View Full Version : Do people Think Ken meant what he said?
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:18 AM
Do you think he meant them or do you think its his game plan for an early exit?
I think its his Game plan as Jeremy said he is a clever man and he doesnt think he meant what he said although he could of gone down a different route to be kicked out rather that use racist terms
Liam-
13-01-2015, 11:19 AM
Yes, the disgusting pig of a man meant every word.
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:20 AM
Yes, the disgusting pig of a man meant every word.
TBH You would say that
Liam-
13-01-2015, 11:22 AM
Yes because that's my opinion and that's what you asked for :umm2:
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:23 AM
Yes because that's my opinion and that's what you asked for :umm2:
Im looking for genuine opinion not ones that contradict themselves
With respect to his comments about the ladies, he was being controversial for the hell of it. The racist comments I think were phrases he has used many times as they flowed off the tongue easily. I still say they were not said with any ill intent, but he still said them.
Pincho Paxton
13-01-2015, 11:23 AM
I was like some sort of psychotic breakdown.
Jamesy
13-01-2015, 11:24 AM
I don't think he did tbh. I think his 'racist' words were partly serious. His comments about looking at womens arses was obviously all in a joking manner.
He seemed like a wind up merchant, and probably thought it would make good TV (which it has in a way). He didn't go overboard at any point. But he was silly to say all these things as it has ultimately made him look bad.
Liam-
13-01-2015, 11:24 AM
Im looking for genuine opinion not ones that contradict themselves
Wow, someone's rude.
Don't make threads asking for opinions if you're not going to like the ones that disagree with you, jesus christ.
waylander1973
13-01-2015, 11:25 AM
Yes he wanted to go early, when it about the wrong way.
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:26 AM
Wow, someone's rude.
Don't make threads asking for opinions if you're not going to like the ones that disagree with you, jesus christ.
Im not being funny but you support housemates even ruder then him
Jamesy
13-01-2015, 11:27 AM
We've got to remember he's 71 too. Older people generally do talk about race and blacks in a more stern manner. I've spoken to elderly people who can easily say "that black", the n word and all sorts and not think there's anything wrong with it.
His first conversation with Alexander seemed really genuine. I'm not so sure about the conversations after that conversation and warning though.
Crimson Dynamo
13-01-2015, 11:27 AM
meant what?
did he mean that him and Frank Bruno had a laugh together, yes. Does he like women, yes.
Is he a pensioner, yes. Is he not a facebook/twitter generation teen?
yes
jaxie
13-01-2015, 11:27 AM
I think a lot of it was deliberate to wind them up but some things he said were a bit in appropriate though I am not sure what he said when he was removed was a kicking out offence since he was only relaying a story about something he said to Frank Bruno as a joke and not actually calling anyone names.
LukeB
13-01-2015, 11:27 AM
Im not being funny but you support housemates even ruder then him
Just ignore him before this turn into a messy argument
Yep, genuinely thinks he's said nothing wrong and that he's a victim of today's PC mad world
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 11:29 AM
I do think he meant what he said but I think he also knew that what he was saying would offend people
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:29 AM
Yep, genuinely thinks he's said nothing wrong and that he's a victim of today's PC mad world
This he should of said the Racist word but what he said about the girls was perfectly fine
jaxie
13-01-2015, 11:31 AM
We've got to remember he's 71 too. Older people generally do talk about race and blacks in a more stern manner. I've spoken to elderly people who can easily say "that black", the n word and all sorts and not think there's anything wrong with it.
His first conversation with Alexander seemed really genuine. I'm not so sure about the conversations after that conversation and warning though.
I knew a lady who had a cat called ****** when she was a girl. He was named after his colour ****** brown which was a wool colour in those days. (The nig word that can't be typed). They were obviously different times about 50 or 60 years ago. I'm not defending the use of the word just relating that to her it was an innocent use of the word. Anyone in hearing would wince when she said the cats name when relating stories about him.
I think some of it was meant, some of it was ignorance and some of it was to piss delicate housemates off.
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 11:35 AM
I knew a lady who had a cat called ****** when she was a girl. He was named after his colpour ****** brown which was a wool colour in those days. They were obviously different times about 50 or 60 years ago. I'm not defending the use of the word just relating that to her it was an innocent use of the word.
I don't think anyone is denying that but he's not been locked in a cupboard for the the last 50 years either, he knows that those words are offensive to black people, they probably were back then as well
jaxie
13-01-2015, 11:39 AM
I don't think anyone is denying that but he's not been locked in a cupboard for the the last 50 years either, he knows that those words are offensive to black people, they probably were back then as well
I'm not saying he wasn't wrong, was just relating a story about a bizarre cat and wool colour name from the 1950s.
jaxie
13-01-2015, 11:44 AM
I think what he said to Alexander and his remark about black children. I believe the word he used was a slavery reference, and was by far the most offensive thing he said.
