DEAR PEREZ...regards Ellie

[elliebrew]

DEAR PEREZ

am not going to pretend that before writing this post that I liked you. I am not going to pretend I started watching this series of big brother as a fan of yours. I won’t pretend that I haven’t had to take more than a few deep breaths before writing this post.

I am angry.

I am offended.

I am disappointed.

I am upset.

I don’t pretend to have ever wasted my time reading your blog; from what I know and understand of it, is that it is just filled with hatred, remarks, gossip and lies about people far more talented and successful as yourself. It is not something that interests me. It’s nothing more than glorified bullying.

I don’t pretend that, before your entrance to the Celebrity Big Brother House earlier this year, I ever gave you a second thought – other than, when your endless bashing of Lady Gaga as a bully, as ‘homophobic’ and all the other endless nonsense, that seemed to have no real substantiation, plagued my twitter timeline. This was of course, not for the first time.

Before your arrival on to my television screen, I remained blissfully ignorant to your ‘career’, and incredibly unaware as to the disgusting behavior you would display in some last ditched attempt to save your otherwise dwindling career – your A-list friend circle all but gone, your presence online being replaced by 13 year old kids with nothing more than a webcam, iMovie and an attitude problem.

Over the last few weeks, I have watched in utter horror at the spectacle you have made of yourself on British TV. At first….I got it. I really did! In fact, I almost felt sorry for you. The venomous character you have created seems to have intertwined with the person under it in such a deep rooted way, that you became very lonely, very desperate to be liked. I got it.

However, with every attention seeking filled second. This feeling of compassion turned to pity, as I watched you goad other housemates into getting so frustrated, that they used offensive language. Whilst I, of course, don’t condone the word that Alexander O’Neal used towards you….I don’t think for a second he is homophobic, no more than I do Will.I.Am, Lady Gaga….OR Katie Hopkins as you branded her just a week ago. To me, it seems like a word you are FAR to quick to use against people that just don’t like you….poor Perez.

I watched as you embarrassed the gay community on national television, in a country that has worked so hard to eliminate prejudice against the LGBTQ community. It was painful to watch as I saw your behavior, knowing that, for some people, it would form an opinion of us, as a community.

I watched in absolute despair as Michelle Visage cried for the same reason I wanted to. Michelle, for all intents and purposes, is as much part of this community as me, and, if I like it or not, you. Having been the victim of a random and unprovoked homophobic assault, I wonder how many gay people will be prejudged, as I was, against the behavior you have displayed?

It has become tiresome to watch what had been one of my favourite shows. It has been utterly overshadowed by you and the pathetic attempts to steal every second of camera time as you could. It’s become very clear you went in, desperate to be liked and it backfired, and now you are going for the villain title…well congratulations…you’ve certainly got that.

I could have forgiven it. I could have forgotten it all….eagerly! I could have accepted your utterly pitiful behavior…in time. The British public are clever enough to work out exactly what you are doing. What I cannot forgive is the latest vile addition to the already distasteful portfolio you have built up over the last few weeks. Your ‘wholly unacceptable’ comment about the AIDS pandemic.

We watched as you compared the isolation you have felt to being “diagnosed with AIDS in the early 80s”.

Words fail to justify the utter disgust I feel towards you. There is no excuse for it.

You have been ostracised, isolated and ‘picked on’ because of the childlike, pathetic and disgraceful way in which you have portrayed yourself. People are acting like that towards you because they don’t like YOU. Whilst she may be flawed, Katie Hopkins is not to blame for that, she is not at fault here. YOU ARE.

I have NO doubt your comment was a VERY deliberate act to offend, upset and incite anger and hatred. It is CRYSTAL clear that you hold no regard for the LGBTQ community, but to use HIV/AIDS as ammunition is nothing short of abhorrent.

How dare you compare justified comments and behaviors towards you in the same way it felt to be diagnosed in the 1980s. As someone living with HIV, I could not even begin to imagine being diagnosed with AIDS now, let alone in the early 80s.

I have felt isolation that you could never begin to imagine. I have cried so hard that I felt I didn’t have the strength to wake up the next day.

I have felt loneliness like I can’t even begin to describe. Even in a room full of loved ones, I felt like I didn’t have a single person in the world that understood the grief I was feeling.

I have had strangers look at me with utter disgust on their faces, just because of the three letters whispered in their ear by someone I didn’t know.

I have lost friendships, the love of family members and the respect of acquaintances just because I am living with a immunodeficiency virus.

I have seen the lust in people’s eyes changed to pity or disgust as I disclosed my status and knew instantly that they had discounted my entire personality.

I feel blessed that I had support around me….other people aren’t that lucky. I can’t get my head around how that would have felt.

All this still, NOTHING compared to what people in the 80s felt when they were told they had AIDS. When there was no treatment, no cure….it WAS a death sentence. That is something I can’t even begin to imagine…My heart actually hurts when I think of the men,women and children that lost their lives to AIDS related illnesses.

So tell me again Mr Hilton, how your situation is ANYTHING like that?!

I feel physically sick by the complete disregard to the memory of those we lost in the 80s, simply so you could get more screen time, to offend a wider audience, to build a bigger hatred so you can come out and whine and winge about how hard it was for you!

I would never wish the isolation, the loneliness and the prejudice that comes with living with this virus upon anyone….I would never want you to understand just how far away your comment was from reality.

I sincerely hope you fully understand just what you have done.

Our community needs support, not stigma.

There cannot be an apology from you….I for one, refuse to accept it.

What you have done and said, has all been deliberate….for shock value.

For me, it’s unforgivable.

[Black Dagger]

Wow

[sampvt]

The OP pretty much sums it all up, well done Ellie.

[Daniel.]

omf

[Jack The Cat]

Nice OP, very powerful.

[Black Dagger]

I'm not quite sure he will get the chance to read it.

[Liam-]

:clap2:

[Black Dagger]

Lol pls don't pretend you read it all.

[elliebrew]

Perez is such a lovely person isn't he http://perezhilton.com/2008-05-22-how-do-we-say-this-delicately-65#.VNE_jy6WNLM

[Vanessa]

:laugh: he doesn't care what people think of him and that's why i love him. :laugh:

[Liam-]

Lol pls don't pretend you read it all.

I did read it all.. very quickly, but read it all nonetheless :laugh:

[Jack_]

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2010/09/10/article-1310961-0B20925F000005DC-95_468x536.jpg

(but I am genuinely sorry to hear that)

[Josy]

Why give someone that you supposedly hate, so much of your attention and time?

You are essentially pandering to the attention he craves which you claim to detest so much. I don't get it.

Just ignore him or turn the channel over, letting someone on a tv show get to you so much surely can't be good and I certainly wouldnt class it as entertainment.

[Vanessa]

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2010/09/10/article-1310961-0B20925F000005DC-95_468x536.jpg

(but I am genuinely sorry to hear that)

:dance: It's the Perez show! :dance:

[sampvt]

:laugh: he doesn't care what people think of him and that's why i love him. :laugh:

Does that mean you love me as well.

[elliebrew]

Why give someone that you supposedly hate, so much of your attention and time?

You are essentially pandering to the attention he craves which you claim to detest so much. I don't get it.

Just ignore him or turn the channel over, letting someone on a tv show get to you so much surely can't be good and I certainly wouldnt class it as entertainment.

equally letting someone i detest be adored and admired by a blinded public gets to me more than anything.

[ebandit]

:laugh: he doesn't care what people think of him and that's why i love him. :laugh:

don't forget he told you to ***** off too..............................

you may not agree but the OP is so much more deserving of respect than pez for caring

so much

Mark L

[Vanessa]

don't forget he told you to ***** off too..............................

you may not agree but the OP is so much deserving of respect for caring

so much

Mark L

He was joking, messing about. People just take him too seriously. :spin:

[Black Dagger]

equally letting someone i detest be adored and admired by a blinded public gets to me more than anything.

Here he goes again. Do you never get tired trying to make us blindly agree with your every word.

[Josy]

equally letting someone i detest be adored and admired by a blinded public gets to me more than anything.

