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Waynoo
22-08-2014, 10:17 PM
So obvious what she's doing but i seem to be the only one aware of her game plan. She needs to go first!

Josy
22-08-2014, 10:18 PM
I don't think it's a game plan at all tbh, she was the exact same on benefits street when I watched it, everyone always went to her for help and advice.

Cherie
22-08-2014, 10:19 PM
Why did she need to go to Kellie in the pod when Lauren was already there, and Kellie meditating lmfao

FlippingEck
22-08-2014, 10:19 PM
Im in the difficult position here of agreeing with Josy.

I didn't watch benefit street, but I don't think there are any motives with her in the house.. she seems pretty "normal" to me to be fair...

And Cherie... Kellie meditating was TV GOLD!!!!! :hehe:

Denver
22-08-2014, 10:20 PM
She is being civil

Ant.
22-08-2014, 10:21 PM
Being nice is a game plan?

chuff me dizzy
22-08-2014, 10:22 PM
I think shes genuine , she blended in very well as has George, neither of them are celebs but are getting on well with everyone

CaudleHalbard
22-08-2014, 10:23 PM
She is a being herself. She was the same on Benefits Street.

Marsh.
22-08-2014, 10:23 PM
Im in the difficult position here of agreeing with Josy.

:joker:

Northern Monkey
22-08-2014, 10:24 PM
I think she is probably genuinely nice.Seems like a nice lady.

jessicadanielle
22-08-2014, 10:24 PM
Hahaha damned if you do damned if you don't! I don't see how you can possibly criticise someone for being friendly with all of the people they're living with. Especially within four days of living there. There's not much opportunity to start confrontation really.

Plus she's not even up everyone's arse... She told Frenchy straight that she'd done it wrong and should have just walked away and not to be rude to Kellie like she was.

Benjamin
22-08-2014, 10:25 PM
I think she actually is nice. I quite liked her breaking up the frenchy/Kellie spat when she turned to everyone else watching and said "yeah, I'm alright guys". :laugh:

joeysteele
22-08-2014, 10:26 PM
Josy and the others are right, this is how she was on benefits street,I quite like her and what I like is she listens to others too, I think she is just genuinely interested in other people.

SocietyIsRuined
22-08-2014, 10:26 PM
To be honest that is why she was liked on Benefits street. She helped everyone out.

karezza
22-08-2014, 10:28 PM
She's very sly. Every move is calculated.

warrenhill
22-08-2014, 10:33 PM
Yes i think she has taken on board what her "agent" told her before she went in ....:laugh:

CaudleHalbard
22-08-2014, 10:33 PM
She was definitely the mother figure on Benefits Street. It is no act.

Pincho Paxton
22-08-2014, 10:36 PM
Dee is being herself.

Mitchell
23-08-2014, 12:29 AM
I never saw Benefits Street, however me and her have had Direct Messaging sessions on Twitter for the past few weeks and I was surprised at how easy she was to get on with, this is definitely the real her.

icecakes
23-08-2014, 01:08 AM
She's very sly. Every move is calculated.

Exactly :clap1::clap1:

Shaun
23-08-2014, 01:11 AM
She's just a nice person :shrug:

icecakes
23-08-2014, 01:18 AM
Lets see how long she can keep the facade up:joker:

Ammi
23-08-2014, 05:25 AM
..I think it's often that they're either awful housemates/characters..or nice ones who are going to be seen to be awful and not genuine for being nice...:laugh:...


..so far I've been really impressed with her and think she's one of the few people who listen to others and just a genuinely interested and caring person...

waterhog
23-08-2014, 05:30 AM
She's just a nice person :shrug:

i back that - she has been throne in with "celebs" not sure how to be as this is all new to her and of course she will feel not on the same level as them.

respect for the way she is and if it is a game plan - she fooled me. credit and credit again dee.

Bluerang1
23-08-2014, 06:00 AM
She's so much better than I expected

Angelika
24-08-2014, 12:44 AM
Being nice is a game plan?

Everything they do in there is considered a game plan whether done consciously or subconsciously.

Creggle
24-08-2014, 12:47 AM
Reading into it abit much I think, she seems like a decent person - scrounging aside.

Marsh.
24-08-2014, 12:47 AM
Reading into it abit much I think, she seems like a decent person - scrounging aside.

:nono:

Drew.
24-08-2014, 12:50 AM
Hated every single member of Benefits Street but I think she is quite a nice person at times. Pains me to say that, she's changed my opinions on her quite a bit.

Creggle
24-08-2014, 12:50 AM
:nono:

D:

JoshBB
24-08-2014, 12:51 AM
I think she's interesting but quite often the "Miss Humanity" character is a bore, and she is no exception.

Heaven = Winner
24-08-2014, 01:20 AM
Yeah, Dee's not playing a gameplan. She seems really genuine tbh.

