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Will.
16-05-2016, 08:48 PM
Do you feel lonely?
Dollface
16-05-2016, 08:49 PM
yes
Not really. But sometimes I wish my social situation at school was slightly better.
Do you Will?
Will.
16-05-2016, 08:51 PM
Not really. But sometimes I wish my social situation at school was slightly better.
Do you Will?
At the night time when I stroll the corridors on my own I can feel lonely.
Amy Jade
16-05-2016, 09:01 PM
No, the oposite sometimes actually - I tend to feel overwhelmed at times.
Mystic Mock
16-05-2016, 09:04 PM
Mama said it was okay.
Being serious no I don't feel lonely at the minute.
Will.
16-05-2016, 09:05 PM
I don't feel lonely at the minute.
I do.
Firewire
16-05-2016, 09:07 PM
Yeah I think so lol
Crimson Dynamo
16-05-2016, 09:09 PM
No
Dollface
16-05-2016, 09:11 PM
it seems me and firewire are the only loners thus far
Ninastar
16-05-2016, 09:17 PM
No, I cherish my time on my own and I have my friends if I need them (or they need me)
Denver
16-05-2016, 09:19 PM
The last few days I have felt lonely having a kinda break up but you know what I have people who round that love me and will pick me back up
andybigbro
16-05-2016, 09:28 PM
Nope
lily.
16-05-2016, 10:35 PM
I kinda like my own company, so I don't tend to feel lonely.
Marsh.
16-05-2016, 10:35 PM
At the night time when I stroll the corridors on my own I can feel lonely.
Corridors? Where the feck do you live? Balmoral?
lily.
16-05-2016, 10:37 PM
I thought he meant night classes... But perhaps he does live in a stately home..
Shaun
16-05-2016, 11:56 PM
In a sense. I don't feel bad about it, or pity myself, or anything LOL it's just everyone I was friends with is now dotted around the world so it's a bit of a challenge to keep a social life. When I'm around people my age/have similar interests with I can get along great.
Babayaro.
17-05-2016, 12:00 AM
I think right now I am a bit of a loner lmao as I have like 1 good friend and the rest have just drifted but there's no point dwelling on it
_Tom_
17-05-2016, 12:02 AM
Somewhat yeah.
Marsh.
17-05-2016, 12:23 AM
I've always been a bit "lonely" in the sense that I like my own company. There are friends there if I need them.
I think I just enjoy the peace and quiet, I think it's probably part of my creative side. :hee:
And yes :notimpressed:
I want a boyfriend :bawling:
Crimson Dynamo
17-05-2016, 07:18 AM
wait, i have no friends and never see anyone
does that make me lonely?
:fist:
I thought i was just a creative eccentric grumpy hermit?
If the rules have changed then i did not get that memo
:idc:
Cherie
17-05-2016, 08:46 AM
When did creative because associated with "loner" :unsure: it's usually associated with mentally unstable murderers :idc:
Marsh.
17-05-2016, 08:47 AM
When did creative because associated with "loner" :unsure: it's usually associated with mentally unstable murderers :idc:
https://66.media.tumblr.com/b7888c1b08be64945c076fa696f9647c/tumblr_o7b2a0ZnNW1s19ebpo2_540.gif
Cherie
17-05-2016, 08:50 AM
https://66.media.tumblr.com/b7888c1b08be64945c076fa696f9647c/tumblr_o7b2a0ZnNW1s19ebpo2_540.gif
:joker: I rest my case :idc:
Ashley.
17-05-2016, 10:30 AM
I am lonely, but I don't feel lonely. Does that make sense? :shrug:
Niamh.
17-05-2016, 10:34 AM
I am lonely, but I don't feel lonely. Does that make sense? :shrug:
You are alone but don't feel lonely would make more sense i think
Ashley.
17-05-2016, 10:50 AM
You are alone but don't feel lonely would make more sense i think
Ah yes, that's the one. Still, I do think there is a difference between being lonely and feeling lonely, because feeling lonely might not always depict that you are lonely. That's what makes this thread confusing, because both terms are used in the OP :think:
Niamh.
17-05-2016, 10:55 AM
Ah yes, that's the one. Still, I do think there is a difference between being lonely and feeling lonely, because feeling lonely might not always depict that you are lonely. That's what makes this thread confusing, because both terms are used in the OP :think:
lonely is a feeling though so being lonely and feeling lonely would mean the same thing, wouldn't it? Being alone is being on your own, being lonely is how you feel
you are only lonely really if you are used to company, and it disappears, otherwise its just normal. One of my pet hates is people saying make sure the old folks are not lonely at Christmas, It misses the complete point.
Niamh.
17-05-2016, 11:11 AM
you are only lonely really if you are used to company, and it disappears, otherwise its just normal. One of my pet hates is people saying make sure the old folks are not lonely at Christmas, It misses the complete point.
I think in the case of older people though it's a bit different. I see it in my father in law. He was always happier on his own, doing his own thing but the older he gets, he's not able to do what he used to do before to keep himself occupied and so he seems to want contact with people more now because i would imagine boredom breeds loneliness for alot of elderly people
billy123
17-05-2016, 11:20 AM
Chance would be a fine thing.
I am outnumbered by females 2 to 1 in this house.
