View Full Version : Why is Ashleigh hated?
Achilles
10-08-2014, 01:58 AM
a) Because she "bitches" about Helen?
b) Because "she" bitches about Helen?
Brother Leon
10-08-2014, 02:02 AM
Off the top of my head, it may be
Because she's 95% of the time miserable?
Because she's abit of a twat?
Because she's a brat?
You've mentioned the reasons why she's popular in your OP ;)
kefln
10-08-2014, 02:03 AM
Young, pretty, keeps to herself, intelligent, doesn't get drunk and start fights, doesn't sit around talking about sex...all come to mind...
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 02:05 AM
Off the top of my head, it may be
Because she's 95% of the time miserable?
That just isn't true. But I have been 95% miserable watching Helen and co. this year, so I'm sympathetic anyway.
Because she's abit of a twat?
Run out of arguments already.
Because she's a brat?
Confirmed.
You've mentioned the reasons why she's popular in your OP ;)
Along with numerous other things that people refuse to see because she's a pretty young girl.
Achilles
10-08-2014, 02:09 AM
Because she's 95% of the time miserable?
95% of the 6% we see or you have live feed?
Do you think it's a coincidence that Ashleigh was unhappy at the start, then was much happier once the whole house were getting on better and has been unhappy for last few days since the divide has returned?
I don't understand why she would be hated for being unhappy living with such a nasty person such as Helen and her nasty gang?
rionablue
10-08-2014, 02:12 AM
Off the top of my head, it may be
Because she's 95% of the time miserable?
Because she's abit of a twat?
Because she's a brat?
You've mentioned the reasons why she's popular in your OP ;)
I totally agree:dance:
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 02:13 AM
I totally agree:dance:
Totally? Because it was such a well laid out case.
Brother Leon
10-08-2014, 02:13 AM
Let's not ignore the countless times Kim openly invited her to get involved with the rest, but was sneered at by Ashleigh and Danielle for actually daring to talk to them. The House split was down to her isolating herself and opting to just spend the first 5 weeks looking down at everyone else with Toya or Danielle up in the pod or the bedroom with Chris. Hell jumping in the pool was apparently some disgusting thing to do that resulted in her having one hell of a sour face. It's not hard to see why people may find her unlikable..you just have to have an open mind with her not being your fave HM. There are countless things to pick :laugh:
Jords
10-08-2014, 02:15 AM
I wasnt a fan of Ashleigh at the start because I thought she was a bit too miserable but then I understood her situation better. She was stuck in the house branded in the 'uncool' group which brought back memories of high school for her, the divide in the house was nasty and uncomfortable and so she wasnt in a good place in mind and naturally wasnt going to be bouncing off the walls. Over the series though weve seen her friendships with Danielle, Chris and Christopher flourish, weve seen her get more involved in the tasks and decisions BB put to the HMs and shes developed a lot since Week 1 and now is one of my favourites.
imo some people are hung up on her being 'miserable' at times and completely ignoring the situation. I wouldnt be very happy living amongst Helen, Pauline, Steven either.
She isn't hated. It's just that her few detractors on here are very... vocal...
Shaun
10-08-2014, 02:20 AM
She isn't in the grand scheme of things though. She still gets cheers, she's favourite to win :shrug:
I think some might just go against her because they want to support an underdog or someone that's been generally nice all season like Pav, Christopher or Winston were. Or they want to support the Helen camp because they love being contrary and see themselves in her open-mouthed bluntness.
But then tbh I think people only like her because she's picked up Chris' (or the public's) hatred of Helen/Steven/Ash and put it into the house rather than into the Diary Room. She's had weeks where she's narrowly escaped eviction for being a whiney bitch with Danielle & Toya all the time, but Matthew took the brunt for that instead.
And to be fair to Helen (and please don't make me type this often), inside that house there must be a calmer, more upfront attitude around Helen than there was amongst Toya/Ashleigh/Matthew's constant whispering. I think most HMs who've been evicted have said stuff along the lines of you always know where she stands... whereas Ashleigh's openly (thanks BB!) tried to play a game.
But if there're people who hate Ashleigh I imagine it's because she gets a strong presentation of "here is Ashleigh whining and bitching" in highlights. Not enough happy moments shown tbh.
kefln
10-08-2014, 02:24 AM
Most of the complaints against her are that she's a bitch, or that she's a brat.
These statements tend to ignore the far more aggressively bitch behaviour of another HM. As for being a brat, hell even Mark was more of a brat, how many foot stamping, storming off moments did he have? Remember him throwing a wobbly over having no hair straighteners once or twice?
Once those complaints are dealt with people start complaining about her being boring, in a house were Ash has existed. But you then have to ask, if she is so boring, why so many threads and posts about her?
So then people resort to making fun of her face, or her appearance...and at that point...:sleep: :joker:
Creggle
10-08-2014, 02:26 AM
Most of the complaints against her are that she's a bitch, or that she's a brat.
These statements tend to ignore the far more aggressively bitch behaviour of another HM. As for being a brat, hell even Mark was more of a brat, how many foot stamping, storming off moments did he have? Remember him throwing a wobbly over having no hair straighteners once or twice?
Once those complaints are dealt with people start complaining about her being boring, in a house were Ash has existed. But you then have to ask, if she is so boring, why so many threads and posts about her?
So then people resort to making fun of her face, or her appearance...and at that point...:sleep: :joker:
She has managed to create an amazing presence in and out of the house, for somebody who is so 'boring' eh.
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 02:34 AM
Let's not ignore the countless times Kim openly invited her to get involved with the rest, but was sneered at by Ashleigh and Danielle for actually daring to talk to them.
why would they get involved with people who spent their nights talking about fingerblasting women?
The House split was down to her isolating herself and opting to just spend the first 5 weeks looking down at everyone else with Toya or Danielle up in the pod or the bedroom with Chris.
Matthew, in his interview said that they just spoke about sex all the time. Who would want to be sat there talking to such imbeciles?
She's not hated anymore she's probably the fan favorite
Jords
10-08-2014, 02:37 AM
She's not hated anymore she's probably the fan favorite
Ashleigh is definitely the fan favourite. Id say Christopher is the casual viewer favourite.
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 02:44 AM
In short though... She's strong, young, clever and pretty.
Kizzy
10-08-2014, 02:54 AM
She isn't in the grand scheme of things though. She still gets cheers, she's favourite to win :shrug:
I think some might just go against her because they want to support an underdog or someone that's been generally nice all season like Pav, Christopher or Winston were. Or they want to support the Helen camp because they love being contrary and see themselves in her open-mouthed bluntness.
But then tbh I think people only like her because she's picked up Chris' (or the public's) hatred of Helen/Steven/Ash and put it into the house rather than into the Diary Room. She's had weeks where she's narrowly escaped eviction for being a whiney bitch with Danielle & Toya all the time, but Matthew took the brunt for that instead.
And to be fair to Helen (and please don't make me type this often), inside that house there must be a calmer, more upfront attitude around Helen than there was amongst Toya/Ashleigh/Matthew's constant whispering. I think most HMs who've been evicted have said stuff along the lines of you always know where she stands... whereas Ashleigh's openly (thanks BB!) tried to play a game.
But if there're people who hate Ashleigh I imagine it's because she gets a strong presentation of "here is Ashleigh whining and bitching" in highlights. Not enough happy moments shown tbh.
Is it so hard to believe that someone doesn't perceive helen the way that's the 'norm'?
Not because they wish to rebel against the grain of popular opinion or some vain mirroring?
Some actually 'go against' ashleigh as they can't see this happy girl, just a manipulative, self serving and rude young woman.
I don't think she's far from helen in her treatment of others but isn't as loyal to those she has around her.
I don't wish to be put in a box as a die hard helen supporter or an ashleigh hater as I'm neither, they are both as ruthless as each other and that's becoming more and more apparent.
booboomartin
10-08-2014, 02:55 AM
a) Because she "bitches" about Helen?
b) Because "she" bitches about Helen?
because she is a two faced bitch herself. beautiful face, ugly inside. swears like a trooper, pretends to be so sweet, but fails to keep the act up. she has to remember that the public see everything, not impressed. the only reason winston was evicted was because the ashleigh brigade saw him as a threat to their princess (choke). tactical voting by them got rid of what they saw as her main threat.:nono:
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 03:00 AM
because she is a two faced bitch herself. beautiful face, ugly inside. swears like a trooper, pretends to be so sweet, but fails to keep the act up.
She's never pretended to be sweet. People just think this because she's young and pretty.
she has to remember that the public see everything, not impressed.
Yes, we do. And she's odds on favourite to win.
the only reason winston was evicted was because the ashleigh brigade saw him as a threat to their princess (choke). tactical voting by them got rid of what they saw as her main threat.:nono:
So there's a lot of them then. :dance:
Achilles
10-08-2014, 03:01 AM
because she is a two faced bitch herself. beautiful face, ugly inside. swears like a trooper, pretends to be so sweet, but fails to keep the act up. she has to remember that the public see everything, not impressed. the only reason winston was evicted was because the ashleigh brigade saw him as a threat to their princess (choke). tactical voting by them got rid of what they saw as her main threat.:nono:
She is a real person and real people swear. She doesn't pretend to be sweet, she IS sweet. When you are trapped in a house with scum, you react. If she wins she will be giving to an animal charity. Nasty people don't give to charity. Nasty people like Helen and Winston who scoffed at giving £1k to charity. Winston was one of the nasty gang and deserved to be evicted. Him winning would be almost as bad as Helen winning.
mrflibble
10-08-2014, 03:19 AM
If people don't like her because she bitches, then they must dislike every Big Brother housemate ever :laugh: She doesn't pretend to not bitch, like others claim they do.
I also agree with Yaki da that people just assume she's sweet because of how she looks. I don't think she is this 'sweet, innocent princess' that people keep calling her, I think it's entirely down to her looks. I like Ashleigh and it's because she's normal and doesn't pretend to be anything as well as other traits she holds. She is a nice and caring person, but she's also human. I do think that some people on both sides of the camp either justify some of her behaviour because of how she looks or use her looks to make her behaviour seem worse than it is (which perhaps straight females who don't care about her appearance may see better than others).
I also don't know why people are complaining about her swearing. Everyone swears. I personally don't swear and never have, but I don't find it offensive and I don't care if people do it. Maybe it's because I've grown up in Australia where every second word people say is a swear word that I don't find it offensive or noticeable, but it doesn't bother me at all. Words aren't important, it's their context.
I can understand why people don't like her, because no-one is universally liked (or hated), but sometimes the reasons given seem to be clutching at straws or using traits that apply to any housemate or any regular person.
Achilles
10-08-2014, 03:24 AM
Ashleigh is sweet, but she isn't a Zoe one emotion type of person. If you put a Helen in her face she reacts because she is human. Her emotions are real and her interactions with the housemates are real.
Macie Lightfoot
10-08-2014, 03:27 AM
She's not hated; you're just making yet another thread where you can act like a martyr for your Ashleigh fandom and add some more annoying propaganda to get people to vote her to win.
mrflibble
10-08-2014, 03:28 AM
Ashleigh is sweet, but she isn't a Zoe one emotion type of person. If you put a Helen in her face she reacts because she is human. Her emotions are real and her interactions with the housemates are real.
I tend to think of 'sweet' as this like childlike innocence where glitter just pours out of every orifice and not really as a compliment, which is why I don't really consider Ashleigh sweet. That's not to say I don't think she's a nice or caring person though.
Achilles
10-08-2014, 03:39 AM
I tend to think of 'sweet' as this like childlike innocence where glitter just pours out of every orifice and not really as a compliment, which is why I don't really consider Ashleigh sweet. That's not to say I don't think she's a nice or caring person though.
I think out of the house away from Helen and her nasty gang she is sweet caring person. Being trapped with Helen brings out the coping mechanism. It is easier to defend yourself if you fight back rather than carry on being sweet and caring.
mrflibble
10-08-2014, 03:54 AM
I think out of the house away from Helen and her nasty gang she is sweet caring person. Being trapped with Helen brings out the coping mechanism. It is easier to defend yourself if you fight back rather than carry on being sweet and caring.
Yeah, I know, that's why I don't like people calling the Ashleigh/Chris/Christopher crew 'miserable' because it's not surprising. The other crew normally have stupid smug grins on their faces because they like making everyone else miserable, but they're the miserable ones in my eyes :P
booboomartin
10-08-2014, 04:10 AM
She is a real person and real people swear. She doesn't pretend to be sweet, she IS sweet. When you are trapped in a house with scum, you react. If she wins she will be giving to an animal charity. Nasty people don't give to charity. Nasty people like Helen and Winston who scoffed at giving £1k to charity. Winston was one of the nasty gang and deserved to be evicted. Him winning would be almost as bad as Helen winning.
yes, some people do swear, that does not make them real, just ignorant. i don't think that you can describe someone as being sweet when they swear like a navvy. as for being trapped in the house, she can leave at any time. helen had already said that she was going to donate to a charity. very churlish comments from you about 'nasty gang'. although i do wonder what ashleighs thoughts will be when she finds out that chris was going to take the money, not for charity, but to split between himself, ashleigh and christopher. point being made is there are good and bad in both groups in the house :nono:
JTM45
10-08-2014, 04:13 AM
She's only 'hated' by haters fortunately.
When it comes to being hated she just can't hold a candle to Helen.....not even in the same league!
By the time Ashleigh's 27 she'll be a very successful, mature young woman with a great life ahead of her. Helen's already 27 and look at the mess she's made of it and she still acts like a spoilt child.
Achilles
10-08-2014, 04:29 AM
yes, some people do swear, that does not make them real, just ignorant. i don't think that you can describe someone as being sweet when they swear like a navvy. as for being trapped in the house, she can leave at any time. helen had already said that she was going to donate to a charity. very churlish comments from you about 'nasty gang'. although i do wonder what ashleighs thoughts will be when she finds out that chris was going to take the money, not for charity, but to split between himself, ashleigh and christopher. point being made is there are good and bad in both groups in the house :nono:
Chris and Christopher swear. They also bitch. They do EVERYTHING that Ashleigh does. The 3 of them are all nice people, but Ashleigh is the only one who gets hated. Because of the way she looks. Chris had a week of creepy Chris BS but was never hated for same reasons as Ashleigh. Helen would give to charity? Really? Why did she refuse to give £1k of the money to charity then? Why did Winston? They are nasty people that's why.
I wasnt a fan of Ashleigh at the start because I thought she was a bit too miserable but then I understood her situation better. She was stuck in the house branded in the 'uncool' group which brought back memories of high school for her, the divide in the house was nasty and uncomfortable and so she wasnt in a good place in mind and naturally wasnt going to be bouncing off the walls. Over the series though weve seen her friendships with Danielle, Chris and Christopher flourish, weve seen her get more involved in the tasks and decisions BB put to the HMs and shes developed a lot since Week 1 and now is one of my favourites.
imo some people are hung up on her being 'miserable' at times and completely ignoring the situation. I wouldnt be very happy living amongst Helen, Pauline, Steven either.
..yeah I fairly much agree with this...so much leeway is given for Helen's past and that she may have had a tough life but none is given to Ashleigh for the fact that she was bullied...and I think it's because she hasn't fitted the 'stereotypical victim' thing but the whole situation in the house from the beginning with the clique must have been awful for her and for the first few weeks she looked to me out of her depth...then she started to 'fight it' by trying to manipulate Ash from being saved...probably as a way to try to diffuse the clique and take away a big part of them..it didn't work but at least she tried and she gathered 'haters' for that...
..anyway, she's far from perfect, who is...but I think she has on the whole, conducted herself well through her time in the house and with some of the personalities that have been there...the 'language' thing is funny as well because yeah she swears, can swear with the best of them..so she's as bad as Helen/they're as bad as each other..?..well no, because with Helen it's not just about swearing, that's nothing/who cares..it's things like what she says...the toast..?..Christopher..?..things like that, whe's just plain bitter and mean and I personally don't believe Ashleigh is...most people would have to go some way to ever become a 'Helen' in this life....
booboomartin
10-08-2014, 04:33 AM
[QUOTE=JTM45;7149534]She's only 'hated' by haters fortunately.
When it comes to being hated she just can't hold a candle to Helen.....not even in the same league!
By the time Ashleigh's 27 she'll be a very successful, mature young woman with a great life ahead of her. Helen's already 27 and look at the mess she's made of it and she still acts like a spoilt child.[/
ashleigh will not be successful if she continues to swear and rant the way she does. no excuse for her bad language. shows her to be ignorant.
i would not employ her, no class :nono:
JTM45
10-08-2014, 04:39 AM
yes, some people do swear, that does not make them real, just ignorant.
What an absolutely *****ing ridiculous statement!!!:laugh:
Plenty of highly intelligent people swear. It's a way of expressing yourself and how on earth can anyone be described as ignorant just because they use certain words ? 'Swear' words (even calling them that sounds incredibly immature!) have been used throughout history by some of the most important and intelligent people that have ever lived.
If anything limiting your use of the English language by discounting certain words is far more ignorant, by definition!
You call Ashleigh 'ignorant' for using more words than you yet you can't even figure out how to use the quote function on a forum! Just who's the ignorant one here ?
tanussa
10-08-2014, 06:10 AM
the better question is why is she loved?
tanussa
10-08-2014, 06:12 AM
oh and to jtm45 - like kids in a playground!
Macie Lightfoot
10-08-2014, 06:24 AM
I wasnt a fan of Ashleigh at the start because I thought she was a bit too miserable but then I understood her situation better. She was stuck in the house branded in the 'uncool' group which brought back memories of high school for her, the divide in the house was nasty and uncomfortable and so she wasnt in a good place in mind and naturally wasnt going to be bouncing off the walls. Over the series though weve seen her friendships with Danielle, Chris and Christopher flourish, weve seen her get more involved in the tasks and decisions BB put to the HMs and shes developed a lot since Week 1 and now is one of my favourites.
imo some people are hung up on her being 'miserable' at times and completely ignoring the situation. I wouldnt be very happy living amongst Helen, Pauline, Steven either.
yeah this is pretty much the best read of Ashleigh so far.
JayBlaze
10-08-2014, 06:58 AM
She's a two faced bitch who is miserable all the time. Her bf must be a miserable twat as well to put up with her.
billy123
10-08-2014, 07:20 AM
She's a two faced bitch who is miserable all the time. Her bf must be a miserable twat as well to put up with her.I Agree
AarynGriesfan
10-08-2014, 07:58 AM
Because some people just wanna be in the cool kids club so bad that they gotta hate the same people Helen does.
waterhog
10-08-2014, 07:59 AM
because she has everything most lady's wished they had - strength - dignity - front humor the lot. ashligh is the full package.
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 08:09 AM
She's a two faced bitch who is miserable all the time. Her bf must be a miserable twat as well to put up with her.
:clap1:
GypsyGoth
10-08-2014, 08:17 AM
I can easily see why Ashleigh is hated, the way she bitches about people behind their back, the way she's mean about another's appearance, and she'll be nice to that person's face. She seems to lack the ability to forgive and at times has come across as bitter and spiteful.
Do I hate Ashleigh? Not at all, I think she'll make a great winner, although being a winner of BB isn't that much of a badge of honor.
She does have nice parts to her personality and character, but this thread wasn't about those. :p
billy123
10-08-2014, 08:28 AM
I can easily see why Ashleigh is hated, the way she bitches about people behind their back, the way she's mean about another's appearance, and she'll be nice to that person's face. She seems to lack the ability to forgive and at times has come across as bitter and spiteful.
Do I hate Ashleigh? Not at all, I think she'll make a great winner, although being a winner of BB isn't that much of a badge of honor.
She does have nice parts to her personality and character, but this thread wasn't about those. :p
Very well put.
I think her popularity is more a product of a way to get at Helen more than a reflection of her character because she really isn't a nice person thats for sure.
But yes she will be gone and forgotten in a few days whatever happens which i just find hilarious.
Very well put.
I think her popularity is more a product of a way to get at Helen more than a reflection of her character because she really isn't a nice person thats for sure.
