I dumped my boyfriend tonight

[Amy Jade]

.

[LukeB]

hope you're okay :hug: :love: here for you

you are better off without

[andybigbro]

Aww Amy :hug:

Hope you're alright :sad: He isn't worth it if he treats you like that.

[Amy Jade]

hope you're okay :hug: :love: here for you

I'm better off not arsed with a cheater but thanks xx

[Cal.]

Babe</3

Hope you're okay<3

[Lostie!]

Good for you! And major respect for actually holding him accountable instead of just blaming the other girl like some people do.

Hope you're doing okay. You'll find someone so much better. :love:

[Iceman]

He sounds like a twat. You're way better off without him. You might feel a bit crappy for a while but it will be gone soon once you start having fun and realising you didn't need someone like that. And there's plenty of people on here to rant to. God knows all the mods past and present are sick of my rants!!

[Amy Jade]

Good for you! And major respect for actually holding him accountable instead of just blaming the other girl like some people do.

Hope you're doing okay. You'll find someone so much better. :love:

I'll be totally honest when I first found out she was a 'dirty ****ing slut' etc but I think I knew deep down she wouldn't be the one chasing and she was dead sympathetic to be fair she messaged me saying she felt bsd telling me etc so can't blame her, seemed like a nice girl tbh

[Amy Jade]

He sounds like a twat. You're way better off without him. You might feel a bit crappy for a while but it will be gone soon once you start having fun and realising you didn't need someone like that. And there's plenty of people on here to rant to. God knows all the mods past and present are sick of my rants!!

It's lovely having a rant knowing I won't have anybody sticking up for him haha its not what I need. Yeah he is a twat, thank you!

[Mokka]

I'll be totally honest when I first found out she was a 'dirty ****ing slut' etc but I think I knew deep down she wouldn't be the one chasing and she was dead sympathetic to be fair she messaged me saying she felt bsd telling me etc so can't blame her, seemed like a nice girl tbh

Yeah, most often the guy doesn't tell his hook up he is seeing someone.

Good on you girl for taking control of your own fate!! :thumbs:

[Mystic Mock]

He sounds like an Idiot to me.

I wouldn't worry though Amy Jade, I'm sure they'll be another guy that comes along that won't be a douchebag.:)

But yes if you ever need to vent then do it on here as they'll always be people that will listen to you on here.

[Ross.]

Amy </3

You're far better off without someone like that, hope you're okay. :love:

[Denver]

Obviously he never loved you so there is no need to be in a relationship with someone who has issues committing to you.

One day you will find your prince charming but it may take you some time but there is someone out there waiting for you.

[Jordan.]

Get that empowerment x

[Pete.]

Amy :hug: Good for you tbh

[Jason.]

He sounds like a douche anyway. I had that opinion when you made a thread on here about a month ago about how he made other plans behind your back, without telling you when he already made plans with you in the first place.

You can do way better :love:

[armand.kay]

Well done amy he sounds like a total dick theres no need to waste time with people like that :clap1:
hope you're ok chick :hug:

[Dollface]

Omg what a piece of ****, so glad you dumped him though you deserve better than a cheater. Why can't guys just stick to one woman..

[Rob!]

Good for you :clap1:

What a wanker. You deserve far better than that.

[Mystic Mock]

Omg what a piece of ****, so glad you dumped him though you deserve better than a cheater. Why can't guys just stick to one woman..

I don't get why people can't just say that they don't want to be in the relationship anymore instead of doing the cheating.

[Ammi]

...Amy..:hug:..honesty is everything really, there is nothing without that in a relationship so you're not ending anything that was ever there anyway, this can only be a beginning for you...he was a little part of your life but he would have had to be more of a person to be more than that and to deserve being more than that...

[Ammi]

...let's tell him that he's won a holiday of a lifetime and then send him to the most haunted house in the world..:whistle:...

[arista]

I don't get why people can't just say that they don't want to be in the relationship anymore instead of doing the cheating.