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:45 AM
I think what he said to Alexander and his remark about black children. I believe the word he used was a slavery reference, and was by far the most offensive thing he said.
I dont think he should have been warned to what he said to the girls
I just think he's extremely ignorant and thinks because he is part if the older generation, is excused from political correctness.
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:48 AM
I just think he's extremely ignorant and thinks because he is part if the older generation, is excused from political correctness.
Political correctness is a load of ****e and should be ambolished
Political correctness is a l9ad of ****e and should be ambolished
I agree that is sometimes taken too far, but there are some things that just aren't acceptable: sexism and racism being two of them!
Liam-
13-01-2015, 11:51 AM
Political correctness is a l9ad of ****e and should be ambolished
Brilliant idea, let everyone say whatever they want to no matter who it hurts in the process :clap1:
jaxie
13-01-2015, 11:51 AM
I just think he's extremely ignorant and thinks because he is part if the older generation, is excused from political correctness.
I don't even know if its about PC so much as respecting peoples feelings and trying not to offend them. Clearly he was intending to be offensive for the most part. Though I'm not sure he should have been removed. I would have liked to see the public choose.
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 11:52 AM
I think what he said to Alexander and his remark about black children. I believe the word he used was a slavery reference, and was by far the most offensive thing he said.
Yeah, the context of the first time he said it was worse than using the actual word
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:52 AM
Brilliant idea, let everyone say whatever they want to no matter who it hurts in the process :clap1:
Yes why should people shut up because others dont like what they say
Liam-
13-01-2015, 11:54 AM
Yes why should people shut up because others dont like what they say
It's called being a decent human being.
Not saying things that you know will deeply offend people is just a natural instinct to be respectful.
Yes why should people shut up because others dont like what they say
Respect for fellow human beings?
Kizzy
13-01-2015, 11:54 AM
I think he'd been speaking to mcrurrick... be as crude, rude and bliddy obstinate as poss till you're out.
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:54 AM
I agree that is sometimes taken too far, but there are some things that just aren't acceptable: sexism and racism being two of them!
Funny thing i find is that sexism is only frowned upon when its targetted at a woman
thinkingoutloud
13-01-2015, 11:54 AM
I genuinely don't know, he was really puzzling. I can't tell if those were actually his thoughts, if he exaggerated (or both) or if he didn't think those things at all and was just trying to get voted out.
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:55 AM
Respect for fellow human beings?
I think Freedom of speech is important and nobody should be able to tell someone what they can or can not say
Funny thing i find is that sexism is only frowned upon when its targetted at a woman
9 times out of 10 it is
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 11:57 AM
Funny thing i find is that sexism is only frowned upon when its targetted at a woman
Yeah men were never the oppressed sex though, it's like white people complaining about racism
I think Freedom of speech is important and nobody should be able to tell someone what they can or can not say
Where do you draw the line though? Only when it becomes breaking the law?
Denver
13-01-2015, 11:58 AM
Where do you draw the line though? Only when it becomes breaking the law?
If its attacking someone personally thats crossing the line if its a throw away comment then no
If its attacking someone personally thats crossing the line if its a throw away comment then no
So you agree personally insulting someone is wrong? Good :)
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:00 PM
So you agree personally insulting someone is wrong? Good :)
If its about them yes but he didnt insult anyone
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:00 PM
If its attacking someone personally thats crossing the line if its a throw away comment then no
Which is what he did with the racist remarks.
Jamesy
13-01-2015, 12:01 PM
Ken only used one word. One. The N word. How the feck can that upset loads of people. He used it in a genuine conversation. Have people really become that sensitive to get upset over ONE word :umm2:
If Ken said "oi Alexander you ****ing black n*****" then yes I would be very against it but he didn't.
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:02 PM
Which is what he did with the racist remarks.
No he did not stop making things up he said them in a conversation he didnt attack anyone with them
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:03 PM
The man called Alexander a 'big fat *insert racism here*' how is that not using it as a personal insult?
If its about them yes but he didnt insult anyone
He used a derogatory term to describe black people, he used derogatory language towards the women, he mocked Patsy's background...
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:05 PM
The man called Alexander a 'big fat *insert racism here*' how is that not using it as a personal insult?