I remember the old days fondly when i could have s D.I.P. at least once a week.
https://cdn.meme.am/instances/64269483.jpg
A D.I.P. = a day in pants usually a Sunday when i sit at home all day watching footy and movies all day and dont even bother getting dressed or leaving the house. Eating junk food and loving every second of it. How i cherish those memories.
Niamh.
17-05-2016, 11:26 AM
Chance would be a fine thing.
I am outnumbered by females 2 to 1 in this house.
I remember the old days fondly when i could have s D.I.P. at least once a week.
https://cdn.meme.am/instances/64269483.jpg
A D.I.P. = a day in pants usually a Sunday when i sit at home all day watching footy and movies all day and dont even bother getting dressed or leaving the house. Eating junk food and loving every second of it. How i cherish those memories.
:laugh:
Obviously i wouldn't trade my family for anything but I do crave some alone time every once in a while too. The last time I had a full day and night to myself at home was 2 years ago......I enjoyed it so much too
Marsh.
17-05-2016, 11:55 AM
I think in the case of older people though it's a bit different. I see it in my father in law. He was always happier on his own, doing his own thing but the older he gets, he's not able to do what he used to do before to keep himself occupied and so he seems to want contact with people more now because i would imagine boredom breeds loneliness for alot of elderly people
This.
Even people who have always enjoyed their own company get to an age where they can't do their hobbies or whatever anymore so really only have conversation with other human beings left for them to entertain themselves.
it really depends on the type of personality a person has. Some people can easily fill their days with trivia, others need much much more. I don't honestly think loneliness is anything other than a short term thing. Depression which i think is actually the real issue, is a different thing of course
Crimson Dynamo
17-05-2016, 12:10 PM
This.
Even people who have always enjoyed their own company get to an age where they can't do their hobbies or whatever anymore so really only have conversation with other human beings left for them to entertain themselves.
jesus, I am fckd then
:(
Marsh.
17-05-2016, 12:23 PM
jesus, I am fckd then
:(
I'll hike up too ye mountain for a cuppa
Mokka
17-05-2016, 01:10 PM
I'll hike up too ye mountain for a cuppa
Awww...that's the nicest thing Marsh has ever said :flutter:
Oh totally. It is what it is. My social life is...involved...but it's all surface hapyness. True love waits etc.
Crimson Dynamo
17-05-2016, 02:03 PM
Awww...that's the nicest thing Marsh has ever said :flutter:
yes then he gets a kik from Dollface and im sitting at my fire rocking back and forward staring at en empty chair..
:idc:
Niamh.
17-05-2016, 02:10 PM
Oh totally. It is what it is. My social life is...involved...but it's all surface hapyness. True love waits etc.
Nice to see you back posting a bit Stu :love:
Crimson Dynamo
17-05-2016, 02:12 PM
Nice to see you back posting a bit Stu :love:
:clap1:
Calderyon
17-05-2016, 03:43 PM
Yes and no.
But iīm bit of a loner/nameless or nameful wanderer, so thatīs okay.
Glenn.
17-05-2016, 03:45 PM
No. I'd like to be at times though.
Daniel-X
17-05-2016, 04:48 PM
No not at all, I'm worried I'll be lonely when I first go to college though as nearly all of my friends are going to a different college.
the truth
20-05-2016, 12:47 AM
when I suffered impotence , i got lost in a period of loneliness, loathe to get back with the same girl. the moment we rejoined , we had some quality love making,it was back from the doldrums. what a strange place that was, she felt she wasnt turning me on and I felt she wasnt understanding enough.....thankfully my member is not full steam ahead and my mojo is back ...woof
Cherie
20-05-2016, 06:09 AM
when I suffered impotence , i got lost in a period of loneliness, loathe to get back with the same girl. the moment we rejoined , we had some quality love making,it was back from the doldrums. what a strange place that was, she felt she wasnt turning me on and I felt she wasnt understanding enough.....thankfully my member is not full steam ahead and my mojo is back ...woof
I'm sure women every where are rejoicing at that news and a queue is forming on the Severn bridge :hee:
Cherie
20-05-2016, 06:11 AM
I'll hike up too ye mountain for a cuppa
Refuse the offer of toast or you will be running down :omgno:
AnnieK
20-05-2016, 07:45 AM
No....the voices in my head keep me company :love:
Crimson Dynamo
20-05-2016, 07:55 AM
when I suffered impotence , i got lost in a period of loneliness, loathe to get back with the same girl. the moment we rejoined , we had some quality love making,it was back from the doldrums. what a strange place that was, she felt she wasnt turning me on and I felt she wasnt understanding enough.....thankfully my member is not full steam ahead and my mojo is back ...woof
@rob
can you expand this into a novel and i will take it round the publishers?
In the film I can see Vernon Kay as The Truth and Caroline Flack as the love interest
:love:
waterhog
20-05-2016, 08:19 AM
Do you feel lonely?
great thread will. very tricky question as well. as some may seem lonely ie always on there own but that is the way they like it.
if they are suffering and it is making them sad - it is heart breaking and I would encourage them to take the first steps to changing it ie going to clubs that interest them - doing a hobbie they enjoy with others ie joing a club or maybe when you feel real low try understanding yourself and accecpt you have a down period and it will change and you will get through.
if I never had my poems on my head 24-7 I would be so https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o-urnGgFs4k&list=RDo-urnGgFs4k#t=3
Marsh.
20-05-2016, 02:46 PM
Refuse the offer of toast or you will be running down :omgno:
:joker:
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