Stephanie thinks that Gemma is a bully...

[zakman440]

...yet Steph was the one calling her names and impersonating her? Where is the logic?! :shrug:

[Denver]

Gemma is a 2 faced, Nosey, Bossy, thieving bully

[Ant.]

Gemma is a 2 faced, Nosey, Bossy, thieving bully

HOW is she a bully tho

[LukeB]

I don't think it's bullying because both are giving it to each other.

[Denver]

The way she just spoke to Darren backs this up

[Pete.]

Steph is the biggest bully in there

[EspeonBB]

Steph really lacks self awareness

[Mac1978]

Stephanie's behaviour isn't to my liking. However, I really don't feel that I have any right to impose my moral code on others.

By contrast Gemma feels that she can/should. For me, that makes her far more annoying and less likeable than Stephanie. However, 'bullying' might be the wrong word. That word gets thrown around like snuff at a wake - at this stage, it's lost all meaning. Her moralistic clap trap did tend to isolate Stephanie, so maybe that's where the feeling came from. However, I don't think her intention was to isolate Stephanie. I don't think she gave a fiddler's whether Stephanie was isolated or otherwise - she just wanted to cast herself as a 'moral' voice.

[hot2go]

Gemma is a master manipulator who lacks the necessary charm to back it up.

[lewis111]

I voted wrong option though the poll said Is Gemma a bully
Steph is though

[Stormy]

Stephanie's behaviour isn't to my liking. However, I really don't feel that I have any right to impose my moral code on others.

By contrast Gemma feels that she can/should. For me, that makes her far more annoying and less likeable than Stephanie. However, 'bullying' might be the wrong word. That word gets thrown around like snuff at a wake - at this stage, it's lost all meaning. Her moralistic clap trap did tend to isolate Stephanie, so maybe that's where the feeling came from. However, I don't think her intention was to isolate Stephanie. I don't think she gave a fiddler's whether Stephanie was isolated or otherwise - she just wanted to cast herself as a 'moral' voice.

:clap1::clap1::clap1:

[Tribal Spaceman]

Who is Steph bullying exactly, herself?

Gemma has used Steph's questionable behaviour to make herself look good. Nothing more. Steph is woefully immature and has a foul mouth but most of the things she said about Gemma were bang on the money.

[Papillon]

Gemma is the bully of the house

[the truth]

2 evil narcisissts

[RodHull]

I don't think it's bullying because both are giving it to each other.

Except one of them is on their own and the other has half the housemates wedged up their ample backside telling her how wonderful she is...

Ill let you decide which is which.

Bullying is isolating, im not a fan of throwing the word around lightly but its exactly what gemma does. She isolates and the leaves them with their only option to humble themselves before her (see steph apologising) then shes got their balls for life basically and her band of followers grows.

[MB.]

Eject the witch imho

[Vicky.]

Neither are bullies ffs :bored:

[Mokka]

Stephanie's behaviour isn't to my liking. However, I really don't feel that I have any right to impose my moral code on others.

By contrast Gemma feels that she can/should. For me, that makes her far more annoying and less likeable than Stephanie. However, 'bullying' might be the wrong word. That word gets thrown around like snuff at a wake - at this stage, it's lost all meaning. Her moralistic clap trap did tend to isolate Stephanie, so maybe that's where the feeling came from. However, I don't think her intention was to isolate Stephanie. I don't think she gave a fiddler's whether Stephanie was isolated or otherwise - she just wanted to cast herself as a 'moral' voice.

:worship:

[RodHull]

It struck me as well the irony how Gemma banged on about how if John was Darrens mate he'd have made the point about him smoking in private quietly (A fair point) then apparently although she likes Steph (??) she felt it best to stand in the middle of the room and loudly proclaim how she believed what they were doing was wrong in a confrontational way.

[Kazanne]

It struck me as well the irony how Gemma banged on about how if John was Darrens mate he'd have made the point about him smoking in private quietly (A fair point) then apparently although she likes Steph (??) she felt it best to stand in the middle of the room and loudly proclaim how she believed what they were doing was wrong in a confrontational way.

:clap1::clap1: You do know these truths will go unanswered as they are spot on and truthful.

[the truth]

theyre both scum......gemma's a real snake , steph over reacted, her name calling and mocking gemmas overweight appearance and lion - head showed steph has zero class and is a love cheat too but gemma is as bad if not worse, she provoked a reaction and was as always ignorant, condescending, loud and fake

[rionablue]

Who is Steph bullying exactly, herself?

Gemma has used Steph's questionable behaviour to make herself look good. Nothing more. Steph is woefully immature and has a foul mouth but most of the things she said about Gemma were bang on the money.

Totally agree

[tanussa]

gemma is her own worst enemy. its a slow process but she is upsetting everyone & exposing herself for the nasty piece of work that she is.

[hot2go]

It struck me as well the irony how Gemma banged on about how if John was Darrens mate he'd have made the point about him smoking in private quietly (A fair point) then apparently although she likes Steph (??) she felt it best to stand in the middle of the room and loudly proclaim how she believed what they were doing was wrong in a confrontational way.

