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mazerunner_888
22-01-2015, 09:40 PM
I think it's clearly a reference to gay sex in a insulting way. Perez saw this no doubt along with the rest of the LGB community so was right to call her out about it.

Jamesy
22-01-2015, 09:43 PM
As a gay man I fail to see how it is a gay jibe, or homophobic.

He just said it was homophobic to get a reaction and to attempt to get Katie a warning.

Jake.
22-01-2015, 09:44 PM
Yes of course you do dear

Denver
22-01-2015, 09:45 PM
I thinks its a disgraceful thing for anyone to say for no reason

mazerunner_888
22-01-2015, 09:46 PM
As a gay man I fail to see how it is a gay jibe, or homophobic.

He just said it was homophobic to get a reaction and to attempt to get Katie a warning.

Well as a straight man it's a anal sex reference. I think Katie saying this was a it down to Perez and his lifestyle.

Jack The Cat
22-01-2015, 09:47 PM
I think it's clearly a reference to gay sex in a insulting way. Perez saw this no doubt along with the rest of the LGB community so was right to call her out about it.

You have a personal view which is great, I'm not sure Peter Tatchell, will be delighted with your principled stance.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 09:48 PM
I think it's clearly a reference to gay sex in a insulting way. Perez saw this no doubt along with the rest of the LGB community so was right to call her out about it.

I knew there would be one. And credit to you:laugh:

Denver
22-01-2015, 09:48 PM
What next? Going to the shop for black pudding is a racist slur?

Jack The Cat
22-01-2015, 09:49 PM
Well as a straight man it's a anal sex reference. I think Katie saying this was a it down to Perez and his lifestyle.


If anything it's sexist, homophobia doesn't come into it.


Verb
Take it like a man (third-person singular simple present takes it like a man, present participle taking it like a man, simple past took it like a man, past participle taken it like a man)

(idiomatic) To respond to pain, hardship, adversity, or emotional distress in a collected, aggressive, and typical or stereotypical masculine manner, especially without question, crying, complaining, or becoming emotional
There was no moping around the house with a depressed disposition when one of my romances turned sour because, as far as my love life went, father expected me to take it like a man.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 09:50 PM
What next? Going to the shop for black pudding is a racist slur?


Let's hope they don't give Perez a black board to write on. Perez will want his lawyer against BB.

MTVN
22-01-2015, 09:50 PM
I think you're gonna come in for a lot of stick for this thread mazerunner but I hope you take it like a man

Jamesy
22-01-2015, 09:51 PM
Well as a straight man it's a anal sex reference. I think Katie saying this was a it down to Perez and his lifestyle.

It's a saying fgs. If someone said to me in an argument take it like a man I wouldn't think they are referring to my sex life.

You're being blinded by your love of Perez and taking it to a silly level.

Jamesy
22-01-2015, 09:52 PM
What next? Going to the shop for black pudding is a racist slur?

Then next we have ordering a carrot cake is against gingers :worry:

abhorson
22-01-2015, 09:53 PM
I think you're gonna come in for a lot of stick for this thread mazerunner but I hope you take it like a man

Simply brilliant.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 09:54 PM
I think it's clearly a reference to gay sex in a insulting way. Perez saw this no doubt along with the rest of the LGB community so was right to call her out about it.

To the circus with you!

empire
22-01-2015, 09:55 PM
nonsense

Jack The Cat
22-01-2015, 09:56 PM
I think it's clearly a reference to gay sex in a insulting way. Perez saw this no doubt along with the rest of the LGB community so was right to call her out about it.

That well known homophobic singer.

Take It Like a Man : The Autobiography of Boy George

Currently available on Amazon £9.99

But maybe Stonewall should start a protest.

Mystic Mock
22-01-2015, 09:56 PM
I think it's sexist more than homophobic tbh.

But I still don't get how Katie Hopkins has fans left after her behaviour in the house tbh.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 09:57 PM
I always admire ones faithfulness to a cause but you have to finally admit when you are flogging a dead Perez.

bots
22-01-2015, 09:58 PM
i don't think i have ever met or seen a homophobic woman on tv. Is it actually possible?