I'm sure there's quite a few people feeling like that during this BB and not just about Perez but he will fade into obscurity after BB, people will forget him and everything that happened during the show.

[Vanessa]

We are entitled to support who we like. I need to be entertained when i watch the show. I can't support bores who do nothing until the last week. :nono:

[abhorson]

DEAR PEREZ

am not going to pretend that before writing this post that I liked you. I am not going to pretend I started watching this series of big brother as a fan of yours. I won’t pretend that I haven’t had to take more than a few deep breaths before writing this post.

I am angry.

I am offended.

I am disappointed.

I am upset.

I don’t pretend to have ever wasted my time reading your blog; from what I know and understand of it, is that it is just filled with hatred, remarks, gossip and lies about people far more talented and successful as yourself. It is not something that interests me. It’s nothing more than glorified bullying.

I don’t pretend that, before your entrance to the Celebrity Big Brother House earlier this year, I ever gave you a second thought – other than, when your endless bashing of Lady Gaga as a bully, as ‘homophobic’ and all the other endless nonsense, that seemed to have no real substantiation, plagued my twitter timeline. This was of course, not for the first time.

Before your arrival on to my television screen, I remained blissfully ignorant to your ‘career’, and incredibly unaware as to the disgusting behavior you would display in some last ditched attempt to save your otherwise dwindling career – your A-list friend circle all but gone, your presence online being replaced by 13 year old kids with nothing more than a webcam, iMovie and an attitude problem.

Over the last few weeks, I have watched in utter horror at the spectacle you have made of yourself on British TV. At first….I got it. I really did! In fact, I almost felt sorry for you. The venomous character you have created seems to have intertwined with the person under it in such a deep rooted way, that you became very lonely, very desperate to be liked. I got it.

However, with every attention seeking filled second. This feeling of compassion turned to pity, as I watched you goad other housemates into getting so frustrated, that they used offensive language. Whilst I, of course, don’t condone the word that Alexander O’Neal used towards you….I don’t think for a second he is homophobic, no more than I do Will.I.Am, Lady Gaga….OR Katie Hopkins as you branded her just a week ago. To me, it seems like a word you are FAR to quick to use against people that just don’t like you….poor Perez.

I watched as you embarrassed the gay community on national television, in a country that has worked so hard to eliminate prejudice against the LGBTQ community. It was painful to watch as I saw your behavior, knowing that, for some people, it would form an opinion of us, as a community.

I watched in absolute despair as Michelle Visage cried for the same reason I wanted to. Michelle, for all intents and purposes, is as much part of this community as me, and, if I like it or not, you. Having been the victim of a random and unprovoked homophobic assault, I wonder how many gay people will be prejudged, as I was, against the behavior you have displayed?

It has become tiresome to watch what had been one of my favourite shows. It has been utterly overshadowed by you and the pathetic attempts to steal every second of camera time as you could. It’s become very clear you went in, desperate to be liked and it backfired, and now you are going for the villain title…well congratulations…you’ve certainly got that.

I could have forgiven it. I could have forgotten it all….eagerly! I could have accepted your utterly pitiful behavior…in time. The British public are clever enough to work out exactly what you are doing. What I cannot forgive is the latest vile addition to the already distasteful portfolio you have built up over the last few weeks. Your ‘wholly unacceptable’ comment about the AIDS pandemic.

We watched as you compared the isolation you have felt to being “diagnosed with AIDS in the early 80s”.

Words fail to justify the utter disgust I feel towards you. There is no excuse for it.

You have been ostracised, isolated and ‘picked on’ because of the childlike, pathetic and disgraceful way in which you have portrayed yourself. People are acting like that towards you because they don’t like YOU. Whilst she may be flawed, Katie Hopkins is not to blame for that, she is not at fault here. YOU ARE.

I have NO doubt your comment was a VERY deliberate act to offend, upset and incite anger and hatred. It is CRYSTAL clear that you hold no regard for the LGBTQ community, but to use HIV/AIDS as ammunition is nothing short of abhorrent.

How dare you compare justified comments and behaviors towards you in the same way it felt to be diagnosed in the 1980s. As someone living with HIV, I could not even begin to imagine being diagnosed with AIDS now, let alone in the early 80s.

I have felt isolation that you could never begin to imagine. I have cried so hard that I felt I didn’t have the strength to wake up the next day.

I have felt loneliness like I can’t even begin to describe. Even in a room full of loved ones, I felt like I didn’t have a single person in the world that understood the grief I was feeling.

I have had strangers look at me with utter disgust on their faces, just because of the three letters whispered in their ear by someone I didn’t know.

I have lost friendships, the love of family members and the respect of acquaintances just because I am living with a immunodeficiency virus.

I have seen the lust in people’s eyes changed to pity or disgust as I disclosed my status and knew instantly that they had discounted my entire personality.

I feel blessed that I had support around me….other people aren’t that lucky. I can’t get my head around how that would have felt.

All this still, NOTHING compared to what people in the 80s felt when they were told they had AIDS. When there was no treatment, no cure….it WAS a death sentence. That is something I can’t even begin to imagine…My heart actually hurts when I think of the men,women and children that lost their lives to AIDS related illnesses.

So tell me again Mr Hilton, how your situation is ANYTHING like that?!

I feel physically sick by the complete disregard to the memory of those we lost in the 80s, simply so you could get more screen time, to offend a wider audience, to build a bigger hatred so you can come out and whine and winge about how hard it was for you!

I would never wish the isolation, the loneliness and the prejudice that comes with living with this virus upon anyone….I would never want you to understand just how far away your comment was from reality.

I sincerely hope you fully understand just what you have done.

Our community needs support, not stigma.

There cannot be an apology from you….I for one, refuse to accept it.

What you have done and said, has all been deliberate….for shock value.

For me, it’s unforgivable.

Hell of a post. :clap1::clap1:

[Niamh.]

equally letting someone i detest be adored and admired by a blinded public gets to me more than anything.

Someone disagreeing with you doesn't make them "blinded" :laugh:

[Vanessa]

Someone disagreeing with you doesn't make them "blinded" :laugh:

:clap1:

[elliebrew]

Someone disagreeing with you doesn't make them "blinded" :laugh:

what does it make them?

[Niamh.]

what does it make them?

It doesn't make them anything, they just have a different opinion to you :shrug:

[tormented mind]

Dear Stan.

[RichardG]

don't forget he told you to ***** off too..............................



Mark L

Katie has said worse than that about multiple groups within British society :shrug:

[elliebrew]

It doesn't make them anything, they just have a different opinion to you :shrug:

well i pride myself on being sensible, compassionate, caring, fun and honest.

so naturally, anyone who goes against those qualities i don't believe is a good person

[ebandit]

Katie has said worse than that about multiple groups within British society :shrug:

is the thread..............dear katie? ...........please at least try and keep up

Mark L

[Niamh.]

well i pride myself on being sensible, compassionate, caring, fun and honest.

so naturally, anyone who goes against those qualities i don't believe is a good person

So are you saying that anyone who likes Perez as a HM is a bad person? cos that's just silly. I could say them same thing about Katie H and her fans because I think she's a vile person and has said unnecessarily nasty things to people but I know that this is a TV show and I wouldn't judge people on here by the HM they choose to support

[Crimson Dynamo]

Katie has been warm and lovely in the house and that is why all the housemates love her

[Black Dagger]

So are you saying that anyone who likes Perez as a HM is a bad person? cos that's just silly. I could say them same thing about Katie H and her fans because I think she's a vile person and has said unnecessarily nasty things to people but I know that this is a TV show and I wouldn't judge people on here by the HM they choose to support

:clap1:

[elliebrew]

So are you saying that anyone who likes Perez as a HM is a bad person? cos that's just silly. I could say them same thing about Katie H and her fans because I think she's a vile person and has said unnecessarily nasty things to people but I know that this is a TV show and I wouldn't judge people on here by the HM they choose to support

http://perezhilton.com/2008-05-22-how-do-we-say-this-delicately-65#.VNE_jy6WNLM

[Niamh.]

http://perezhilton.com/2008-05-22-how-do-we-say-this-delicately-65#.VNE_jy6WNLM

Posting a link doesn't answer my post Ellie.