But yes she will be gone and forgotten in a few days whatever happens which i just find hilarious.
..I will say though that her popularity for me and I suspect many others is by no way as merely a negative popularity against Helen...the two are often mentioned together because there have been so many negative interactions between them during the series....
AarynGriesfan
10-08-2014, 08:32 AM
Very well put.
I think her popularity is more a product of a way to get at Helen more than a reflection of her character because she really isn't a nice person thats for sure.
But yes she will be gone and forgotten in a few days whatever happens which i just find hilarious.
And a 100k richer so what does she care.
waterhog
10-08-2014, 08:35 AM
she deserves every penny.
billy123
10-08-2014, 08:37 AM
And a 100k richer so what does she care.She certainly wont care for the people that have spent their pocket money and time getting her to the win either.
She has displayed how cold and uncaring she is plenty of times.
She will pocket the money and vanish as fast as conor did.
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 08:39 AM
If Ashleigh was in her 30s and was as dull and boring as she is, she wouldn't stand a chance of winning, its because the children can relate to her because of her age ,nothing more, as a hm8 she's been a disaster
billy123
10-08-2014, 08:41 AM
..I will say though that her popularity for me and I suspect many others is by no way as merely a negative popularity against Helen...the two are often mentioned together because there have been so many negative interactions between them during the series....No it was a generalization i admit but her coldness just makes her seem so uncaring to me.
She is shrewd and seems like the type of person that would throw her best friend under a bus if she thought she could make money out of it.
I dont like that.
Just my opinion of course.
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 08:41 AM
No it was a generalization i admit but her coldness just makes her seem so uncaring to me.
She is shrewd and seems like the type of person that would throw her best friend under a bus if she thought she could make money out of it.
I dont like that.
Just my opinion of course.
And mine
Pete.
10-08-2014, 08:45 AM
The support for Ashleigh outweighs the support against her
No it was a generalization i admit but her coldness just makes her seem so uncaring to me.
She is shrewd and seems like the type of person that would throw her best friend under a bus if she thought she could make money out of it.
I dont like that.
Just my opinion of course.
..yeah I respect your opinion and I know it's shared by many so must be well founded as well and GG's is a good post because it does separate those negatives which are there as well and I do see why people would dislike her..I can also see why 'negative' support of a housemate is annoying as well, just because people don't want someone to win they like less...tbh, this hasn't been the best pick of housemates in general by far...
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 09:10 AM
Gone because of the smart Ashleigh fans
Now come on pete, even you don't believe that I voted for him and Im the last person on earth to be an Ashleigh fan
Anothercat
10-08-2014, 09:24 AM
In short though... She's strong, young, clever and pretty.
and still she comes across as a sour faced brat
Northern Monkey
10-08-2014, 09:31 AM
Just jealousy
Jules2
10-08-2014, 09:35 AM
95% of the 6% we see or you have live feed?
Do you think it's a coincidence that Ashleigh was unhappy at the start, then was much happier once the whole house were getting on better and has been unhappy for last few days since the divide has returned?
I don't understand why she would be hated for being unhappy living with such a nasty person such as Helen and her nasty gang?
I agree totally, the three, Ashleigh, Chris and Christopher, would like total commitment to peace. Sadly as it was in the beginning it is at the end, they did make quite a bit of headway and everyone seemed to get along, the happiest days of the 3s stay in the house. Who wants to be treading on hot coals everyday, not sure of where the next argument is coming from. No wonder Ashleigh, a lovely young lass with a great heart and a great fanbase, is down. The same applies to the two Chris'.
If we want the three in the top imo we have to put in votes for each one as according to the papers, the two who have just left who thought that they should win, are striking up feelings against Christopher and Ashleigh. They have no shame or any sign of sportsmanship. So for the top three let it be
ASHLEIGH: CHRISTOPHER and CHRIS in any order. Ireland they are many viewers winners and we will stick up for ASHLEIGH until the end.
Jules2
10-08-2014, 09:40 AM
Gone because of the smart Ashleigh fans
Both Winston and Mark had the same chances as Ashleigh so where were their fan bases when it came to the toll? Many had left their sinking ships whereas the likes of Chris, Ashleigh and Christopher, the fans have stuck together for their favourite. The two only had themselves to blame, no one else, they lost control of their fans and their ships sank together. From their attitudes I fear for them along with the Steven Goodes of this world as they are very bitter sour grapes ex HMs. None of them will worry until something hits them.
kefln
10-08-2014, 09:41 AM
She certainly wont care for the people that have spent their pocket money and time getting her to the win either.
She has displayed how cold and uncaring she is plenty of times.
She will pocket the money and vanish as fast as conor did.
I'm sorry, thats not really a point is it?
How can Ashleigh be "blamed" for people voting for her? BB has been going for 15 years, and its not the only show of its type. The voting process is why we watch it.
And saying she won't care is comple personal bias and contrary to all evidence. All HMs have shown to be effected by the crowd. They all listen to the audience on Fridays, they all are taking the little bits of information fed them, like twitter comments, to heart.
kefln
10-08-2014, 09:44 AM
Both Winston and Mark had the same chances as Ashleigh so where were their fan bases when it came to the toll? Many had left their sinking ships whereas the likes of Chris, Ashleigh and Christopher, the fans have stuck together for their favourite. The two only had themselves to blame, no one else, they lost control of their fans and their ships sank together. From their attitudes I fear for them along with the Steven Goodes of this world as they are very bitter sour grapes ex HMs. None of them will worry until something hits them.
Exactly. Winston was voted out by the fans of the show. Everyone is entitled to vote. No one is being forced. If a HM goes its their fans that are to blame.
I don't hate her - but there's aspects of her that I don't particularly like as there are with all of the housemates in there.
I wouldn't seek any of them out as friends - but I can't really see Ashleigh as significantly worse than the others - although reading the posts here I can see that her apparent "coldness" comes through as different.
That doesn't bother me, I don't particularly believe that any HMs aren't there just for the money/tv exposure/career opportunities etc. and I rarely actually believe the friendships formed in there have any great depth or longevity unless proven to be so once they have left.
None of them are evil, they basically are bog standard flawed human beings who are trying to further their careers in one way or another. They moan and bitch and can't keep a halo in place - it's all much of a muchness. I can't single her out for extra disapproval although I can for a couple of other hms.
Jules2
10-08-2014, 09:53 AM
To give without expecting rewards is one of the greatest things in life, life is a game of roundabouts, where one loses out on something one gains on another. None of the HMs have to be expected to be grateful to those who have supported them but, they will be. They entered a "game" for our entertainment and enjoyment, we had the option to or not to, not one of the HMs made us. Ashleigh is a lovely soul, intuitive and loyal to her boyfriend and friends. May she take her winnings and enjoy her life.
I would love Chris to win to enable him to progress in his venture. I want to see him succeed as his illustrations are so lifelike, none of this has been shown on the show with the exception of the ones at the beginning. Ones which gave a deep and meaningful insight to the man who has been named otherwise, possibly because of his looks and his stance, his age and friendship with a loyal person. He has handled himself well on the show and I have enjoyed his input. If I had to give an honest opinion I would say that his entrance into the house was to find himself. He thought he had but sadly he was right in the beginning, wrong environment for him.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 09:57 AM
I don't hate her,but I do find the overbearing sychophancy very off putting,she is disliked simply for the way she is getting fawned over for the very thing people dislike Helen for,hypocrisy at it's best.Something Helen does is vile and disgusting,the same thing by Ashleigh,"Oh the princess slayed":joker::joker:
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 09:59 AM
I don't hate her - but there's aspects of her that I don't particularly like as there are with all of the housemates in there.
I wouldn't seek any of them out as friends - but I can't really see Ashleigh as significantly worse than the others - although reading the posts here I can see that her apparent "coldness" comes through as different.
That doesn't bother me, I don't particularly believe that any HMs aren't there just for the money/tv exposure/career opportunities etc. and I rarely actually believe the friendships formed in there have any great depth or longevity unless proven to be so once they have left.
None of them are evil, they basically are bog standard flawed human beings who are trying to further their careers in one way or another. They moan and bitch and can't keep a halo in place - it's all much of a muchness. I can't single her out for extra disapproval although I can for a couple of other hms.
This^ is at least a fair and accurate post.
rionablue
10-08-2014, 10:06 AM
Totally? Because it was such a well laid out case.
I know you are a fan of her Yaki but I am not and haven't been since the bitching in the pod weeks. I am entitled to agree with a poster of the same view as I have
Christmas time
10-08-2014, 10:23 AM
Come on people the time has come to get behind Christmas a worthy winner that has actually been supportive of his friends throughout unlike ashley who dropped Danielle and toya quicker than I could say bra... t ... and she nominated Christmas her supposed friend. ... come on she doesn't deserve this one bit.... vote clever vote Christmas. .... :dance::cheer2:
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 10:24 AM
Come on people the time has come to get behind Christmas a worthy winner that has actually been supportive of his friends throughout unlike ashley who dropped Danielle and toya quicker than I could say bra... t ... and she nominated Christmas her supposed friend. ... come on she doesn't deserve this one bit.... vote clever vote Christmas. .... :dance::cheer2:
I'de prefer him to win tbh,and yes why nominate him when she had the pick of all the others,even ones she doesn't like,sly mare
Pete.
10-08-2014, 10:25 AM
I'de prefer him to win tbh,and yes why nominate him when she had the pick of all the others,even ones she doesn't like,sly mare
Her reasons were clear, she was uncomfortable with the fact that he was changing his personality due to public perception
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 10:30 AM
Come on people the time has come to get behind Christmas a worthy winner that has actually been supportive of his friends throughout unlike ashley who dropped Danielle and toya quicker than I could say bra... t ... and she nominated Christmas her supposed friend. ... come on she doesn't deserve this one bit.... vote clever vote Christmas. .... :dance::cheer2:
I wouldnt be gutted if he won ,if only to get at Ashleigh his loyal friend who nominated him in the semi finals
Christmas time
10-08-2014, 10:30 AM
A poor excuse. .... He was suppose to her friend and she had the choice of the whole house people may I add she's disliked throughout ... I belive she has voted Christopher to get rid of her biggest rival... like she dropped all her other closest friends ... The way she acted after Danielle was evicted ... that says a lot for her character. ... vote clever vote Christmas. ....:dance:
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 10:32 AM
A poor excuse. .... He was suppose to her friend and she had the choice of the whole house people may I add she's disliked throughout ... I belive she has voted Christopher to get rid of her biggest rival... like she dropped all her other closest friends ... The way she acted after Danielle was evicted ... that says a lot for her character. ... vote clever vote Christmas. ....:dance:
She showed her true colours, and what a coward she was by choosing to nominate him over Ash ,she feared the wrath of Helen !!
