Steph on Loose Women today

[hot2go]

Anyone interested in seeing her first interview since leaving the house can watch today's Loose Women ....she came across as being happy but also troubled...pretty much like in the house tbf....she surprisingly spoke about how she has ended her relationship with the ex by text....I am assuming she was too scared, too angry or too weak to face him.....I like her but I think she needs to do some growing up and maybe now she is with Jeremy she will.

[Niamh.]

too angry with her b/f? ummmm why on Earth would she be angry with him?

ETA : She really shouldn't be relying on Jeremy or anyone else for that matter to grow up

[Denver]

It was a great interview and explained so much what a great role model she is :clap1:

[hot2go]

too angry with her b/f? ummmm why on Earth would she be angry with him?

ETA : She really shouldn't be relying on Jeremy or anyone else for that matter to grow up

I found her BF to be unpleasant when he was on our screens last year, maybe she has now had the same realisation....comparing him with Jeremy would certainly help her to reach that conclusion.
I do believe Jeremy will be a leveller to her erratic personality and she will grow up a bit more....other people and other experiences can play a huge part in who we become.

[Niamh.]

I found her BF to be unpleasant when he was on our screens last year, maybe she has now had the same realisation....comparing him with Jeremy would certainly help her to reach that conclusion.
I do believe Jeremy will be a leveller to her erratic personality and she will grow up a bit more....other people and other experiences can play a huge part in who we become.

I know you personally don't like her b/f but that doesn't mean she has the right to be angry with him when she cheated on him in front of the nation :/ You may think he deserves it because you found him unpleasant on some TV show but that still doesn't make what she did right or worthy of her being angry with him.

Also, Stef needs to grow the **** up and she needs to learn how to be independent imo, using Jeremy as some sort of crutch won't help her to grow up imo

[joeysteele]

I wasn't impressed,all she did was repeat the new story she started on for the last week or so in the house which was a world away from the story and image she presented on first going in the house as to her and Sam.

For me, not really knowing much as to Sam, I would think even he is likely better off without this selfish,devious woman in his life and if Jeremy had any real sense he would be questioning what he is actually really being used for.

Hopefully she is not seen as any kind of role model because she is,in my view, a total nightmare and massive contradiction to even herself.
A woman like her,in my opinion, should carry a danger warning to all men.

[hot2go]

She def needs to do some growing up but that doesn't mean she's a bad person....she does make herself an easy target for criticism but maybe that's because she's too honest, which again shows inexperience and immaturity.....personally I find that endearing, so many celebrities today are too generic to be of any interest to me at all.
Hard to know the real or full story of Steph and Sam, it would appear he was using her to get where he's now going, that theory fits in perfectly with my perception of him...but maybe she just resents him cashing in on her time in the house, not so much because of the good fortune it's brought him but more how it confirms that he was using her all along.

[hot2go]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Y38gDFru9-w


Jeremy's interview on Saturday night

[Papillon]

Steph changes her story every time she tells it...

She said that Sam made her tell everyone in the house that she was in a perfect relationship to a wonderful & perfect man whom she loves.

She now claims Sam is a serial cheater.

She said that Sam found a picture of Jezza before entering the house & showed it to her, this is when she first realised she could fancy him.
But she told everyone in the house, the first time she saw Jezza was when he was walking down the stairs & she thought "Utoh I'm in trouble".

Steph continues to blame EVERYONE but herself for her $hit life.

JPS was the only one who seem to have the interviewer head on...
She told Steph next time you're in a relationship wait a long time before announcing your engagement, this was said after Steph mentioned Jezza & Marriage in the same sentence.

[smudgie]

She did herself no favours with that interview.

[reece(:]

How embarrassing

[Vicky.]

Dumping someone by text seems about right for such a selfish, childish brat.

If Jeremy has any sense, he will get out now before he is accused of all sorts.

[jaxie]

I know you personally don't like her b/f but that doesn't mean she has the right to be angry with him when she cheated on him in front of the nation :/ You may think he deserves it because you found him unpleasant on some TV show but that still doesn't make what she did right or worthy of her being angry with him.

