate into the thread.

That thread where the comment was made was closed and has nothing to do with this.

This post is just a personal attack at a forum member so please can you stick to the topic and not turn this thread into a petty squabbling extravaganza.

Thanks

LukeB
05-08-2014, 09:01 PM
A word in your shell-like flower this show is not all about Ashleigh ,some of us don't giving a flying one about her

people make threads about her making nasty comments and personal comments
this bitching has got to stop its big brother, they all talk about each other in every series luke a talked about the insiders alot. its getting silly now its 2014 most people do it

wormsinfested
05-08-2014, 09:01 PM
A few of them are bitches & *****s though:joker:

Marsh.
05-08-2014, 09:02 PM
Don't comment in the threads about her if you don't care then..

This is a forum about Big Brother. BB will therefore be discussed.

Jordan.
05-08-2014, 09:04 PM
Why are you getting all bent out of shape about it :conf: I didnt delete your hateful comment it must have been deemed as out of order to be deleted i think you need to calm down a bit hun.

was it out of order? I guess the truth does hurt :worry:

Marsh.
05-08-2014, 09:04 PM
Jordan baiting the elderly members. :nono:

Samm
05-08-2014, 09:05 PM
This is a forum about Big Brother. BB will therefore be discussed.

Chuff was talking about Ashleigh and I said if you don't care about her don't comment in her threads :hello:

billy123
05-08-2014, 09:08 PM
was it out of order? I guess the truth does hurt :worry:You aren't making sense petal.
Now calm down and go and watch BB.
Bye.

Jordan.
05-08-2014, 09:09 PM
I already am, the young & phresh members can multi task

Marsh.
05-08-2014, 09:13 PM
Chuff was talking about Ashleigh and I said if you don't care about her don't comment in her threads :hello:

No matter how you word it, she can comment where she likes.

Lex
05-08-2014, 09:16 PM
:clap1: hating on a 18 year old:hehe:

Luke, I feel sad that you have reached an all time low with that comment! :nono:

...And just serves to show how very little you understand the difference between 'hating someone' and 'not being enamoured' with them!
I believe that i'm the oldest person on the forum, and have crossed swords with you about your chosen favourite 'Ashleigh' on many occassions, so naturally assume that i'm included in that skit!...and defy you to point out any truly hateful posts i've ever made toward any house mate!...And I don't mean the ones where I disagree that she is a good house mate, or I point out her faults...such as being a Miserable little two faced spoilt brat!!...And if that translates to "me hating the girl" in your mind...then I suggest that , that is rather a failing in your ability to discern intent and understand what you are reading!

...As for the name calling ...Yep I do call Ashleigh "China-Doll"...and unashamedly so , I will carry on doing so!!....I never said that Bianca was a slut...[though I cannot think of a better description of her!] ...but I would not use that term out of decency , and so I referred to her as 'A Classy Lady'! ...Helen as Gobby....Mark and Winston as Plastic....Danielle as Nutty...Ash as Prettyboy...Chris as Arse-licker...Christopher as Lovely-Lad!...And that's about it really!

...Oh!...I cant be bothered...we're through!!!! :cloud:

VanessaFeltz.
05-08-2014, 09:22 PM
If i was helen i would laugh so much at those comments :D.

I called mark bitch and attention *****. Are those truths? yes imo. Im not attacking his family or his real life personality.

But i see some people over internet attacking ashleigh's age. Not to judge or attack but when someone attacks people based on their age, they look like they have age issues themselves

rionablue
05-08-2014, 09:26 PM
I think there is a lot of truth in your post Daniel. I feel that this is the worst year in the forums for using of absolute vile language describing housemates. I admit to using bitch but words of a sexual nature are simply awful and I am glad that some forum members were banned for their explicitly horrible sexual comments specially about Kim but in general about many of the women. We all get passionate but I feel sick sometimes reading some of the comments.

I dislike Ashleigh but I would never call her anything that totally iniolates her character. She is after all a person. I favoured Kim from the start and the lynch mob tore her apart with the slutty horrible comments specially after the 'so called fingering incident' I am not an older member I am reasonably young and I am very open minded but this year for some reason I really find some of the forum members comments really hard to read. So good post Daniel. its probably what a lot of us have felt up to now.

lime
05-08-2014, 09:29 PM
Totally agree daniel..this has IMO been the worse year for it on TIBB so generally stay clear of the forum

Jack_
05-08-2014, 09:41 PM
The worst for me is the truly nasty, OTT insults about the way housemates look and that goes for any of them regardless of whether I like them or not. There's just no need for it and I still don't understand why it's not against the rules, it's totally unnecessary and revolting to read. Whoever mentioned whether these people would like members of their family being insulted like that was right, how about you upload some pictures of yourself or your children and we'll pick them apart abuse the way you and them look?

Insecure people insulting people's appearances for no other reason than they're not intelligent enough to critique housemates without lowering themselves to such a disgusting level. It's sad and it's pathetic and I'm fed up of reading it, when is something going to be done about it?

Jake.
05-08-2014, 09:44 PM
The worst for me is the truly nasty, OTT insults about the way housemates look and that goes for any of them regardless of whether I like them or not. There's just no need for it and I still don't understand why it's not against the rules, it's totally unnecessary and revolting to read. Whoever mentioned whether these people would like members of their family being insulted like that was right, how about you upload some pictures of yourself or your children and we'll pick them apart abuse the way you and them look?

