Ganging up on Bear

[Cal.]

I'm no Bear fan by any means but I feel like the others see him as an easy target. The way Aubrey and James BOTH chose to criticise him first felt like they were ganging up on him. I mean yes he's the way he is but it doesn't mean he doesn't has feelings. I just felt like he was being ganged up on a bit?

[joeysteele]

I think he expects it, and now just takes it, he actually sees most of them for what they are I think too.

[Vanessa]

I'm no Bear fan by any means but I feel like the others see him as an easy target. The way Aubrey and James BOTH chose to criticise him first felt like they were ganging up on him. I mean yes he's the way he is but it doesn't mean he has feelings. I just felt like he was being ganged up on a bit?

He has been , I agree. They treat him like he has murdered people. When some of them have done worse things than him .

[hot2go]

He has been , I agree. They treat him like he has murdered people. When some of them have done worse things than him .

A lot worse but when that proof is thrown out there no one responds cause they can't defend it...Bear is by no means worse than some of the others and in fact is a whole lot nicer.

By not giving him any positive contact from his family Big Brother isolated him from the group and picked on him....when Marnie and Lewis did that to Heavy BB reprimanded them....BB playing judge and jury.

[Daniel.]

No

[Cal.]

I think he expects it, and now just takes it, he actually sees most of them for what they are I think too.

He has been , I agree. They treat him like he has murdered people. When some of them have done worse things than him .

A lot worse but when that proof is thrown out there no one responds cause they can't defend it...Bear is by no means worse than some of the others and in fact is a whole lot nicer.

By not giving him any positive contact from his family Big Brother isolated him from the group and picked on him....when Marnie and Lewis did that to Heavy BB reprimanded them....BB playing judge and jury.

Thank you all for your insightful responses :)

[troy4783]

I think they are as well now . There litreally watching his every move and criticising and bitching about everything little thing he says or does .

[Daniel.]

This is the type of thing people fell for with Hele nd Marc

[caprimint]

This is how becoming a Bear fan begins. Come to the good side. :love:

[Cal.]

This is how becoming a Bear fan begins. Come to the good side. :love:

Oh babes I wouldn't go that far! :P

Just like to call out when people are in the wrong which I feel the house were with Bear tonight!

[hot2go]

This is the type of thing people fell for with Hele nd Marc

Never liked Helen...too abrasive and nasty and devoid of any humour.

But I liked Marc and I like Bear and I'm not suddenly falling for anything, I've liked Bear from day one and sympathy plays no part in it for me....my vote each time has been an appreciation vote not a sympathy vote....he's been a brilliant housemate who drew the short straw when he got saddled with some of the most boring and kill joy housemates ever.

[Jordan.]

I've witnessed people be ganged up on before and I don't think the Bear scenario was that deep

[Cal.]

Having experienced being ganged up on I can sympathise with people who have thus the reason for this thread. :)

[Jordan.]

No

I think this hit the nail on the head

[jet]

I'm no Bear fan by any means but I feel like the others see him as an easy target. The way Aubrey and James BOTH chose to criticise him first felt like they were ganging up on him. I mean yes he's the way he is but it doesn't mean he doesn't has feelings. I just felt like he was being ganged up on a bit?

This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.:laugh:

[Jordan.]

This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.:laugh:

SO accurate

[smudgie]

This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.:laugh:

Too right.
If it wasn't so pathetic it would be hilarious.:joker:

[Daniel-X]

https://67.media.tumblr.com/0b1c892dc658f575e6588b11dc29162e/tumblr_o96qo1DVWp1v8iexso1_500.gif

Bear to la haters!

[Shaun]

Oh good the 'actually maybe the bully is being bullied guys?' part of the series is upon us. Guess that means it'll be over soon. So predictable how dumb viewers are now.

[Daniel.]

Tea

[Cal.]

MODS! MODDDDDSSSSS!

baiting! trolling! BAN THEM.

[jet]

The 'entertaining' Bear has all but disappeared since his bully squad has been whittled down and he can no longer slobber all over a woman (Chloe). He had the perfect script but he didn't rehearse for being all on his lonesome. He doesn't know quite what to do with his little twatty self. He's not the 'big lad in the big picture' he once was.

[puzzled]

"They that sow the wind, shall reap the whirlwind." He can dish it out, but he can't take it. He's harangued and bullied people non-stop, thrown away their food, and been a PIA day and night, so now, boo-hoo, the man child is to be pitied? He's now playing the redemption arc, where he pretends that he's been on a journey, he's learned so much,blah, blah, blah. Not buying it.

[Lostie!]

I'm no Bear fan by any means but I feel like the others see him as an easy target. The way Aubrey and James BOTH chose to criticise him first felt like they were ganging up on him. I mean yes he's the way he is but it doesn't mean he doesn't has feelings. I just felt like he was being ganged up on a bit?

If he ever cared about anyone else's feelings I might be more inclined to care about his.

[Cal.]

Girls GET OUT.

[Cal.]

Clear off. SHOO.

[crazycolaist]

He cant call victim when he has bought it upon himself.

[Samm]

Oh cal silly

http://i.makeagif.com/media/4-24-2015/Lg2_-1.gif

[jet]

"They that sow the wind, shall reap the whirlwind." He can dish it out, but he can't take it. He's harangued and bullied people non-stop, thrown away their food, and been a PIA day and night, so now, boo-hoo, the man child is to be pitied? He's now playing the redemption arc, where he pretends that he's been on a journey, he's learned so much,blah, blah, blah. Not buying it.

Yep.
For Redemption arc 1 read = I'll play the victim because my ex had the nerve to tell me to my face what I did to her - 'the callous bitch'!
For Redemption arc 2 read = I've lost my kissy partner and my bully partner and I can't do the things I did before as I haven't got them to bolster my confidence ....so I'll act all sanctimonious and hurt and get all the ladies out there wanting to comfort me and get me the win because I'm just a lovable little Teddy Bear really who never meant any harm.
Pass me the sick bucket...

[caprimint]

If he ever cared about anyone else's feelings I might be more inclined to care about his.
He said that he doesn't like to see anyone upset but others in there have proven themselves to have less kind-hearted intentions unlike himself.

[Lostie!]

He said that he doesn't like to see anyone upset but others in there have proven themselves to have less kind-hearted intentions unlike himself.

He can say that all he likes, his actions prove otherwise.

[power2thepeople]

In relation to that task? Nope not Imo. Both Aubrey and James thrive off giving what they feel is sage advise and how folk can improve. It's sanctimonious sometimes with both of them Imo but not malicious. As the most disruptive hm, he was an obvious choice in relation to this. I actually felt the comments re Lewis were more personal? I believe Bear fully expected it from those particular two in terms of counselling comments and he seemed to brush it off.

[jet]

He said that he doesn't like to see anyone upset but others in there have proven themselves to have less kind-hearted intentions unlike himself.

Those delusional pills are damn good, where can I get some?

[caprimint]

In relation to that task? Nope not Imo. Both Aubrey and James thrive off giving what they feel is sage advise and how folk can improve. It's sanctimonious sometimes with both of them Imo but not malicious. As the most disruptive hm, he was an obvious choice in relation to this. I actually felt the comments re Lewis were more personal? I believe Bear fully expected it from those particular two in terms of counselling comments and he seemed to brush it off.
Bear brushes everything off and takes it all in good humour, but everyone else appears to take every little comment personally. Especially Sam, she's the worst of them all.

He can say that all he likes, his actions prove otherwise.
He might irritate people at times (who doesn't?) but I certainly don't think it's his intention to upset anyone. If it was, I'm damn sure he could do a lot better.

[jet]

He might irritate people at times (who doesn't?) but I certainly don't think it's his intention to upset anyone. If it was, I'm damn sure he could do a lot better.

You're taking the piss. :joker:

[puzzled]

Yep.
For Redemption arc 1 read = I'll play the victim because my ex had the nerve to tell me to my face what I did to her - 'the callous bitch'!
For Redemption arc 2 read = I've lost my kissy partner and my bully partner and I can't do the things I did before as I haven't got them to bolster my confidence ....so I'll act all sanctimonious and hurt and get all the ladies out there wanting to comfort me and get me the win because I'm just a lovable little Teddy Bear really who never meant any harm.
Pass me the sick bucket...

Sounds right to me.

[erinp5]

Or maybe they have had enough of him
CBB James: ‘I was scared of Stephen Bear and Heavy D’ http://shr.gs/qReAWwT

[Tom4784]

He's spent the whole season antagonising the house, I have no sympathy for him. He brought it on himself.

[rusticgal]

I mean yes he's the way he is but it doesn't mean he doesn't has feelings. I just felt like he was being ganged up on a bit?


Once he learns to respect other people's feelings...people may start to respect his.

[rusticgal]

He said that he doesn't like to see anyone upset but others in there have proven themselves to have less kind-hearted intentions unlike himself.


Delusional :laugh:

[jennyjuniper]

I'm no Bear fan by any means but I feel like the others see him as an easy target. The way Aubrey and James BOTH chose to criticise him first felt like they were ganging up on him. I mean yes he's the way he is but it doesn't mean he doesn't has feelings. I just felt like he was being ganged up on a bit?

You mean the same way bear,lewis,marnie and chloe ganged up on and targetted the others?:shrug:

[Ammi]

I'm no Bear fan by any means but I feel like the others see him as an easy target. The way Aubrey and James BOTH chose to criticise him first felt like they were ganging up on him. I mean yes he's the way he is but it doesn't mean he doesn't has feelings. I just felt like he was being ganged up on a bit?

...well Aubrey chose him first as part of the task but I thought that James had to then do the same housemate and then she got the chance to speak again..(that was my understanding of the task, Cal..)....it wasn't ganging up, it was the task and yes, Aubrey did choose to speak about him first..(and then Lewis next because they've both been the two most 'controversial' housemates in the house of those who are left in, so that would seem logical to me/he wasn't an 'easy target', he was the logical and obvious 'target' for a task they had to do...and also, he's showed no feelings at all in his relentless targeting of others/his pushing them to the very limit and laughing at the fun of it all, so it would also be easy and understandable to not see his feelings, when he so purposefully masks them and hides behind masks because of the stress they're all living with life with Bear...I thought that it was interesting as well that James said in his eviction interview, how only the night before..Bear had been making 'noises' in the bedroom all through the night so it's all been sleep deprivation as well with any reactions to his behaviour from others and how often are we all screaming...'THAT WOULD DRIVE ME TO THE VERY LIMITS AS WELL'...he's even destroyed the coffee that would keep them going etc, without sleep so their limits have been pushed to and beyond...he's striven to make himself 'the conflict of the house'/the 'controversial of the house'/'the talked about of the house', so why wouldn't he be the obvious person that Aubrey would have discussed first and then James to follow as the task dictated..?...because that's been his aim....and I'm guessing he's not that bothered anyway because he was getting the attention that he wants and how thrives...they weren't cruel in what they said, they were quite gentle in many ways....

..anyways he was on par last night..it's funny isn't it how Lewis wasn't his 'best mate' when he said that he could kiss Marnie if he wanted to..there were no 'relationships'/lines to be crossed etc ..so a relationship would have been crossing the line, then in kissing someone..?...well he disregarded that line when it suited him with his relationship with Lillie...and his childish logic of those who nominated Lewis shouldn't be comforting Marnie...of those comforting people not being able to separate two people as individuals and not some kind of extension of each other..did Marnie even get a nomination from anyone..?../I can't recall but they nominated Lewis as an individual person and housemate and weren't the 'cause of' anything ..does Bear consider friendships and 'upset' when he nominates someone ..just silly childish logic and trying to ensure that Marnie doesn't get too much airtime here...and I think that was shown with the mind-games he was playing with her a bit later...'they're hugging you and then they'll nominate you'...maybe they will if they feel she now doesn't want to stay without Lewis but they didn't nominate her last time so where the foundation in what he's saying..?...not him using her as a 'pawn', eh ..he really does seem to care about no one other than himself and is totally disregarding of any feelings at all...


...what Renee said as well...'you know what, I don’t care tonight, I can’t do this anymore'..he's worn them down and exhausted them...he's sucked them dry with how much he's pushed/antagonised/goaded and monopolised every situation that he can....just left them all flat with his relentlessness...and the only time, ever showing the slightest bit of emotion..(with Lillie..)..when he wasn't in control and he wasn't calling the shots....anyways, Renee being taken in as well...’he thinks that we’re all being phoney because we nominated Lewis, he just doesn’t understand/he’s not capable of understanding’ or whatever it was she said…but he’s a reality TV star, he understands very well, he not only understands but he’s the king of the game as well surely…and apparently so intelligent..?...so how couldn’t he understand…apparently he’s now so full of empathy and understanding in some revelation that he’s showed nothing in before/no emotion/no empathy/no consideration/no thought…he’s just kept on with his mask of nothingness for the things he’s done and his own actions…


...and then he sits with Renee later and says what a good thing for Marnie to be by herself without Lewis..why..?...because they're two individuals and she wasn't nominated, Lewis was so the criticism of their comfort was just ridiculous acting...and Marnie, who is his friend apparently and someone he shows concern over...well, he couldn't even allow her 'her moment' in the garden of pushing the plants over and jumping on them, he had to gain with her airtime as well and join the party...the Bear party and the Bear show...he really is a selfish human being...

..well, it’s all ‘career’ for Bear and not personal at all of course…he’ll disregard anyone or their feelings to ‘further himself’ as it were and that’s someone I can find no admiration or entertainment in....

[Macie Lightfoot]

Oh good the 'actually maybe the bully is being bullied guys?' part of the series is upon us. Guess that means it'll be over soon. So predictable how dumb viewers are now.

mhmm, it's never BBUK until the person who behaves like a completely immature asshole is treated like he is a completely immature asshole and thus the public decides that the completely immature asshole is The True Victim :(

like... I'm not even watching this series but how is this any different from the trajectories Esteemed Winners Aaron Allard-Morgan, Jim Davidson, and Helen Wood all took? sure the specifics of the stories are different but they all follow the path. Like, swap Bear's name with Jim's and I'm sure a nearly identical thread exists in the CBB13 section.

[Vanessa]

That lot has done far worse things than him. Aubrey spotting in his drink/food to name one. All he has done is a few pranks. If we were in the channel 4 BB everyone would have just laughed off. But jesus, this lot is way too serious. Katie crying over a burst balloon is a prime example. Pathetic!

[Ammi]

..pathetic maybe Vanessa if it's just isolated things to purposefully antagonise/push/goad etc but it's relentless... why feel the need to burst the balloon, why feel the need to upset on a task..(and when James and Aubrey fulfil their task of commenting on housemates, they're criticised because it's 'harsh' on Bear..)...he hasn't done a few pranks, he's been relentless and he's exhausted them with it to the point that some just 'try to keep him calm or stay out of his firing line'....and yes, other's haven't always behaved well in their reactions but they've been one off things as opposed to his persistency in his behaviour that has made so many miserable and he's laughed at their misery...

[Vanessa]

..pathetic maybe Vanessa if it's just isolated things to purposefully antagonise/push/goad etc but it's relentless... why feel the need to burst the balloon, why feel the need to upset on a task..(and when James and Aubrey fulfil their task of commenting on housemates, they're criticised because it's 'harsh' on Bear..)...he hasn't done a few pranks, he's been relentless and he's exhausted them with it to the point that some just 'try to keep him calm or stay out of his firing line'....and yes, other's haven't always behaved well in their reactions but they've been one off things as opposed to his persistency in his behaviour that has made so many miserable and he's laughed at their misery...

He's a wind up merchant, a bit like Marc was. But he isn't nasty. That lot just don't know how to handle him. If they had bothered to get to know him they would know he's actually really nice and there's more to him than meets the eye.

[Ammi]

He's a wind up merchant, a bit like Marc was. But he isn't nasty. That lot just don't know how to handle him. If they had bothered to get to know him they would know he's actually really nice and there's more to him than meets the eye.

..he doesn't want any of the housemates to get to know him, Vanessa...he's put on his masks to try to prevent that...they have tried to/some of them have (and credit to them and their characters that they persevere..)... but he's just shrugged them off because he knows that then he wouldn't be fitting in with his game-plan of being able to behave as he does and the heck with anyone else or their feelings...and there is nastiness also..in how he's encouraged emotions and anger of others, like Lewis and Heavy with the wine thing when he was saying that Marnie was wheat intolerant and fully joining in the targeting of Heavy, fully encouraging the targeting of the 'bald eagle' and of Saira and fully cheering on and encouraging Heavy, when he could see his 'best mate' reaching the anger points that could have brought physical violence but did bring about him throwing the drink over Heavy...there has been plenty 'nasty' to be seen and no 'really nice', just self/self/self and his own gain from pushing limits to their extremes...

[Ammi]

..people don't push to limits because they have boundaries of empathy and how that must feel for someone.../that's emotional maturity which adults have and only small children don't have in the same way and that's Bear, no maturity of thought and of the effect on others...with a child when they do that, do we say...oh, they're just winding you up/get to know them etc ...or do we look at the 'winder-up' and try to get them to see the effects of their behaviour, how they've made others feel through it...how unhappy/miserable etc...whether 'nasty' be meant, 'nasty' is still felt and that's something that Bear totally disregards....

[Alisch]

He's a wind up merchant, a bit like Marc was. But he isn't nasty. That lot just don't know how to handle him. If they had bothered to get to know him they would know he's actually really nice and there's more to him than meets the eye.

But he doesn't really want them to get to know him. He always makes light of any deeper chatter. Bar some exceptions, like with Ricky the other day. You cannot fault others for that when he hides behind masks and childish behaviour. If no one in the house really knows him properly, not even Chloe and Lewis, the problem might be in Bear himself, don't you think.

I for example wouldn't try to run to a person a try to get to know them, if they were making my life difficult, if they mocked me, and if they didn't really try themselves. It would be a waste of energy, because you wouldn't know if he's ****ing with you anyway. And I would kind of humiliate myself for trying to appease this brat.

[Vanessa]

The others don't want to get to know him. If Ricky can find some common ground with Bear then why can't they? Ricky and Bear are always playing in the garden together, but they don't show it on the highlights. Bear said he likes Ricky now, at least he makes the effort to include him. Most of the rest are just happy to isolate him. Bunch of spineless sheep!

[rusticgal]

He's a wind up merchant, a bit like Marc was. But he isn't nasty. That lot just don't know how to handle him. If they had bothered to get to know him they would know he's actually really nice and there's more to him than meets the eye.


But he IS nasty. The egg dropping and food throwing is annoying but not nasty. Its the goading...the prodding until people are reduced to tears. His inability to apologise for overstepping the mark shows just how nasty he is. Even when he popped Katie's balloon...she was upset but he didn't console her over it because he seems to get pleasure from getting a reaction...whatever it is and he takes no responsibility for it.
How do you know he is 'really nice' and that there is more to him? It certainly hasn't been shown.

[rusticgal]

..he doesn't want any of the housemates to get to know him, Vanessa...he's put on his masks to try to prevent that...they have tried to/some of them have (and credit to them and their characters that they persevere..)... but he's just shrugged them off because he knows that then he wouldn't be fitting in with his game-plan of being able to behave as he does and the heck with anyone else or their feelings...and there is nastiness also..in how he's encouraged emotions and anger of others, like Lewis and Heavy with the wine thing when he was saying that Marnie was wheat intolerant and fully joining in the targeting of Heavy, fully encouraging the targeting of the 'bald eagle' and of Saira and fully cheering on and encouraging Heavy, when he could see his 'best mate' reaching the anger points that could have brought physical violence but did bring about him throwing the drink over Heavy...there has been plenty 'nasty' to be seen and no 'really nice', just self/self/self and his own gain from pushing limits to their extremes...


Well said Ammi..

[Ammi]

But he IS nasty. The egg dropping and food throwing is annoying but not nasty. Its the goading...the prodding until people are reduced to tears. His inability to apologise for overstepping the mark shows just how nasty he is. Even when he popped Katie's balloon...she was upset but he didn't console her over it because he seems to get pleasure from getting a reaction...whatever it is and he takes no responsibility for it.
How do you know he is 'really nice' and that there is more to him? It certainly hasn't been shown.

..yeah except for pouring the oil which was the dumbest and totally disregarding anyone's safety because even older children know how dangerous that would make a walking surface...but then he knows that BB will sort it out so it's safe, so he can carry on being the Bear and doing exactly what he feels like....

[Vanessa]

But he IS nasty. The egg dropping and food throwing is annoying but not nasty. Its the goading...the prodding until people are reduced to tears. His inability to apologise for overstepping the mark shows just how nasty he is. Even when he popped Katie's balloon...she was upset but he didn't console her over it because he seems to get pleasure from getting a reaction...whatever it is and he takes no responsibility for it.
How do you know he is 'really nice' and that there is more to him? It certainly hasn't been shown.

No he's not. Marc was far worse in there. He actually bullied and targeted people with Helen. Encouraged by Big brother. Bear is just a prankster. Sometimes he goes too far, but they just don't know how to handle him.

[Pete.]

Oh Cal log out! If Bear was being bullied I'm sure he would have let us know

[Vanessa]

Not keen on Ricky, but I respect him for always trying to include Bear. He may be boring, but he's a good man.

[Vanessa]

Oh Cal log out! If Bear was being bullied I'm sure he would have let us know

Bullied no. Singled out: yes.

[rusticgal]

The others don't want to get to know him. If Ricky can find some common ground with Bear then why can't they? Ricky and Bear are always playinr

g in the garden together, but they don't show it on the highlights. Bear said he likes Ricky now, at least he makes the effort to include him. Most of the rest are just happy to isolate him. Bunch of spineless sheep!



It takes two...why doesn't Bear make the effort?...All he has done is make himself unlikeable.

[rusticgal]

No he's not. Marc was far worse in there. He actually bullied and targeted people with Helen. Encouraged by Big brother. Bear is just a prankster. Sometimes he goes too far, but they just don't know how to handle him.

I agree Marc was far worse...but you have just said it yourself...he sometimes goes too far and in the same sentance you then blame the other housemates for not knowing how to handle him???....he should learn not to go too far!!

Like Bear....it's always someone else's fault.

[Oaker]

nooo don't fall for it </3

[Liam-]

He's the person everyone has an opinion on, of course they're both going to tell him how much of an ass he is, I do think though that it was probably the easier option that exposing something annoying about your friends, but still, i don't really care because he deserves it

[Northern Monkey]

That lot has done far worse things than him. Aubrey spotting in his drink/food to name one. All he has done is a few pranks. If we were in the channel 4 BB everyone would have just laughed off. But jesus, this lot is way too serious. Katie crying over a burst balloon is a prime example. Pathetic!

:clap1:

[Daffodil]

Poor Bear being ganged up on. Give him a coffee cocktail and pour some olive oil in his bed.

[Vanessa]

Poor Bear being ganged up on. Give him a coffee cocktail and pour some olive oil in his bed.
Olive oil was in the garden :nono::joker:

[Daffodil]

Olive oil was in the garden :nono::joker:

I know. But in his bed is funnier :)

[Vanessa]

I know. But in his bed is funnier :)

:nono:

[MB.]

oh my god how are you people still falling for this same tired old bull**** you're fed it's an insult to your intelligence

Oh good the 'actually maybe the bully is being bullied guys?' part of the series is upon us. Guess that means it'll be over soon. So predictable how dumb viewers are now.

mhmm, it's never BBUK until the person who behaves like a completely immature asshole is treated like he is a completely immature asshole and thus the public decides that the completely immature asshole is The True Victim :(

like... I'm not even watching this series but how is this any different from the trajectories Esteemed Winners Aaron Allard-Morgan, Jim Davidson, and Helen Wood all took? sure the specifics of the stories are different but they all follow the path. Like, swap Bear's name with Jim's and I'm sure a nearly identical thread exists in the CBB13 section.

Better ways of saying what I also said are located above

[Garfie]

This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.:laugh:

So right, jet! But this doesn't just take the biscuit, this takes the whole packet! :laugh:

[Vanessa]

Bear is this year's Jim. :joker: Gets the blame for everything!

[MB.]

I'd like to say I'm amazed that someone can make a comparison to Jim Davidson and try to pass it off as a positive thing, but... at least you're self-aware

[Garfie]

Oh good the 'actually maybe the bully is being bullied guys?' part of the series is upon us. Guess that means it'll be over soon. So predictable how dumb viewers are now.

So true! :shrug:

[user104658]

I'm not sure there's enough cheese in Britain to go along with all of the whine in the thread :joker:

[Babayaro.]

I disagree. It was more constructive criticism if anything.

Unless this thread is sarcasm idk

[Jan S]

I think this hit the nail on the head
yup
This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.:laugh:
takes the whole damned pack of biscuits

He said that he doesn't like to see anyone upset but others in there have proven themselves to have less kind-hearted intentions unlike himself.
omg *laughing in disbelief*
..pathetic maybe Vanessa if it's just isolated things to purposefully antagonise/push/goad etc but it's relentless... why feel the need to burst the balloon, why feel the need to upset on a task..(and when James and Aubrey fulfil their task of commenting on housemates, they're criticised because it's 'harsh' on Bear..)...he hasn't done a few pranks, he's been relentless and he's exhausted them with it to the point that some just 'try to keep him calm or stay out of his firing line'....and yes, other's haven't always behaved well in their reactions but they've been one off things as opposed to his persistency in his behaviour that has made so many miserable and he's laughed at their misery...
all of your posts on this thread, ammi, are excellent - you spell it out. unfortunately, those who are metaphorically dyslexic will never work out how to read the truth. :clap1:

[Adamw92]

If Bear hadn't spent the last 3 weeks isolating himself from the rest of the house with his behaviour then maybe it wouldn't be looked at as him being "ganged" up on. I'm sorry but I feel zero sympathy for him and having experience being ganged up on before, I don't see how this was anything near it.

[belle777]

Bear has set the tone to how he may be treated by the way he treats the housemates .
he has chosen a particular way as his game plan. playing a game of wearing them down, demoralising them. making them seem whiney, and subdued by comparison.getting himself undeserved viewing time. you have to see beyond the immediate facade. what are his motives. what is his gain ? tbh most of the time now i just switch the volume down or switch to another channel as soon as he starts a new conflict . who wants to watch people fighting and arguing ? toxicity. not I!
big brother is going to shoot themselves in the foot if they think y=they are gaining viewers by displaying such behaviour. its going to end up like the Jerry Springfield show or whats the name of that english guy .... on ITV ?

[Vanessa]

Bear has set the tone to how he may be treated by the way he treats the housemates .
he has chosen a particular way as his game plan. playing a game of wearing them down, demoralising them. making them seem whiney, and subdued by comparison.getting himself undeserved viewing time. you have to see beyond the immediate facade. what are his motives. what is his gain ? tbh most of the time now i just switch the volume down or switch to another channel as soon as he starts a new conflict . who wants to watch people fighting and arguing ? toxicity. not I!
big brother is going to shoot themselves in the foot if they think y=they are gaining viewers by displaying such behaviour. its going to end up like the Jerry Springfield show or whats the name of that english guy .... on ITV ?

Hi Lilie! :wavey:

[rusticgal]

Bear has set the tone to how he may be treated by the way he treats the housemates .
he has chosen a particular way as his game plan. playing a game of wearing them down, demoralising them. making them seem whiney, and subdued by comparison.getting himself undeserved viewing time. you have to see beyond the immediate facade. what are his motives. what is his gain ? tbh most of the time now i just switch the volume down or switch to another channel as soon as he starts a new conflict . who wants to watch people fighting and arguing ? toxicity. not I!
big brother is going to shoot themselves in the foot if they think y=they are gaining viewers by displaying such behaviour. its going to end up like the Jerry Springfield show or whats the name of that english guy .... on ITV ?

Well said.

[Kazanne]

This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.:laugh:

:clap1::clap1::clap1:

[wendywillow]

this is the twilight zone. bear is being bullied. ok

[Vicky.]

Been going on for ages tbh. But he takes it well...choses to be more ****ing annoying instead of taking it to heart. Viewers say 'he brought it on himself so we care not' and such, but its not very nice to watch tbh even if you dislike the person on the receiving end :shrug:

[Tom4784]

It's not down to his victims to wrap him up in cotton wool and be considerate of his feelings when he's been awful to them for weeks. He alienated himself, it's karma.

[Ammi]

..I still don't see or get 'ganged up on', with that task...he was chosen first by one person/Aubrey to speak about..(and actually it was quite gentle ..)...and then James had to follow with the same person/and back to Aubrey because that was the task requirement...he was interrupting and interjecting all through the task anyway because he always wants the attention, so he seemed quite happy that he was getting it and again, all about him...it's really noticeable how audibly loud he gets when there's lots going on, like at party celebrations etc to grab attention over everything else and he'll elevate himself onto a table or something ..just always having to stand out and be the centre...


..anyways, he was awful last night again with Renee...it's not really 'humour' to wind people up to anger points the way he does and then not even respect that anger and emotion you've brought, but rather to laugh at it and would be incredible annoying to anyone to have their emotions purposefully brought to the surface through winding up and then be laughed at...sadly there is often a trend of trying to mask nastiness under the guise of humour and throwing it at the other person for becoming upset (so long as we say it in a humorous way and are 'edgy' and make people laugh/we can be awful..).../there is no honesty in that...and humour is always subjective anyway..a 'joke' that can only be had at the expense of the feelings of others and their misery is not something that I find funny....hahaha I upset them/I got a reaction/how funny....if you're funny then you're funny and funny in your own right, you don't need to cause misery to others to be that 'funny person' an not a 'funny' I have any admiration for....

[JTM45]

He's still the person who's carried the whole series and i think he's gonna' walk out of the house as the winner.
He's the only person in there that has done enough to deserve the title!

[hijaxers]

He's still the person who's carried the whole series and i think he's gonna' walk out of the house as the winner.
He's the only person in there that has done enough to deserve the title!

He hasn't carried the series , he's ambushed it and BB have made a massive mistake in allowing him to do so , plenty of us are sick to death of the same childish, nasty behaviour day after day , its now become monotonous . I would think every bully in the country has picked up some very handy tips from him , so no moaning from parents who's kids get bullied - its entertainment you know and its funny !

[Paula D]

This takes the biscuit. It really does. Bear has bullied and tried to degrade most of the HM's (who have feelings too!) when he had his little squad around him, now that they are getting booted one by one out he is showing how diminished he is without his support group. So poor likkle Bear is now being seen as a victim because he was told a few home truths. You couldn't make it up.:laugh:

Absolutely, this is another ploy to get Bear to win and I think he will actually but he doesn't deserve it.

Then again, I don't really know who does deserve it, except maybe Renee or Aubrey?

[Paula D]

..I still don't see or get 'ganged up on', with that task...he was chosen first by one person/Aubrey to speak about..(and actually it was quite gentle ..)...and then James had to follow with the same person/and back to Aubrey because that was the task requirement...he was interrupting and interjecting all through the task anyway because he always wants the attention, so he seemed quite happy that he was getting it and again, all about him...it's really noticeable how audibly loud he gets when there's lots going on, like at party celebrations etc to grab attention over everything else and he'll elevate himself onto a table or something ..just always having to stand out and be the centre...


..anyways, he was awful last night again with Renee...it's not really 'humour' to wind people up to anger points the way he does and then not even respect that anger and emotion you've brought, but rather to laugh at it and would be incredible annoying to anyone to have their emotions purposefully brought to the surface through winding up and then be laughed at...sadly there is often a trend of trying to mask nastiness under the guise of humour and throwing it at the other person for becoming upset (so long as we say it in a humorous way and are 'edgy' and make people laugh/we can be awful..).../there is no honesty in that...and humour is always subjective anyway..a 'joke' that can only be had at the expense of the feelings of others and their misery is not something that I find funny....hahaha I upset them/I got a reaction/how funny....if you're funny then you're funny and funny in your own right, you don't need to cause misery to others to be that 'funny person' an not a 'funny' I have any admiration for....

Couldn't have put it better.

[Vanessa]

[QUOTE=Vicky.;8933227]Been going on for ages tbh. But he takes it well...choses to be more ****ing annoying instead of taking it to heart. Viewers say 'he brought it on himself so we care not' and such, but its not very nice to watch tbh even if you dislike the person on the receiving end :shrug:[/QUOTE ]

He deals with it so well. Never takes it personally, instead he just does his own thing. :laugh:

[belle777]

JTM45 "He's still the person who's carried the whole series and i think he's gonna' walk out of the house as the winner.
He's the only person in there that has done enough to deserve the title!"

are you joking me ? a bully to win ? what message does that send ? is that the kind of country we want ? where bullies get rewarded!

i hope he gets close enough to nearly taste it , but never get close enough to bite.

[Cal.]

MESS

[Cal.]

I think I made this thread to bait Dan and Jordan because we were feuding but icr there's some shade on page 1.

[Epic.]

The nastiest TV personality to ever exist

[reece(:]

:skull:

[Ross.]

Cal’s problematic era?

[JerseyWins]

Bear was ganged up on all season... and it turned to a NASTY level towards the end.

[Jordan.]

I've witnessed people be ganged up on before

Me when the domino's man refused to serve me and Dan

[Lostie!]

https://i.imgur.com/YomUaY5.gif

[Ross.]

Bear was ganged up on all season... and it turned to a NASTY level towards the end.

DON'T start!

[Epic.]

Bear was ganged up on all season... and it turned to a NASTY level towards the end.

'Poor me. Poor me, poor me, pour me a drink'

[Daniel.]

I think I made this thread to bait Dan and Jordan because we were feuding but icr there's some shade on page 1.

Reported

[RileyH]

Bear was ganged up on all season... and it turned to a NASTY level towards the end.

I swear you do this on purpose

[JerseyWins]

I swear you do this on purpose
Do WHAT?

[Vicky.;8933227]Been going on for ages tbh. But he takes it well...choses to be more ****ing annoying instead of taking it to heart. Viewers say 'he brought it on himself so we care not' and such, but its not very nice to watch tbh even if you dislike the person on the receiving end :shrug:[/QUOTE ]

He deals with it so well. Never takes it personally, instead he just does his own thing. :laugh:
:clap1:

[RileyH]

Do WHAT?

you know what

[caprimint]

Was gonna say...since when did Cal have good taste?

[Jodie.]

Top 10 CBB HM x