Razor
24-08-2014, 09:43 AM
Why would she want to be enemies with anyone. Surely it's best to be friendly than not?

rusticgal
24-08-2014, 10:07 AM
She seems a nice enough person...but she is a nosy oik who wants to be involved in everybody's business. Lauren was talking to Kellie and Dee should have left them to it...but she didn't want to be left out...she didn't want Lauren taking her role and she wanted to know the 'gossip' and play the 'Saint'.
I watched Benefit street...or 2 episodes because it wound me up too much...I would have had more respect for her had she put her day to good use...perhaps as a volunteer..instead of sitting on her doorstep all day smoking fags and drinking coffee and doing ******* all, receiving benefits at our expense.
She can be as nice as she likes in there and she obviously has a nice side to her but that at the end of the day she is just a lazy scrounger.

lostalex
24-08-2014, 10:08 AM
Who? She's not spoken up lately, at least not from what we've seen. She seems content to just be a face in the background. Which must drive the Daily Mail readers crazy, i'm sure they were expecting her to be a trashy mess. I'm sure the BB producers expected her to be that too.

Jules2
24-08-2014, 10:15 AM
Lets see how long she can keep the facade up:joker:

I am waiting to see if she gives her empathy to Gary with his hearing problem, she is just joining in with the others and their remarks. It is easy to appear caring but sometimes it is for ones own benefit in a way saying "hey guys look at me". She wants to be the centre of attraction with the younger ones. I havent taken to her at all and am very wary of her.

It was suggested that she shouldnt go to Kellie as someone was already there, why didnt she just leave it? Kellie has to sort her ownself out and sometimes others interfering just makes matters worse. Sorry she isnt my cup of tea at all. Hope she leaves early.

Fendertele
24-08-2014, 10:22 AM
Ask the other residents on 'Benefits Street' then we will know...she's OK, but I think there's more to it than just being 'nice'...I wonder how much she will donate to help her hard up friends on benefits street, or has she moved on from them....She must pinch herself everyday and think what a jammy ----er she is...

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
24-08-2014, 10:56 AM
Being nice is a game plan?

In Britain we don't do nice and civil-Jamesisms.

FAKE!

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
24-08-2014, 10:58 AM
Ask the other residents on 'Benefits Street' then we will know...she's OK, but I think there's more to it than just being 'nice'...I wonder how much she will donate to help her hard up friends on benefits street, or has she moved on from them....She must pinch herself everyday and think what a jammy ----er she is...

They lived on the same street but she's not responsible for them. But she did say though that people she cared about have given her the cold shoulder because of her fame so maybe they'll guilt trip her into sharing.

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
24-08-2014, 11:01 AM
Hated every single member of Benefits Street but I think she is quite a nice person at times. Pains me to say that, she's changed my opinions on her quite a bit.

I liked 50p man and the model mother. They were both trying.

If it was in America 50p man would have had fame by now.

Fendertele
24-08-2014, 11:05 AM
They lived on the same street but she's not responsible for them. But she did say though that people she cared about have given her the cold shoulder because of her fame so maybe they'll guilt trip her into sharing.
But if you watched Benefits Street, she came across like she was responsible for them, she used to keep hold of Funguy's money and give it to him a bit at a time....she would make sure people went to meetings,she used to deal with all their problems with the benefits office etc, she was very involved from where I'm sitting....they all went to her, her house was an open door.... so I would say she acted like she was the Mother of the street...

Kazanne
24-08-2014, 11:13 AM
Dee's a funny one for me,although I don't dislike her,I found her ethics on work sadly lacking on Benefits street,even encouraging her kids to follow suit,and some of the dodgy stuff I've heard about doesn't sit well,but in BB she seems nice enough,but I'll wait a bit and see how she comes over.

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
24-08-2014, 11:13 AM
But if you watched Benefits Street, she came across like she was responsible for them, she used to keep hold of Funguy's money and give it to him a bit at a time....she would make sure people went to meetings,she used to deal with all their problems with the benefits office etc, she was very involved from where I'm sitting....they all went to her, her house was an open door.... so I would say she acted like she was the Mother of the street...