Aww that would be a shame if the poor girl felt intimidated by Helen - but then again that's part of Helen's game plan isn't it?
kefln
10-08-2014, 10:39 AM
She showed her true colours, and what a coward she was by choosing to nominate him over Ash ,she feared the wrath of Helen !!
:joker:
Yes, like a dog fears the wrath of washing machine. All noise, lots of shaking, easy to yawn at, stand up and walk away from.
(In case anyone is wondering, I just watched my dog do that and felt the analogy fitted :laugh: )
Denver
10-08-2014, 10:48 AM
She is horrible and thinks she is better then everyone else
Most of them can be pretty horrible, quite a few of them think way too much of themselves - these are standard requirements to be on BB aren't they? It's a no brainer.
Denver
10-08-2014, 10:50 AM
Gone because of the smart Ashleigh fans
If ashliegh fans were smart surely they would of targetted christopher? 😄
kefln
10-08-2014, 10:55 AM
She is horrible and thinks she is better then everyone else
Could you point out the episode of BBOTs, or which HL show, that she made that statement? Cause I think I missed that one.
Denver
10-08-2014, 10:58 AM
Could you point out the episode of BBOTs, or which HL show, that she made that statement? Cause I think I missed that one.
When helen was cleaning her ears yesterday she looked at her like dirt
hijaxers
10-08-2014, 11:04 AM
because she is a two faced bitch herself. beautiful face, ugly inside. swears like a trooper, pretends to be so sweet, but fails to keep the act up. she has to remember that the public see everything, not impressed. the only reason winston was evicted was because the ashleigh brigade saw him as a threat to their princess (choke). tactical voting by them got rid of what they saw as her main threat.:nono:
I voted Winston out because i've wanted him gone for weeks - so you are wrong to assume it was the ashleigh brigade !
kefln
10-08-2014, 11:07 AM
When helen was cleaning her ears yesterday she looked at her like dirt
Really? Thats it? Thats all you have?
Two people who don't like each other in a room, one gives the other a dirty look. Shocking stuff there.
Course the fact that on day 2 Helen went into the toilet with another HM with the sole purpose of mocking a girl that they just met, based entirely on her appearance, kind of negates the minor offence of a dirty look.
Any examples of where Ashleigh has stated that she is better than everyone else to back up your claim?
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 11:23 AM
Her reasons were clear, she was uncomfortable with the fact that he was changing his personality due to public perception
But she doesn't like some of the others so why didn't she chose one of them? it's a simple question,no need to gloss over it.
Pete.
10-08-2014, 11:25 AM
But she doesn't like some of the others so why didn't she chose one of them? it's a simple question,no need to gloss over it.
Better to have two sides
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Denver
10-08-2014, 11:29 AM
Really? Thats it? Thats all you have?
Two people who don't like each other in a room, one gives the other a dirty look. Shocking stuff there.
Course the fact that on day 2 Helen went into the toilet with another HM with the sole purpose of mocking a girl that they just met, based entirely on her appearance, kind of negates the minor offence of a dirty look.
Any examples of where Ashleigh has stated that she is better than everyone else to back up your claim?
People are to fickle to see through ashliegh she has no intention to give money to charity she is just saying thing she knows the public like oh and funny how she forgot about her best freind the second she walked out the front door but to be honest she could do with the 100k as she needs her face sorting
Hmm I don't like attacking the fans - time to bow out.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 11:31 AM
Better to have two sides
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So she picks Christopher:joker: well that makes sense:smug:
kefln
10-08-2014, 11:34 AM
People are to fickle to see through ashliegh she has no intention to give money to charity she is just saying thing she knows the public like oh and funny how she forgot about her best freind the second she walked out the front door but to be honest she could do with the 100k as she needs her face sorting
So no actual "proof" then. Just made up stuff and an insult about her looks?
Liam-
10-08-2014, 11:37 AM
She did last night call Helen 'an ugly a**hole' whereas i don't seem to recall Helen saying anything derogatory about Ashleigh's looks whatsoever
Denver
10-08-2014, 11:39 AM
She did last night call Helen 'an ugly a**hole' whereas i don't seem to recall Helen saying anything derogatory about Ashleigh's looks whatsoever
This :worship:
LukeB
10-08-2014, 11:45 AM
ashleigh is not hated, she more loved then hated :)
LukeB
10-08-2014, 11:47 AM
She did last night call Helen 'an ugly a**hole' whereas i don't seem to recall Helen saying anything derogatory about Ashleigh's looks whatsoever
that was one comment, helen done it towards matthew and jale
Pete.
10-08-2014, 11:49 AM
She did last night call Helen 'an ugly a**hole' whereas i don't seem to recall Helen saying anything derogatory about Ashleigh's looks whatsoever
Umm Helen called Ashleigh a *****, the lowest insult of them all
Liam-
10-08-2014, 11:50 AM
that was one comment, helen done it towards matthew and jale
Just one comment? okay.. so what about the time she told Chris that he 'needed glasses' if he thought that Helen was the sexiest housemate? :hehe:
And I'm not saying Helen hasn't said some bad stuff, but at least she owns up to it instead of playing the sweetness and light card like your sly little princess :spin:
LukeB
10-08-2014, 11:53 AM
People are to fickle to see through ashliegh she has no intention to give money to charity she is just saying thing she knows the public like oh and funny how she forgot about her best freind the second she walked out the front door but to be honest she could do with the 100k as she needs her face sorting
that comment is bang out of order.
LukeB
10-08-2014, 11:54 AM
Just one comment? okay.. so what about the time she told Chris that he 'needed glasses' if he thought that Helen was the sexiest housemate? :hehe:
And I'm not saying Helen hasn't said some bad stuff, but at least she owns up to it instead of playing the sweetness and light card like your sly little princess :spin:
wow :spin:
all friends go to there friends sometimes you need glasses :sleep:
and slug and skinny little prick and many more is worst
LukeB
10-08-2014, 11:56 AM
this ashleigh support is overwhelming :flutter:
kefln
10-08-2014, 11:57 AM
But dont ashliegh fans constanly put down helen?
Yes and most, like me, will point to specific moments, or comments, or past history, to back those statements up.
Commentating on the inner workings of someones mind, predicting the future and saying that someone needs to win the prize money for plastic surgery, is all conjecture, bias and plain nasty.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 11:59 AM
wow :spin:
all friends go to there friends sometimes you need glasses :sleep:
and slug and skinny little prick and many more is worst
All friends? i don't say that to my friends, if they think someone is hot and i don't, i don't insult them or tell them they need glasses, i respect their opinion :shrug:
And why is it worse? its the same thing, She is still insulting the way someone looks, the same as Helen has done, no-one is better than anyone else in there
Denver
10-08-2014, 11:59 AM
Yes and most, like me, will point to specific moments, or comments, or past history, to back those statements up.
Commentating on the inner workings of someones mind, predicting the future and saying that someone needs to win the prize money for plastic surgery, is all conjecture, bias and plain nasty.
But you have no right to judge her as a housemate on past history
She's hated because her maturity, intelligence, self - awareness and self - respect shows up Helen's opposite characteristics in full technicolor. The stark contrast is hard to take.
kefln
10-08-2014, 12:02 PM
Just one comment? okay.. so what about the time she told Chris that he 'needed glasses' if he thought that Helen was the sexiest housemate? :hehe:
And I'm not saying Helen hasn't said some bad stuff, but at least she owns up to it instead of playing the sweetness and light card like your sly little princess :spin:
Its not uncommon for friends to disagree with the people that they find attractive. Its actually pretty normal. Most of us have given friends a ribbing over something like this. I've seen entire families roll eyes over a particular spouse that is very unpopular with everyone else.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:02 PM
She's hated because her maturity, intelligence, self - awareness and self - respect shows up Helen's opposite characteristics in full technicolor. The stark contrast is hard to take.
People keep mistaking maturity for being boring, dont worry its an easy mistake to make :hehe:
LukeB
10-08-2014, 12:02 PM
All friends? i don't say that to my friends, if they think someone is hot and i don't, i don't insult them or tell them they need glasses, i respect their opinion :shrug:
And why is it worse? its the same thing, She is still insulting the way someone looks, the same as Helen has done, no-one is better than anyone else in there
it was properly a joke im sure ashleigh knew chris didn't mean it has he was pissed but ashleighs comments is no where near as bad as helens otherwise ashleigh would have complaints and warnings like helen does
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 12:04 PM
People keep mistaking maturity for being boring, dont worry its an easy mistake to make :hehe:
Don't worry Liam,Ashleigh could crush a kitten and it would be excused as the right thing to do,by some people,pfft,
Patricia4
10-08-2014, 12:05 PM
I don't hate her but Im not a big fan either but if she won so be it she's won by the votes.
Forgetmenot
10-08-2014, 12:05 PM
I wasnt a fan of Ashleigh at the start because I thought she was a bit too miserable but then I understood her situation better. She was stuck in the house branded in the 'uncool' group which brought back memories of high school for her, the divide in the house was nasty and uncomfortable and so she wasnt in a good place in mind and naturally wasnt going to be bouncing off the walls. Over the series though weve seen her friendships with Danielle, Chris and Christopher flourish, weve seen her get more involved in the tasks and decisions BB put to the HMs and shes developed a lot since Week 1 and now is one of my favourites.
imo some people are hung up on her being 'miserable' at times and completely ignoring the situation. I wouldnt be very happy living amongst Helen, Pauline, Steven either.