Because the stable other side
will not stand for it.


In the UK 12,000
names on the Ashley Madison
[are based in the UK]
and on the 2nd Hacked data dump.

Its not just Men

Woman also two time

[Ammi]

Because the stable other side
will not stand for it.


In the UK 12,000
names on the Ashley Madison
[are based in the UK]
and on the 2nd Hacked data dump.

Its not just Men

Woman also two time

....nope, they lie to protect themselves, let's not put any blame on the other person...

[Amy Jade]

...let's tell him that he's won a holiday of a lifetime and then send him to the most haunted house in the world..:whistle:...

I'm looking on the bright side, no more Nandos for a while! :cheer2:

[DrunkerThanMoses]

Sorry to hear that Amy, you should have punched the arsehole in the balls, but from the sounds of it he would have enjoyed it

[Ammi]

I'm looking on the bright side, no more Nandos for a while! :cheer2:

...you're a pretty amazing young lady, you know that..:love:..the 'right person' will be someone who makes you feel that every day..yeah, this isn't the end of anything but the beginning and new doors opening...

[Ammi]

..Amy, I had a boyfriend who slept with one of my good friends, it didn't really bother me at all, it really didn't because it showed me that he wasn't someone that I would want to be with so really was a good thing and she wasn't a friend that I would 'keep' through my life/so all good really...they got married eventually and then cheated on each other/separated/divorced etc ...and I have Mr Ammi, who is definitely a 'keeper' so all good and roads that are meant to be travelled...

[Amy Jade]

..Amy, I had a boyfriend who slept with one of my good friends, it didn't really bother me at all, it really didn't because it showed me that he wasn't someone that I would want to be with so really was a good thing and she wasn't a friend that I would 'keep' through my life/so all good really...they got married eventually and then cheated on each other/separated/divorced etc ...and I have Mr Ammi, who is definitely a 'keeper' so all good and roads that are meant to be travelled...
:love:

I think about 6 months ago I'd have been in bits, I'm sad of course but I feel like a sense of relife if that makes sense, I'm in the frame of mind that its his loss he messed up so I wont let him have the satisfaction of me being angry or upset. The messages off him have been sly though, blaming me fornot wanting to work it out or listen to his explaination and then the 'I'll delete your number if you want I only want to see you happy' crap haha

[Ammi]

:love:

I think about 6 months ago I'd have been in bits, I'm sad of course but I feel like a sense of relife if that makes sense, I'm in the frame of mind that its his loss he messed up so I wont let him have the satisfaction of me being angry or upset. The messages off him have been sly though, blaming me fornot wanting to work it out or listen to his explaination and then the 'I'll delete your number if you want I only want to see you happy' crap haha

..the 'blame' is just deflecting his feelings of guilt and what he's done, how he justifies to himself but he can't deflect anything onto you unless you receive it and allow him to and you won't, you'll let him keep it all for himself and let him learn from it...(maybe..)..he was what you needed in your life 6 months ago and made you feel good so keep that bit of it/don't lose that...don't think that it was in any way a waste of time because none of it was....

[Natalie.]

Sorry to hear that Amy,he's a prat and doesn't deserve you. :hug:

[kirklancaster]

Good for you Amy.

You have lost NOTHING, because with a deceiver you cannot even be certain that the good times you thought you had with them were genuine, or that the sweet words they have had to say were sincere, and so you have done absolutely the right thing.

I have found in life that when one door closes another definitely opens, so it will not be long before you meet the person who you are meant to be with.

HE is the one who will NEVER find contentment or fulfillment, I can assure you of that.

Good luck Amy, and well done.

[Ammi]

Sorry to hear that Amy,he's a prat and doesn't deserve you. :hug:

...she just dumped Chris Pratt..?...hang on Amy, let's talk about this a bit more, maybe we could talk to him as well and work it out.../let's not be hasty here...


https://distractedblogger.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/chris-pratt-raptor-wrangler.gif

[kirklancaster]

...she just dumped Chris Pratt..?...hang on Amy, let's talk about this a bit more, maybe we could talk to him as well and work it out.../let's not be hasty here...


https://distractedblogger.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/chris-pratt-raptor-wrangler.gif

:laugh:

[Natalie.]

