The Crowd will Boo Stephanie and Cheer Jeremy

[LukeB]

It's obvious this will happen...sexism :idc:

[Jake.]

both awful and both deserve boos but yeah you're right

[Denver]

And deservedly so

[Black Dagger]

Well she is the one who is supposed to be in a relationship.

[EspeonBB]

Both should be booed but yeah the woman will get all the blame as usual

[LukeB]

Well she is the one who is supposed to be in a relationship.

But don't you think he should back away from her? it does take two, rather than blaming one person :laugh:

[LukeB]

Both should be booed but yeah the woman will get all the blame as usual

tbh yeah, It happened with Cristine and Cody on BB16 usa

the female got booed
Cody got cheered

[LukeB]

it honestly puzzles me why females always get the blame... She may be in an relationship but he also to blame in the situation too, he's not backing off or saying no to her.

[Vicky.]

It's obvious this will happen...sexism :idc:

How? We are always told its the one who is in the relationship thats in the wrong so...why is it different now?

[LukeB]

How? We are always told its the one who is in the relationship thats in the wrong so...why is it different now?

Yes she is in an relationship but it takes two people to ruin it. the females always gets the blame while the males always get away with it,,Jeremy is not saying no or backing off,

Affairs/things like that are done by two people not just one. I always blame both of them

[Vicky.]

Yes she is in an relationship but it takes two people to ruin it. the females always gets the blame while the males always get away with it,,Jeremy is not saying no or backing off,

OK right...on here, there was absolute hell on about Hazel getting any criticism for the Daley thing...as HE was the one in a relationship. Why is it different when its the woman who is in the relationship? :umm2:

(Disclaimer, I mean the Daley flirting, before everything went dodgy.)

[Cherie]

I couldn't take my eyes off his breasts in the DR, they stood out in an odd way, totally off topic

[Cherie]

OK right...on here, there was absolute hell on about Hazel getting any criticism for the Daley thing...as HE was the one in a relationship. Why is it different when its the woman who is in the relationship? :umm2:

(Disclaimer, I mean the Daley flirting, before everything went dodgy.)

Good point

[EspeonBB]

Yes she is in an relationship but it takes two people to ruin it. the females always gets the blame while the males always get away with it,,Jeremy is not saying no or backing off,

Affairs/things like that are done by two people not just one. I always blame both of them

This is my opinion on it too. I obviously don't think Stephanie is completely blameless but it's annoying how she's getting all the hate whilst Jeremy gets off scot free when he's played a major part in this as well :shrug:

[Vicky.]

This is my opinion on it too. I obviously don't think Stephanie is completely blameless but it's annoying how she's getting all the hate whilst Jeremy gets off scot free when he's played a major part in this as well :shrug:

Because...shes the one who is cheating and then bleating on about how much she supposedly loves her boyfriend?!

[joeysteele]

She is the one in a relationship and I do like her too but she needs to make it clear she is not interested, and clearly to 'him' and not just in the diary room.
If she really isn't that is.

[LukeB]

OK right...on here, there was absolute hell on about Hazel getting any criticism for the Daley thing...as HE was the one in a relationship. Why is it different when its the woman who is in the relationship? :umm2:

(Disclaimer, I mean the Daley flirting, before everything went dodgy.)

Really? I never saw..

but i do remember Hazel getting criticism more than Daley when both were equally involved in the situation(the flirting and stuff )

[Vicky.]

Really? I never saw..

but i do remember Hazel getting criticism more than Daley when both were equally involved in the situation.

From some she did, and there were many there to shout them down (and rightly so too)

Hell, some even blamed her for when he went psycho

But its not right to encourage both to get the blame solely because its the female in the wrong instead of the bloke. bad form :laugh:

[LukeB]

She is the one in a relationship and I do like her too but she needs to make it clear she is not interested, and clearly to 'him' and not just in the diary room.
If she really isn't that is.

but don't you think Jeremy should know what being in relationship means? I think he should say no we should not do this because it might look like something on the outside world etc. by not saying no/backing away and her letting it happen... both are equally as bad.

[Vicky.]

but don't you think Jeremy should know what being in relationship means? I think he should say no we should not do this because it might look like something on the outside world etc. by not saying no/backing away and her letting it happen... both are equally as bad.

Nah I just can't agree with that. Hes not exactly the pillar of morality or anything but to make out they are both as bad as each other, while she is the one in an actual relationship, is wrong.

[LukeB]

From some she did, and there were many there to shout them down (and rightly so too)

Hell, some even blamed her for when he went psycho

But its not right to encourage both to get the blame solely because its the female in the wrong instead of the bloke. bad form :laugh:

If she was saying want a hug/or whatever they are doing and he says no then fair enough it will be all on her but he's not saying no.. both are letting this happen so they both are equal :p

[EspeonBB]

Because...shes the one who is cheating and then bleating on about how much she supposedly loves her boyfriend?!

I agree she should get blame for the reasons you said but Jeremy knows she in a relationship and isn't doing anything to stop what's happening, which makes him at least kind of responsible and he definitely should get some of the blame.

[joeysteele]

but don't you think Jeremy should know what being in relationship means? I think he should say no we should not do this because it might look like something on the outside world etc. by not saying no/backing away and her letting it happen... both are equally as bad.

Yes I do agree with you he should back off too knowing she is in a relationship. Both are bad as to that, however she needs to say to him,'no',to his face and when she feels in any way tempted.
Not just to say it in the diary room.

I actually can see how in the BB house, where usual accepted behaviour can go out the window though and emotions take over at times.

[Moosething]

Look at Kristina being called a home wrecker

[Pete.]

both awful and both deserve boos but yeah you're right
.