[Black Dagger]

Yeah you've just totally ignored her to continue with your vendetta there.

[Liam-]

So are you saying that anyone who likes Perez as a HM is a bad person? cos that's just silly. I could say them same thing about Katie H and her fans because I think she's a vile person and has said unnecessarily nasty things to people but I know that this is a TV show and I wouldn't judge people on here by the HM they choose to support

That's what people have done on here, judged other people as less than them for supporting Hopkins, so what's the problem with people judging people for supporting Perez? :shrug:

I personally don't judge people for liking certain housemates, i just question their taste, i don't have enough energy to judge people :laugh:

[Josy]

I don't see what is said in that link that's being posted as any more disgusting than the thing Katie Hopkins has said though but yet you champion her?

[tormented mind]

well i pride myself on being sensible, compassionate, caring, fun and honest.

so naturally, anyone who goes against those qualities i don't believe is a good person

compassionate, caring, unless they are Perez fans then they are all nasty vile wankers.:joker:

[Josy]

That's what people have done on here, judged other people as less than them for supporting Hopkins, so what's the problem with people judging people for supporting Perez? :shrug:

I personally don't judge people for liking certain housemates, i just question their taste, i don't have enough energy to judge people :laugh:

Oh Liam it's tit for tat, it's not just Katie Hopkins supporters that are being judged.

[Black Dagger]

And Hopkins has slated children's looks in the past but oh no she is sensible and compassionate

[Crimson Dynamo]

I don't see what is said in that link that's being posted as any more disgusting than the thing Katie Hopkins has said though but yet you champion her?

Are you seriously saying that Katie has said worse things in the house than perez, that her behaviour has been worse than his?


:joker:

[Niamh.]

That's what people have done on here, judged other people as less than them for supporting Hopkins, so what's the problem with people judging people for supporting Perez? :shrug:

I personally don't judge people for liking certain housemates, i just question their taste, i don't have enough energy to judge people :laugh:

I can only speak for myself here Liam and there's plenty of people on this site that are Katie Hopkins fans who I like and will still like after CBB ends, I don't think any less of them for liking her no matter what my views on her are

[Liam-]

Oh Liam it's tit for tat, it's not just Katie Hopkins supporters that are being judged.

Yeah i know that, but from what i can see it's okay to judge people as long as they're Hopkins fans, but as soon as a Perez fan is judged, all hell breaks loose :shrug:

[Jack The Cat]

It doesn't make them anything, they just have a different opinion to you :shrug:

Spot on.:douf:

[Josy]

Are you seriously saying that Katie has said worse things in the house than perez, that her behaviour has been worse than his?


:joker:

If you read my post again you will see I'm saying that the link that Ellie Posted where Perez calls a child ugly is no worse than things Katie Hopkins has also said, both disgusting.

Don't attempt to put words in my mouth when my post was clear and to the point.

I detest both Perez and Katie Hopkins so I'm not going to blindly defend one or the other.

[Josy]

Yeah i know that, but from what i can see it's okay to judge people as long as they're Hopkins fans, but as soon as a Perez fan is judged, all hell breaks loose :shrug:

We all I can say to that is you are being blinded by who you support or don't support because it works both ways.

It isn't OK to judge any fans on here btw.

[elliebrew]

Posting a link doesn't answer my post Ellie.

Whatever you think about Hopkins should be applied to Perez TEN FOLD

He is monstrous to people in his blogs,he has restraining orders from two celebrities.

I feel the ONLY REASON Perez gets away with it is because he's a man and hopkins is a woman

[elliebrew]

I don't see what is said in that link that's being posted as any more disgusting than the thing Katie Hopkins has said though but yet you champion her?

Perez does and says far worse. He has restraining orders against him from two celebrities.

HOW can you think Hopkins is worse?

It utter foolishness

[Crimson Dynamo]

Whatever you think about Hopkins should be applied to Perez TEN FOLD

He is monstrous to people in his blogs,he has restraining orders from two celebrities.

I feel the ONLY REASON Perez gets away with it is because he's a man and hopkins is a woman

indeed

[Glenn.]

tldr

[DemolitionRed]

Dear Stan.

You just made me spit my coffee!!

[Josy]

Perez does and says far worse. He has restraining orders against him from two celebrities.

HOW can you think Hopkins is worse?

It utter foolishness

There is no need to stoop to insults.

I was replying to your post about the link, where Perez insulted a child.

I think they are both as horrendous as each other and you insulting me for having a different opinion is hardly going to change my mind.

[Niamh.]

Whatever you think about Hopkins should be applied to Perez TEN FOLD

He is monstrous to people in his blogs,he has restraining orders from two celebrities.

I feel the ONLY REASON Perez gets away with it is because he's a man and hopkins is a woman

I knew who Perez was in so far as I knew he had some Celeb Gossip website but I'd never even clicked into once so I had no opinion on him before he went in. Where as with katie I knew who she was, had heard all the stuff she wrote etc etc. I already had a very strong dislike of her, that probably influenced my viewing of her, I won't deny that but as far as I can see, she's carried on with all the crap she does on the outside, in there. Perez had the advantage of starting with a clean slate because i didn't know him beforehand and therefore I judged him solely on his actions in the house, I've found him really funny and entertaining. I think the last thing anybody could every accuse me of is being sexist either :laugh:

[Daniel.]

IMO they have both behaved as badly as each other. She is muhh more sly, Perez has said some disgusting things for sure, but the constantant attacking and commenting on everything Perez does is pretty much bullying. For days on end she would follow him sayin "Get Perez Out" pretty much like Helen attacked Jale constantly. It's because Perez is a dick and doesn't seem upset that she gets away with it.

They are both vile people, but good entertainment especially Perez, so just take it for what it is - a reality show

[Vanessa]

IMO they have both behaved as badly as each other. She is muhh more sly, Perez has said some disgusting things for sure, but the constantant attacking and commenting on everything Perez does is pretty much bullying. For days on end she would follow him sayin "Get Perez Out" pretty much like Helen attacked Jale constantly. It's because Perez is a dick and doesn't seem upset that she gets away with it.

They are both vile people, but good entertainment especially Perez, so just take it for what it is - a reality show

Same thing Cami is doing outside. Vile creature! :omgno:

[DemolitionRed]

IMO they have both behaved as badly as each other. She is muhh more sly, Perez has said some disgusting things for sure, but the constantant attacking and commenting on everything Perez does is pretty much bullying. For days on end she would follow him sayin "Get Perez Out" pretty much like Helen attacked Jale constantly. It's because Perez is a dick and doesn't seem upset that she gets away with it.

They are both vile people, but good entertainment especially Perez, so just take it for what it is - a reality show

Good post Daniel...At least you aren't blinded by the light!!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Perez is demented, rude, boring, not funny and desperate

katie has been funny, warm and intelligent


it really is that simple

[Josy]

Perez is demented, rude, boring, not funny and desperate

katie has been funny, warm and intelligent


it really is that simple

That's only your opinion though clearly others have different views..

[tormented mind]

Perez is demented, rude, boring, not funny and desperate

katie has been funny, warm and intelligent


it really is that simple

no offence but, lol, but....:joker:

[Niamh.]

Perez is demented, rude, boring, not funny and desperate

katie has been funny, warm and intelligent


it really is that simple

It really isn't that simple. If we all thought the same way and found the same things interesting and funny, the world would be a dull place

[JOFLO]

DEAR PEREZ

am not going to pretend that before writing this post that I liked you. I am not going to pretend I started watching this series of big brother as a fan of yours. I won’t pretend that I haven’t had to take more than a few deep breaths before writing this post.

I am angry.

I am offended.

I am disappointed.

I am upset.

I don’t pretend to have ever wasted my time reading your blog; from what I know and understand of it, is that it is just filled with hatred, remarks, gossip and lies about people far more talented and successful as yourself. It is not something that interests me. It’s nothing more than glorified bullying.

I don’t pretend that, before your entrance to the Celebrity Big Brother House earlier this year, I ever gave you a second thought – other than, when your endless bashing of Lady Gaga as a bully, as ‘homophobic’ and all the other endless nonsense, that seemed to have no real substantiation, plagued my twitter timeline. This was of course, not for the first time.