...she just dumped Chris Pratt..?...hang on Amy, let's talk about this a bit more, maybe we could talk to him as well and work it out.../let's not be hasty here...


https://distractedblogger.files.wordpress.com/2015/06/chris-pratt-raptor-wrangler.gif

:laugh::laugh: nobody should ever dump him

[Daniel-X]

Doesn't sound worth your love tbh Amy. You're a lovely girl and if he can't appreciate just having you then clearly he shouldn't be in the relationship. I know you'll feel sad and betrayed at the moment but look on the bright side I'm sure you'll find someone soon who loves you and only you and that's what you deserve. If he can't be honest with you then I think you've done the right thing in dumping him!

Just remember this everyone is going to support you form this and I'm always here when you want to talk :love:

[Cherie]

Well done Amy, like BB6 I wasn't keen after the holiday thing but it's easy for someone on the outside with no emotions involved to say get rid of him, glad you were strong enough to dump him.

[Firewire]

@Amy Jade

[Nicky91]

Don't normally share personal stuff on here but I feel like ranting up a bit and if I do it on facebook he'll find out and I'm playing it cool with everyobe but my mum.

Basically my friend saw picture on her boyfriends phone of my boyfriend getting into this scottish girl. There are a few pics of her tagged so I message her and she tells me yeah she did kiss him but he took a girl back to his room almost every night, fair play to her she said sorry but he never mentioned anything about having a girlfriend. I dumped him infront of his friend outside my house as he was picking me up to go see Trainwreck. He's a prick cant believe I wasted so much time on him.


i'm here for you, but i hope you're okay, my queen :love: :love:

[Crimson Dynamo]

thats men for you, they are all like that


women, obvs, are worse

[Nicky91]

thats men for you, they are all like that


women, obvs, are worse

why are women worse? :fist:

[Crimson Dynamo]

why are women worse? :fist:

Nicky what sex are you this week, I can never keep up?

:hehe:

[Marsh.]

:joker:

[Nicky91]

Nicky what sex are you this week, I can never keep up?

:hehe:

i'm a guy, Always been a guy :hehe:



and we're friends LT, relax :)

[arista]

Don't normally share personal stuff on here but I feel like ranting up a bit and if I do it on facebook he'll find out and I'm playing it cool with everyobe but my mum.

Basically my friend saw picture on her boyfriends phone of my boyfriend getting into this scottish girl. There are a few pics of her tagged so I message her and she tells me yeah she did kiss him but he took a girl back to his room almost every night, fair play to her she said sorry but he never mentioned anything about having a girlfriend. I dumped him infront of his friend outside my house as he was picking me up to go see Trainwreck. He's a prick cant believe I wasted so much time on him.


I think you have done the right thing.
Stand Tall. Amy

[Crimson Dynamo]

i'm a guy, Always been a guy :hehe:



and we're friends LT, relax :)

:suspect:

[Mystic Mock]

thats men for you, they are all like that


women, obvs, are worse

Speaking from experience LT?:smug:

But seriously women would never trust me in a relationship, and tbf I can't say that I'd blame them.:joker:

[Josy]

This was last year ?

[Crimson Dynamo]

This was last year ?

:joker:

oh yeah

[Rob!]

Not Amy's traumas being resurfaced

[Mystic Mock]

Not Amy's traumas being resurfaced

I loved her date with that guy with him hogging the Chicken Nuggets on her.:laugh:

[Amy Jade]

I loved her date with that guy with him hogging the Chicken Nuggets on her.:laugh:

:laugh:

[TT350]

You made the right choice.

Now just stick to your guns and don't let him back into your life. It'll only happen again.

Just rember too, that the pain of losing someone special does fade over time.