Also, Stef needs to grow the **** up and she needs to learn how to be independent imo, using Jeremy as some sort of crutch won't help her to grow up imo

:clap2:

[Glenn.]

Gross

[joeysteele]

She did herself no favours with that interview.

She didn't,even attempting the tears trick again,only to be in near hysterics the next sentence.

[rusticgal]

Steph changes her story every time she tells it...

She said that Sam made her tell everyone in the house that she was in a perfect relationship to a wonderful & perfect man whom she loves.

She now claims Sam is a serial cheater.

She said that Sam found a picture of Jezza before entering the house & showed it to her, this is when she first realised she could fancy him.
But she told everyone in the house, the first time she saw Jezza was when he was walking down the stairs & she thought "Utoh I'm in trouble".

Steph continues to blame EVERYONE but herself for her $hit life.

JPS was the only one who seem to have the interviewer head on...
She told Steph next time you're in a relationship wait a long time before announcing your engagement, this was said after Steph mentioned Jezza & Marriage in the same sentence.


Totally agree with you...as I said throughout the series...it's always SOMEBODY else's fault.
Janet Street Porter struck to the core and said what most of us wanted to say. Steph has an excuse for everything. like you have said...she is now coming out with this story that Sam told her to tell everyone how much she was in love with him...it's all pathetic. This girl needs counselling and needs to take responsibility for her actions.
Now she is latched on to Jeremy...who was shown in a pre recorded video sending her a message of how he will see her later and loves her loads...:sleep:
Don't they have mobiles...why make it so public. It's all so transparent and fake.

They will be finished in a month when all the mag deals are done...just you watch.

[rusticgal]

...also bearing in mind she is only 22...where the **** was her family when she was going through depression etc?
Her desperate NEED for love seems unhealthy...something desperately lacking there.

[Marsh.]

What a shame.

She actually has a talent and has squandered it and failed to grow up.

[Stormy]

too angry with her b/f? ummmm why on Earth would she be angry with him?

ETA : She really shouldn't be relying on Jeremy or anyone else for that matter to grow up


Those that don't like Stephanie like to imagine she's a horrible person and has no possible reason to be angry with Sam other than to justify her affair with Jeremy. Those that love Stephanie imagine that Sam is a total A-hole and must have done/said some horrible things that justifies her affair with Jeremy.

I suspect the truth is in the middle somewhere.

[Marsh.]

Regardless of what the actual truth is about what happened with Sam, I have zero respect for her who is the one to air this whole thing on television.

[Stormy]

Regardless of what the actual truth is about what happened with Sam, I have zero respect for her who is the one to air this whole thing on television.

"Truth be damned, is it?? :joker: :joker:

( Sorry Marsh, I couldn't help it, but you just walked into that one. :) )

[Marsh.]

"Truth be damned, is it?? :joker: :joker:

( Sorry Marsh, I couldn't help it, but you just walked into that one. :) )

Eh? Sorry, I'm not sure what you mean? :laugh:

[Niamh.]

Those that don't like Stephanie like to imagine she's a horrible person and has no possible reason to be angry with Sam other than to justify her affair with Jeremy. Those that love Stephanie imagine that Sam is a total A-hole and must have done/said some horrible things that justifies her affair with Jeremy.



I suspect the truth is in the middle somewhere.


But she suddenly became "angry" with him when she decided to cheat on him on tv before that she was ready to marry him and was "angry" at people who reminded her she already had a b/f :laugh:

[Cold Sweat]

Good interview.

Nice to see Steph enjoying life post CBB - did she give a hint about releasing some music later this year?

[Marsh.]

But she suddenly became "angry" with him when she decided to cheat on him on tv before that she was ready to marry him and was "angry" at people who reminded her she already had a b/f :laugh:

:clap1:

[joeysteele]

But she suddenly became "angry" with him when she decided to cheat on him on tv before that she was ready to marry him and was "angry" at people who reminded her she already had a b/f :laugh:

She is a massive contradiction all the time,this interview today was just likely one in sadly a possible long line of interviews with her to let her feed on the new story and account she now gives as to her relationship with Sam.

I simply would not give her air time on TV.

[Stormy]

But she suddenly became "angry" with him when she decided to cheat on him on tv before that she was ready to marry him and was "angry" at people who reminded her she already had a b/f :laugh:

We don't know her and Sam's personal relationship. We just know Stephanie's viewpoint of it. Then we saw how juvenile and immature Stephanie is which puts that viewpoint in doubt. Sam never said a word, although his actions (taking advantage of the situation with PA's) spoke very loudly. He doesn't really seem to be bothered by the breakup one bit.

We don't know if Sam treated her like a princess or like a piece of dirt. Did he have multiple affairs or no? We only ever saw is one side. We don't truly know both sides so, a lot of us fill in the blanks with and make assumptions based on our bias views.

Love Stephanie = Sam deserved it, he treated her like dirt and slept around.
Hate Stephanie = Poor Sam, she mugged him on on live TV, he must be gutted.

I'm suggesting that the reality is that they are both to blame and to just leave it at that. No need to pick sides, they were dating and now they're not. This is not a divorce, there are no children to worry about.

[Marsh.]

"Truth be damned, is it?? :joker: :joker:

( Sorry Marsh, I couldn't help it, but you just walked into that one. :) )

I think you misunderstand what I'm saying.

I'm saying regardless of what the truth is and people's opinion of Steph and these relationships, A SEPARATE POINT is that I don't have respect for her whatever the situation is because of how she's displayed the whole thing on TV. I can't judge Sam for that because I've never seen him on TV.

[Stormy]

I think you misunderstand what I'm saying.

I'm saying regardless of what the truth is and people's opinion of Steph and these relationships, A SEPARATE POINT is that I don't have respect for her whatever the situation is because of how she's displayed the whole thing on TV. I can't judge Sam for that because I've never seen him on TV.

That's a good point. I used to say that in the beginning too. I did not respect her for airing it all on TV, however, after hearing some of the rumours about Sam, I didn't reel so bad about it anymore. If he was an A-hole and treated her like dirt...then he deserved worse, tbh.

Since we've only ever seen one side and don't know the truth, I'm not content to put all the blame on Steph or all on Sam. The reality is that two media wh0res were dating and now they broke up. Big deal. Neither deserve defending.

[Marsh.]

Ah, well my lack of respect isn't about whether Sam is deserving of that treatment or not. Even if he was deserving I don't like media *****s as you say. :laugh: There's a limit to what I can stomach and personal stuff like that I find so tasteless.

[Maru]

We don't know her and Sam's personal relationship. We just know Stephanie's viewpoint of it. Then we saw how juvenile and immature Stephanie is which puts that viewpoint in doubt. Sam never said a word, although his actions (taking advantage of the situation with PA's) spoke very loudly. He doesn't really seem to be bothered by the breakup one bit.

We don't know if Sam treated her like a princess or like a piece of dirt. Did he have multiple affairs or no? We only ever saw is one side. We don't truly know both sides so, a lot of us fill in the blanks with and make assumptions based on our bias views.

Love Stephanie = Sam deserved it, he treated her like dirt and slept around.
Hate Stephanie = Poor Sam, she mugged him on on live TV, he must be gutted.

I'm suggesting that the reality is that they are both to blame and to just leave it at that. No need to pick sides, they were dating and now they're not. This is not a divorce, there are no children to worry about.

Love this post. Stephanie clearly has some emotional issues. She jumps from one intense relationship to another and yet still spends a lot of time speaking in absolutes. Sam can't be the only one who kept her unhappy in their previous relationship. She may have no business being in a relationship given her history, but I understand wanting to pursue a potentially strong connection with someone... just don't know if a TV show is the healthiest way in which to start a new chapter in life.

[GiRTh]

She's the new Kerry Catona.

[hot2go]

Interesting reading so many comments ... esp from both extreme sides ... She certainly creates division and that's always a more colourful option IMO
She seems to be perceived as a smiling assassin which is interesting because I think she's too honest to pull that off and is instead playing everything out in front of our eyes with all her cards on the table... Her train of thought is actually a pile up, she struggles to know what is the right thing to do but each decision she makes is an honest one in that moment and is put on display for all to see... i don't see a hidden agenda but I think she would be better off it she actually had one.

People who think Sam is the victim have every reason to think so but anyone who saw the original airing of his appearance on First Dates will not only realise how lucky Steph was that he never took her to dinner, but will also realise what a self serving arrogant person he is.... In fact he was so awful he received threats on line over his poor treatment of the girl he was with.... And when ch 5 repeated the series, that included him, they purposely edited it to try and make him look better... But even with careful editing he still came across as a total nob head.

[joeysteele]

I bet she was 100% glad to have Sam when she got sacked from Hollyoaks.
Clearly he stuck beside her then and they were not just dating, they lived together apparently.

So to in any way do what she did as to him on a National TV series, is what most are furious with and I doubt anyone would want, or even want to think a Partner they had would ever go on TV in a daily TV reality show and actually do that either to them publicly.

That was when I went off her, I wanted to like her in CBB but I hate the way she did this,had she held back until after the series well and good but she was a disgrace and I said elsewhere,had I done what she did as to this and Sam,I'd have been massively ashamed of myself,something she clearly is not,even now.

[Niamh.]

Interesting reading so many comments ... esp from both extreme sides ... She certainly creates division and that's always a more colourful option IMO
She seems to be perceived as a smiling assassin which is interesting because I think she's too honest to pull that off and is instead playing everything out in front of our eyes with all her cards on the table... Her train of thought is actually a pile up, she struggles to know what is the right thing to do but each decision she makes is an honest one in that moment and is put on display for all to see... i don't see a hidden agenda but I think she would be better off it she actually had one.

People who think Sam is the victim have every reason to think so but anyone who saw the original airing of his appearance on First Dates will not only realise how lucky Steph was that he never took her to dinner, but will also realise what a self serving arrogant person he is.... In fact he was so awful he received threats on line over his poor treatment of the girl he was with.... And when ch 5 repeated the series, that included him, they purposely edited it to try and make him look better... But even with careful editing he still came across as a total nob head.

Honestly, I think you're giving her too much credit there lol as someone who isn't a fan of hers, I just think she's an immature idiot who needs to grow up :shrug:

[hot2go]

Joey I get why people don't like her.... And why others do like her .. It's all a matter of deciding the reason behind a persons behaviour and weather or not that reason is acceptable to yourself... But let's stop seeing Sam as a victim, because if anyone finds Stephs behaviour in public an issue then they need to see his rendition a year earlier on First Dates...he was the trail blazer in poor behaviour and if you believe that Steph is wrong than she had a good teacher. ... He is no broken hearted, mistreated victim ... He is a vain ill mannered and arrogant little climber who will be delighted with the media attention Steph has hurled his way.

[hot2go]

Honestly, I think you're giving her too much credit there lol as someone who isn't a fan of hers, I just think she's an immature idiot who needs to grow up :shrug:

I don't think she's an idiot, she chose Jeremy over Sam, she befriended Tiffany over Gemma, she was the only one to take something positive from Gillian McKeith and she beat all the other girls to second place in the final...I think she makes some clever decisions tbh...but I do agree that she's immature....she's also young, as were a lot of the others in there who equally behaved immaturely....Megan, Scotty....in fact the most immature of all were Gemma and Tiffany and they were 34 years old. I believe that 12 years from now when Steph is their age she will be a much more rounded person then they are right now.

[Niamh.]

I don't think she's an idiot, she chose Jeremy over Sam, she befriended Tiffany over Gemma, she was the only one to take something positive from Gillian McKeith and she beat all the other girls to second place in the final...I think she makes some clever decisions tbh...but I do agree that she's immature....she's also young, as were a lot of the others in there who equally behaved immaturely....Megan, Scotty....in fact the most immature of all were Gemma and Tiffany and they were 34 years old. I believe that 12 years from now when Steph is their age she will be a much more rounded person then they are right now.

Well obviously you don't as you like her, I was speaking as someone who isn't a fan of hers in response to what you assumed people who weren't fans of hers thought about her :shrug:

[Niamh.]

We don't know her and Sam's personal relationship. We just know Stephanie's viewpoint of it. Then we saw how juvenile and immature Stephanie is which puts that viewpoint in doubt. Sam never said a word, although his actions (taking advantage of the situation with PA's) spoke very loudly. He doesn't really seem to be bothered by the breakup one bit.

We don't know if Sam treated her like a princess or like a piece of dirt. Did he have multiple affairs or no? We only ever saw is one side. We don't truly know both sides so, a lot of us fill in the blanks with and make assumptions based on our bias views.

Love Stephanie = Sam deserved it, he treated her like dirt and slept around.
Hate Stephanie = Poor Sam, she mugged him on on live TV, he must be gutted.

I'm suggesting that the reality is that they are both to blame and to just leave it at that. No need to pick sides, they were dating and now they're not. This is not a divorce, there are no children to worry about.

I have no opinion on Sam really, he probably is a bit of a dick but what I will say is he could have milked it more by speaking out about it when she was in the house but he didn't which is much more dignified imo

You are suggesting that they are both to blame.........for her cheating on him on national TV and then dumping him for Jeremy on national TV? Nope, I'm sorry but he's not, that blames lies solely on her shoulders. Was he a s**t b/f? I don't know. Did he cheat on her before? maybe and if he did then he is to blame for that and I'm sure he accepted responsibility for that and didn't try to blame Stef..........

[Stormy]

I have no opinion on Sam really, he probably is a bit of a dick but what I will say is he could have milked it more by speaking out about it when she was in the house but he didn't which is much more dignified imo

You are suggesting that they are both to blame.........for her cheating on him on national TV and then dumping him for Jeremy on national TV? Nope, I'm sorry but he's not, that blames lies solely on her shoulders. Was he a s**t b/f? I don't know. Did he cheat on her before? maybe and if he did then he is to blame for that and I'm sure he accepted responsibility for that and didn't try to blame Stef..........

You prove my point Niamh. You absolutely seem to abhor her and therefore will give her no quarter....not one.

That is the opposite of those that seem to love her and therefore will give her all the excuses and justifications for doing what she did.

I am suggesting a middle ground...This was a case of bad judgement but not the crime of the century, especially when the victim does not appear to be faultless (in the relationship) and the victim is, also, happily cashing in on the fact that she did it on national TV.

[Niamh.]

You prove my point Niamh. You absolutely seem to abhor her and therefore will give her no quarter....not one.

That is the opposite of those that seem to love her and therefore will give her all the excuses and justifications for doing what she did.

I am suggesting a middle ground...This was a case of bad judgement but not the crime of the century, especially when the victim does not appear to be faultless (in the relationship) and the victim is, also, happily cashing in on the fact that she did it on national TV.

Well no I haven't proven your point at all. I'm talking about her action of cheating on him with Jeremy, that is her fault no matter what way you look at it. If those rumours about him are true then he is to blame solely for when he cheated on her.......

[Mac1978]

I'm still at a loss to explain her. A decent streak very deep down, but hidden underneath a layer of unpleasant immaturity perhaps?

Her story about the OD was heart breaking and seemed very genuine. She is a good actress, but that really seemed to come from the heart. Somebody as sensitive to the thoughts of others can't be a 'bad' person. They wouldn't have it in them. Most of us do have that mean streak, it's how we survive, but some don't and they suffer for it. Nobody should ever feel as she described, and I hope she (ON HER OWN!!!) has learned enough about life's highs and to make sure she never goes back there.

Her immaturity still shines through though. Why go on about the Sam situation. Why not just have a bit of dignity and class, wish him well, and say no more? You can think what you like, you don't have to blurt it all out.