Before your arrival on to my television screen, I remained blissfully ignorant to your ‘career’, and incredibly unaware as to the disgusting behavior you would display in some last ditched attempt to save your otherwise dwindling career – your A-list friend circle all but gone, your presence online being replaced by 13 year old kids with nothing more than a webcam, iMovie and an attitude problem.

Over the last few weeks, I have watched in utter horror at the spectacle you have made of yourself on British TV. At first….I got it. I really did! In fact, I almost felt sorry for you. The venomous character you have created seems to have intertwined with the person under it in such a deep rooted way, that you became very lonely, very desperate to be liked. I got it.

However, with every attention seeking filled second. This feeling of compassion turned to pity, as I watched you goad other housemates into getting so frustrated, that they used offensive language. Whilst I, of course, don’t condone the word that Alexander O’Neal used towards you….I don’t think for a second he is homophobic, no more than I do Will.I.Am, Lady Gaga….OR Katie Hopkins as you branded her just a week ago. To me, it seems like a word you are FAR to quick to use against people that just don’t like you….poor Perez.

I watched as you embarrassed the gay community on national television, in a country that has worked so hard to eliminate prejudice against the LGBTQ community. It was painful to watch as I saw your behavior, knowing that, for some people, it would form an opinion of us, as a community.

I watched in absolute despair as Michelle Visage cried for the same reason I wanted to. Michelle, for all intents and purposes, is as much part of this community as me, and, if I like it or not, you. Having been the victim of a random and unprovoked homophobic assault, I wonder how many gay people will be prejudged, as I was, against the behavior you have displayed?

It has become tiresome to watch what had been one of my favourite shows. It has been utterly overshadowed by you and the pathetic attempts to steal every second of camera time as you could. It’s become very clear you went in, desperate to be liked and it backfired, and now you are going for the villain title…well congratulations…you’ve certainly got that.

I could have forgiven it. I could have forgotten it all….eagerly! I could have accepted your utterly pitiful behavior…in time. The British public are clever enough to work out exactly what you are doing. What I cannot forgive is the latest vile addition to the already distasteful portfolio you have built up over the last few weeks. Your ‘wholly unacceptable’ comment about the AIDS pandemic.

We watched as you compared the isolation you have felt to being “diagnosed with AIDS in the early 80s”.

Words fail to justify the utter disgust I feel towards you. There is no excuse for it.

You have been ostracised, isolated and ‘picked on’ because of the childlike, pathetic and disgraceful way in which you have portrayed yourself. People are acting like that towards you because they don’t like YOU. Whilst she may be flawed, Katie Hopkins is not to blame for that, she is not at fault here. YOU ARE.

I have NO doubt your comment was a VERY deliberate act to offend, upset and incite anger and hatred. It is CRYSTAL clear that you hold no regard for the LGBTQ community, but to use HIV/AIDS as ammunition is nothing short of abhorrent.

How dare you compare justified comments and behaviors towards you in the same way it felt to be diagnosed in the 1980s. As someone living with HIV, I could not even begin to imagine being diagnosed with AIDS now, let alone in the early 80s.

I have felt isolation that you could never begin to imagine. I have cried so hard that I felt I didn’t have the strength to wake up the next day.

I have felt loneliness like I can’t even begin to describe. Even in a room full of loved ones, I felt like I didn’t have a single person in the world that understood the grief I was feeling.

I have had strangers look at me with utter disgust on their faces, just because of the three letters whispered in their ear by someone I didn’t know.

I have lost friendships, the love of family members and the respect of acquaintances just because I am living with a immunodeficiency virus.

I have seen the lust in people’s eyes changed to pity or disgust as I disclosed my status and knew instantly that they had discounted my entire personality.

I feel blessed that I had support around me….other people aren’t that lucky. I can’t get my head around how that would have felt.

All this still, NOTHING compared to what people in the 80s felt when they were told they had AIDS. When there was no treatment, no cure….it WAS a death sentence. That is something I can’t even begin to imagine…My heart actually hurts when I think of the men,women and children that lost their lives to AIDS related illnesses.

So tell me again Mr Hilton, how your situation is ANYTHING like that?!

I feel physically sick by the complete disregard to the memory of those we lost in the 80s, simply so you could get more screen time, to offend a wider audience, to build a bigger hatred so you can come out and whine and winge about how hard it was for you!

I would never wish the isolation, the loneliness and the prejudice that comes with living with this virus upon anyone….I would never want you to understand just how far away your comment was from reality.

I sincerely hope you fully understand just what you have done.

Our community needs support, not stigma.

There cannot be an apology from you….I for one, refuse to accept it.

What you have done and said, has all been deliberate….for shock value.

For me, it’s unforgivable.

Fantastic post!!!! :clap1::clap1::clap1::clap1::clap1::clap1:

[Crimson Dynamo]

It really isn't that simple. If we all thought the same way and found the same things interesting and funny, the world would be a dull place

I think deep down that is what is being thought by one and all

dont fight the feeling

[Tribal Spaceman]

Excellent post. I definitely have my favourites this year, and it doesn't bother me if others disagree with those choices, but I don't see how anyone could ever, ever support Perez. He's a deplorable human being.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Excellent post. I definitely have my favourites this year, and it doesn't bother me if others disagree with those choices, but I don't see how anyone could ever, ever support Perez. He's a deplorable human being.

:clap1:

[Niamh.]

I think deep down that is what is being thought by one and all

dont fight the feeling

Don't be absurd

[Crimson Dynamo]

Don't be absurd

*shouts*



POLICE

[Jules2]

Ellie, I read it all (((hugs)))

[Black Dagger]

Lol at thinking Hoppo is either remotely funny or intelligent

[Daniel.]

Having read it all, I see why your upset about the particular comment. However, maybe it best to just ignore him, he clearly get you almost unhealthy angry

[Tribal Spaceman]

Who's Hoppo? You mean from The Wuzzles?

[Brother Leon]

The irony of this when you defend Hopkins. Get over yourself brah.

[downthechippie]

equally letting someone i detest be adored and admired by a blinded public gets to me more than anything.

I disagree elliebrew. I believe that those who cannot see Perez's childlike behaviour as endearing are blinded. To me, those people are souless with dead-eyes.

Did you not see Perez run to hug Emma as though she was some 'authority saviour'. He is like a puppy dog that keeps getting kicked and spat at, but what makes him special is his ability to still believe in himself and know that he is an OK person. A bit hyper, yes. Irritating as hell, yes. But almost every argument he has had has been Perez defending himself against a nasty dig, or a nasty remark, or a snide comment. Perez just comes right back in his clumsy way, that I find rather endearing.

Leave Perez alone.

[Crimson Dynamo]

The irony of this when you defend Hopkins. Get over yourself brah.

brah?

Are you Dog the Bounty Hunter?

:shrug:

[Tribal Spaceman]

I disagree elliebrew. I believe that those who cannot see Perez's childlike behaviour as endearing are blinded. To me, those people are souless with dead-eyes.

Did you not see Perez run to hug Emma as though she was some 'authority saviour'. He is like a puppy dog that keeps getting kicked and spat at, but what makes him special is his ability to still believe in himself and know that he is an OK person. A bit hyper, yes. Irritating as hell, yes. But almost every argument he has had has been Perez defending himself against a nasty dig, or a nasty remark, or a snide comment. Perez just comes right back in his clumsy way, that I find rather endearing.

Leave Perez alone.

Oh dear.

[wendywillow]

op, youre taking a silly tv show waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously. its trashy reality tv, meant to be seen once, then instantly forgotten. the z-list celebs are z-list for a reason, theyre on their way down the celeb food chain, there to get a paycheck, provide us some drama, and then go on their merry way. its supposed to be fun and frivolous, the modern version of the Love Boat.

[Vanessa]

op, youre taking a silly tv show waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously. its trashy reality tv, meant to be seen once, then instantly forgotten. the z-list celebs are z-list for a reason, theyre on their way down the celeb food chain, there to get a paycheck, provide us some drama, and then go on their merry way. its supposed to be fun and frivolous, the modern version of the Love Boat.

