What qualities matter to you?

[Dollface]

When choosing a potential partner, which of the following qualities is a must-have? Poll coming

1. Appearance (they present themselves well, take pride in their appearance)

2. Ambition (that they have a stable job or are working towards one)

3. Sense of humour (they have good bantz)

4. Loving (they are caring and romantic and show that they love you as much as snails love their shells)

5. Wealth (they got the money and they aint afraid to spend it all on you)

6. Other (please state)

[LukeB]

Loving/Ambition

[Liam-]

Humour, I laugh at everything, all the time, so if someone is completely bland and doesn't make me laugh, then I'd find it impossible to be with them, nothing else is really important to me.

[Lostie!]

Loving, for sure. I couldn't be with someone if they weren't fundamentally a kind-hearted, caring person.

[Jason.]

I'd say a bit of everything apart from wealth. I don't really care if someone is wealthy or not.

I'd probably settle on either loving or humour.

[Will.]

I voted wealth :hehe:

If I was being serious probably loving.

[Jay.]

humour, i mean imagine not being able to laugh with someone i'd rather get with a tadpole

[Jason.]

I voted wealth :hehe:

If I was being serious probably loving.

Don't lie. You're attracted to money.

Sarah Greenwood teas.

[Will.]

Don't lie. You're attracted to money.

Sarah Greenwood teas.

who's Sarah Greenwood? I've never heard of her.

[armand.kay]

#1 - Loving - If i don't adored then I'm not here 4 it

#2 sense of humour - Im not a serious person and I'm always joking around and stuff so i would need someone who gets my humour and doesn't take themselves too serious

#3 - Looks - not really too fussed about looks you just have to be decent really, hygiene etc is a MUST otherwise even if I'm not initially attracted to you I'm easy to win over. A lot of the time i have good sexual chemistry with people i wouldn't really regard as good looking....Being hot is a huge advantage tho.

#4 - Ambition - not that important but laziness etc can get annoying.

#5 - Wealth - not too bothered about this atm I'm young and can get anything I want for myself so I don't really need anyone for money. Also I'm really bad at accepting things from people.

[Dollface]

humour, i mean imagine not being able to laugh with someone i'd rather get with a tadpole

this 10,000%

also they would HAVE to be an animal lover

[Ross.]

humour, i mean imagine not being able to laugh with someone i'd rather get with a tadpole

:joker:

but yes humour and loving

[LaLaLand]

I'd say mostly humour and ambition.

Although I do have a thing about bad teeth.

[Daniel.]

Appearance and wealth of course

[Ninastar]

ive always thought appearance but recently I've learnt that if a person doesnt make it known that they are proper interested in me, i really freak out. im proper paranoid with it

[Dollface]

My order would probs go:

Humour

Loving (including animals, they have to love animals)

Appearance (gotta have that sexual chemistry)

Wealth

Ambition

[Lostie!]

also they would HAVE to be an animal lover

Yep, this too tbh. :clap1:

No way could I be with someone who had no regard for animals whatsoever.

[Benjamin]

Ambition. I cannot abide people with no ambition/drive. They are so draining and make terrible partners.

[Marsh.]

Appearance - Not that they have model looks, but they look after themselves and have good hygiene.

Loving - Obvious

Humour - MUST. I really cannot stand being near anyone with no sense of humour.

Ambition - They must have dreams/desires for their future.

[Jason.]

#1 - Loving - If i don't adored then I'm not here 4 it

#2 sense of humour - Im not a serious person and I'm always joking around and stuff so i would need someone who gets my humour and doesn't take themselves too serious

#3 - Looks - not really too fussed about looks you just have to be decent really, hygiene etc is a MUST otherwise even if I'm not initially attracted to you I'm easy to win over. A lot of the time i have good sexual chemistry with people i wouldn't really regard as good looking....Being hot is a huge advantage tho.

#4 - Ambition - not that important but laziness etc can get annoying.

#5 - Wealth - not too bothered about this atm I'm young and can get anything I want for myself so I don't really need anyone for money. Also I'm really bad at accepting things from people.

pretty much that order.