[LukeB]

Nah I just can't agree with that. Hes not exactly the pillar of morality or anything but to make out they are both as bad as each other, while she is the one in an actual relationship, is wrong.

relationship yes but he's hardly respecting her boyfriend is he?

[Vicky.]

If she was saying want a hug/or whatever they are doing and he says no then fair enough it will be all on her but he's not saying no.. both are letting this happen so they both are equal :p


I don't understand this, I actually don't :laugh:

She is in a relationship, he is not. I do not get how her cheating is his fault. Yes, hes going along with it, so? He is not in a relationship :S

[Vicky.]

relationship yes but he's hardly respecting her boyfriend is he?

Nope, but hes not the one who is so 'in love' with the boyfriend :D

[Josy]

He isn't already with someone though, she is :think:

[Vicky.]

I agree she should get blame for the reasons you said but Jeremy knows she in a relationship and isn't doing anything to stop what's happening, which makes him at least kind of responsible and he definitely should get some of the blame.

He's being a bit of a selfish dick

But shes the one cheating

I think its fair to say shes worse in this tbh. I do not understand how some think its equal.

[lewis111]

Jeremy seems proud of himself kinda that he manages to take someone else's girlfrend which I find annoying. She deserves a worst reaction but not to the extent to which it will probably be

[susie q]

But don't you think he should back away from her? it does take two, rather than blaming one person :laugh:

yes if he genuinely liked her he would back off. Hope he gets booed too.

[LukeB]

Just because you're not in the relationship doesn't mean it's alright to go for people in relationships, they have to respect that and the person who is in the relationship has to think no I have a boyfriend i need to respect him, Cheating/whatever it is, isn't a one person doing.

[Vicky.]

Just because you're not in the relationship doesn't mean it's alright to go for people in relationships, they have to respect that and the person who is in the relationship has to think no I have a boyfriend i need to respect him, Cheating/whatever it is, isn't a one person doing.

If I saw it like this, I would seriously hate Kristina, who has gone through 3 MARRIED men in a row :umm2:

Nah, the one in the relationship is the one in the wrong to me. I honestly don't see how equal blame should be dished out at all

Anyway, we are clearly not going to agree on this so leaving :p

[Josy]

Just because you're not in the relationship doesn't mean it's alright to go for people in relationships, they have to respect that and the person who is in the relationship has to think no I have a boyfriend i need to respect him, Cheating/whatever it is, isn't a one person doing.

Stephanie is in a relationship and should have had enough respect for her boyfriend to not get involved with Jeremey at all.

Not really sure how anyone can attempt to deny that.

[Jamie89]

If she was saying want a hug/or whatever they are doing and he says no then fair enough it will be all on her but he's not saying no.. both are letting this happen so they both are equal :p

They're both equally involved in whatever it is they're doing, but he doesn't have a responsibility to, or any prior relationship with, her boyfriend. What he's doing makes him a dick, sure, but in this scenario I think she is definitely worse than him. Basically they're both dicks for getting together when somebody in the outside world is going to get hurt, but she's more of a dick because she's the one who is committed to that person. It's not a male/female thing either for me, I'd feel the same if it was the other way around.

[Jack_]

The person who cheats in a relationship is the one who has to take all of the blame, or else you get into ridiculous situations (which often occur, especially among women) where the cheater is taken back and the person who got involved is labelled a 'slag', 'slut' etc and gets all of the criticism - and it's pathetic.

If you're single you're free to do as you wish. Yes, getting involved with someone's who's in a relationship makes you a bit of a ****...but it's not your problem. If you're willing to cheat, that's your issue and your issue alone, and it is you and nobody else that should have to deal with the repercussions should it get found out.

[EspeonBB]

He's being a bit of a selfish dick

But shes the one cheating

I think its fair to say shes worse in this tbh. I do not understand how some think its equal.

Oh I definitely think she should get the majority of the blame, she is the one in a relationship and she has a commitment to stay loyal to her boyfriend.

But I think Jeremy had a part to play in the situation too and isn't blameless. I thought the same thing about the Daley/Hazel situation too (which made it even worse when Hazel got the most hate)

[tr1cky]

Vile couple, they deserve each other.

[rionablue]

The way I see it is that Stephanie said on the first or second night she had a boyfriend and they were looking around to see if there were any single girls. She was drawn to Jeremy and he to her and ok they had the banter and messed around a bit. She crossed the line the minute she crawled into his bed whether it be for cuddles hugs or as she said it having a laugh.

She started out on the road to regret a few nights ago and has now turned into a rather unlikeable ( and I really liked her) snivelling mess. Jeremy is cocky and full of himself and he is delighted she wants to be in bed with him and of course there is the added bonus that he is shacking up with a woman who has a relationship. He is NOT going to throw her out of the bed. Megan gave her a perfectly good solution tonight in telling her she should switch beds and she could share with her if she wanted to.

If I were Stephanies boyfriend I would be gutted to see this going on and would dump her without a shadow of a doubt. Steph says she loves him and wants him. WELL **** OFF BACK TO YOUR OWN BED MY LOVE

[Jack.]

Can't stand Jeremy tbh and i'm not really that keen on Steph either :idc:

[Northern Monkey]

Well she is the one who is supposed to be in a relationship.

Eeexactly:thumbs:

[Crimson Dynamo]

Women are seen as home makers and mother subconsciously - men are seen as hunter gatherers

thus a woman's deceit is viewed as worse

its hardwired into us over thousands of years

[Amy Jade]

I actually blame them both, but I think the majority of blame falling to Steph is fair.

She is the one in a relationship and therefore she is the one with commitments

[bots]

whatever the crowd reaction, it will be faultless based on their previous roasting of Winston, clearly.