He joked about it Alexander did not complain so i dont think he was offended
No he did not stop making things up he said them in a conversation he didnt attack anyone with them
He still said them though, and he knew he had already been given a formal warning for it. I don't like how he was treated either, but if you are warned and choose to ignore it, you take the consequences. As Ken made it clear he wanted to be thrown out, its fair to assume he said it again intentionally.
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:07 PM
He joked about it Alexander did not complain so i dont think he was offended
lmfao, are you watching the same thing everyone else is?
Alexander took the time to explain to him why what he said was unacceptable and what he should say instead, it obviously bothered him otherwise he wouldn't have felt the need to do that :umm2:
Pincho Paxton
13-01-2015, 12:09 PM
Ken only used one word. One. The N word. How the feck can that upset loads of people. He used it in a genuine conversation. Have people really become that sensitive to get upset over ONE word :umm2:
If Ken said "oi Alexander you ****ing black n*****" then yes I would be very against it but he didn't.
Frank Bruno was born Hammersmith, London. So words to other locations aren't really applicable without insult.
No doubt about it. Very ignorant and extremely arrogant.
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:14 PM
lmfao, are you watching the same thing everyone else is?
Alexander took the time to explain to him why what he said was unacceptable and what he should say instead, it obviously bothered him otherwise he wouldn't have felt the need to do that :umm2:
Did he not warn him to be carefull who it says it to rather then take offence if you ask me Perez joking about a illness millions have died from is more of offence
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:17 PM
Did he not warn him to be carefull who it says it to rather then take offence if you ask me Perez joking about a illness millions have died from is more of offence
Saying someone is a cancer is not worse than racism omfg
an evil or destructive practice or phenomenon that is hard to contain or eradicate.
"racism is a cancer sweeping across Europe"
There you go, there's a definition of the term 'cancer' away from the medical field, with the perfect example to go along with it :thumbs:
Did he not warn him to be carefull who it says it to rather then take offence if you ask me Perez joking about a illness millions have died from is more of offence
He didn't make a joke about people having cancer.. He referred to ken as cancer within the group. Completely different.
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:18 PM
Saying someone is a cancer is not worse than racism omfg
an evil or destructive practice or phenomenon that is hard to contain or eradicate.
"racism is a cancer sweeping across Europe"
There you go, there's a definition of the term 'cancer' away from the medical field, with the perfect example to go along with it :thumbs:
Nobody dies from Racism millions die from cancer
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:19 PM
He didn't make a joke about people having cancer.. He referred to ken as cancer within the group. Completely different.
He had no right to say that though thats tak8ng it to far
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:20 PM
Nobody dies from Racism millions die from cancer
oh my lord, help yourself
Udanax
13-01-2015, 12:20 PM
Nobody dies from Racism millions die from cancer
stop this
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:21 PM
oh my lord, help yourself
Racism can be stopped cancer cant
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 12:21 PM
He had no right to say that though thats tak8ng it to far
Oh yes too far lol everything Ken said was just fine though :laugh: I'm beginning to feel like you're just poking for a reaction Mr. :nono:
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:22 PM
stop this
There is nothing wromg with what im saying im not offending anyone
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:22 PM
Racism can be stopped cancer cant
Has it been stopped? no it hasn't, go educate yourself before you spout your bile please.
Pincho Paxton
13-01-2015, 12:22 PM
This thread is turning into a cancer on ThisisBigBrother.com
Nobody dies from Racism millions die from cancer
Holy crap, suggest you do some back ground reading before making further comments like that. Ever heard of the Ku Klux Klan ?
Oh my
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:22 PM
Oh yes too far lol everything Ken said was just fine though :laugh: I'm beginning to feel like you're just poking for a reaction Mr. :nono:
Ive never said Ken was right if you look back i said he shouldnt of said anything about racism
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 12:23 PM
This thread is turning into a cancer on ThisisBigBrother.com
:laugh2:
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 12:23 PM
Ive never said Ken was right if you look back i said he shouldnt of said anything about racism
ok :thumbs:
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:23 PM
Has it been stopped? no it hasn't, go educate yourself before you spout your bile please.
Racism is not as bad as it was 30/40 years ago
smudgie
13-01-2015, 12:24 PM
Quite sick of hearing his age used as an excuse.
He may be 71 now, but when the words were deemed offensive he would still be a rather young/middle aged man.
Northern Monkey
13-01-2015, 12:24 PM
Yes, the disgusting pig of a man meant every word.
The over reactions.lol
He said himself in like the first or second ep that he wanted to be kicked.He wanted out as soon as poss.It was blatently obvious.
