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Crimson Dynamo
11-08-2015, 11:18 AM
Are your good pals all the same sex as you or so you have genuine pals of different sex

I am addressing this to the straight community principally but I guess :think: would it be similar to ask a gay man if he has pals who are male straight and vice versa with lesbians


In When Harry Met Sally I think they said no man could have a women pal

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Kizzy
11-08-2015, 11:23 AM
I know many have but I've never had a very close male friend without there be questions or rumours to ruin it, or they've tried it on.

Niamh.
11-08-2015, 11:50 AM
I did when I was younger but not anymore really. Actually one of my best friends is my brother but that probably doesn't count in what you're getting at :laugh:

LukeB
11-08-2015, 12:04 PM
Most of my friends are females tbqh

Firewire
11-08-2015, 12:16 PM
All of my friends are of the opposite sex

Crimson Dynamo
11-08-2015, 12:24 PM
All of my friends are of the opposite sex

yes but you are a homosexual so you have to say if you have pals that are male straight :nono:

Jay.
11-08-2015, 12:27 PM
when i was younger i had more male friends, now i'd say that they were mainly girls.

i mean like at uni, there's like 20 guys out of 180 people doing my course (even though it's only communication and media not like a hairdressing degree or s/t where you'd expect it perhaps) so it was inevitable there. outside of uni i guess it's just from who i've kept friendly with since finishing school and stuff like that idk.

i'd say my closest friend is a female though. I think i kind of prefer being around girls, i was brought up in a mostly female household because my dad was almost absent idk i feel more comfortable i guess

Ninastar
11-08-2015, 12:28 PM
my tibb boys of course. when I talk to my family or friends about them, I always call them 'my boys'

they dont know that though <3

Xtopher
11-08-2015, 12:29 PM
When I was in school all of my friends were girls. Now it's just men that I frequently talk to.

Lostie!
11-08-2015, 12:36 PM
I'm a gay guy and I have straight male friends (but admittedly the majority of my friends are female). On the other hand, I'm not close friends with any other gay males (friendly aquaintances with a couple but that's all).

Daniel.
11-08-2015, 12:56 PM
I have two friends I consider to be really close and both are females - I have other friends who are all female too. Not really friends with any gays bar online where I'm friends with loads of gays, also have a few straight male friends

LemonJam
11-08-2015, 01:10 PM
Probably about 75% of my friends are straight men.

Ninastar
11-08-2015, 01:16 PM
Probably about 75% of my friends are straight men.

probs the only one to say this on tibb tbh

AnnieK
11-08-2015, 02:51 PM
I have a couple of good friends who are guys but I guess I have more girl friends now. I used to have more guys than girls when I was out all the time but now nit so much.

Livia
11-08-2015, 03:27 PM
I have one close, straight, male friend and a couple of close gay male friends.

smudgie
11-08-2015, 03:52 PM
From teen years on most of my friends were either school friends of both sexes or male friends I met after leaving.
I still consider a few of them as friends..as in we just drifted apart but still very pleased if we bump into each other.
A did have quite a few friends with benefits mind...very handy at times💗
Hubby is my best friend..boring cliche I know, but very true.

reece(:
11-08-2015, 04:11 PM
Most of my friends are gals but I can easily get along with guys too because I'm easy going.

T*
11-08-2015, 04:13 PM
Yeah!

Amy Jade
11-08-2015, 04:14 PM
I have more male friends than female easily, infact most of my female friends I met because of my male friends.

That's not counting online obviously.

Jason.
11-08-2015, 04:16 PM
I'm a guy and I have friends of both sexes. Men and women. Admittedly, I hang out more with my male friends, but I still talk to female friends. Especially at work.

the truth
11-08-2015, 05:27 PM
most are male friends, I have 1 close female friend though. I find female company on to one is fantastic but in a group it gets a bit noisy

Crimson Dynamo
11-08-2015, 06:33 PM
i have none but i am not surprised

Mokka
11-08-2015, 06:42 PM
i have none but i am not surprised

i am not surprised either

I have at different times in my life... But not currently I guess. Mostly just couple friends, as in the other families and ours calling on each other and spending time together

Daniel-X
11-08-2015, 06:46 PM
Most of my friends are females. All of my best friends are female I could go out on my own with a group of girls but I couldn't with a group of boys. I can go around with boys only if there's like at least two/three girls there otherwise I feel awkward.

i have some friends who are boys but not best friends

Firewire
11-08-2015, 06:47 PM
yes but you are a homosexual so you have to say if you have pals that are male straight :nono:

oh oops

I don't have any male friends, I lost them when I left school and I've never made any new ones

armand.kay
11-08-2015, 06:50 PM
Its weird because in school I on hug around girls and my closest mates were girls but now I only have 2 friends and they are guys. So yeah the answer is no lol.

Will.
11-08-2015, 07:49 PM
Mix really, at school I always talk to and hang out with girls and boys. Mostly female friends outside of school though.

Shaun
11-08-2015, 08:17 PM
I have a fair mix. 3 or 4 straight males, 3 or 4 gay/bi, 4 straight females, one rough lesbian.

So idk what's going on

Jason.
11-08-2015, 08:39 PM
one rough lesbian.


:joker:

the truth
11-08-2015, 09:12 PM
oh oops

I don't have any male friends, I lost them when I left school and I've never made any new ones

call me :hehe:

Will.
11-08-2015, 09:16 PM
I have a fair mix. 3 or 4 straight males, 3 or 4 gay/bi, 4 straight females, one rough lesbian.

So idk what's going on

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Firewire
11-08-2015, 09:22 PM
call me :hehe:

absolutely not

Ammi
12-08-2015, 04:32 AM
...most of my closest friends are female but I do have 3 quite close male friends/two of which I have known since back in the teenage years....one is straight and two are gay...

jennyjuniper
12-08-2015, 04:55 AM
When I was young, most of my friends were female, but from about my thirties onwards the balance swung the other way. I still have a couple of really good female friends, but most of my friends are male.

Mystic Mock
12-08-2015, 06:03 AM
I used to, but we went our separate ways once we left School.

kirklancaster
12-08-2015, 06:06 AM
I have several gay male friends, one lesbian friend, and a few straight friends of both sexes.

Mystic Mock
12-08-2015, 06:08 AM
call me :hehe:

:joker:

Can you please go on BB?

GypsyGoth
12-08-2015, 06:36 AM
My sister's fiance is probably the closest to being a friend, but I wouldn't really call him one, like if he wasn't with my sister I'd never see him again.

Ninastar
12-08-2015, 07:01 AM
I have a fair mix. 3 or 4 straight males, 3 or 4 gay/bi, 4 straight females, one rough lesbian.

So idk what's going on

i dont know what to be more offended about. the fact that the rough lesbian might be me, or if it isnt, then you havent included me at all

-kills self-