Is Steph being bullied for having vaginal discharge?

[Cal.]

:(

[Firewire]

I don't think it was intended as bullying. If it had been a pair of ****ty knickers people would've laughed without thinking about how the person would've felt.

[Denver]

I think this is the first proper case of bullying this series

[ThriceShy]

I despair. Every series someone has to play the vaginal discrimination card when an argument happens.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

No. She's a grown woman wash your knickers and don't leave them on a dining table. She got what she deserved.

[GiRTh]

She needs to wash her bits more often.

[Cal.]

She didn't choose to have vaginal discharge.

[Pete.]

No she's over-exaggerating the situation by playing the victim, and using the opportunity to blast Gemma once more (actual repeated bullying)

[Denver]

She didn't choose to have vaginal discharge.

This plus its a very private and personal problem that was used to get one other on her

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

She didn't choose to have vaginal discharge.

But she has the choice to wash them and not leave them on a communal table. Oh what they must've smelled.

[Pete.]

This plus its a very private and personal problem that was used to get one other on her
If it was private she would have wash them pants quick and not leave them lying around

[Denver]

If it was private she would have wash them pants quick and not leave them lying around

But she had them wrapped up ready to be washed there was no need for others to mess with them

[Vicky.]

No.

It was very embarrassing and unnecessary (mind she shouldnt leave dirty knickers about...if it was for weeks like someone said :umm2: ) but not bullying.

The other girls going on like they never have discharge though is ridiculous :joker:

[GiRTh]

Steph uses the word bully a lot. Everything that happens to her is some type of bullying.

[Vicky.]

Steph uses the word bully a lot. Everything that happens to her is some type of bullying.

She also likes to remind people she is only 22...as if somehow that excuses everything that happens ever :D

[Amy Jade]

But she has the choice to wash them and not leave them on a communal table. Oh what they must've smelled.

She didn't leave them on the table, John put them on the table.

[Stormy]

She also likes to remind people she is only 22...as if somehow that excuses everything that happens ever :D

Gemma also likes to remind people that she is GC...as if somehow that excuses everything that happens ever. :D

[Vicky.]

Gemma also likes to remind people that she is GC...as if somehow that excuses everything that happens ever. :D

Hey now, shes a innocent, shy girl underneath it all :laugh:

[Northern Monkey]

It was her own fault.She left dirty knickers in a communal bathroom.

[Denver]

Only a pervert will go rifling through a young girls dirty underwear

[rubymoo]

Vaginal discharge is natural, when you ovulate you become more moist this aids penetration, your body knows when it's right for procreation.

[Daniel-X]

Yeah it was uncomfortable to watch tonight. Danniella, John and Gemma all behaved disgusting and Megan wasn't nice either.

[Kizzy]

If she had washed her crusty pants there wouldn't be an issue :/

[Ant.]

No.

It was very embarrassing and unnecessary (mind she shouldnt leave dirty knickers about...if it was for weeks like someone said :umm2: ) but not bullying.

The other girls going on like they never have discharge though is ridiculous :joker:

This

She overuses bully so much

[hot2go]

Dirty laundry is surely part for the course in the house....there is dirty laundry everywhere, none more than Gemma who is the laziest slob in the entire place....

Stephs pants were not as disrespectful as that old cow spilling water on the floor then just f-ckin off expecting someone to clean up after her...someone could have slipped and been seriously injured and she didn't give a f-ck...

That business tonight was gang humiliation against one person....and if they had belonged to any of the other 4 girls they would never have dared do that to them ..Steph is an easy target so I reckon it was bullying

[rubymoo]

No.

It was very embarrassing and unnecessary (mind she shouldnt leave dirty knickers about...if it was for weeks like someone said :umm2: ) but not bullying.

The other girls going on like they never have discharge though is ridiculous :joker:

Absolutely, though they probably claim their Sh*t don't smell either!

[hot2go]

If she had washed her crusty pants there wouldn't be an issue :/

She could have washed them in the pool of water that that gready cow left on the floor the other day....solve two problems at once

[Amy Jade]

Not bullying but very insensitive and mean

[RodHull]

No its awful personal hygiene being rightly pointed out... The 3 boys were a bit juvenile about it but I think it became uncomfortable when all the girls who dislike steph went and laughed and sniggered along with the boys saying how gross it was.

As women they should have thought regardless whether they like her, would I appreciate this? They could have diffused it but Gemma and her posse made it into a massive drama as usual

That said Steph is playing the victim card big time, I detest Gemma but sorry if your that intimidated by a group of people you dont behave like steph does most of the time.

[hot2go]

No its awful personal hygiene being rightly pointed out... The 3 boys were a bit juvenile about it but I think it became uncomfortable when all the girls who dislike steph went and laughed and sniggered along with the boys saying how gross it was.

As women they should have thought regardless whether they like her, would I appreciate this? They could have diffused it but Gemma and her posse made it into a massive drama as usual

That said Steph is playing the victim card big time, I detest Gemma but sorry if your that intimidated by a group of people you dont behave like steph does most of the time.