[jackc1806]

1- Appearance
If I'm not physically attracted to someone I couldn't be with them. Sorry.
2-Humour
Can't stand people who don't laugh, and they'll need to put up with my sometimes childish humour :hehe:
3- Ambition
Why just read books when you can write your own? :dazzler:
4-Loving
I find over-affectionate people annoying, but I wanna feel loved man
5-Wealth
Long as they don't live in a hut idgas

[Jason.]

5-Wealth
Long as they don't live in a hut idgas

:joker:

[Lostie!]

Oh, if we're ranking them:

1. Loving
2. Appearance
3. Humour
4. Ambition
5. Wealth

[Xtopher]

Humour.

[smudgie]

Loving with a sense of humour, not ruthlessly ambitious but a hard worker.
Loyalty to the one he adores above all others(me)
Tolerant and kind..great in bed with a few quid in the bank.
:cheer2:Yays..I hit the jackpot.

[Marsh.]

Thick and long please.

[Cal.]

Must have aggression to protect me x

http://media.giphy.com/media/l41lKTsAKeqm5mEco/giphy.gif

[Mystic Mock]

I love funny women so that would be the way to win me over.

And not looking like Sam Bailey would definitely help.:joker:

[Mystic Mock]

So yes my ranking goes like this.

1. Humor
2. Appearance
3. Ambition
4. Wealth
5. Loving (I want them to answer me back and treat me like an adult, not mollycoddle me)

[Natalie.]

Loyalty but

1.Humour
Loving
Appearance
Ambition
5.Wealth

[Josy]

All apart from wealth

[Niamh.]

I wouldn't say I had a check list, it's basically who I'm attracted to and click with really

[Black Dagger]

I need humour in my life, I'm not ****ing a boring drip that's for sure. (or anybody for that matter).

Basically. Humour > Loving > Ambition > Appearance > Wealth

[Raph]

Of those, in order of importance to me:

1) Ambition
2) Appearance
3) Wealth
4) Loving
5) Humour

[Niamh.]

Raph you're so shallow :laugh:

[Liam-]

Wealth before loving? :joker:

[Black Dagger]

You can always love a new outfit x

[Raph]

Raph you're so shallow :laugh:

I mean I wouldn't say shallow... i'd say strategic but I see where you're coming from. To be fair, all those points are important but I guess I just see the top three as most important. :laugh:

[Raph]

Wealth before loving? :joker:

Yessir! :dance:

[Niamh.]

I mean I wouldn't say shallow... i'd say strategic but I see where you're coming from. To be fair, all those points are important but I guess I just see the top three as most important. :laugh:

So you see a relationship as more of a business strategy? :laugh:

[Raph]

So you see a relationship as more of a business strategy? :laugh:

I think to a certain extent, yes. I sort of see a lot of things as a business strategy I guess. Of course the person has to be caring and there has to be that deeper connection but if they're not ambitious in the first place, I don't see a reason to follow that connection, if that makes sense. I consider myself to be quite ambitious so I guess I wouldn't want to be with someone who wasn't as ambitious as I was? Also ambition doesn't necessarily mean great success to me, it means more having a passion and really devoting a lot of your energy to it. Hope that makes me look less bad here hahaha :laugh:

[Jay.]

I need humour in my life, I'm not ****ing a boring drip that's for sure. (or anybody for that matter).

Basically. Humour > Loving > Ambition > Appearance > Wealth

this would be my order tbh

[LukeB]

this would be my order tbh

But Marsh had no humour?

[Niamh.]

I think to a certain extent, yes. I sort of see a lot of things as a business strategy I guess. Of course the person has to be caring and there has to be that deeper connection but if they're not ambitious in the first place, I don't see a reason to follow that connection, if that makes sense. I consider myself to be quite ambitious so I guess I wouldn't want to be with someone who wasn't as ambitious as I was? Also ambition doesn't necessarily mean great success to me, it means more having a passion and really devoting a lot of your energy to it. Hope that makes me look less bad here hahaha :laugh:

haha, yeah I get what you're saying, I just think if there was no love or laughs then the person being ambitious (or on your level of ambition) would be irrelevant for me but I could deal with a person being less ambitious than me if our relationship was full of love and laughter, if you know what I mean?

[Liam-]

I'd literally find it impossible to be with someone if they had the sense of humour of a brick, they could be the hottest, richest person on the face of the planet, but if they're dull, then there's no way in hell I'd be able to be with them, but each to their own I guess, it probably just depends on what you want from life I suppose.