:clap1::douf:

[susie q]

Emotional blackmail doesnt work for me either. I find KH comments on E-Bola victims just as offensive. And yes we are all entitled to support who we want to. After all it really IS
JUST A GAME SHOW.

[Tribal Spaceman]

Emotional blackmail doesnt work for me either. I find KH comments on E-Bola victims just as offensive. And yes we are all entitled to support who we want to. After all it really IS
JUST A GAME SHOW.

To be fair, none of us were there, though. Those Scottish people might actually have been very sweaty! :hehe:

I wish Perez was just playing the game, I really do, but he's actually behaved in a very disturbing manner.

[Cherie]

I'm not quite sure he will get the chance to read it.

:joker:

[Cherie]

Emotional blackmail doesnt work for me either. I find KH comments on E-Bola victims just as offensive. And yes we are all entitled to support who we want to. After all it really IS
JUST A GAME SHOW.

So true it really isn't worth writing a dissertation on

[sodak22]

The only person I knew going in was Perez. He is what I imagined him to be based on his image/persona/act in America, but I never thought he could exceed what he is viewed as here. He has no remorse for anyone, but himself, and is an egomaniac to the core of his existence. Katie Hopkins said horrible things and acted horrible before entering the house(as did Perez for years about everyone), the difference being that Katie comes across human in the house at times(24/7 coverage) whereas Perez comes off even more inhuman based off his perception. Hard to do for him(I thought), but that is it in essence. KH to win.

Kudos to the OP!!!!!

[the truth]

DEAR PEREZ

am not going to pretend that before writing this post that I liked you. I am not going to pretend I started watching this series of big brother as a fan of yours. I won’t pretend that I haven’t had to take more than a few deep breaths before writing this post.

I am angry.

I am offended.

I am disappointed.

I am upset.

I don’t pretend to have ever wasted my time reading your blog; from what I know and understand of it, is that it is just filled with hatred, remarks, gossip and lies about people far more talented and successful as yourself. It is not something that interests me. It’s nothing more than glorified bullying.

I don’t pretend that, before your entrance to the Celebrity Big Brother House earlier this year, I ever gave you a second thought – other than, when your endless bashing of Lady Gaga as a bully, as ‘homophobic’ and all the other endless nonsense, that seemed to have no real substantiation, plagued my twitter timeline. This was of course, not for the first time.

Before your arrival on to my television screen, I remained blissfully ignorant to your ‘career’, and incredibly unaware as to the disgusting behavior you would display in some last ditched attempt to save your otherwise dwindling career – your A-list friend circle all but gone, your presence online being replaced by 13 year old kids with nothing more than a webcam, iMovie and an attitude problem.

Over the last few weeks, I have watched in utter horror at the spectacle you have made of yourself on British TV. At first….I got it. I really did! In fact, I almost felt sorry for you. The venomous character you have created seems to have intertwined with the person under it in such a deep rooted way, that you became very lonely, very desperate to be liked. I got it.

However, with every attention seeking filled second. This feeling of compassion turned to pity, as I watched you goad other housemates into getting so frustrated, that they used offensive language. Whilst I, of course, don’t condone the word that Alexander O’Neal used towards you….I don’t think for a second he is homophobic, no more than I do Will.I.Am, Lady Gaga….OR Katie Hopkins as you branded her just a week ago. To me, it seems like a word you are FAR to quick to use against people that just don’t like you….poor Perez.

I watched as you embarrassed the gay community on national television, in a country that has worked so hard to eliminate prejudice against the LGBTQ community. It was painful to watch as I saw your behavior, knowing that, for some people, it would form an opinion of us, as a community.

I watched in absolute despair as Michelle Visage cried for the same reason I wanted to. Michelle, for all intents and purposes, is as much part of this community as me, and, if I like it or not, you. Having been the victim of a random and unprovoked homophobic assault, I wonder how many gay people will be prejudged, as I was, against the behavior you have displayed?

It has become tiresome to watch what had been one of my favourite shows. It has been utterly overshadowed by you and the pathetic attempts to steal every second of camera time as you could. It’s become very clear you went in, desperate to be liked and it backfired, and now you are going for the villain title…well congratulations…you’ve certainly got that.

I could have forgiven it. I could have forgotten it all….eagerly! I could have accepted your utterly pitiful behavior…in time. The British public are clever enough to work out exactly what you are doing. What I cannot forgive is the latest vile addition to the already distasteful portfolio you have built up over the last few weeks. Your ‘wholly unacceptable’ comment about the AIDS pandemic.

We watched as you compared the isolation you have felt to being “diagnosed with AIDS in the early 80s”.

Words fail to justify the utter disgust I feel towards you. There is no excuse for it.

You have been ostracised, isolated and ‘picked on’ because of the childlike, pathetic and disgraceful way in which you have portrayed yourself. People are acting like that towards you because they don’t like YOU. Whilst she may be flawed, Katie Hopkins is not to blame for that, she is not at fault here. YOU ARE.

I have NO doubt your comment was a VERY deliberate act to offend, upset and incite anger and hatred. It is CRYSTAL clear that you hold no regard for the LGBTQ community, but to use HIV/AIDS as ammunition is nothing short of abhorrent.

How dare you compare justified comments and behaviors towards you in the same way it felt to be diagnosed in the 1980s. As someone living with HIV, I could not even begin to imagine being diagnosed with AIDS now, let alone in the early 80s.

I have felt isolation that you could never begin to imagine. I have cried so hard that I felt I didn’t have the strength to wake up the next day.

I have felt loneliness like I can’t even begin to describe. Even in a room full of loved ones, I felt like I didn’t have a single person in the world that understood the grief I was feeling.

I have had strangers look at me with utter disgust on their faces, just because of the three letters whispered in their ear by someone I didn’t know.

I have lost friendships, the love of family members and the respect of acquaintances just because I am living with a immunodeficiency virus.

I have seen the lust in people’s eyes changed to pity or disgust as I disclosed my status and knew instantly that they had discounted my entire personality.

I feel blessed that I had support around me….other people aren’t that lucky. I can’t get my head around how that would have felt.

All this still, NOTHING compared to what people in the 80s felt when they were told they had AIDS. When there was no treatment, no cure….it WAS a death sentence. That is something I can’t even begin to imagine…My heart actually hurts when I think of the men,women and children that lost their lives to AIDS related illnesses.

So tell me again Mr Hilton, how your situation is ANYTHING like that?!

I feel physically sick by the complete disregard to the memory of those we lost in the 80s, simply so you could get more screen time, to offend a wider audience, to build a bigger hatred so you can come out and whine and winge about how hard it was for you!

I would never wish the isolation, the loneliness and the prejudice that comes with living with this virus upon anyone….I would never want you to understand just how far away your comment was from reality.

I sincerely hope you fully understand just what you have done.

Our community needs support, not stigma.

There cannot be an apology from you….I for one, refuse to accept it.

What you have done and said, has all been deliberate….for shock value.

For me, it’s unforgivable.

fake nonsense just like your spineless fake hero michelle the ignorant fool who claims to represent all gay people get dictates to them all how to behave and actively supports the biggest bullying bigot I=on british tv bully Hopkins...michelle is a sick shallow spineless fake

[DemolitionRed]

op, youre taking a silly tv show waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too seriously. its trashy reality tv, meant to be seen once, then instantly forgotten. the z-list celebs are z-list for a reason, theyre on their way down the celeb food chain, there to get a paycheck, provide us some drama, and then go on their merry way. its supposed to be fun and frivolous, the modern version of the Love Boat.

I think I love you!!

[the truth]

I think I love you!!

youre not so bad yourself :wavey: blush:hehe:

[elliebrew]

fake nonsense just like your spineless fake hero michelle the ignorant fool who claims to represent all gay people get dictates to them all how to behave and actively supports the biggest bullying bigot I=on british tv bully Hopkins...michelle is a sick shallow spineless fake

sick? spineless? fake?

For keeping herself to herself.