Well Helen was clearly unhappy at the start, finding it hard to adjust and on the defensive but she is kind and big hearted. Ashleigh kind of gives off this disapproving of others, swearing what ever but fir an 18 year old she does swear as well and is rather sour and venomous with it.then she lies in the bath in her mini bikini like she's on display some how, look at me..double standards..not a winner in my eyes.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:06 PM
it was properly a joke im sure ashleigh knew chris didn't mean it has he was pissed but ashleighs comments is no where near as bad as helens otherwise ashleigh would have complaints and warnings like helen does
In your opinion they're not as bad, but you cant seem to remove your rose tinted glasses where Ashleigh is concerned, she's way more venomous than Helen, at least you know where you are with Helen, Ashleigh is just a smiling assassin who would screw anyone ever to make herself look better
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:07 PM
Don't worry Liam,Ashleigh could crush a kitten and it would be excused as the right thing to do,by some people,pfft,
'look at her, helping to end the poor animals suffering, what a god #Queen #WhenWillHelen' :sleep:
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:09 PM
She's hated because her maturity, intelligence, self - awareness and self - respect shows up Helen's opposite characteristics in full technicolor. The stark contrast is hard to take.
Mature people dont slag people of behind there back or they do t own up to there mistake also childish brats will never be mature
kefln
10-08-2014, 12:09 PM
But you have no right to judge her as a housemate on past history
She is horrible and thinks she is better then everyone else
People are to fickle to see through ashliegh she has no intention to give money to charity she is just saying thing she knows the public like oh and funny how she forgot about her best freind the second she walked out the front door but to be honest she could do with the 100k as she needs her face sorting
These statements don't line up. Its not ok to judge people by their actions, but ok to make stuff up and insult their looks.
kefln
10-08-2014, 12:11 PM
Mature people dont slag people of behind there back or they do t own up to there mistake also childish brats will never be mature
And I present to you the name "slugworth". Who was it that came up with that on day 2?
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:13 PM
Just one comment? okay.. so what about the time she told Chris that he 'needed glasses' if he thought that Helen was the sexiest housemate? :hehe:
And I'm not saying Helen hasn't said some bad stuff, but at least she owns up to it instead of playing the sweetness and light card like your sly little princess :spin:
What sweetness and light card? Not one person who likes her thinks she's "sweet"
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:13 PM
These statements don't line up. Its not ok to judge people by their actions, but ok to make stuff up and insult their looks.
Unlike most people i judge people solely how there are in the house and no matter whether you like her or hate her helen is the only one to stay true to herself and hasnt changed her personality to suit the public
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:14 PM
Mature people dont slag people of behind there back
Don't be absurd. Almost everyone in life does it.
or they do t own up to there mistake also childish brats will never be mature
Yes, we all go around telling each other exactly how we feel at any given moment to other people's faces. And do you know what happened? It turned into Mad Max 2 and civilization was lost.
LukeB
10-08-2014, 12:14 PM
In your opinion they're not as bad, but you cant seem to remove your rose tinted glasses where Ashleigh is concerned, she's way more venomous than Helen, at least you know where you are with Helen, Ashleigh is just a smiling assassin who would screw anyone ever to make herself look better
in most opinions, there is a reason why helen is hated by the public you know
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:15 PM
Have you read Ashleighs bio? She fund raises for animal shelters?
So lets "hate" her and mock her fans for made up stuff. :joker:
So because you read it it makes it true? We have seen nothing to suggest she cares about animals
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:15 PM
Unlike most people i judge people solely how there are in the house and no matter whether you like her or hate her helen is the only one to stay true to herself and hasnt changed her personality to suit the public
What's positive about that if the public perception of you being a bully and a nasty piece of work is true?
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:16 PM
Don't be absurd. Almost everyone in life does it.
Yes, we all go around telling each other exactly how we feel at any given moment to other people's faces. And do you know what happened? It turned into Mad Max 2 and civilization was lost.
If i have a problem with someone i will sit down with them and talk it through i wont go slagging them of to anyone who will listen
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:16 PM
Have you read Ashleighs bio? She fund raises for animal shelters?
So lets "hate" her and mock her fans for made up stuff. :joker:
Callum from last year said that he was an exciting ladies man... Unless i'm mistaken, that was a load of rubbish too, people lie to get into the house and to be liked
LukeB
10-08-2014, 12:17 PM
So because you read it it makes it true? We have seen nothing to suggest she cares about animals
she is a vegetarian its mos likely its true, and yes we have, when they was doing a one word game ashleigh was offended by her dog getting killed in the story. even her boyfriend says she cries at sick animal adverts
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:17 PM
What's positive about that if the public perception of you being a bully and a nasty piece of work is true?
Pauline was a bully but helen isnt yes she says horrible things but she doesnt make them sit out like pauline
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:18 PM
If i have a problem with someone i will sit down with them and talk it through i wont go slagging them of to anyone who will listen
In a house where any issue can be used to nominate you and you have to wake up with that person the next day... No, you wouldn't.
And who would waste the time with some people to do that? I certainly wouldn't on a person like Helen who flies off the handle at anyone questioning her.
Vanessa
10-08-2014, 12:18 PM
She can't be that hated if she's still there.
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:18 PM
In a house where any issue can be used to nominate you and you have to wake up with that person the next day... No, you wouldn't.
And who would waste the time with some people to do that? I certainly wouldn't on a person like Helen who flies off the handle at anyone questioning her.
I think i would as i wouldnt change to please anyone
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:18 PM
Pauline was a bully but helen isnt yes she says horrible things but she doesnt make them sit out like pauline
She isolated Jale as much as Pauline and referred to her as a slug to her mates for the first week. She treated Chris like something she had just trodden in on the first night.
Jords
10-08-2014, 12:19 PM
..yeah I fairly much agree with this...so much leeway is given for Helen's past and that she may have had a tough life but none is given to Ashleigh for the fact that she was bullied...and I think it's because she hasn't fitted the 'stereotypical victim' thing but the whole situation in the house from the beginning with the clique must have been awful for her and for the first few weeks she looked to me out of her depth...then she started to 'fight it' by trying to manipulate Ash from being saved...probably as a way to try to diffuse the clique and take away a big part of them..it didn't work but at least she tried and she gathered 'haters' for that...
..anyway, she's far from perfect, who is...but I think she has on the whole, conducted herself well through her time in the house and with some of the personalities that have been there...the 'language' thing is funny as well because yeah she swears, can swear with the best of them..so she's as bad as Helen/they're as bad as each other..?..well no, because with Helen it's not just about swearing, that's nothing/who cares..it's things like what she says...the toast..?..Christopher..?..things like that, whe's just plain bitter and mean and I personally don't believe Ashleigh is...most people would have to go some way to ever become a 'Helen' in this life....
Great post Ammi!! :thumbs:
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:20 PM
What sweetness and light card? Not one person who likes her thinks she's "sweet"
i was talking about Ashleigh playing the sweetness and light card.. but hey, your post described Ashleigh, so cheers :wavey:
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:20 PM
she is a vegetarian its mos likely its true, and yes we have, when they was doing a one word game ashleigh was offended by her dog getting killed in the story. even her boyfriend says she cries at sick animal adverts
So you can only be a vegetarian if you help animal shelters? She didnt have a problem playing a game that involved touching dead fish
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:20 PM
I think i would as i wouldnt change to please anyone
That's just belligerence on your part then. In life, you're going to have to adapt and conform.
LukeB
10-08-2014, 12:21 PM
Pauline was a bully but helen isnt yes she says horrible things but she doesnt make them sit out like pauline
helen is a bully though, look at her record
-ofcom complaints
and a formal warning for it
she would of been more popular if she wasn't an bully
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:21 PM
i was talking about Ashleigh playing the sweetness and light card.. but hey, your post described Ashleigh, so cheers :wavey:
Yes, and I asked when she had done this? No one who likes her thinks she is. People who like her admire her toughness.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:21 PM
In a house where any issue can be used to nominate you and you have to wake up with that person the next day... No, you wouldn't.
And who would waste the time with some people to do that? I certainly wouldn't on a person like Helen who flies off the handle at anyone questioning her.
You cant tell someone how they would act in that position, i for one agree, i wouldn't change who i was or what i believe in to suit other people, whether it would get me nominated or not
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:21 PM
She isolated Jale as much as Pauline and referred to her as a slug to her mates for the first week. She treated Chris like something she had just trodden in on the first night.
Look back soon as pauline went she realised it was wrong and grew to like jale also big brother pointed her in the right direction
LukeB
10-08-2014, 12:22 PM
So you can only be a vegetarian if you help animal shelters? She didnt have a problem playing a game that involved touching dead fish
she proberly didn't want to do it but she had to work as a team.
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:22 PM
Look back soon as pauline went she realised it was wrong and grew to like jale also big brother pointed her in the right direction
So she only stopped after multiple warnings and BB pointing her in the right direction?
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:23 PM
That's just belligerence on your part then. In life, you're going to have to adapt and conform.
I think you find its being true to myself if people dont like me its there problem not mine
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:23 PM
she proberly didn't want to do it but she had to work as a team.
If she didnt agree in it she would of said no
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:23 PM
Yes, and I asked when she had done this? No one who likes her thinks she is. People who like her admire her toughness.
She's constantly walking around with that stupid dog in her hands and I've heard her on many occasions bring up the fact that shes 'only an 18 year old girl' she thinks she can get away with things because of her age and how she looks and that's not a good trait to have in life, if you do or say something bad, you have to be willing to man up and take the consequences
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:24 PM
You cant tell someone how they would act in that position, i for one agree, i wouldn't change who i was or what i believe in to suit other people, whether it would get me nominated or not
Then you probably wouldn't go on on BB in the first place. And if you did, you'd probably be out first.
It's not a question of changing what you believe in. It's a question of letting other people get on with what they believe. If it offends you, then you go off and have a rant about it.
If you wouldn't change for anyone, why would you expect someone to change for you? What would be the point in confronting Helen on an issue if she's the same?
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:24 PM
I think you find its being true to myself if people dont like me its there problem not mine
This :cheer2:
LukeB
10-08-2014, 12:25 PM
If she didnt agree in it she would of said no
and make the team fail? and get backlash for it? everyone do things they dont want to do but they have to if they want to win a task
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:25 PM
I think you find its being true to myself if people dont like me its there problem not mine
That depends what being true to yourself entails doesn't it...
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:26 PM
And people are questioning Ashleigh's work for animal charities because she handled a dead fish in a task?
These debates get more and more absurd.
Denver
10-08-2014, 12:26 PM
That depends what being true to yourself entails doesn't it...
Being true to yourself would mean being exactly as i am in normal life
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:27 PM
Being true to yourself would mean being exactly as i am in normal life
Yes, and it may be legitimate for someone to have a problem with you, if that entails you behaving like Helen.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:27 PM
Then you probably wouldn't go on on BB in the first place. And if you did, you'd probably be out first.
It's not a question of changing what you believe in. It's a question of letting other people get on with what they believe. If it offends you, then you go off and have a rant about it.
If you wouldn't change for anyone, why would you expect someone to change for you? What would be the point in confronting Helen on an issue if she's the same?
If i went out early for being myself and standing up for myself and what i believe in then i'd walk out with my head held high because i know id have done myself and my family proud.
At the end of the day, it might be a game show to win money and popularity, but i wouldn't be changing my morals and the way i've been brought up for anyone and if people don't like that, then there's nothing i could do about it
JayBlaze
10-08-2014, 12:27 PM
because she has everything most lady's wished they had - strength - dignity - front humor the lot. ashligh is the full package.
Yep all ladies want her acne:laugh:
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:29 PM
If i went out early for being myself and standing up for myself and what i believe in then i'd walk out with my head held high because i know id have done myself and my family proud.
Depends what you believe in. I daresay Helen has been true to herself... She's still an awful person.
At the end of the day, it might be a game show to win money and popularity, but i wouldn't be changing my morals and the way i've been brought up for anyone and if people don't like that, then there's nothing i could do about it
Sure, but you also have to respect that other people differ on their approach. If that bothers you, what are you going to do about it? Just sit and talk with that other person? What if they react violently to your criticisms? It's not as simple as "I must stay true to myself"
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:31 PM
Depends what you believe in. I daresay Helen has been true to herself... She's still an awful person.
Sure, but you also have to respect that other people differ on their approach. If that bothers you, what are you going to do about it? Just sit and talk with that other person? What if they react violently to your criticisms? It's not as simple as "I must stay true to myself"
Dont get me wrong, i know what you're saying, but I've been raised to be able to defend my points and listen to other peoples, if people dont like my opinions or stances on things, then its their right, but its also my right to say what i feel when i think i need to
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:33 PM
Dont get me wrong, i know what you're saying, but I've been raised to be able to defend my points and listen to other peoples, if people dont like my opinions or stances on things, then its their right, but its also my right to say what i feel when i think i need to
Sure. But if someone tells you to bore off or go "**** yourself", I defy you not to end up at the very least discussing that person negatively with someone who you are friends with.
poppsywoppsy
10-08-2014, 12:35 PM
Helen has a good complexion with few problems but it doesn't stop her being an out and out nasty person who is hugely disliked.
Ashleigh might have a skin condition but it doesn't stop her from being liked.
There will be a few who don't like Ashleigh, but what has a skin condition, mainly caused by her age and poor diet in the house, got to do with being liked.
mizzmee
10-08-2014, 12:35 PM
I don't think she's hated but here is my theory about why some people find it hard to connect with her.
She never played the victim. She could have but didn't. She could have broken down in tears over the bullying she received from a woman nearly 10 years older than her but instead she stood up for herself, gave as good as she got and never felt sorry for herself.
She could have justifiably cried her eyes out on many occasions but instead she chose to vent.
She is very pretty and cant hhelp that so because she is also a tough cookie people don't feel she has been bullied and so lack a connection for her.
Pete.
10-08-2014, 12:36 PM
Don't worry Liam,Ashleigh could crush a kitten and it would be excused as the right thing to do,by some people,pfft,
She wants to give some of the prize money to poor kittens
MrWong
10-08-2014, 12:37 PM
She's hated because her maturity, intelligence, self - awareness and self - respect shows up Helen's opposite characteristics in full technicolor. The stark contrast is hard to take.
:clap1::clap1::clap1:
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:38 PM
Sure. But if someone tells you to bore off or go "**** yourself", I defy you not to end up at the very least discussing that person negatively with someone who you are friends with.
I probably would yeah, but i pride myself on never saying something behind someone's back, that i wouldn't say to their face, i never have and never will
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:39 PM
I don't think she's hated but here is my theory about why some people find it hard to connect with her.
She never played the victim. She could have but didn't. She could have broken down in tears over the bullying she received from a woman nearly 10 years older than her but instead she stood up for herself, gave as good as she got and never felt sorry for herself.
She could have justifiably cried her eyes out on many occasions but instead she chose to vent.
She is very pretty and cant hhelp that so because she is also a tough cookie people don't feel she has been bullied and so lack a connection for her.
Just as i thought i was starting to sympathize with Ashleigh supporters :bored:
MrWong
10-08-2014, 12:40 PM
Yep all ladies want her acne:laugh:
Another vote for Ashleigh to win :dance:
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:42 PM
I probably would yeah, but i pride myself on never saying something behind someone's back, that i wouldn't say to their face, i never have and never will
I don't believe there's a single human being in the world that could live up to that. Especially not when they're being filmed 24/7 and living together the whole time.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 12:43 PM
If she didnt agree in it she would of said no
I'm a veggie and adore animals so vote for me to win:hehe:
mizzmee
10-08-2014, 12:43 PM
Just as i thought i was starting to sympathize with Ashleigh supporters :bored:
Please do expand. I never said I was a supporter and merely offered an opinion. But do please expand on what was so bad about my opinion?
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 12:44 PM
I don't believe there's a single human being in the world that could live up to that. Especially not when they're being filmed 24/7 and living together the whole time.
well in that case why is it scorned on when Helen does it?
Liam-
10-08-2014, 12:47 PM
Please do expand. I never said I was a supporter and merely offered an opinion. But do please expand on what was so bad about my opinion?
Well for a start, Ashleigh was never bullied, people got angry and shouted at her for things she had said and did, so justifiable really as to why people got angry.
You're also implying that the way she looks is also a factor of people not liking her, which is ridiculous, i mean, i'm a guy, why would i not like her because of the way she looks? ive always wanted to be blonde, but that's a bit of a reach as to why i dislike the brat
MrWong
10-08-2014, 12:49 PM
I don't believe there's a single human being in the world that could live up to that. Especially not when they're being filmed 24/7 and living together the whole time.
That's what pushes hm's to their limits.
In real life you can walk away, ignore and avoid horrible, nasty people.
You can't do that in the house. So our reactions can't be compared to the hm's.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 12:55 PM
Yes, and it may be legitimate for someone to have a problem with you, if that entails you behaving like Helen.
I think there are a lot of people who are slating Helen that have been far more aggressive and nasty than Helen,and most of them are not Helen fans ,go take a good look,then stand back and say the comments are any better than Helen herself.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 12:56 PM
If i went out early for being myself and standing up for myself and what i believe in then i'd walk out with my head held high because i know id have done myself and my family proud.
At the end of the day, it might be a game show to win money and popularity, but i wouldn't be changing my morals and the way i've been brought up for anyone and if people don't like that, then there's nothing i could do about it
:clap1:Yes not everyone has to run with the herd,be an individual,:wavey:
LukeB
10-08-2014, 12:59 PM
Helen if ashleigh wins
http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/9308410.gif
Ashleigh if helen wins
http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/9308410.gif
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 12:59 PM
I think there are a lot of people who are slating Helen that have been far more aggressive and nasty than Helen,and most of them are not Helen fans ,go take a good look,then stand back and say the comments are any better than Helen herself.
Has anyone got into a person's face and screamed abuse in it in a threatening manner like Helen did to Matthew?
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:00 PM
its against rules to discuss fans
I'm on about fans in general,and how else can that scenario be described and I never insulted anyone but carry on telling tales
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:00 PM
Has anyone got into a person's face and screamed abuse in it in a threatening manner like Helen did to Matthew?
Technically she wasn't screaming.. :hehe:
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:02 PM
Has anyone got into a person's face and screamed abuse in it in a threatening manner like Helen did to Matthew?
Well obviously they cant,we are behind a computer screen:joker: actually yes some have been very aggressive and nasty,me included sometimes.
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 01:05 PM
Technically she wasn't screaming.. :hehe:
Is there a technical measure for screaming?
Kizzy
10-08-2014, 01:06 PM
I'm stunned that some get so horrified about name calling for instance when it comes to ashleigh, helen has been called '*****' 'slag' 'slut' 'ugly' 'vile' 'tramp' for 2 months solid.
That annoys me,I dislike double standards.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:06 PM
Is there a technical measure for screaming?
Yes I think there is:hehe:
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:07 PM
Is there a technical measure for screaming?
Well.. yeah, a voice raised above a normal level constitutes screaming, if you watch it back, her voice wasn't raised :wavey:
LukeB
10-08-2014, 01:07 PM
http://37.media.tumblr.com/db44726d1c50a66a25af2cb152713f16/tumblr_na0mmb8vyu1txis9uo2_500.gif
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:08 PM
I'm stunned that some get so horrified about name calling for instance when it comes to ashleigh, helen has been called '*****' 'slag' 'slut' 'ugly' 'vile' 'tramp' for 2 months solid.
That annoys me,I dislike double standards.
Pour that tea :hehe:
Marsh.
10-08-2014, 01:09 PM
I'm stunned that some get so horrified about name calling for instance when it comes to ashleigh, helen has been called '*****' 'slag' 'slut' 'ugly' 'vile' 'tramp' for 2 months solid.
That annoys me,I dislike double standards.
:clap1: Scold everyone with that tea.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:10 PM
http://37.media.tumblr.com/db44726d1c50a66a25af2cb152713f16/tumblr_na0mmb8vyu1txis9uo2_500.gif
Oh typical ,yuk,backstabbing again was she?
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:11 PM
I'm stunned that some get so horrified about name calling for instance when it comes to ashleigh, helen has been called '*****' 'slag' 'slut' 'ugly' 'vile' 'tramp' for 2 months solid.
