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katriana
24-09-2015, 01:40 AM
Poor Austin has been reeled in and spat out far too many times.
The thing about narcissist is once they have you hooked they get bored and look for there next fix, leaving his victim utterly bewildered , wondering what they did wrong and how to fix it.While Narcassist boy has already moved on and only returns if it serves his purpose.
Hang on in there Austin you are doing well considering the mind ***k that's been happening to you .

Daniel.
24-09-2015, 01:42 AM
No he isn't :umm2:


He's a normal, nice and calm person...

BB4fan
24-09-2015, 01:47 AM
He isn't a narcissist nor does he have half the traits if one.

Stormy
24-09-2015, 01:53 AM
Poor Austin has been reeled in and spat out far too many times.
The thing about narcissist is once they have you hooked they get bored and look for there next fix, leaving his victim utterly bewildered , wondering what they did wrong and how to fix it.While Narcassist boy has already moved on and only returns if it serves his purpose.
Hang on in there Austin you are doing well considering the mind ***k that's been happening to you .

Nope...James jsut doesn't feel the friendship is anything more than casual...Austin wants it to be more and he keeps getting hurt every time James 'rejects' the friendship as nothing more than casual.

Do I feel sorry for Austin? Yes...poor guy is emotionally connected to James and keeps looking for reciprocation. Do I think James is a narcissistic jerk? No, he just sees it as a casual friendship and doesn't reciprocate.

camertone
24-09-2015, 02:27 AM
james loves himself too much and he craves compliments all the time. and he gets quite upset if people don't like him or disagree with him. that's narcissism. yes.

katriana
24-09-2015, 03:03 AM
Calm and calculating

Mystic Mock
24-09-2015, 04:12 AM
Poor Austin has been reeled in and spat out far too many times.
The thing about narcissist is once they have you hooked they get bored and look for there next fix, leaving his victim utterly bewildered , wondering what they did wrong and how to fix it.While Narcassist boy has already moved on and only returns if it serves his purpose.
Hang on in there Austin you are doing well considering the mind ***k that's been happening to you .

If James had enough time he'd target either Sherrie or Natasha as his next victim to make out is not understanding his weird point of view.

Dollface
24-09-2015, 04:30 AM
he's not normal. he skates by on his looks. He's basically paris hilton without the rich family. He's actually worse than Paris hilton, because at least she was spoiled and actually comes from a family with a name. He thinks he deserves to be rich and famous for how he looks, and he's willing to step on anyone to get it.

Am I seeing something different to everybody else? Because, I don't think James is that good looking :laugh: He is attractive, for sure, but to me he isn't stunning (like Cristian lmao) I think he knows he's good looking but idk if he thinks that highly of his looks that he deserves wealth and fame for it :laugh:

lostalex
24-09-2015, 04:31 AM
Am I seeing something different to everybody else? Because, I don't think James is that good looking :laugh: He is attractive, for sure, but to me he isn't stunning (like Cristian lmao) I think he knows he's good looking but idk if he thinks that highly of his looks that he deserves wealth and fame for it :laugh:

i agree his face is just ho-hum... but he does have an abercrombie body... which is very very rare. and that's why he's been naked for most of the series.

Dollface
24-09-2015, 04:36 AM
i agree his face is just ho-hum... but he does have an abercrombie body... which is very very rare. and that's why he's been naked for most of the series.

Oh yeah his body is pretty amazing, the fact he's shown it off at any given opputunity is what makes me think he knows he's good looking :laugh: although I think I prefer Austin's body.. and face (was better with hair though)

Mystic Mock
24-09-2015, 04:37 AM
Oh yeah his body is pretty amazing, the fact he's shown it off at any given opputunity is what makes me think he knows he's good looking :laugh: although I think I prefer Austin's body.. and face (was better with hair though)

I'm just grateful that none of the two guys have the face of the girl in your Avatar otherwise I'd be having mixed feeling on if I fancied them or not.:joker:

Dollface
24-09-2015, 04:42 AM
I'm just grateful that none of the two guys have the face of the girl in your Avatar otherwise I'd be having mixed feeling on if I fancied them or not.:joker:

Oh you likie Taylor then? :fan:

Mystic Mock
24-09-2015, 04:45 AM
Oh you likie Taylor then? :fan:

Yeah but I have a thing for Rock chicks anyway.:joker:

Northern Monkey
24-09-2015, 06:01 AM
I'd be narcissistic too if i looked llke him.I'm a straight man and i'd almost bum him.:joker:

Beso
24-09-2015, 06:49 AM
i went right off him last night, he don't half love himself, smug wee ****e as well. he is austins bitch.

Patricia4
24-09-2015, 07:47 AM
Nothing wrong with him he seems a nice guy and he's the winner.

jaxie
24-09-2015, 08:08 AM
I noticed Austin say to James that he thought of him as a brother. I wonder if James and the chemistry between them reminds Austin of his brother, making his emotional attachment to James deeper on his side. It's not James fault but it might explain why Austin seems a little obsessed?

chuff me dizzy
24-09-2015, 08:09 AM
I cannot believe he let Austin pretend to shove something up his arse last night and didn't smack the living daylights out of him, just showed how desperate he is to win ,any straight man would have never,ever let someone do that to him

Vanessa
24-09-2015, 08:53 AM
I cannot believe he let Austin pretend to shove something up his arse last night and didn't smack the living daylights out of him, just showed how desperate he is to win ,any straight man would have never,ever let someone do that to him

If he did that everyone would call him a homophobe.

poppsywoppsy
24-09-2015, 09:04 AM
Has everybody forgotten about Austins husband?