Talk about inflating an opinion

ridiculous staetment

[sodak22]

fake nonsense just like your spineless fake hero michelle the ignorant fool who claims to represent all gay people get dictates to them all how to behave and actively supports the biggest bullying bigot I=on british tv bully Hopkins...michelle is a sick shallow spineless fake

Perez is known as a bully running on 10+ years now in America. He is the quintessential person for getting famous for being famous and slagging off other celebs when he really just wants to be one. I did not know Michelle pre-CBB, but she comes off as caring and reasonable for the most part. If Perez wins it will be 10x worse than the Helen Wood win. Perez is a despicable person, he brings drama tenfold but that does not make a winner IMO. Especially when it is the most OTT drama I have seen on the show past or present.

[the truth]

Perez is known as a bully running on 10+ years now in America. He is the quintessential person for getting famous for being famous and slagging off other celebs when he really just wants to be one. I did not know Michelle pre-CBB, but she comes off as caring and reasonable for the most part. If Perez wins it will be 10x worse than the Helen Wood win. Perez is a despicable person, he brings drama tenfold but that does not make a winner IMO. Especially when it is the most OTT drama I have seen on the show past or present.

wrong hes a celebrity reporter whereas bully Hopkins targets the weak the vulnerable the bombed Palestinians the over weight masses the ginger babies the kids from certain backgrounds she also breaks up marriages in between mocking disabled people on scooters etc

[elliebrew]

THE ABSOLUTE CRUX of my frustration this year is the unbridled support Perez has.

WORST of all the people supporting him paint all those who appose him as being in support of bullying, taunting, isolating, nastiness, vulgarness. WHEN THEYRE SUPPORTING A MAN WHO STANDS FOR ALL OF THE ABOVE.

HYPOCRITICAL

[elliebrew]

wrong hes a celebrity reporter whereas bully Hopkins targets the weak the vulnerable the bombed Palestinians the over weight masses the ginger babies the kids from certain backgrounds she also breaks up marriages in between mocking disabled people on scooters etc

Aww poor little ginger babies

[the truth]

THE ABSOLUTE CRUX of my frustration this year is the unbridled support Perez has.

WORST of all the people supporting him paint all those who appose him as being in support of bullying, taunting, isolating, nastiness, vulgarness. WHEN THEYRE SUPPORTING A MAN WHO STANDS FOR ALL OF THE ABOVE.

HYPOCRITICAL re confused perez is awesome a totally unique funny brave creative individual..youre confused with bully Hopkins and her minnions michelle and cami...

[the truth]

I noticed she got her compulsory anti American bigotry in too...sad creature

[reality]

Perez is known as a bully running on 10+ years now in America. He is the quintessential person for getting famous for being famous and slagging off other celebs when he really just wants to be one. I did not know Michelle pre-CBB, but she comes off as caring and reasonable for the most part. If Perez wins it will be 10x worse than the Helen Wood win. Perez is a despicable person, he brings drama tenfold but that does not make a winner IMO. Especially when it is the most OTT drama I have seen on the show past or present.

Completely agree with this, and the very powerful "Dear Perez" start of the thread. So true! He irritated me from the beginning, but I could kind of see what people meant by the 'entertaining' thing....but now his behaviour and words have become so potentially, and intentionally damaging to people, its crossed the line from entertaining into disgusting.

[elliebrew]

re confused perez is awesome a totally unique funny brave creative individual..youre confused with bully Hopkins and her minnions michelle and cami...

ok well thats me and you done, I'm refusing to even acknowledge you now because its becoming evident you're trolling me

[sodak22]

wrong hes a celebrity reporter whereas bully Hopkins targets the weak the vulnerable the bombed Palestinians the over weight masses the ginger babies the kids from certain backgrounds she also breaks up marriages in between mocking disabled people on scooters etc

He outs closeted people for personal gain, and you wonder why Michelle has a problem with him. He likes Price because he knows she can advance his career in the UK. Odd how everything changed with Perez when she entered the house(for a week). Katie H is the American equivalent of Ann Coulter, she says things to get page views and it works (as it has for Perez for 10 years, it's a schtick). The difference being that Katie comes across human after 24/7 coverage where Perez comes off worse than his image in the public, which should be hard for him to do.... You realize the Hilton part in his fake name is because of Paris Hilton correct? He loves to take credit where it is not due and to take a name for a pseudo celeb like Paris is crazy.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

DEAR PEREZ

am not going to pretend that before writing this post that I liked you. I am not going to pretend I started watching this series of big brother as a fan of yours. I won’t pretend that I haven’t had to take more than a few deep breaths before writing this post.

I am angry.

I am offended.

I am disappointed.

I am upset.

I don’t pretend to have ever wasted my time reading your blog; from what I know and understand of it, is that it is just filled with hatred, remarks, gossip and lies about people far more talented and successful as yourself. It is not something that interests me. It’s nothing more than glorified bullying.

I don’t pretend that, before your entrance to the Celebrity Big Brother House earlier this year, I ever gave you a second thought – other than, when your endless bashing of Lady Gaga as a bully, as ‘homophobic’ and all the other endless nonsense, that seemed to have no real substantiation, plagued my twitter timeline. This was of course, not for the first time.

Before your arrival on to my television screen, I remained blissfully ignorant to your ‘career’, and incredibly unaware as to the disgusting behavior you would display in some last ditched attempt to save your otherwise dwindling career – your A-list friend circle all but gone, your presence online being replaced by 13 year old kids with nothing more than a webcam, iMovie and an attitude problem.

Over the last few weeks, I have watched in utter horror at the spectacle you have made of yourself on British TV. At first….I got it. I really did! In fact, I almost felt sorry for you. The venomous character you have created seems to have intertwined with the person under it in such a deep rooted way, that you became very lonely, very desperate to be liked. I got it.

However, with every attention seeking filled second. This feeling of compassion turned to pity, as I watched you goad other housemates into getting so frustrated, that they used offensive language. Whilst I, of course, don’t condone the word that Alexander O’Neal used towards you….I don’t think for a second he is homophobic, no more than I do Will.I.Am, Lady Gaga….OR Katie Hopkins as you branded her just a week ago. To me, it seems like a word you are FAR to quick to use against people that just don’t like you….poor Perez.

I watched as you embarrassed the gay community on national television, in a country that has worked so hard to eliminate prejudice against the LGBTQ community. It was painful to watch as I saw your behavior, knowing that, for some people, it would form an opinion of us, as a community.

I watched in absolute despair as Michelle Visage cried for the same reason I wanted to. Michelle, for all intents and purposes, is as much part of this community as me, and, if I like it or not, you. Having been the victim of a random and unprovoked homophobic assault, I wonder how many gay people will be prejudged, as I was, against the behavior you have displayed?

It has become tiresome to watch what had been one of my favourite shows. It has been utterly overshadowed by you and the pathetic attempts to steal every second of camera time as you could. It’s become very clear you went in, desperate to be liked and it backfired, and now you are going for the villain title…well congratulations…you’ve certainly got that.

I could have forgiven it. I could have forgotten it all….eagerly! I could have accepted your utterly pitiful behavior…in time. The British public are clever enough to work out exactly what you are doing. What I cannot forgive is the latest vile addition to the already distasteful portfolio you have built up over the last few weeks. Your ‘wholly unacceptable’ comment about the AIDS pandemic.

We watched as you compared the isolation you have felt to being “diagnosed with AIDS in the early 80s”.

Words fail to justify the utter disgust I feel towards you. There is no excuse for it.

You have been ostracised, isolated and ‘picked on’ because of the childlike, pathetic and disgraceful way in which you have portrayed yourself. People are acting like that towards you because they don’t like YOU. Whilst she may be flawed, Katie Hopkins is not to blame for that, she is not at fault here. YOU ARE.

I have NO doubt your comment was a VERY deliberate act to offend, upset and incite anger and hatred. It is CRYSTAL clear that you hold no regard for the LGBTQ community, but to use HIV/AIDS as ammunition is nothing short of abhorrent.

How dare you compare justified comments and behaviors towards you in the same way it felt to be diagnosed in the 1980s. As someone living with HIV, I could not even begin to imagine being diagnosed with AIDS now, let alone in the early 80s.