That annoys me,I dislike double standards.
there's no answer to that one kizzy,so so true:cheer2:
Yaki da
10-08-2014, 01:12 PM
Well.. yeah, a voice raised above a normal level constitutes screaming, if you watch it back, her voice wasn't raised :wavey:
Sounded like it to me.
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 01:12 PM
I'm stunned that some get so horrified about name calling for instance when it comes to ashleigh, helen has been called '*****' 'slag' 'slut' 'ugly' 'vile' 'tramp' for 2 months solid.
That annoys me,I dislike double standards.
:clap1: As you so rightly say double standards
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:13 PM
Sounded like it to me.
You obviously haven't heard proper screaming then, no worries
MrWong
10-08-2014, 01:14 PM
I'm stunned that some get so horrified about name calling for instance when it comes to ashleigh, helen has been called '*****' 'slag' 'slut' 'ugly' 'vile' 'tramp' for 2 months solid.
That annoys me,I dislike double standards.
The bolded insults are to do with her old job. She chose to be a prostitute so it's fair game.
The majority of 'ugly' comments are to do with her ugly nature.
She is vile.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:17 PM
making comments about acne is just as worst. its a skin condition :nono: and it offends me because i suffur from it
They're all on the same level, just because they're aimed at someone you dislike, doesn't make them okay and it never will, blatant double standards yet again
I'm stunned that some get so horrified about name calling for instance when it comes to ashleigh, helen has been called '*****' 'slag' 'slut' 'ugly' 'vile' 'tramp' for 2 months solid.
That annoys me,I dislike double standards.
So do I. So could you now post a list of the names and insults said about Ashleigh? (And far more often too.)
If you are being fair, you would admit that and also post a sample of the personal insults posted about her.
It's a double standard to point out double standards on one side and not the other,
Kizzy
10-08-2014, 01:21 PM
Ah say what you like to attempt to justify it, it doesn't make it right. Making judgements on the characters of HMs and moralising is offensive, questioning her parenting is offensive.
You can't cherry pick what's deemed the greater slur.
Kizzy
10-08-2014, 01:28 PM
if it was aimed at helen or ash i would still get offended, i come on here not to feel ashamed about having acne
And nobody came here with the intent to make you feel ashamed about your acne...
You took it upon yourself to turn an off the cuff remark into a personally offensive comment luke.
How would anyone on here have the first idea what you look like?
What about the comments about housemates being fat or skinny? Nobody suggests they are affected as they themselves are fat or thin do they? We can't know that might affect the sensibilities of some.
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 01:29 PM
Its ok to post a photo of Helen after she had been beat up ? not just once but several times
Its ok to post a photo of Helen after she had been beat up ? not just once but several times
Is it okay to call Ashleigh '*******igh', not just once but many times?
LukeB
10-08-2014, 01:31 PM
And nobody came here with the intent to make you feel ashamed about your acne...
You took it upon yourself to turn an off the cuff remark into a personally offensive comment luke.
How would anyone on here have the first idea what you look like?
What about the comments about housemates being fat or skinny? Nobody suggests they are affected as they themselves are fat or thin do they? We can't know that might affect the sensibilities of some.
apperance and weight should never be commented on anyway to be honest some people are sensitive about it. i know it wasn't ment towards me but doesn't mean it wont offend me.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:32 PM
Its ok to post a photo of Helen after she had been beat up ? not just once but several times
That's a very good point, im pretty sure i saw a comment before saying she looked just as bad before the incident as she did after it :nono:
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 01:32 PM
Is it okay to call Ashleigh '*******igh', not just once but many times?
Please find where I've ever called mardy twat *******IGH,thanks and good luck
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:33 PM
Its ok to post a photo of Helen after she had been beat up ? not just once but several times
BOOM way to go Chuff even more double standards:cheer2:
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 01:34 PM
BOOM way to go Chuff even more double standards:cheer2:
Full of them in here !!! and if anyone thinks they can PM me and tell me what I can and cannot say on here they have another think coming
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:35 PM
Full of them in here !!! and if anyone thinks they can PM me and tell me what I can and cannot say on here they have another think coming
Oh ,lol,you've had that too:joker:
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 01:36 PM
Oh ,lol,you've had that too:joker:
I dont think they will message me again :pat: you can say they have been firmly put in their place
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:39 PM
I dont think they will message me again :pat: you can say they have been firmly put in their place
wow :joker:
billy123
10-08-2014, 01:40 PM
This has become absolutely pathetic the last few days.
There are rules already in place about discussion of fans and making over the top comments about housemates.
If you think the line has been crossed report it and move on with your life.
The derailing of every thread with this same discussion by the same members in an attempt to try and defend a housemate is just ****ing ridiculous now.
MrWong
10-08-2014, 01:40 PM
So do I. So could you now post a list of the names and insults said about Ashleigh? (And far more often too.)
If you are being fair, you would admit that and also post a sample of the personal insults posted about her.
It's a double standard to point out double standards on one side and not the other,
An actual thread was made to discuss Ashleigh's roots, which also included slagging off her spots. The most ridiculous posts actually attacked her for not having defined calves. I ****ing kid you not :umm2:
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 01:41 PM
This has become absolutely pathetic the last few days.
There are rules already in place about discussion of fans and making over the top comments about housemates.
If you think the line has been crossed report it and move on with your life.
The derailing of every thread with this same discussion by the same members in an attempt to try and defend a housemate is just ****ing ridiculous now.
:clap1:
billy123
10-08-2014, 01:41 PM
An actual thread was made to discuss Ashleigh's roots, which also included slagging off her spots. The most ridiculous posts actually attacked her for not having defined calves. I ****ing kid you not :umm2:Yes it must have offended brats with undefined calfs and bad hair everywhere how upsetting.
Get over it.
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 01:42 PM
An actual thread was made to discuss Ashleigh's roots, which also included slagging off her spots. The most ridiculous posts actually attacked her for not having defined calves. I ****ing kid you not :umm2:
And someone posted a picture of a hm8 after she had been beat up,now thats low !!
LukeB
10-08-2014, 01:43 PM
An actual thread was made to discuss Ashleigh's roots, which also included slagging off her spots. The most ridiculous posts actually attacked her for not having defined calves. I ****ing kid you not :umm2:
Team Ashleigh :)
MrWong
10-08-2014, 01:44 PM
Yes it must have offended brats with undefined calfs everywhere how upsetting.
Get over it.
Whoosh!!
I was giving examples of how people desperately scrape the barrel for things to attack Ashleigh for.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:44 PM
An actual thread was made to discuss Ashleigh's roots, which also included slagging off her spots. The most ridiculous posts actually attacked her for not having defined calves. I ****ing kid you not :umm2:
Isn't she a catwalk model? a tad suspicious that she hasn't got defined calves really :hehe::hehe:
Jack_
10-08-2014, 01:45 PM
I'm stunned that some get so horrified about name calling for instance when it comes to ashleigh, helen has been called '*****' 'slag' 'slut' 'ugly' 'vile' 'tramp' for 2 months solid.
That annoys me,I dislike double standards.
I've spent most of the series defending Helen and people throwing around sexist terminology like '*****' and 'slut and to stop questioning her parenting skills
It's not a one or the other issue and going 'well no one defends this housemate so we can insult another!!!!!!' isn't helping. Nobody should be insulting housemates appearances and that's the bottom line of it. Big Brother is a show about personalities, not the way people look so there shouldn't be any reason why people are talking about that.
This isn't a new thing, this isn't just because it's Ashleigh. I defended Becky a few years ago when she was constantly insulted about her weight, same with Jack and Joe last year. I defended Sam when his disability was mocked (and I couldn't stand him), I defended Gina for the same insults Ashleigh receives. This list goes on. There's just no need for it no matter who it is
MrWong
10-08-2014, 01:46 PM
Isn't she a catwalk model? a tad suspicious that she hasn't got defined calves really :hehe::hehe:
She's still young to the business. I'm sure seasoned cat walk models have very defined calves :shrug:
LukeB
10-08-2014, 01:47 PM
I've spent most of the series defending Helen and people throwing around sexist terminology like '*****' and 'slut and to stop questioning her parenting skills
It's not a one or the other issue and going 'well no one defends this housemate so we can insult another!!!!!!' isn't helping. Nobody should be insulting housemates appearances and that's the bottom line of it. Big Brother is a show about personalities, not the way people look so there shouldn't be any reason why people are talking about that.
This isn't a new thing, this isn't just because it's Ashleigh. I defended Becky a few years ago when she was constantly insulted about her weight, same with Jack and Joe last year. I defended Sam when his disability was mocked (and I couldn't stand him), I defended Gina for the same insults Ashleigh receives. This list goes on. There's just no need for it no matter who it is
:clap1:
EdemMusic
10-08-2014, 01:47 PM
Ashleigh is not hated, she is the favourite to win in most polls. What gave you that impression?
Jack_
10-08-2014, 01:48 PM
And someone posted a picture of a hm8 after she had been beat up,now thats low !!
Yes it is and I criticised that too, that doesn't justify a whole load of other personal insults against other housemates though does it?
People calling housemates '*****s' and 'sluts' and laughing at them being beaten up or hoping they will be shouldn't be happening and people insulting the way housemates look shouldn't be happening either. There isn't any justification for it whatsoever
MrWong
10-08-2014, 01:49 PM
Ashleigh is not hated, she is the favourite to win in most polls. What gave you that impression?
The very vocal minority that constantly discuss her maybe? :shrug:
You are right though. She is the favourite. She's slaying every online poll going and kept being voted for all the good stuff on the apps.
Liam-
10-08-2014, 01:50 PM
She's still young to the business. I'm sure seasoned cat walk models have very defined calves :shrug:
I realize this.. i was being sarcastic :wavey:
Even though i strongly dislike Ashleigh, i don't agree that there should be any sort of insult about the way she looks at her or anyone in the house for that matter, its just ridiculous and petty.
If as an adult, you cant have a discussion about a person without insulting the way they look, then you shouldn't discuss them.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:52 PM
Whoosh!!
I was giving examples of how people desperately scrape the barrel for things to attack Ashleigh for.