I always found that a bit dodgy. I sometimes felt like she was scamming them somehow.

booboomartin
24-08-2014, 11:15 AM
I think she actually is nice. I quite liked her breaking up the frenchy/Kellie spat when she turned to everyone else watching and said "yeah, I'm alright guys". :laugh:

not a fan of dee, however, give credit where credit is due. if she had not broke the fight up, things could have got nasty. all the others just sitting there, shame on them:wavey:

booboomartin
24-08-2014, 11:35 AM
Ask the other residents on 'Benefits Street' then we will know...she's OK, but I think there's more to it than just being 'nice'...I wonder how much she will donate to help her hard up friends on benefits street, or has she moved on from them....She must pinch herself everyday and think what a jammy ----er she is...

yes, it will be interesting to see if she does 'help' her old mates out. would be interesting to see, if she is still living at her old address, I will be surprised if she is :cheer2: ps. wonder also if she gave any of the £13,000 she stole to help her mates out :nono:

Nell_McCoy
24-08-2014, 11:38 AM
I think Dee is my favourite HM I saw her on Benefits Street and to me like many other posters here she is exactly the same. She is kind, generous, caring but also probably a bit controlling with the ability to manipulate both for good and bad motives. She is the only person in that house who I would even consider having as a friend, but she reminds me very much of an old friend of mine who loved being your friend when things were going bad for you but resented it when you were doing well - the opposite of a fair weather friend I suppose. The type of person who NEEDS to feel they are helping you, but if you don't need or want that help it removes their raison d'etre and they resent it. We shall see if she does have a side like this, because it will come out if she does.

Tarryn
24-08-2014, 11:40 AM
I've never seen the show she is on, so I can only go by what I've seen on BB but she seems like a nice person. And she get's on with everyone.
Why do so many on here dislike her ?, is she nasty on the show she is on ?

armand.kay
24-08-2014, 11:44 AM
Even if it's a game plan she's still being pleasant so I don't see whats wrong with that.

rusticgal
24-08-2014, 11:45 AM
I liked 50p man and the model mother. They were both trying.

If it was in America 50p man would have had fame by now.


Exactly...they deserve more. The 50p man at least was trying to make a living rather than sit on his arse all day smoking and drinking coffee.

rusticgal
24-08-2014, 11:58 AM
Dee's a funny one for me,although I don't dislike her,I found her ethics on work sadly lacking on Benefits street,even encouraging her kids to follow suit,and some of the dodgy stuff I've heard about doesn't sit well,but in BB she seems nice enough,but I'll wait a bit and see how she comes over.

If we judge her on what we see on CBB we can only really like her. She will take on the motherly role like she did in her street.
However as you said her work ethics are disgusting. I am a nice person, I like helping people and being there for them but if I sat on my arse all day smoking cigarettes at 10.00 a packet and happy to live on state handouts paid by hard working people like you and I...I would have no self respect.
Dee has no shame...famous for being a lazy scrounger...I would be ashamed. She has had holidays off the back of it and now made a nice amount of money by being on CBB.
She may be 'nice' but underneath she is a lazy money grabbing human being with no morals or decency. She can be mother Theresa in the house but she won't get my vote...only when it comes to evict.

Rob!
24-08-2014, 12:03 PM
I like dee a lot - and she's responsible for the best gif of the series so far.

Livia
24-08-2014, 12:05 PM
Dee is very wise. She probably got wise by having lots and lots and lots of time on her hands to do some deep thinking while the rest of us were earning a living.

Livia
24-08-2014, 12:07 PM
She seems a nice enough person...but she is a nosy oik who wants to be involved in everybody's business. Lauren was talking to Kellie and Dee should have left them to it...but she didn't want to be left out...she didn't want Lauren taking her role and she wanted to know the 'gossip' and play the 'Saint'.
I watched Benefit street...or 2 episodes because it wound me up too much...I would have had more respect for her had she put her day to good use...perhaps as a volunteer..instead of sitting on her doorstep all day smoking fags and drinking coffee and doing ******* all, receiving benefits at our expense.
She can be as nice as she likes in there and she obviously has a nice side to her but that at the end of the day she is just a lazy scrounger.

Excellent post RG.

waterhog
24-08-2014, 01:11 PM
Excellent post RG.

you have been manipulated - this is the aim of this show - they have succeeded and for you to now typecast dee is not giving her the opportunity to show herself as you have already made up your mind.



i was and did typecast but i am holding my hands up - credit where credit is due - white Dee is proving what a lovely lady she is so far.

sorry benefit streets - i will not be manipulated.

the truth
24-08-2014, 02:09 PM
not a fan. shes been a loafer all her life. now shes trying to come across as an expert in social interactions. she isnt. also her judgement is appallingly bad, as we saw as she hailed kellie as the bravest nicest person ever, when 5 minutes later its clear , kellie is a horrible man, always has been. id also like to see her do more to protect the bullying of gary busey and help him with his hearing issues. then again she may not bother as its easier to go with the crowd and against the americans as us narrow minded englsh always seem to do on these shows.

rusticgal
24-08-2014, 02:21 PM
you have been manipulated - this is the aim of this show - they have succeeded and for you to now typecast dee is not giving her the opportunity to show herself as you have already made up your mind.



i was and did typecast but i am holding my hands up - credit where credit is due - white Dee is proving what a lovely lady she is so far.

sorry benefit streets - i will not be manipulated.

You can meet many nice people...that doesn't mean they are decent respectful human beings. I refuse to be manipulated by BB...:joker: