Bear the "victim"...all his ex's fault

[Absorption]

Yes, Bear's ex is "fake" according to him, because she came into the house to tell him how she felt after he spent two weeks shagging a big-titted blow-up doll substitute on national television.

He didn't want to hurt her, he said, that's why he ended it with her. By shagging Chloe on TV. ("I wonder what Chloe's thinking," he mused in the diary room. Hey Bear, clue...she doesn't think. That's why she shagged you...ah, you're ahead of me here...)

No-one in the house really knows him, he said, with no trace of self-pity...honest... Well, when you act like a dick all the time, they're going to know that, aren't they?

"Anyone who had a heart would come and talk to me after that"...well, if it had been anyone else dealing with it, I'm sure Bear and Colin, sorry, Heavy D, would have made a mockery of any sympathy being shown, probably by throwing a few eggs at them. "Booooom! Ha ha ha ha!"

But let's keep him in, cuz 'e's entertainin', ain't he?

RUTHLESS! And after all, it's banter and having a laugh, right?

[Northern Monkey]

It's all fake.Ex gf trying to get herself on the telly and some column inches

[susie q]

It's all fake.Ex gf trying to get herself on the telly and some column inches

Good for her.

[Amy Jade]

It's all fake.Ex gf trying to get herself on the telly and some column inches

Good for her playing the twat at his own game.

He was wrist deep in Chloe a few days ago the tears ain't cutting it

[Withano]

Thats exactly how it came across to me too, just some immature guy passing the blame and justifying his obviously wrong behaviour cos hes too much of a kid. He even thought people should have asked him how he was throughout the day cos he was clearly upset or some rubbish. As if it wasnt entirely self inflicted. God i hate him.

[sampvt]

If his GF wants to get him back, she just did, he is toast now for the girlie voters. Too late to kill him off this week but next eviction, he is gone.

[susie q]

If his GF wants to get him back, she just did, he is toast now for the girlie voters. Too late to kill him off this week but next eviction, he is gone.

Lets hope for at least a few days without him.

[rusticgal]

Yes, Bear's ex is "fake" according to him, because she came into the house to tell him how she felt after he spent two weeks shagging a big-titted blow-up doll substitute on national television.

He didn't want to hurt her, he said, that's why he ended it with her. By shagging Chloe on TV. ("I wonder what Chloe's thinking," he mused in the diary room. Hey Bear, clue...she doesn't think. That's why she shagged you...ah, you're ahead of me here...)

No-one in the house really knows him, he said, with no trace of self-pity...honest... Well, when you act like a dick all the time, they're going to know that, aren't they?

"Anyone who had a heart would come and talk to me after that"...well, if it had been anyone else dealing with it, I'm sure Bear and Colin, sorry, Heavy D, would have made a mockery of any sympathy being shown, probably by throwing a few eggs at them. "Booooom! Ha ha ha ha!"

But let's keep him in, cuz 'e's entertainin', ain't he?

RUTHLESS! And after all, it's banter and having a laugh, right?


Great..:joker::joker::joker:

[rusticgal]

Thats exactly how it came across to me too, just some immature guy passing the blame and justifying his obviously wrong behaviour cos hes too much of a kid. He even thought people should have asked him how he was throughout the day cos he was clearly upset or some rubbish. As if it wasnt entirely self inflicted. God i hate him.


Me too....mememe..why should anyone sympathise with him. He hasn't empathised with anyone who he has hurt. Selfish git...he and Chloe are well suited. One of life's users...

[rusticgal]

She should have smacked him round the face and shouted RUTHLESS...as she ate one of his doughnuts..:joker:

[Vicky.]

Came across like a spoilt teenager tonight tbh. His worst show so far for me...was a chance to show actual emotion and such and he chose to go down the route he did, which was a shame.

[rusticgal]

Good for her playing the twat at his own game.

He was wrist deep in Chloe a few days ago the tears ain't cutting it


I don't think anyone saw through his tears Amy...what goes around comes around. He hasn't showed any empathy...what were the 'tears' for?...he didn't care because he still wants the blow up doll?...

How anyone can defend him now beats me...not much support from his few fans tonight?...

If that was anyone else tonight he would have been shouting 'ruthless'.....vile twat.

[Lostie!]

I saw a tweet that literally accused her of ruining his chances of winning and being selfish. Some people are honestly such dickheads. :umm2:

[Crimson Dynamo]

2.5 months?

:laugh2:

[Lstan]

:clap1: at most of the posts here, bear is a bellend and hes annoyed hes been called out for it.

[Ammi]

I saw a tweet that literally accused her of ruining his chances of winning and being selfish. Some people are honestly such dickheads. :umm2:

..Bear dictated the terms by doing it all the way he did anyway and going down the public humiliation route as well as betraying her etc and ending their relationship...I think his tears were also a huge part of his losing control and her coming in, not being a part that he had accounted for....(I wonder if that tweet would have been the same had Lillie been the housemate and she did to him what he's done to her...hmmmmm...)...

[Jamie89]

What stood out to me as well was how he went from saying in the diary room that it took him 26 years to find her blah blah (basically saying how amazing and important she was to him), to a conversation not long after where he said about Chloe something like "I never saw a future with her but it'd be nice to take her out or something"... I mean what kind of mentality is that :conf: He's either the most disingenuous person ever and never really cared about his ex but was giving a speech for the camera's, or he's completely messed up and needs professional help in which case I feel sorry for him but he needs to get off my TV while he seeks it :fist:

[Ammi]

What stood out to me as well was how he went from saying in the diary room that it took him 26 years to find her blah blah (basically saying how amazing and important she was to him), to a conversation not long after where he said about Chloe something like "I never saw a future with her but it'd be nice to take her out or something"... I mean what kind of mentality is that :conf: He's either the most disingenuous person ever and never really cared about his ex but was giving a speech for the camera's, or he's completely messed up and needs professional help in which case I feel sorry for him but he needs to get off my TV while he seeks it :fist:

..also in his 'wisdom' of reality TV and the workings of etc, how he knew that things that he encouraged with Chloe like the loo thing would cast judgement on her because that's sadly always the way with the female housemates and he fully knows that but disregarded that as well to get that airtime attention...he really has no self-awareness or care at all in terms of the effect of his actions on others...

[Northern Monkey]

Good for her playing the twat at his own game.

He was wrist deep in Chloe a few days ago the tears ain't cutting it

It's all bollocks.He more than likely knew she was going in.They have the same management.

[calyman]

This is a solid gold example of karma working on him. What intrigued me during the criticism by his ex was that he still managed to keep his doughnuts on his head while rapidly going through all the emotions of victim to scared self pity. If only that asinine fool had still been in to shout RUTHLESS then BOOM when she had finished. He took great delight in ridiculing others emotionally distraught states, then bleats that no one cares how he feels. He is right for once, no one cares.

[user104658]

His girlfriend Lilly Lexi. Who was with Gary Beadle 6 months ago. Who has an on off relationship with Charlotte Crosby. Who won Celebrity Big Brother. And all of them do "ex on the beach". And Viacom own both channels.

Come ON people, this is not rocket science. Don't feel bad for Lily she's well paid :joker:

http://i3.cdnds.net/16/19/618x649/lillie-and-bear.png
http://i3.cdnds.net/15/39/618x721/gary-beadle-lillie-lexie-gregg.jpg
http://assets.gcstatic.com/u/apps/asset_manager/uploaded/2015/50/charlotte-crosby-and-gaz-beadle--1450257970-custom-0.jpg

This forum is a hoot this season. So many old-time BB fans who don't realise how modern reality telly works, love it or loath it. It is their whole life, these narratives continue to run year round via Twitter / instagram / snapchat and it generates a LOT of money, for them as individuals and for the production companies.

Like I said. Lily Lexi is not a "victim"... In fact if I had to guess she would have known that Bear would find someone to hook up with before the show.

[hazyjo]

It was only around 10 weeks lol - really? What's the point of even bringing her in? He seemed embarrassed and awkward, but they were hardly married lol! Ten weeks is nothing. He probably only saw her a dozen times!

Really hope they bring someone in for Lewis, that'll wipe the smirk off his face!

[Liam-]

It's what heartless cheats do, they do the dirty on their other half and then try to find anything whatsoever to try and shift the blame from themselves to their partner, shows a real lack of morals.

[jennyjuniper]

Thats exactly how it came across to me too, just some immature guy passing the blame and justifying his obviously wrong behaviour cos hes too much of a kid. He even thought people should have asked him how he was throughout the day cos he was clearly upset or some rubbish. As if it wasnt entirely self inflicted. God i hate him.

I agree with what you say, but the thing is, he's not a kid is he? 26 should be grown up, although expecting grown up behaviour from a narcissist like bear IS probably asking too much.

[waterhog]

It's all fake.Ex gf trying to get herself on the telly and some column inches

starting to loose interest - this is not the game I signed up to watch.

[Mitchell]

starting to loose interest - this is not the game I signed up to watch.

POEM ON BEAR PLEASE :cheer2::dance:

[Patricia4]

I don't think anyone saw through his tears Amy...what goes around comes around. He hasn't showed any empathy...what were the 'tears' for?...he didn't care because he still wants the blow up doll?...

How anyone can defend him now beats me...not much support from his few fans tonight?...

If that was anyone else tonight he would have been shouting 'ruthless'.....vile twat.

Blow up doll :joker:

[Livia]

I noticed he was absolving himself of all blame. What an idiot... What woman would stand for a man like that? I thought ex looked quite lovely... and then I compared her to Chloe, with her ridiculous tits, and busted face. Really they make the perfect couple and Bear's ex can do SOOOOOOO much better.

[Northern Monkey]

His girlfriend Lilly Lexi. Who was with Gary Beadle 6 months ago. Who has an on off relationship with Charlotte Crosby. Who won Celebrity Big Brother. And all of them do "ex on the beach". And Viacom own both channels.

Come ON people, this is not rocket science. Don't feel bad for Lily she's well paid :joker:

http://i3.cdnds.net/16/19/618x649/lillie-and-bear.png
http://i3.cdnds.net/15/39/618x721/gary-beadle-lillie-lexie-gregg.jpg
http://assets.gcstatic.com/u/apps/asset_manager/uploaded/2015/50/charlotte-crosby-and-gaz-beadle--1450257970-custom-0.jpg

This forum is a hoot this season. So many old-time BB fans who don't realise how modern reality telly works, love it or loath it. It is their whole life, these narratives continue to run year round via Twitter / instagram / snapchat and it generates a LOT of money, for them as individuals and for the production companies.

Like I said. Lily Lexi is not a "victim"... In fact if I had to guess she would have known that Bear would find someone to hook up with before the show.Yes it's rubbish.She's a celebrity scrubber.She goes where the £ is.These are'nt real relationships.They're media setups

[Livia]

This forum is a hoot this season. So many old-time BB fans who don't realise how modern reality telly works....

Well we don't all have your incredible foresight. You know everything... I don't know why we bother discussing and don't just defer to you all the time.

[power2thepeople]

Yes it's rubbish.She's a celebrity scrubber.She goes where the £ is.These are'nt real relationships.They're media setups

I've posted comments regarding the set up. I'm aware they perform in the same shows and share the same agent. I'm also aware of the story that they planned for lots of mag deals when he hoped to buy the engagement ring with his alleged measly 12 grand fee. So I'm playing devil's advocate and putting aside both their 'feelings' in regard to their 'relationship'. BB have more than enabled him to 'earn his fee' (something Bear himself feels strongly about in regards to other hms). He's had multiple ineffective warnings. But they know he's good for show edits and he was cheap at the price. But the big Endemol umbrella know he can milk more cash with the Lillie sob story. So it's all good in the hood of reality shows. Back to the radar dodgers who should have done more to 'earn their fees'. I agree they don't deserve the win either. But unlike Bear and the other GS/Towie/Ex crew, they can't milk the cash cow. I'd be happy for a non Endemol umbrella and non UK reality show star to win now. Someone who hasn't coasted either. So for me, the Americans can win. Just my opinion.

[user104658]

Well we don't all have your incredible foresight. You know everything... I don't know why we bother discussing and don't just defer to you all the time.
It's got nothing to do with foresight, just an amusing anomaly that's come from an old reality TV show trying desperately to transition to "new style" reality viewing and dragging along its viewers for the ride... Who don't necessarily watch GS, Ex OTB, Towie etc. And who therefore (understandably) believe that people like Lily Lexi are genuine.

It would be a better forum if it was just me posting to be fair... but I'd be pretty bored without your cutting remarks, Livia :hee:

Xoxo

[hijaxers]

I am actually sick of the sound of his name

[Glenn-C]

Cheek of that bitch, awful woman. How dare she get cheated on and then come in and confront him about it and make him look bad

[Jan S]

Cheek of that bitch, awful woman. How dare she get cheated on and then come in and confront him about it and make him look bad
this is what happens when you let women outta the kitchen and let 'em vote! they get ''ideas'', yanno? /grumpyoldman voice


:p

[Robodog]

I bet they still end up in the sack together when he leaves the house