I have felt isolation that you could never begin to imagine. I have cried so hard that I felt I didn’t have the strength to wake up the next day.

I have felt loneliness like I can’t even begin to describe. Even in a room full of loved ones, I felt like I didn’t have a single person in the world that understood the grief I was feeling.

I have had strangers look at me with utter disgust on their faces, just because of the three letters whispered in their ear by someone I didn’t know.

I have lost friendships, the love of family members and the respect of acquaintances just because I am living with a immunodeficiency virus.

I have seen the lust in people’s eyes changed to pity or disgust as I disclosed my status and knew instantly that they had discounted my entire personality.

I feel blessed that I had support around me….other people aren’t that lucky. I can’t get my head around how that would have felt.

All this still, NOTHING compared to what people in the 80s felt when they were told they had AIDS. When there was no treatment, no cure….it WAS a death sentence. That is something I can’t even begin to imagine…My heart actually hurts when I think of the men,women and children that lost their lives to AIDS related illnesses.

So tell me again Mr Hilton, how your situation is ANYTHING like that?!

I feel physically sick by the complete disregard to the memory of those we lost in the 80s, simply so you could get more screen time, to offend a wider audience, to build a bigger hatred so you can come out and whine and winge about how hard it was for you!

I would never wish the isolation, the loneliness and the prejudice that comes with living with this virus upon anyone….I would never want you to understand just how far away your comment was from reality.

I sincerely hope you fully understand just what you have done.

Our community needs support, not stigma.

There cannot be an apology from you….I for one, refuse to accept it.

What you have done and said, has all been deliberate….for shock value.

For me, it’s unforgivable.

http://31.media.tumblr.com/34494f1dcea13acd428130240b5cb869/tumblr_mxi0a3kS921qee6wmo4_r1_250.gif

[Angelika]

DEAR PEREZ

I am angry.

I am offended.

I am disappointed.

I am upset.
.

Dear Ellibrew,

Perez would answer thus - "see if I care, I don't like you and don't pretend to."

Members of the LBGT community I have contact with are not angry, offended,
disappointed or upset by anything Perez has said or done.

They are however offended to think that you, Michelle, pretend to speak for them. My opinion is that you believed having a "cause" would score you points in the CBB house- I'm not sure you are right.

The best thing to do at this late stage is smile and lose to Perez and the others graciously.

[Tribal Spaceman]

Anyone who says they support Perez is just trolling for a reaction anyway.

[DemolitionRed]

THE ABSOLUTE CRUX of my frustration this year is the unbridled support Perez has.



I have felt the same way, though I don't do frustration so I will change that word to "bemused", about the unbridled support for Hopkins.

[Niamh.]

Anyone who says they support Perez is just trolling for a reaction anyway.

You think I'm trolling? Really? :umm2:

[DemolitionRed]

Anyone who says they support Perez is just trolling for a reaction anyway.

That's a very acusational thing to say.

[elliebrew]

Dear Ellibrew,

Perez would answer thus - "see if I care, I don't like you and don't pretend to."

Members of the LBGT community I have contact with are not angry, offended,
disappointed or upset by anything Perez has said or done.

They are however offended to think that you, Michelle, pretend to speak for them. My opinion is that you believed having a "cause" would score you points in the CBB house- I'm not sure you are right.

The best thing to do at this late stage is smile and lose to Perez and the others graciously.

I fail to believe that not even for a second. ANY Gay who dislikes what Michelle stands for has no place in the community. We have fought long and hard for their rights, and to be stabbed in the back by children who find a juvenile attention seeker funny its disheartening at best and immensely offensive at worst

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

I fail to believe that not even for a second. ANY Gay who dislikes what Michelle stands for has no place in the community. We have fought long and hard for their rights, and to be stabbed in the back by children who find a juvenile attention seeker funny its disheartening at best and immensely offensive at worst

wtf :umm2:

you really need to get a grip

[elliebrew]

wtf :umm2:

you really need to get a grip

says the Perez fan

[smudgie]

I fail to believe that not even for a second. ANY Gay who dislikes what Michelle stands for has no place in the community. We have fought long and hard for their rights, and to be stabbed in the back by children who find a juvenile attention seeker funny its disheartening at best and immensely offensive at worst

I think your belief system could be failing you to be honest.:shrug:
Going by what is being said on the forums..and of course the star of the Perez show.

[Black Dagger]

I fail to believe that not even for a second. ANY Gay who dislikes what Michelle stands for has no place in the community. We have fought long and hard for their rights, and to be stabbed in the back by children who find a juvenile attention seeker funny its disheartening at best and immensely offensive at worst

Not caring for Michelle's propaganda doesn't stop me from loving cock in my mouth.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

says the Perez fan

i'm not really a perez fan

i don't like him but i think that he has been a great housemate

you act as though michelle is some kind or martyr when she isn't

[elliebrew]

I think your belief system could be failing you to be honest.:shrug:
Going by what is being said on the forums..and of course the star of the Perez show.

Forums are irrelevant when it comes to the vote. He's currently 2nd to last on the FB vote

[Tribal Spaceman]

There has to be a level of irony involved here. You all seem like passionate, decent people and I'm assuming there's a punchline that I'm missing somewhere.

[billy123]

http://justjayce.com/2015/02/02/dear-perez-hilton/

http://cf.chucklesnetwork.com/items/7/5/8/7/3/original/yo-dawg-i-heard-you-like-copy-and-paste-so-i-copied-and-pasted-c.jpg

[Lostie!]

well i pride myself on being sensible, compassionate, caring, fun and honest.

so naturally, anyone who goes against those qualities i don't believe is a good person

Hopkins goes against most of those qualities, yet you claim she's a good person. Whenever she says or does something awful, there's always an excuse ready for her.

[smudgie]

Forums are irrelevant when it comes to the vote. He's currently 2nd to last on the FB vote

The point was about Michelle, not Perez actually.

The fact that all gays don't really think she represents them etc.

[elliebrew]

The point was about Michelle, not Perez actually.

The fact that all gays don't really think she represents them etc.

she's currently 3rd in the FB vote...so

[DemolitionRed]

I fail to believe that not even for a second. ANY Gay who dislikes what Michelle stands for has no place in the community. We have fought long and hard for their rights, and to be stabbed in the back by children who find a juvenile attention seeker funny its disheartening at best and immensely offensive at worst


What has Michelle done for the British gay community? Have you ever heard of the Spanner Trust? the organization that works voluntarily and tirelessly for the rights of gays. The only recognition they need for the good work they do is that which makes them available to all. They don't sit on some egotistical pedestal and demand a crown...Michelle is self crowned and has found fame and fortune from her quest.

We have fought long and hard for their rights??? What exactly does this mean?

[Angelika]

Someone disagreeing with you doesn't make them "blinded" :laugh:

:clap1:

[smudgie]

she's currently 3rd in the FB vote...so

I can't make my mnd up if you are deliberately evading the issue of the post I quoted..or you really just don't get it:shrug:

Never mind, it matters not.

[Angelika]

I fail to believe that not even for a second. ANY Gay who dislikes what Michelle stands for has no place in the community. We have fought long and hard for their rights, and to be stabbed in the back by children who find a juvenile attention seeker funny its disheartening at best and immensely offensive at worst

Get a life!

You'd do better to list what Michelle has done for the community rather than spill vast mounts of bile about Perez.

[wendywillow]

uhhh isn't Michele a judge on a Rupaul reality tv show? did I miss where she was elected queen of the gays?

[Philanthropite]

Why give someone that you supposedly hate, so much of your attention and time?

You are essentially pandering to the attention he craves which you claim to detest so much. I don't get it.

Just ignore him or turn the channel over, letting someone on a tv show get to you so much surely can't be good and I certainly wouldnt class it as entertainment.

Haha this is so true. The housemates did the exact same thing because all Katie H could blurt out was to ignore him and then proceeded to ignore her own advice by constantly engaging in conversations with him non-stop. I swear an hour hasn't gone by in that house where she hasn't mentioned him in some shape or form.

[Angelika]

she's currently 3rd in the FB vote...so

I think she'll be out first now - she's been a big disappointment.