Insecure people insulting people's appearances for no other reason than they're not intelligent enough to critique housemates without lowering themselves to such a disgusting level. It's sad and it's pathetic and I'm fed up of reading it, when is something going to be done about it?

:worship:

LukeB
05-08-2014, 10:00 PM
Luke, I feel sad that you have reached an all time low with that comment! :nono:

...And just serves to show how very little you understand the difference between 'hating someone' and 'not being enamoured' with them!
I believe that i'm the oldest person on the forum, and have crossed swords with you about your chosen favourite 'Ashleigh' on many occassions, so naturally assume that i'm included in that skit!...and defy you to point out any truly hateful posts i've ever made toward any house mate!...And I don't mean the ones where I disagree that she is a good house mate, or I point out her faults...such as being a Miserable little two faced spoilt brat!!...And if that translates to "me hating the girl" in your mind...then I suggest that , that is rather a failing in your ability to discern intent and understand what you are reading!

...As for the name calling ...Yep I do call Ashleigh "China-Doll"...and unashamedly so , I will carry on doing so!!....I never said that Bianca was a slut...[though I cannot think of a better description of her!] ...but I would not use that term out of decency , and so I referred to her as 'A Classy Lady'! ...Helen as Gobby....Mark and Winston as Plastic....Danielle as Nutty...Ash as Prettyboy...Chris as Arse-licker...Christopher as Lovely-Lad!...And that's about it really!

...Oh!...I cant be bothered...we're through!!!! :cloud:

i was commenting on someones post didnt say it randomly sorry if it offended anyone but they way little few people go on and on about her it does come across you hate her

Jords
05-08-2014, 10:12 PM
Its just how it is people get mad at the HMs actions and get referred to as this, that and the other as would happen with people they know in real life when they piss them off. Its no biggie its just default human behaviour like swearing when things go wrong/pain is inflicted/stressed etc. Im sure nobody would go up to one of the HMs and bluntly call them 'scum'.

If I saw the likes of Helen or Steven I would politiely whispher to my mate "thats that twat from BB" and gladly ignore them.

sampvt
06-08-2014, 06:01 AM
most of the OTT posts that find themselves on here are in a direct response to a poster being slated or trashed by another poster rubbishing his or her views on a HM. This results in that poster getting all bent out of shape and slagging of the other posters fav HM. It escalates and becomes a tit for tat using HM's as a battering ram to fight a stupid cyber battle which usually ends up in one of the posters getting barred or infracted for no other reason than him or her trying to get back at another poster for trying to make them look stupid in print.

Way back when, I posted some really nasty things about Kimberly mainly because I felt she deserved it, but in retrospect, my post would not have been half as damming if a certain other poster had not continually called me out for talking rubbish. My posts got more volatile and in the end, we both made up but the damage was done. BTW that person owes me an apology as I have been proved right lol.

Some FM's get really defensive over a HM and when that HM is attacked, their anger is vented on the other FM's fav HM. The....I like Mary but John is a tosser, then becomes...well actually JOhn is a nice guy but that Mary is a slag and a *****, then becomes, yes but Mary is no where near as bad as John because he is a home wrecker and closet queen......and it goes on using the HM's to fight a battle that never should have began.

Sometimes it all comes down to the way some FM's project their views and believe me there are many on here that can use words and rhetoric in such a way that makes others feel inadequate and therefore very angry and their only out is to attack that FM's fav HM.

Marc
06-08-2014, 06:01 AM
Those sluts and *****s are all evil

sampvt
06-08-2014, 06:07 AM
Those sluts and *****s are all evil

Marc its quiet on here now so I will ask you this. I will edit it afterwards or you can delete it yourself, Why cant I access my messages to either read them or reply to them, this is all I get when I try to message one of my friends....

sampvt, you do not have permission to access this page. This could be due to one of several reasons:

1.Your user account may not have sufficient privileges to access this page. Are you trying to edit someone else's post, access administrative features or some other privileged system?
2.If you are trying to post, the administrator may have disabled your account, or it may be awaiting activation.

Can you please tell me how to fix it please. Its not fair that someone has disabled me deliberately or by mistake. Thanks.

Marc
06-08-2014, 06:13 AM
PM Josy to find out; because it sounds to me like a privileges thing

sampvt
06-08-2014, 06:17 AM
PM Josy to find out; because it sounds to me like a privileges thing

I cant PM her, in fact I cant pm anyone as all my privelges are revoked for no reason. This is the only way I can get a message to anyone.

Mick
06-08-2014, 06:21 AM
It really comes down to not what we say but the way that we say it.OTT rudeness posted about HMs there family or members on here by a very small minority just devalues the fun we share by participating here.

I tend to ignore them I know this can prove difficult on occasions but when those responsible receive no reaction they come to realise they are wasting there time and stop or take themselves elsewhere.

I notice the Mods are pro active and that's a positive.

Anyway many thanks to the vast majority of members who do not indulge in the above and help make this forum a good place to be.

Nedusa
06-08-2014, 08:00 AM
Like the show this forum is also pantomime so people use whatever language they want it's not against the rules.

Suggest you take a chill pill and calm down a bit.




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