It seems Austin has because he has been after James for weeks. At least James has been the strong one to say No.

I think Austin is the lowest of the low, demanding apologies for being nominated for his own lewd behaviour and filthy remarks to Janice.

jet
24-09-2015, 09:05 AM
If he did that everyone would call him a homophobe.

Yep, there would be a thread this morning raking him over the coals...this place is coming down with negative threads about James already. It wouldn't be because the final is tonight, would it? :whistle:

chuff me dizzy
24-09-2015, 09:05 AM
If he did that everyone would call him a homophobe.

I wouldn't give toss what I was called

Vanessa
24-09-2015, 09:06 AM
Has everybody forgotten about Austins husband?

It seems Austin has because he has been after James for weeks. At least James has been the strong one to say No.

I think Austin is the lowest of the low, demanding apologies for being nominated for his own lewd behaviour and filthy remarks to Janice.

Last night on live feed Austin was coming on too strong on James. At times the poor lad looked uncomfortable, but he didn't want to upset his friend.

Vanessa
24-09-2015, 09:09 AM
I wouldn't give toss what I was called

He would be crucified for this.

jet
24-09-2015, 09:14 AM
Has everybody forgotten about Austins husband?

It seems Austin has because he has been after James for weeks. At least James has been the strong one to say No.

I think Austin is the lowest of the low, demanding apologies for being nominated for his own lewd behaviour and filthy remarks to Janice.

Spot on! :clap1:

bots
24-09-2015, 09:54 AM
James is a people pleaser, that's what salesmen do. That's how they make money, and that's how James thinks he will win BB. Nothing about him is real. Everyone says Stevi and Chloe are fake, which they are, but they are not as fake as James.

DemolitionRed
24-09-2015, 09:57 AM
I'm with those guys who don't find James looks at all attractive.

What I see when I watch James with Austin is a silly, giggling man who who fancies the pants off Austin but isn't going to go there on national tv....He gives Austin so many mixed messages.

I like James as a person but I wish he'd stop acting like the blushing bride and just get it on with Austin. I know he wants to.

Vanessa
24-09-2015, 09:59 AM
I'm with those guys who don't find James looks at all attractive.

What I see when I watch James with Austin is a silly, giggling man who who fancies the pants off Austin but isn't going to go there on national tv....He gives Austin so many mixed messages.

I like James as a person but I wish he'd stop acting like the blushing bride and just get it on with Austin. I know he wants to.

They have a lot of sexual chemistry and if the cameras were not there these two would have shagged ages ago.

chuff me dizzy
24-09-2015, 10:08 AM
James is a people pleaser, that's what salesmen do. That's how they make money, and that's how James thinks he will win BB. Nothing about him is real. Everyone says Stevi and Chloe are fake, which they are, but they are not as fake as James.

Totally agree ,he's like a used car salesman, tells you what he wants you to believe ..hes won it nothing so sure, but will he be remembered as a worthy winner ? ............No

jet
24-09-2015, 12:36 PM
James is a people pleaser, that's what salesmen do.

James isn't a salesman, at least not of the sleazy type some here are trying to portray. He owns a restaurant and at least as a business man he tries to do some good while making his money -

LinkTo summary:

Summary
BBC Apprentice 2014 Candidate.

If you want to know how I made things possible in life or for General Public Speaking, Appearances or Business enquiries please email me on connectwithajhill@hotmail.com

I am a young enthusiastic entrepreneur and I have been since the day I came into this world. I have had a business career in a diverse range of industry's and I am always looking for new ideas and potential opportunities.

My current and main focus is my newly incorporated company. I am developing a portfolio of small specialist homes around the country which enable people with learning disabilities to live a fulfilled and enjoyable life, at the same time provide every possible opportunity for people in our care to progress into there own homes in the community.

I am a great believer in achievement starts with ourselves and we our capable of achieving our dreams if we believe!!

bots
24-09-2015, 12:38 PM
James isn't a salesman, at least not of the sleazy type some here are trying to portray. He owns a restaurant and at least as a business man he tries to do some good while making his money -

LinkTo summary:

Summary
BBC Apprentice 2014 Candidate.

If you want to know how I made things possible in life or for General Public Speaking, Appearances or Business enquiries please email me on connectwithajhill@hotmail.com

I am a young enthusiastic entrepreneur and I have been since the day I came into this world. I have had a business career in a diverse range of industry's and I am always looking for new ideas and potential opportunities.

My current and main focus is my newly incorporated company. I am developing a portfolio of small specialist homes around the country which enable people with learning disabilities to live a fulfilled and enjoyable life, at the same time provide every possible opportunity for people in our care to progress into there own homes in the community.

I am a great believer in achievement starts with ourselves and we our capable of achieving our dreams if we believe!!

and thats alll paragraph's written by him to support him as a salesman :laugh:

jet
24-09-2015, 12:43 PM
and thats alll paragraph's written by him to support him as a salesman :laugh:

He had already formed the company and the reason he was on the Apprentice was that he wanted to win so Alan Sugar would support the venture. All the contestants have a business plan....

Ironman25
24-09-2015, 01:59 PM
They have a lot of sexual chemistry and if the cameras were not there these two would have shagged ages ago.
Completely disagree. James has no sexual interest in Austin.

Vanessa
24-09-2015, 02:02 PM
Completely disagree. James has no sexual interest in Austin.

I'm not sure, he's sending mixed messages. Sometimes he even starts the messing around, but other times when Austin is too pushy he gets uncomfortable.