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

http://justjayce.com/2015/02/02/dear-perez-hilton/

http://cf.chucklesnetwork.com/items/7/5/8/7/3/original/yo-dawg-i-heard-you-like-copy-and-paste-so-i-copied-and-pasted-c.jpg

:joker::joker::joker:

[Tribal Spaceman]

uhhh isn't Michele a judge on a Rupaul reality tv show? did I miss where she was elected queen of the gays?

Yes you did. RuPaul is First Lady and Willam is Royal Vizier. :hehe:

[Jake.]

the words of the pope :clap1:

[Angelika]

uhhh isn't Michele a judge on a Rupaul reality tv show? did I miss where she was elected queen of the gays?

She's not part of the US LGBT activists group.

I don't mind people saying they are LGBT friendly, that's always good but to claim to represent is a bit rich.

[elliebrew]

Just seen a thread saying

'it really get's to the HM's that he is taking the attention away from them.

I think you'll find that it gets to them because its giving them a headache and putting them on edge. No one can relax.

[Angelika]

I fail to believe that not even for a second. ANY Gay who dislikes what Michelle stands for has no place in the community. We have fought long and hard for their rights, and to be stabbed in the back by children who find a juvenile attention seeker funny its disheartening at best and immensely offensive at worst

Time to list exactly how Michelle represents the LGBT Community and exactly what she has done, spent when and where! I have no doubt she may be LGBT friendly, many people now are.

Get you pencil out and be sure I'll research everything you say.

[poppsywoppsy]

I read it all, I have tears for you in my eyes and I have been around for several years and usually don't get easily touched.

There is only a few days left, he will be gone and then never seen again if you choose.

That is why I cannot laugh at him, he is a sick man inside and will crack soon.

But, there are good people around, I know some and I have just had a dreadful loss and people are just lovely.

Take heartxxx

[sodak22]

Time to list exactly how Michelle represents the LGBT Community and exactly what she has done, spent when and where! I have no doubt she may be LGBT friendly, many people now are.

Get you pencil out and be sure I'll research everything you say.

As an American, I can honestly say that the platform she takes is almost unheard of for a straight person in the US regardless of gender(on television). Are there others, sure of course there are. But for her having more rage over the HIV comment than Perez did saying it says a lot about the both of them. Notice how Perez didn't say he had lost any friends in the convo.... The comparison to Perez's time in the house and a disease was deplorable. It takes balls to stand up for the LGBT community in the US. I totally understand where Michelle comes from and why she has such conviction when she speaks of it. Research that. (Coming from a straight male American)

[Daniel.]

I fail to believe that not even for a second. ANY Gay who dislikes what Michelle stands for has no place in the community. We have fought long and hard for their rights, and to be stabbed in the back by children who find a juvenile attention seeker funny its disheartening at best and immensely offensive at worst

Wtf.Why do we even have a community? Perez dancing round in his ****ing boxers sets nothing back 50 years and I'm gay and think Michelle is ridiculous when it comes to LGBT. She isn't LGBT for a start

[Jake.]

ok well thats me and you done, I'm refusing to even acknowledge you now because its becoming evident you're trolling me

http://i.imgur.com/ybmfxnw.gif

[bots]

5 pages, oh my, no way I'm reading through all of that :laugh:

BB is a light entertainment game show.

Fans can choose to support a housemate who they hate if they want, just for a laugh. It matters not one jot. Becoming the winner of BB does not assign any form of status to the winner. In terms of influence. It is even further down the chain than a beauty contest.

Perspective is all I can say :laugh:

[Vanessa]

5 pages, oh my, no way I'm reading through all of that :laugh:

BB is a light entertainment game show.

Fans can choose to support a housemate who they hate if they want, just for a laugh. It matters not one jot. Becoming the winner of BB does not assign any form of status to the winner. In terms of influence. It is even further down the chain than a beauty contest.

Perspective is all I can say :laugh:

:cheer2:

[poppsywoppsy]

Those who support Perez don't ask for much, do they

He wouldn't support them, he will take the money and run.

He would bad mouth them all just as much as those who dislike him.

He tries to get your support, then spits his venomous prattle all over the place with no one spared.

He says over and over again, he doesn't give a F, for anyone even those spending their money to keep him in.

Then off he goes into the sunset, to write his blog on how gullible some are in watching him.

[zakman440]

http://justjayce.com/2015/02/02/dear-perez-hilton/

http://cf.chucklesnetwork.com/items/7/5/8/7/3/original/yo-dawg-i-heard-you-like-copy-and-paste-so-i-copied-and-pasted-c.jpg

:umm2:

[AnnieK]

I am seriously confused.....is the oP just taken from elsewhere?

[MTVN]

I am seriously confused.....is the oP just taken from elsewhere?

Looks that way

[AnnieK]

Looks that way

Well, that's a little out of order.

[billy123]

Well, that's a little out of order.Yes it was posted on a blog a few days ago written by a young man suffering from Aids.
http://justjayce.com/2015/02/02/dear-perez-hilton/

[Liam-]

I take back my :clap2: and replace it with a :nono:

All the people in here feeling sorry for him, bang out of order smh

[Marsh.]

Dear ellie

no1curr


Regards

TiBB

[Marsh.]

http://justjayce.com/2015/02/02/dear-perez-hilton/

http://cf.chucklesnetwork.com/items/7/5/8/7/3/original/yo-dawg-i-heard-you-like-copy-and-paste-so-i-copied-and-pasted-c.jpg

:joker::joker::joker:

[AnnieK]

Yes it was posted on a blog a few days ago written by a young man suffering from Aids.
http://justjayce.com/2015/02/02/dear-perez-hilton/

Low

It's a thought provoking piece which now seems to have been plagiarised and trivialised

Thanks for pointing it out

[Crimson Dynamo]

he is still a grade A ****

but you must attribute

otherwise the forums fail:nono:

"please see me after class OP"

[elliebrew]

Low

It's a thought provoking piece which now seems to have been plagiarised and trivialised

Thanks for pointing it out

Plagiarised how? It summed up my feelings perfectly.

Not low at all. Stop trying to find cause to beat me with with. Its not gonna happen sister

[AnnieK]

Plagiarised how? It summed up my feelings perfectly.

Not low at all. Stop trying to find cause to beat me with with. Its not gonna happen sister

You have put your name to someone else's words, that's plagiarism.

Plagiarism is the "wrongful appropriation" and "stealing and publication" of another author's "language, thoughts, ideas, or expressions" and the representation of them as one's own original work.

I'm sure it did sum up a lot of people's feelings but you led me and the forum to believe that you had wrote those words.

I'm not trying to beat you with anything...I had sympathy and was giving you credit but you have deliberately tried to mislead. The least you should have done is credit the author.

[elliebrew]

You have put your name to someone else's words, that's plagiarism.

Plagiarism is the "wrongful appropriation" and "stealing and publication" of another author's "language, thoughts, ideas, or expressions" and the representation of them as one's own original work.

I'm sure it did sum up a lot of people's feelings but you led me and the forum to believe that you had wrote those words.

I'm not trying to beat you with anything...I had sympathy and was giving you credit but you have deliberately tried to mislead. The least you should have done is credit the author.

AND WHERE did i say id wrote this?

[MTVN]

AND WHERE did i say id wrote this?

Well putting 'regards Ellie' in the title is a fairly strong implication. Most people obviously thought you had written it with no link or anything and you were pretty content for most people to respond as if you had written it

Hard to take the moral high ground over Perez's AIDs comment when you are passing off this blog of the hardships of living with HIV as your own..

[Liam-]

'DEAR PEREZ.. regards Ellie'

That sounds like credit taking to me.

[Drew.]

5* thread

[elliebrew]

Its a well known blog article online, the 'regards ellie' was me in agreement with the author....is their a point to this.?

You're deflecting from the points raised in the OP

[Liam-]

Which aren't your points :idc:

[elliebrew]

Which aren't your points :idc:

Which has what to do with anything?

They're still valid wether they're mine or not

[Josy]

Which has what to do with anything?

They're still valid wether they're mine or not

Its a disgusting thing to do. Closed.