Perhaps if I photoshop a picture of Ashleigh beaten up,that would be acceptable.
MrWong
10-08-2014, 01:53 PM
Perhaps if I photoshop a picture of Ashleigh beaten up,that would be acceptable.
I have no idea what you're on about.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:54 PM
I have no idea what you're on about.
Of course you don't:smug:
MrWong
10-08-2014, 01:56 PM
Of course you don't:smug:
No really. You need to explain.
chuff me dizzy
10-08-2014, 01:57 PM
Of course you don't:smug:
:pat:
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 01:59 PM
No really. You need to explain.
Was it not you who posted a picture of Helen after she had been beaten up and then a few got such joy out of ripping her apart,laughing gleefully and trying to be smart? IF it wasn't you ,you have my apologies,but someone definitely did,sure it was you.
MrWong
10-08-2014, 02:00 PM
Was it not you who posted a picture of Helen after she had been beaten up and then a few got such joy out of ripping her apart,laughing gleefully and trying to be smart? IF it wasn't you ,you have my apologies,but someone definitely did,sure it was you.
Then you're wrong. I didn't even know that a battered Helen photo existed.
Kazanne
10-08-2014, 02:01 PM
Then you're wrong. I didn't even know that a battered Helen photo existed.
You have my apology then,I will go and find it .
cheapbbfan
10-08-2014, 08:38 PM
Love her!
Lostie!
10-08-2014, 09:24 PM
Hated? Ashleigh is probably the most popular housemate, and I say this as someone who (though I like her) has grown irritated by her recently.
There's always tons of support for her, on here and other places, so I don't see why people have to make a big thing out of any criticism she receives.
Sorry, I'm not trying to have a go at anyone, but I do sometimes feel that some of her fans act like she's receiving tons of hostility and she's some kind of underdog with the public, but that's not true. Ash, Helen, Pav and Chris all get more negativity than she does out here at the moment, and the positivity towards her far outweigh what she does get. I mean, it's the same with the reaction to Pav not having positive words for her, people ignored the fact that she never had time for him either and concentrated on the fact that she was receiving criticism, even from someone she'd had plenty to say about herself.
So, yeah, I don't see how she's "hated" if we're using the term to describe someone who gets mainly bad feedback from the viewers.
ozzyshaggah
11-08-2014, 04:26 AM
Young, pretty, keeps to herself, intelligent, doesn't get drunk and start fights, doesn't sit around talking about sex...all come to mind...
you forgot boring as bat ****:cheer2:
JTM45
11-08-2014, 05:24 AM
you forgot boring as bat ****:cheer2:
You don't know her so how can you claim she's boring ?
Oh right........... because she's not doing 'exciting' things like running into the camera runs for 10 seconds (so original and entertaining.......so 2004!) or she doesn't get a string of warnings for being a dumb-ass gobsh*te ?:bored:
I'd take Ashleigh's behaviour over Helen's anyday!
Ashleigh's got her whole life in front of her to look forward to and she's got no skeletons in her closet to hold her back, nothing to be ashamed of.
She's also in a solid relationship and has her whole family's love and support behind her.
In 10 year's time, when she's Helen's age, i can guarantee she'll be in a much better situation than Helen is in her life and will have made much better decisions and have a bright future ahead of her!
She doesn't exist to entertain people! She's on Big Brother to try and win and she's done a very good job of it so far!:dance:
Amy Jade
11-08-2014, 05:57 AM
She's not hated; you're just making yet another thread where you can act like a martyr for your Ashleigh fandom and add some more annoying propaganda to get people to vote her to win.
Post of the thread.
chuff me dizzy
11-08-2014, 09:28 AM
you forgot boring as bat ****:cheer2:
And thats a compliment :joker:
Liam-
11-08-2014, 09:29 AM
And thats a compliment :joker:
The only one she deserves :hehe:
chuff me dizzy
11-08-2014, 09:30 AM
You don't know her so how can you claim she's boring ?
Oh right........... because she's not doing 'exciting' things like running into the camera runs for 10 seconds (so original and entertaining.......so 2004!) or she doesn't get a string of warnings for being a dumb-ass gobsh*te ?:bored:
I'd take Ashleigh's behaviour over Helen's anyday!
Ashleigh's got her whole life in front of her to look forward to and she's got no skeletons in her closet to hold her back, nothing to be ashamed of.
She's also in a solid relationship and has her whole family's love and support behind her.
In 10 year's time, when she's Helen's age, i can guarantee she'll be in a much better situation than Helen is in her life and will have made much better decisions and have a bright future ahead of her!
She doesn't exist to entertain people! She's on Big Brother to try and win and she's done a very good job of it so far!:dance:
Once again the brats age dragged into it, NOTHING to do with age ,its about her behaviour ,lack of personality, nastiness,slyness and being a miserable cow ,if she's 18 or 80 it doesn't change any of those foul traits
Kazanne
11-08-2014, 09:36 AM
That's a very good point, im pretty sure i saw a comment before saying she looked just as bad before the incident as she did after it :nono:
Yes I am sure I know who posted that but the pic has been removed:smug:
Liam-
11-08-2014, 09:38 AM
Yes I am sure I know who posted that but the pic has been removed:smug:
Oh what a coincidence :hehe:
Kazanne
11-08-2014, 09:40 AM
Oh what a coincidence :hehe:
:thumbs:
wormsinfested
11-08-2014, 09:51 AM
Because most of the show she has been like this: :mad:
Niamh.
11-08-2014, 09:56 AM
Yes I am sure I know who posted that but the pic has been removed:smug:
Oh what a coincidence :hehe:
:thumbs:
I'm pretty sure all those pictures were removed by staff as they were all reported.......
Kizzy
11-08-2014, 09:59 AM
Yes I reported it, mocking a picture of an injured HM isn't the best way to show your support for another HM is it?
chuff me dizzy
11-08-2014, 09:59 AM
I reported it too,but i remember who posted it ,and more than once
Liam-
11-08-2014, 10:00 AM
I'm pretty sure all those pictures were removed by staff as they were all reported.......
Oh.. well i stand corrected, apologies :flowers:
Niamh.
11-08-2014, 10:00 AM
Yes I reported it, mocking a picture of an injured HM isn't the best way to show your support for another HM is it?
No, it's very bad form
kefln
11-08-2014, 11:27 AM
Once again the brats age dragged into it,
Love the use of this word by so many people. You know people are fishing when they have to name call to make a point. :dance:
calyman
11-08-2014, 05:09 PM
Please find where I've ever called mardy twat *******IGH,thanks and good luck
To be honest I find mardy "twat" more offensive than *******igh, but I guess that's another example of double standards ehh?
Helen hates Ashleigh because she is everything that Helen wishes she was.
Classy, young, intelligent, naturally beautiful, and popular.
Miranda123
11-08-2014, 05:21 PM
That just isn't true. But I have been 95% miserable watching Helen and co. this year, so I'm sympathetic anyway.
Run out of arguments already.
Confirmed.
Along with numerous other things that people refuse to see because she's a pretty young girl.
Would you like to list all the funny, entertaining, interesting things that Ashleigh has performed this year................zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Marsh.
11-08-2014, 05:22 PM
She's 27, she is young.
Miranda123
11-08-2014, 05:24 PM
Helen hates Ashleigh because she is everything that Helen wishes she was.
Classy, young, intelligent, naturally beautiful, and popular.
If it aint reaching, stretch it further......................lol
If Helen is anything like most 28 year olds, she'd hate to be 18 again!
MrWong
11-08-2014, 05:25 PM
Once again the brats age dragged into it, NOTHING to do with age ,its about her behaviour ,lack of personality, nastiness,slyness and being a miserable cow ,if she's 18 or 80 it doesn't change any of those foul traits
You brought her age up the other day. In regards to her swearing when she had a rant in the diary room about Helen. :hehe:
Miranda123
11-08-2014, 05:25 PM
To be honest I find mardy "twat" more offensive than *******igh, but I guess that's another example of double standards ehh?
Think I might have coined the *******igh tag
wheres my recognition??
poppsywoppsy
11-08-2014, 05:29 PM
Would you like to list all the funny, entertaining, interesting things that Ashleigh has performed this year................zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
The many times she has cleverly ran rings around Helen and left her open mouthed.
She has stood up to her and Helen has no come back but to bitch and moan to Gnash Ash.
poppsywoppsy
11-08-2014, 05:31 PM
If it aint reaching, stretch it further......................lol
If Helen is anything like most 28 year olds, she'd hate to be 18 again!
Especially if she had to do all over again what she did before.
Kazanne
11-08-2014, 05:31 PM
The many times she has cleverly ran rings around Helen and left her open mouthed.
She has stood up to her and Helen has no come back but to bitch and moan to Gnash Ash.
:joker::joker::joker: I'm open mouthed at that post:joker::joker: When was that dreampt up:hehe:
Miranda123
11-08-2014, 05:49 PM
:joker::joker::joker: I'm open mouthed at that post:joker::joker: When was that dreampt up:hehe:
So much rubbish going on in so many peoples minds
Gotta be time for some recycling.................
HELEN TO WIN!!
Daffodil
11-08-2014, 05:52 PM
Helen hates Ashleigh because she is everything that Helen wishes she was.
Classy, young, intelligent, naturally beautiful, and popular.
I will agree that she is pretty. But she is not natural. She now has an inch wide strip of dark brown hair along her parting. If only she had stuck to her natural brunette, she would indeed be a natural beauty.
Miranda123
11-08-2014, 05:57 PM
Especially if she had to do all over again what she did before.
People make mistakes in life and usually it is our mistakes that make us better people in the end
Unfortunately for Ashleigh, she behaves like a child because she is
She still lives with her Mum, nothing wrong with that, I did til I was 22, but I knew f..k all
She cant appreciate life til she has had to live it for herself, she has much to learn and I hope someone teaches her pretty damn quick!!
Miranda123
11-08-2014, 05:59 PM
The many times she has cleverly ran rings around Helen and left her open mouthed.
She has stood up to her and Helen has no come back but to bitch and moan to Gnash Ash.
you are too funny, snidey little remarks under her breath do not count as arguing back at someone
besides, she should not argue with grown ups
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