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:25 PM
Racism is not as bad as it was 30/40 years ago
Are you actually kidding me? you've got to be trolling, i can't see anyone really saying this stuff if they're not just looking for a reaction :think:
I think you need to digest what you want to say before you actually say it
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:26 PM
Are you actually kidding me? you've got to be trolling, i can't see anyone really saying this stuff if they're not just looking for a reaction :think:
I think you need to digest what you want to say before you actually say it
I think your over-reacting and not allowing anyone to have a opinion but yourself
Yes, I think Ken probably meant what he said.
never thought I would say it ... but I agree with Liam on this
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:29 PM
I think your over-reacting and not allowing anyone to have a opinion but yourself
I let people have opinions, apart from when they try to defend racism
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:30 PM
I let people have opinions, apart from when they try to defend racism
Maybe read the whole thread before saying im being racist and i also since most of my relatives are black i think its very unlikely im racist
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:31 PM
never thought I would say it ... but I agree with Liam on this
Enjoy it while it lasts :hehe:
Liam-
13-01-2015, 12:32 PM
Maybe read the whole thread before saying im being racist and i also since most of my relatives are black i think its very unlikely im racist
I didn't say you were being racist, i said you were defending racism, completely different.
Northern Monkey
13-01-2015, 12:33 PM
Funny thing i find is that sexism is only frowned upon when its targetted at a womanBecause men don't bitch about it.
Denver
13-01-2015, 12:33 PM
I didn't say you were being racist, i said you were defending racism, completely different.
Ive not defended racism anyone conversation is closed
He had no right to say that though thats tak8ng it to far
I though everybody had a right to say whatever they please?
Pincho Paxton
13-01-2015, 12:35 PM
Because men don't bitch about it.
Woman can say that I have a nice arse all day I can take it...
...(not up the ****)
rusticgal
13-01-2015, 12:45 PM
I don't think he is racist....he never used those words directly at anyone in a malicious way. When he said it to Alexander he went into a 'role play' mode. When he quoted his phone convo to Keith, he was referring to black music.
He isn't malicious...but he is a silly ignorant man and from a generation that were more familiar with such terms and words that are no longer acceptable in our society today...thank goodness.
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 12:46 PM
I don't think he is racist....he never used those words directly at anyone in a malicious way. When he said it to Alexander he went into a 'role play' mode. When he quoted his phone convo to Keith, he was referring to black music.
He isn't malicious...but he is a silly ignorant man and from a generation that were more familiar with such terms and words that are no longer acceptable in our society today...thank goodness.
Role play as some sort of slave owner or something, how is that not racist? :laugh:
DemolitionRed
13-01-2015, 12:47 PM
Frank Bruno was born Hammersmith, London. So words to other locations aren't really applicable without insult.
The word wasn't said about Frank Bruno, it was said about the type of music that was playing and it wasn't the N word as everyone keeps pointing out, it was the original accepted word that white extremists took and bastardized.
Its used all the time within American black communities and its only offensive to white people. It was used to describe music...wtf???
www.youtube.com/user/blancoynegro
www.negrospirituals.com/
http://ncnw.org/
http://www.nanbpwc.org/
http://www.tshaonline.org/handbook/online/articles/vet02
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 12:50 PM
I have met and spoken to many older people in my time, thousands, not once have I ever heard any of them use that word to describe black people. Ken was
fully aware he would cause controversy by using that term and I am pretty sure that is what he set out to do we live in an age where trying to be controversial is becoming so cliche.
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 12:53 PM
The word wasn't said about Frank Bruno, it was said about the type of music that was playing and it wasn't the N word as everyone keeps pointing out, it was the original accepted word that white extremists took and bastardized.
Its used all the time within American black communities and its only offensive to white people. It was used to describe music...wtf???
www.youtube.com/user/blancoynegro
www.negrospirituals.com/
http://ncnw.org/
http://www.nanbpwc.org/
http://www.tshaonline.org/handbook/online/articles/vet02
Alexander seemed offended about it :shrug:
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 12:59 PM
Alexander seemed offended about it :shrug:
TBH most sane black people are going to be offended.
Niamh.
13-01-2015, 01:01 PM
TBH most sane black people are going to be offended.
I would imagine so yeah
Denver
13-01-2015, 01:03 PM
TBH most sane black people are going to be offended.
Not all black people some use it themselves
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 01:10 PM
Not all black people some use it themselvesBe realistic, if you were to go into a shop and happen to be served by a black shop keeper and then asked " Hi negro sir can I have 20 B&H you seriously saying your going to get a 50/50 reaction? Think you need to apply more reality to this situation. That word is offensive.