So if someone went through your dirty Landry that you had put to one side to be washed and picked out your panties and handed them around the room would that be ok and would you be considered to have bad hygiene ? And if some boys being pricks did that would you expect the girls to reprimand the lads or laugh and encourage them ? The laundry was all in one neat pile before Chris and John went delving in. And Thenreason Daniela is crying now is because she knew the second that Steph pointed it out that YES she had behaved unkind and nasty .....and why ? Because she's got in with that old cow Gemma and has been turned sour by a her.

[joeysteele]

No, she is rightly being got at for not being clean and hygienic and washing her effects when they 'need' to be instantly washed.
Hopefully she has now learned a valuable lesson, no matter how it has been pointed out, not to just dump her soiled effects in any way ,anywhere and just leave them for days too.

[Alf]

Only a pervert will go rifling through a young girls dirty underwear
You know me so well.

[Jake.]

if she wasn't such a bellend who constantly threw the bullying word around then I'd probably have a bit of sympathy but nah

[Jason.]

No, it's not bullying.

I honestly thought the house being "scared" of Tiffany during Dead-Davidgate and John forcing her/implying she had to leave because the house was worried about their safety (when she'd done nothing wrong to provoke that sort of reaction) was bullying.

[Lister of Smeg]

Absolutely, though they probably claim their Sh*t don't smell either!

Used to happen all the time when me and my ex had sex it don't even smell of nothing. I actually think it's hot as hell when it happens during penetration :laugh:

[KingOfTheMods]

Not bullied but it was bang out what happened. Husbands stand up, how many times have you picked up your wives knickers n thought wtf? Did you ever embarass her and address it in front of a watching public? Nah, you're good husbands. I got you bruv!

[reece(:]

No she's over-exaggerating the situation by playing the victim, and using the opportunity to blast Gemma once more (actual repeated bullying)
I agree

[Vicky.]

I actually don't think she would have owned up to it if there wasn't a lightbulb moment where she realised she could try the bully angle once more...

[Stormy]

Dirty laundry is surely part for the course in the house....there is dirty laundry everywhere, none more than Gemma who is the laziest slob in the entire place....

Stephs pants were not as disrespectful as that old cow spilling water on the floor then just f-ckin off expecting someone to clean up after her...someone could have slipped and been seriously injured and she didn't give a f-ck...

That business tonight was gang humiliation against one person....and if they had belonged to any of the other 4 girls they would never have dared do that to them ..Steph is an easy target so I reckon it was bullying

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[Stevep]

I actually don't think she would have owned up to it if there wasn't a lightbulb moment where she realised she could try the bully angle once more...

I think she would have owned up a lot sooner if it was not for all the laughter, of course she is going to deny it, she felt degraded and embarrassed, a large number of people would have done exactly the same initially through embarrassment.

Anyone that looks at the situation objectively without an agenda would agree that certain housemates took that opportunity to humiliate her,to belittle her, using the bullying card was a perfect retaliation from Stephanie.

[tanussa]

enough with the vaginal discharge & cruddy knickers. think its been talked to death now

[Vicky.]

I think she would have owned up a lot sooner if it was not for all the laughter, of course she is going to deny it, she felt degraded and embarrassed, a large number of people would have done exactly the same initially through embarrassment.

Anyone that looks at the situation objectively without an agenda would agree that certain housemates took that opportunity to humiliate her,to belittle her, using the bullying card was a perfect retaliation from Stephanie.

The housemates didn't know they were stephs to start with though. Though I do agree they went on like children.

Also it just seemed rather rehearsed the way bullying was brought out again the second she admitted it. Which is why i think she might have used the situation for another try at the pity vote.

[Crimson Dynamo]

I doubt 80 % on here understand what went on

[AnnieK]

I think it's disgraceful to be honest...

[Mazzie]

Dirty laundry is surely part for the course in the house....there is dirty laundry everywhere, none more than Gemma who is the laziest slob in the entire place....

Stephs pants were not as disrespectful as that old cow spilling water on the floor then just f-ckin off expecting someone to clean up after her...someone could have slipped and been seriously injured and she didn't give a f-ck...

That business tonight was gang humiliation against one person....and if they had belonged to any of the other 4 girls they would never have dared do that to them ..Steph is an easy target so I reckon it was bullying

Good post. John is just awful as are Gemma and Daniella. There is dirty washing all over BB and why the heck did John put the panties on the table?

Steph to win. :cheer2:

[kirklancaster]

But she had them wrapped up ready to be washed there was no need for others to mess with them

Once again Adam, you speak truth and sense.

ANY decent person seeing knickers among those clothes would have discreetly recovered them and said NOTHING.

They caused massive embarrassment to this girl for NO reason other than succumbing to the 'pack mentality' and having a laugh at her expense. I cannot imagine how terrible she must REALLY feel inside herself at having something as personal as her panties pored over, inspected and made public by these laughing bullies.

If these had been Tiff's knickers there would be 456 posts over many pages accusing these shet cu-nts of everything from 'racism' to 'bullying'. If they had been Danniella the Pugs or Gemma the Pigs, we would have had huge uproars and weeping and wailing from those two playing the 'victim' on a scale unparalleled, as well as from their fan bases.