Jack The Cat
22-01-2015, 09:58 PM
Well as a straight man it's a anal sex reference. I think Katie saying this was a it down to Perez and his lifestyle.

Anal sex isn't just for Gay Men, straight couples can have Anal sex too.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:01 PM
Still stuck in that maze.

Jack The Cat
22-01-2015, 10:03 PM
I think it's sexist more than homophobic tbh.

But I still don't get how Katie Hopkins has fans left after her behaviour in the house tbh.

Fair enough and respect for not jumping on the crazy train, I agree if anything at a push it is a sexist comment.

Ninastar
22-01-2015, 10:05 PM
As a gay man I fail to see how it is a gay jibe, or homophobic.

He just said it was homophobic to get a reaction and to attempt to get Katie a warning.

this but i'm not a gay man, i am a gay woman xo

Miranda123
22-01-2015, 10:06 PM
Well as a straight man it's a anal sex reference. I think Katie saying this was a it down to Perez and his lifestyle.

Its a shame that people dont already know this stuff, but I'll put that down to an age thing, so here for you youngsters


English[edit]
Verb[edit]
take it like a man (third-person singular simple present takes it like a man, present participle taking it like a man, simple past took it like a man, past participle taken it like a man)

(idiomatic) To respond to pain, hardship, adversity, or emotional distress in a collected, aggressive, and typical or stereotypical masculine manner, especially without question, crying, complaining, or becoming emotional
There was no moping around the house with a depressed disposition when one of my romances turned sour because, as far as my love life went, father expected me to take it like a man.
Synonyms[edit]
buck up
deal with it
man up
suck it up
take one for the team

have we all got it now?

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:07 PM
"If you're going to decipher a hidden code from a complex set of different mazes, I'm pretty sure you need a girl's brain running the show.”
― James Dashner.

Miranda123
22-01-2015, 10:07 PM
If anything it's sexist, homophobia doesn't come into it.


Verb
Take it like a man (third-person singular simple present takes it like a man, present participle taking it like a man, simple past took it like a man, past participle taken it like a man)

(idiomatic) To respond to pain, hardship, adversity, or emotional distress in a collected, aggressive, and typical or stereotypical masculine manner, especially without question, crying, complaining, or becoming emotional
There was no moping around the house with a depressed disposition when one of my romances turned sour because, as far as my love life went, father expected me to take it like a man.

sorry Jack, I didnt see this and posted my own, yours is tidier though lol

Angelika
22-01-2015, 10:08 PM
I think it's sexist more than homophobic tbh.

But I still don't get how Katie Hopkins has fans left after her behaviour in the house tbh.

Unfortunately, not everyone is perceptive as we are. Many people can't make decisions for themselves unless someone guides them. That is why there are more sheep than shepherds. I believe, haven't watched BBOTS, that someone on there is telling he public KH is a wonderful human being!

Why don't I watch BBOTS you ask? Well, I can't stand screechy Emma and get blinded by her co-hosts ulta-white teeth. At that time of night I enjoy a bit of quiet.

lily.
22-01-2015, 10:08 PM
I think you're gonna come in for a lot of stick for this thread mazerunner but I hope you take it like a man

Upvote.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:11 PM
Unfortunately, not everyone is perceptive as we are. Many people can't make decisions for themselves unless someone guides them. That is why there are more sheep than shepherds. I believe, haven't watched BBOTS, that someone on there is telling he public KH is a wonderful human being!

Why don't I watch BBOTS you ask? Well, I can't stand screechy Emma and get blinded by her co-hosts ulta-white teeth. At that time of night I enjoy a bit of quiet.

Are you Horseist?:laugh:

Jack The Cat
22-01-2015, 10:11 PM
sorry Jack, I didnt see this and posted my own, yours is tidier though lol

No problem, great minds think alike. :douf:

Angelika
22-01-2015, 10:13 PM
Are you Horseist?:laugh:

:laugh:

Miranda123
22-01-2015, 10:13 PM
I think it's sexist more than homophobic tbh.

But I still don't get how Katie Hopkins has fans left after her behaviour in the house tbh.

theres just no hope with young people today really, youve been brought up in a world of facebook and twitter and take offense at sayings that we have all been using for many many years with no offense taken or meant

take it like a man, came about because men were always considered stronger, which physically they are of course, but also emotionally, of course that is not true, but that is where it came from, no homosexual reference in it at all

suck it up folks! take it like men!

Amy Jade
22-01-2015, 10:13 PM
Worst thread contender?

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:16 PM
Worst thread contender?

Gave us a laugh.

Mazerunner would try to defend Perez if he done a dump on her head!

mazerunner_888
22-01-2015, 10:16 PM
Just because you choose to ignore the bullying and homophobic put downs does not mean its not happening. Nadia bravely stood up to Perez's bullies today and I hope they see now that Perez is defended in the house.

Perez is defended on these forums so hope you see this also for any haters on here.

Denver
22-01-2015, 10:17 PM
Just because you choose to ignore the bullying and homophobic put downs does not mean its not happening. Nadia bravely stood up to Perez's bullies today and I hope they see now that Perez is defended in the house.

Perez is defended on these forums so hope you see this also for any haters on here.

Nadia even said it wasnt homophobic

Amy Jade
22-01-2015, 10:19 PM
Just because you choose to ignore the bullying and homophobic put downs does not mean its not happening. Nadia bravely stood up to Perez's bullies today and I hope they see now that Perez is defended in the house.

Perez is defended on these forums so hope you see this also for any haters on here.

You're acting like Perez, just doing stuff for a reaction. If you seriously believe her comment was homophobic then that's shocking and quite sad.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:19 PM
Just because you choose to ignore the bullying and homophobic put downs does not mean its not happening. Nadia bravely stood up to Perez's bullies today and I hope they see now that Perez is defended in the house.



Perez is defended on these forums so hope you see this also for any haters on here.


Bloody hell- YES. What is the number to save Perez.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters
22-01-2015, 10:20 PM
I think it's clearly a reference to gay sex in a insulting way. Perez saw this no doubt along with the rest of the LGB community so was right to call her out about it.

:clap1:

mazerunner_888
22-01-2015, 10:21 PM
You're acting like Perez, just doing stuff for a reaction. If you seriously believe her comment was homophobic then that's shocking and quite sad.

Look up the word insidious and then come back to me.

Denver
22-01-2015, 10:21 PM
:clap1:

I cant believ someone agrees

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:21 PM
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Angelika
22-01-2015, 10:22 PM
theres just no hope with young people today really, youve been brought up in a world of facebook and twitter and take offense at sayings that we have all been using for many many years with no offense taken or meant

take it like a man, came about because men were always considered stronger, which physically they are of course, but also emotionally, of course that is not true, but that is where it came from, no homosexual reference in it at all

suck it up folks! take it like men!

You are ageiest!

Perhaps you haven't noticed but our language grows and evolves on a daily basis and so does the need for equality and human rights in our society. Its offensive in the UK today to use certain language from the past and discriminate against anyone else, even young people!

Two men were kicked out of CBB15 one for offensive language and one for an offensive deed.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:23 PM
You're acting like Perez, just doing stuff for a reaction. If you seriously believe her comment was homophobic then that's shocking and quite sad.

:clap1::clap1:

Benjamin
22-01-2015, 10:24 PM
I like Perez, but that was not a homophobic slur. Katie is a lot of things, but she isn't that.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:26 PM
I cant believ someone agrees


Someone else has the cajonies to try or thinks this is serious:laugh:

Amy Jade
22-01-2015, 10:26 PM
Look up the word insidious and then come back to me.

So you fully admit you are baiting pretty much, I don't think homophobia is a joke or a good way to troll people it's actually a very serious matter.

Oh and read the Tibb rules on baiting, you're breaking them.

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:28 PM
I like Perez, but that was not a homophobic slur. Katie is a lot of things, but she isn't that.

Credit.

Amy Jade
22-01-2015, 10:28 PM
In my eyes this thread is quite disgusting.