Not forgetting that he prefixed "Negro" with "big,fat"
Of course he meant what he was saying!
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 01:17 PM
Not forgetting that he prefixed "Negro" with "big,fat"
Of course he meant what he was saying!And that attempt at sounding like a Southern American, we all knew what he was trying to do, there really is no denying it.
Denver
13-01-2015, 01:19 PM
Be realistic, if you were to go into a shop and happen to be served by a black shop keeper and then asked " Hi negro sir can I have 20 B&H you seriously saying your going to get a 50/50 reaction? Think you need to apply more reality to this situation. That word is offensive.
I wouldnt say that out of respect for my grandad so no
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 01:20 PM
I wouldnt say that out of respect for my grandad so noRespect, is what it's all about mate. Or a lack of it, in Ken's case.
Not all black people some use it themselves
..black people have an entitlement to use that word if the want to, white people do not have that same entitlement...
Denver
13-01-2015, 01:22 PM
Respect, is what it's all about mate. Or a lack of it, in Ken's case.
If he was to say it its up to him
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 01:23 PM
..black people have an entitlement to use that word if the want to, white people do not have that same entitlement...
And from my experience they use it in jest. Certainly not during serious conversation.
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 01:23 PM
If he was to say it its up to him
Certainly is up to him, but it's racist. He is choosing to be racist.
Denver
13-01-2015, 01:23 PM
..black people have an entitlement to use that word if the want to, white people do not have that same entitlement...
Of course but im saying not all black people get offended by the word or who uses it
Denver
13-01-2015, 01:25 PM
And from my experience they use it in jest. Certainly not during serious conversation.
They can and have aa ive witnessed many of times
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 01:26 PM
Of course but im saying not all black people get offended by the word or who uses it
Feel free to go out in public and call as many black people by that word as you can.. If your opinion is true, you will live to tell us the story..I wonder if you will make it back to this forum alive to tell us your results.. Somehow I don't think you would.
GiRTh
13-01-2015, 01:26 PM
For sure he meant it IMO. HE wanted to cause controversy and the fact he has his excuses ready now he's left the house made it all the more calculating. I'm having less and less sympathy for Ken he's not a bungling old man trying to adapt at all. I think he intended to insult people and cause controversy..
GiRTh
13-01-2015, 01:27 PM
Of course but im saying not all black people get offended by the word or who uses itOnly about 99 percent. I like the Special one advise to you. Try going out and talking to random black people start throwing out the word negro. I'll pay your hospital fees if you like. :thumbs:
Denver
13-01-2015, 01:33 PM
Feel free to go out in public and call as many black people by that word as you can.. If your opinion is true, you will live to tell us the story..I wonder if you will make it back to this forum alive to tell us your results.. Somehow I don't think you would.
FYI im partly black myslf so ive been around black people my whole life so i think im sure i know
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 01:37 PM
FYI im partly black myslf so ive been around black people my whole life so i think im sure i know
I have many black friends, so I think I know too.
the truth
13-01-2015, 01:38 PM
Yes, the disgusting pig of a man meant every word.
he didn't do thing wrong. in fact perez has been 100 times worse. and you name claling makes youa total hypocrite
the truth
13-01-2015, 01:39 PM
Feel free to go out in public and call as many black people by that word as you can.. If your opinion is true, you will live to tell us the story..I wonder if you will make it back to this forum alive to tell us your results.. Somehow I don't think you would.
he didn't call anyone that word, youre lying again
Cherie
13-01-2015, 01:40 PM
meant what?
did he mean that him and Frank Bruno had a laugh together, yes. Does he like women, yes.
Is he a pensioner, yes. Is he not a facebook/twitter generation teen?
yes
:clap1:
Jose Mourinho
13-01-2015, 01:46 PM
he didn't call anyone that word, youre lying again
Not lied here once. He used that word, a racist word in a disrespectful manner, when he had other better choices of words to use. End of.
Liam-
13-01-2015, 01:46 PM
he didn't do thing wrong. in fact perez has been 100 times worse. and you name claling makes youa total hypocrite
I wondered when you'd pop up, Prynhawn da :douf:
DemolitionRed
13-01-2015, 05:59 PM
Alexander seemed offended about it :shrug:
I didn't see that episode and so I was talking about what he said last night regarding asking for the N music to be turned down.
DemolitionRed
13-01-2015, 06:00 PM
I have many black friends, so I think I know too.
Yeah well all of my family and most of my friends are black and they are all having a wtf moment with this.
Pete.
13-01-2015, 06:01 PM
Yes, what an arse
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