Stephanie is being bullied and I now hope that she wins this CBB as a kind of 'Karma' against the spineless bullies in there.

[waterhog]

its a very sensitive issue and she will feel it is very personal but these things happen and like it or no - woman have this.

every time I write a poem - the same sort of stuff runs out of my pen.

[cfromhx02]

Yes and no so I've ticked neither as I don't think it's as clear as that.

IMO Steph was wrong big time for leaving her knickers lying around unwashed

but I also think that Gemma and Daniella were bullying her over it but not specifically because of that just because they knew it was a good way to humiliate her

and so they just took advantage of the situation to use it to humiliate.

John and the boys were wrong to leave them on the table too but I think that probably was innocent just to get them off the floor and tables can be wiped,it's harder to get stains out of carpets,and to properly dissinfect them without damaging the colour in them.

[Niamh.]

I think it's disgraceful to be honest...

Same and I dislike Steph alot but three men rifling through her underwear like that was crossing some sort of a line

[Vicky.]

I don't remember Gemma saying anything? Was Daniella and Megan from my memory. Along with the childish lads :rolleyes:

[rionablue]

No In a house of that many people dirty underwear in particular SHOULD not be left around

[MrWong]

No she isn't being bullied. Her best mates in the house Jeremy/Megan have both said that she isn't as well.

She's thrown out the bully word more times than she's said that she's a 22 year old girl :sleep:

[MrWong]

I don't remember Gemma saying anything? Was Daniella and Megan from my memory. Along with the childish lads :rolleyes:

Gemma said that Steph would probably get Jeremy to wash the knickers.

She's not wrong.

Megan said it was out of order that they were on display and covered them up.

[Visage]

Same and I dislike Steph alot but three men rifling through her underwear like that was crossing some sort of a line

That's the main issue for me. They were sorting the laundry out and then it was a case of "look at these knickers" as Christopher moved them across the table one by one.


The reaction from the three of them that followed was embarrassing, are we to believe they have no common sense when it comes to someone's laundry?

It was like something from the school locker room after gym where one kid is ridiculed for his/her dirty underwear.



I don't remember Gemma saying anything? Was Daniella and Megan from my memory. Along with the childish lads :rolleyes:

Gemma did mention how her knickers would be much bigger than those on the table and I think (not 100%) that she went on to say it was disgusting.

[arista]

I think this is the first proper case of bullying this series


Yes True

[Crimson Dynamo]

I would imagine John has had a few things discharge from his body that he would not like broadcast all over the house


:umm2:

[sosadbbend]

She didn't leave them on the table, John put them on the table.

Actually Christopher did.

[alex_front2]

At least it wasn't no 2 skid marks

[MTVN]

Yeah I think it was. Most the house sniggering over something like that and embarrassing her on national television must be a pretty horrible thing to go through. Don't really get the criticism of her leaving them somewhere 'communal' either because the whole house is communal..

[Visage]

Don't really get the criticism of her leaving them somewhere 'communal' either because the whole house is communal..

Nor I.

The house is known for most of the housemates dumping their clothes everywhere. Once the first person leaves something a few often follow, going on all the years I've watched the show.

I think it's mentioned as an excuse for some of them to ridicule a housemate based on what appears to be a normal bodily function.

The decent thing to do would have been to cover them up and asks the girls to sort out their underwear, or get on with cleaning them. Isn't that why they picked up the dirty laundry in the first place?

[Pink Pegasus]

I'm not a huge Stephanie fan and there have been times in that house where I've felt she was just trying to act the victim and not take any responsibility for her own actions.

However with this situation I really felt bad for her. :( People laughing and making out like she was dirty or gross over her underwear did seem unnecessarily mean and bitchy and a bit like school-yard bullying.

That's not to say that Stephanie has been correct every singe time she has shouted out the word "bullies", but on this occasion I think she had a point. It must have been so embarrassing for her. Yes maybe she shouldn't leave her stuff thrown about and be untidy, but there was no need for that big scene to be made. Anybody decent would have discreetly just left them back where they found them and asked the house as a whole "Could everybody go pick up their laundry we're doing a wash or a tidy up today."

Although Megan did giggle a bit she at least acknowledged it wasn't right having them on display like that and tried to cover them up with other clothing.

I wouldn't accuse them all of being bullies over this single incident but I think they handled it very badly.

I do however think Gemma IS a bully in general with people in that house and I think she does try to intimidate people like Christopher and maybe Steph too at times.

Jeremy is somebody I haven't paid much attention to as a housemate but he is growing on me a bit. He went up in my estimation as to how he handled that situation. I thought he would be a bit laddish and immature and maybe act grossed out, but the way he handled it was very gentlemanly and he made the others look like immature idiots and that they should just grow the fcuk up. He also tried to cheer Steph up with a bit of humour too.

Can't believe I'm saying this but I think he would probably be a very sweet boyfriend and really look out for his girlfriend.

(That's not condoning Stephanie cheating on her boyfriend at all, and Jeremy probably shouldn't be trying anything with somebody he knows is attached, but I'm starting to believe that he does genuinely have some sort of feelings for Steph whereas before I thought maybe it was just boredom and fun seeking and being selfish...)