Let's pretend somebody is homophobic to get them hate and annoy their fans.

mazerunner_888
22-01-2015, 10:31 PM
In my eyes this thread is quite disgusting.

Let's pretend somebody is homophobic to get them hate and annoy their fans.

You claiming someone is baiting when I have clearly been disgusted by Katie's behavior towards Perez from the start is simply you hating on me for no good reason than i defend Perez and you dislike him. I think that is quite low of you in my option and no longer want to discuss the matter with you if your going to attack me for no reason other than you disagree with my views.

Angelika
22-01-2015, 10:33 PM
I like Perez, but that was not a homophobic slur. Katie is a lot of things, but she isn't that.

Benjamin, why do you smoke!

Katie is a lot of things.........she is clearly intolerant of others and their opinions. Why not their lifestyles? Not sure I could be as confident as you are on this point.

Amy Jade
22-01-2015, 10:33 PM
You claiming someone is baiting when I have clearly been disgusted by Katie's behavior towards Perez from the start is simply you hating on me for no good reason than i defend Perez and you dislike him. I think that is quite low of you in my option and no longer want to discuss the matter with you if your going to attack me for no reason other than you disagree with my views.

aka I hit the nail on the head and you are just baiting

abhorson
22-01-2015, 10:33 PM
:laugh:Bored with the thread now,

Good night all.

Denver
22-01-2015, 10:34 PM
In my eyes this thread is quite disgusting.

Let's pretend somebody is homophobic to get them hate and annoy their fans.

I find it more disrespectful that the OP says that all gay people agree with Perez on this subject when they dont

Angelika
22-01-2015, 10:39 PM
:laugh:Bored with the thread now,

Good night all.
I'm bored too, wish there was a off button! :sleep:

Benjamin
22-01-2015, 10:40 PM
Benjamin, why do you smoke!

Katie is a lot of things.........she is clearly intolerant of others and their opinions. Why not their lifestyles? Not sure I could be as confident as you are on this point.

Katie has never once shown any form of homophobia, so it would be wrong to assume she is just because she has awful opinions on other things..

Jay.
22-01-2015, 11:12 PM
Katie isn't homophobic, if anything it's just sexist, but he's a man... so...

rionablue
22-01-2015, 11:41 PM
I don't like either of them but my view is that Perez has been acting like a child and a spoilt brat and Katie wanted him to act like a man and take criticism the way that she does. HE is a show off and trying to be a circus entertainer. Well he is NOT entertaining me anymore. I am SICK of him.

Northern Monkey
22-01-2015, 11:57 PM
:facepalm:
Perez desperate for the 'Big Brother homophobe shocker' headline.Wonder if he'll manage before he goes?

Bailey2Be
23-01-2015, 12:17 AM
This was in no way a 'jibe'. It was very obvious that Perez was just looking for any excuse at this point to accuse KH of anything he can. It wasn't offensive and you could see by KH reaction that it really was not meant to be, regardless of how much she hates Perez.

jennyjuniper
23-01-2015, 05:30 AM
Yet another instance of people being overly sensitive to a commonly used expression. If the ones who are offended have their way we'll all be gagged 'in case' we say anything to offend anyones sensibilities.
If you are gay, good on you. But just get on with it, without looking for slurs and so called insults all the time.

arista
23-01-2015, 05:48 AM
I think it's clearly a reference to gay sex in a insulting way. Perez saw this no doubt along with the rest of the LGB community so was right to call her out about it.



Is it.
Not Ofcom again?



Perez Drama Queen
put him on Graham Norton
in the Chair

Tip
23-01-2015, 06:24 AM
Katie shouldn't mind Perez's opinion really - she knows he's entitled to it even if it's wrong.

It's like many of her opinions, said for effect but stupid.

They are two of a kind.

the truth
23-01-2015, 07:32 AM
As a gay man I fail to see how it is a gay jibe, or homophobic.

He just said it was homophobic to get a reaction and to attempt to get Katie a warning.

in this context it was intended to hurt and be bigoted