I agree with Kazzane, this truth will be not get any responses because it's so real that there is no argument against it....what you describe is complete double standards on the part of Gemma.

[Northern Monkey]

Slag yes

Bully no

[RichardG]

I get bad vibes from Stephanie, I don't think she's a very nice person

That or she's very lost and confused and doesn't really know what she's doing anymore and probably needs some kind of help

[jennyjuniper]

No, although I don't like Steph, Gemma is the bully in that house. She targets people and tries to turn the others against them and that IS bullying.

[jaxie]

Stephanie is an idiot in denial about her own behaviour who somehow thinks being 22 should in some way garner her sympathy like she's 10. Her problems are all to do with her own self delusions, its not bullying though from neither her or GC.

[Ammi]

..I don't think that Gemma's a bully, maybe that's how Steph feels in terms of Gemma being so much physically taller than her, towering over her, type thing so she might feel intimidated in their clashes..?..I think Gemma is domineering in character/inconsiderate and she has to be heard but she's not really a 'shouter' like Steph and some of the others are..and that might be something that Steph isn't so used to either....no I don't think that she's a bully, for all her faults, I wouldn't say that there is any bully in the house, just quite a few judgemental, hypocritical people....and very vocal with their judgements...

[hot2go]

Bang on correct....That human waste disposal is def a Bully

Goes from one housemate to the next planting little poison bombs, selects the perfect moment to pounce, waits for the target to approach, gathers all her little bully friends around her then attacks the victim publicly

She's so ugly to watch

[Ammi]

Bang on correct....That human waste disposal is def a Bully

Goes from one housemate to the next planting little poison bombs, selects the perfect moment to pounce, waits for the target to approach, gathers all her little bully friends around her then attacks the victim publicly

She's so ugly to watch

...actually as much as I'm not keen on Gemma, I do personally think that Daniella is worse for 'planting seeds or bombs'...she did it with Angie in saying that she had, had her hair done and inferring that she wasn't ill at all, when that wouldn't necessarily mean that BB hadn't tried to 'perk up her spirits' a bit by her having a hairdresser etc and a little pampering...Daniella also, was (if I recall..)...the first one to start with the judgement of Stephanie and her relationship in saying , at least she would have a boyfriend to go out to...she was also a big voice in the 'two David's' thing and quite vocal in saying that Tiff should go...at least I think with Gemma, she's judgemental etc yes and does 'attack' but then that's the reason that she's losing popularity, because she does say things more directly and puts herself forward as 'spokesperson'...whereas Daniella is slipping more under the radar atm I think...I really do think that she's quite grim tbh...

[hot2go]

I agree with Ammi, Dani is proving to be as bad....it's just not as obvious because of all the drama the others create around her....Danni wanted Angie out...then she wanted Tiffany out....both decisions made without understanding the facts....when in truth at that moment neither needed to be removed and in fact both needed support as they were both in shock....when Tiffany continued to attack Angie after having the situation explained to her, then she should have been removed till things calmed down because she was no longer in control....but Danni made unfair judgements on both without knowing the facts
Then, as Ammi has just said, she tried to turn the house against Angie yesterday.
I was pro Danni till she started promoting Megan as some kind of great example that young girls should measure themselves against....what an absolute idiot thing to think ...Dani no longer has my support

[jet]

I absolutely agree with you both about Danniella, Ammi and hot2go. I was actually going to post something identical elsewhere later as she really bothers me and I wanted to get it off my chest! Now I don't have to as you have said it all. Thanks because I'm very busy today. :hehe:

[Ammi]

I absolutely agree with you both about Danniella, Ammi and hot2go. I was actually going to post something identical elsewhere later as she really bothers me and I wanted to get it off my chest! Now I don't have to as you have said it all. Thanks because I'm very busy today. :hehe:

..oh Lord, don't start disliking Daniella a lot, that will probably ensure her to win...(The Voice on BBC1 is good this time of year, why don't you go watch that...that'll be a lovely thing that you and Mrs Jet can watch together..)...







..:laugh:...I'm joking of course, it's lovely to see you posting so much in this series...:love:...

[Ammi]

I absolutely agree with you both about Danniella, Ammi and hot2go. I was actually going to post something identical elsewhere later as she really bothers me and I wanted to get it off my chest! Now I don't have to as you have said it all. Thanks because I'm very busy today. :hehe:

..well actually I'm very busy as well..:fist:...I'm just more organised than you with my time....

[jet]

..oh Lord, don't start disliking Daniella a lot, that will probably ensure her to win...(The Voice on BBC1 is good this time of year, why don't you go watch that...that'll be a lovely thing that you and Mrs Jet can watch together..)...







..:laugh:...I'm joking of course, it's lovely to see you posting so much in this series...:love:...

We do watch the Voice as well. I'm not going to have a fave this year as it wouldn't be fair on them....:laugh:

[jet]

..well actually I'm very busy as well..:fist:...I'm just more organised than you with my time....

But I'm less boastful :joker: