Why aren't they called in for bullying bear?

[ThriceShy]

It makes no sense.:shrug:

[Adamw92]

When there's actual bullying happening then they will

[ThriceShy]

When there's actual bullying happening then they will

Yet they called him in for goading.

They are gang bullying him. The irony is though that he will probably win as a result.

[Amy Jade]

Ignoring somebody isn't bullying

[Daniel.]

Because they didn't bully him :pat:

[Adamw92]

Yet they called him in for goading.

They are gang bullying him. The irony is though that he will probably win as a result.

Show me how they're bullying him. He's goaded and pushed at them for weeks and they were just not giving him the time of day, it's not bullying. They were choosing to not acknowledge him because its the same routine over and over with him.

[hijaxers]

It makes no sense.:shrug:

Jeez give a rest, its like being in the house.

[Maru]

Say I agree with you that he has been bullied, it would fan the flames to call them on every bit of it when objectively, Bear is doing a lot to warrant the backlash. They're job is to keep the peace, not be the anti-bully police.

[ThriceShy]

Ignoring somebody isn't bullying

Isolating someobody is.

[rubymoo]

It's all part of Bears plan.......play the victim, and get them sympathy votes for tomorrow!

[Amy Jade]

Isolating someobody is.

How are they isolating him?

They let him cook breakfast, Renee fed him. That's not isolation if you are feeding somebody :laugh2:

[caprimint]

After Bear went to all that effort of making a heart in the toast and filling it with beans she could've at least offered him some of her food. She would've just continued to ignore him though if Frankie/Ricky hadn't said anything.

[Glenn-C]

Where was the bullying? Were we watching the same show? :shrug:

[Daffodil]

No-one has bullied Bear. People have reacted to his bullying. Frankly I really think he has been let off lightly.

[Amy Jade]

After Bear went to all that effort of making a heart in the toast and filling it with beans she could've at least offered him some of her food. She would've just continued to ignore him though if Frankie/Ricky hadn't said anything.

She had prepared him food, she said to Rick that his was on the table she just didn't want to answer him. Pay attention.

[notime]

Ignoring somebody isn't bullying
.

[rubymoo]

No-one has bullied Bear. People have reacted to his bullying. Frankly I really think he has been let off lightly.

:clap2:

[caprimint]

She had prepared him food, she said to Rick that his was on the table she just didn't want to answer him. Pay attention.
It's incredibly immature to ignore someone. He was going to go outside and eat a jam sandwich, I'm sure Renee would've probably eaten Bear's portion herself. :idc:

[chuff me dizzy]

Yet they called him in for goading.

They are gang bullying him. The irony is though that he will probably win as a result.

100% true

[Black Dagger]

They aren't bullying him hun.

[Weyr]

The only person in the BB house who deserves to be hauled into the diary room, and thrown out, is that idiot Bear! He's immature, rude, uncouth and just a complete waste of space. No one has "gang bullied" him, he has done nothing except make the other contestants lives a misery! The ratings have been the lowest in ANY series, and by rights, he should not even be there! Channel 5 have manipulated viewers by not showing the times he was reprimanded for doing wrong. No one else has been given so many chances, normally he'd have gone weeks ago.
Channel 5 say there wasn't enough time to show his wrongdoings, that is a complete untruth!

[BB-Fan]

It makes no sense.:shrug:

I actually have to totally agree with you... I too also feel like they are bullying him. They are all ganging up on him and isolating him, with Renee being the ringleader.

I mean, Aubrey even spat in Bear's food and drink!!! If a guy did that they would of been removed.

They make him beg/ask for food, repeatedly call him cancer, call him a Mother******er, and openly talk about how Renee's 'friends' would do him in.

Renee also has the cheek to say Bear is picking on her - hahahahaha!

Big Brother constantly calls him into the diary room for a telling off, even when someone else started the issue that caused the scene.

[Amy Jade]

It's incredibly immature to ignore someone. He was going to go outside and eat a jam sandwich, I'm sure Renee would've probably eaten Bear's portion herself. :idc:

I have loads of people on ignore on here, I feel it's actually more mature to do that than constantly be in conflict with somebody.

He played you if you believed him about going outside, he even admitted as much at the end of the show - were you not paying attention?

[Weyr]

No-one has bullied Bear. People have reacted to his bullying. Frankly I really think he has been let off lightly.

Amen to that, WAY too lightly :cheer2:

[Northern Monkey]

The thing is Bear has'nt said or done anything anywhere near as nasty as Aubrey and Renee.He's kept it light hearted wheras they've turned outright nasty

[rusticgal]

Yet they called him in for goading.

They are gang bullying him. The irony is though that he will probably win as a result.

How are they bullying ffs...Renee and Aubrey are simply not paying any attention to his pathetic goading. Bears loving it...it's what he wants. If they are nice he turns on them...if they ignore him he puts on his 5 year old act...he knows what he is doing.
One day and one day soon he will get his comeuppance...

[Vicky.]

Not one person has been bullied this series tbh and I am sick to death of this word being thrown around with ever damn disagreement that goes on in there.

[Ian Coke]

It makes no sense.:shrug:

If you're expecting anyone to have a serious discussion about this, you need to cite specific examples. Of Blair being 'bullied'

[Ian Coke]

It's incredibly immature to ignore someone. He was going to go outside and eat a jam sandwich, I'm sure Renee would've probably eaten Bear's portion herself. :idc:

So you really can't see why Stephen's antics might be considered irritating? Isn't it obvious that he's been trying to piss everyone off since day one? It's one thing to applaud his behaviour, or find it amusing, but it's another to not see it for what it is.

[caprimint]

I have loads of people on ignore on here, I feel it's actually more mature to do that than constantly be in conflict with somebody.

He played you if you believed him about going outside, he even admitted as much at the end of the show - were you not paying attention?
I personally find it pretty difficult to ignore and block someone out completely as though they don't exist. I think it can be controlled as to how much you let things get to you. If you don't rise to the bait you don't need to 'ignore' anyone, but Renee and Aubrey have played into Bear's hands time after time.

So you really can't see why Stephen's antics might be considered irritating? Isn't it obvious that he's been trying to piss everyone off since day one? It's one thing to applaud his behaviour, or find it amusing, but it's another to not see it for what it is.
Sure, I didn't say otherwise, but they choose how they react to it and regarding that, they couldn't have played it any worse. I think it's hilarious actually.

[Ian Coke]

Sure, I didn't say otherwise, but they choose how they react to it and regarding that, they couldn't have played it any worse. I think it's hilarious actually.

Fair enough. Although I think the other housemates are handling a bad situation pretty well. Stuck in there with Stephen 24/7, with all the knives lying around, I'd have given serious thought to ending him weeks ago.

[rusticgal]

Fair enough. Although I think the other housemates are handling a bad situation pretty well. Stuck in there with Stephen 24/7, with all the knives lying around, I'd have given serious thought to ending him weeks ago.

:joker:

[letmein]

Bear should have been thrown out weeks ago.

[Clootie Dumpling]

Isolating someobody is.

Only if the "target" feels bullied and he gave no indication that he felt that.

Aubrey and Renee were ignoring him as a way of coping with his constant goading - it was self-preservation, nothing else.

It was because Renee had been ignoring him that Bear put on his mock-servile act, asking if he could have some food. Renee didn't refuse him food, she just didn't reply. He was the one who made it into a "drama".

[Ammi]

...he was never excluded,was he..am I missing something...?...Renee prepared a meal for all of them, including Bear..she just didn't want to speak to him though because that's what he's pushed her to...(and his oh, I'll go sit in the garden then with me bread and water was all his acting our his Bear character anyway..)...obviously, not speaking to him is extremely childish but childish is the house/vein and playground that Bear has created...

[Clootie Dumpling]

Yes, that was my take on it, too, Ammi.