View Full Version : Have you changed in your time on TiBB/how have you changed...
...I just had some thoughts this morning and I was thinking that a few things that I had opinions on before I joined TiBB, have changed now in terms of people here making me see things from different perspectives that I hadn't thought of before...I don't mean with topics so much but more just in general...do you think your stance on anything has changed at all in your time on the forum and because of the forum, that you've re-thought anything that you had firm and fixed views on before..?...
..that's an awful OP, I didn't quite know how to word it../apologies....messy....
Niamh.
21-09-2016, 11:08 AM
Definitely the Mccann story, before posting here i didn't know much about it and took it at face value as little girl kidnapped by stranger, it was members here made me look into it more and do a total 360 on it
SuperV
21-09-2016, 11:16 AM
Not as special as you two but because of TIBB I now wake up earlier thanks to the chat and games page! :fist::fist::fist:
Not as special as you two but because of TIBB I now wake up earlier thanks to the chat and games page! :fist::fist::fist:
..how's that with the chat and games page, SV..that it makes you wake up earlier..?...
Amy Jade
21-09-2016, 11:34 AM
I change my opinion quite a lot based on here, there are a few people here who honestly make me think quite a lot about things I would normally pay little attention to.
Ammi, Livia, Niamh, Kirk, Josy, Jack, Cherie, Joey, Lostie and Ben in perticular.
Niamh.
21-09-2016, 11:38 AM
N'aww thanks Amy :love:
SuperV
21-09-2016, 11:54 AM
..how's that with the chat and games page, SV..that it makes you wake up earlier..?...
Well all the games on TIBB are around 4 - 5 am for me and I love playing then so in now wake up around that time generally.
Jamie89
21-09-2016, 11:56 AM
I change my opinion quite a lot based on here, there are a few people here who honestly make me think quite a lot about things I would normally pay little attention to.
Ammi, Livia, Niamh, Kirk, Josy, Jack, Cherie, Joey, Lostie and Ben in perticular.
I agree, seeing so many different opinions on things means I change my mind on some things from time to time where I don't have fixed or really strong opinions beforehand. I might read a story and have one opinion on it, then come on here and see some comments and points being raised that I hadn't considered that make me rethink my opinion.
caprimint
21-09-2016, 11:57 AM
Some people's posts really make me think about things more or at least make me see the other side that I generally disagree with are Livia, Jack and Joeysteele.
I change my opinion quite a lot based on here, there are a few people here who honestly make me think quite a lot about things I would normally pay little attention to.
Ammi, Livia, Niamh, Kirk, Josy, Jack, Cherie, Joey, Lostie and Ben in perticular.
...you've made me think about quite a lot of things as well, Amy and see stuff from a different perspective..:love:..you've made some really thought provoking threads..(my favourite kind of thread..)....
Well all the games on TIBB are around 4 - 5 am for me and I love playing then so in now wake up around that time generally.
...ahhh yeah of course, it's a real bummer for you and it's not just being awake but also being fully alert as well for tasks.../tough for you...
smudgie
21-09-2016, 12:12 PM
Yes, I have been liberated.
I still can't actually bring myself to say the word, but I can type the word twat now, never thought I would see the day.
Beartwat helped mind, nearly as much as the friendly folk on here.
Crimson Dynamo
21-09-2016, 12:14 PM
I have become 27% more lovable
:love:
Ramsay
21-09-2016, 01:07 PM
I joined 8 years ago and i'm still a 16 year old at heart so no i'm still the same
-Sue-
22-09-2016, 12:23 PM
LOL I changed my name due to being bullied/teased/missunderstood..
I remember when I first came to TIBB met people I thought were 'ok' only to find out they were 'insane' and talk outta their arse... so now I keep myself to myself I do know it can be very it's not 'what you know' but 'who you know' at times on here...
Cherie
22-09-2016, 12:26 PM
LOL I changed my name due to being bullied/teased/missunderstood..
I remember when I first came to TIBB met people I thought were 'ok' only to find out they were 'insane' and talk outta their arse... so now I keep myself to myself I do know it can be very it's not 'what you know' but 'who you know' at times on here...
D: who were you? LT is not too bad when you get to know him
-Sue-
22-09-2016, 12:28 PM
D: who were you? LT is not too bad when you get to know him
LOL I am a noone a mere blip on the radar.. usually only here during BB :)
Crimson Dynamo
22-09-2016, 12:32 PM
D: who were you? LT is not too bad when you get to know him
I know all the players on Tibb, the movers, the shakers, Im down with the kids too
Sue if you need protection from the Bullies like say Marsh and Robs gang just pm me and I will put the word out
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-Sue-
22-09-2016, 12:53 PM
[QUOTE=LeatherTrumpet;8986185]I know all the players on Tibb, the movers, the shakers, Im down with the kids too
Sue if you need protection from the Bullies like say Marsh and Robs gang just pm me and I will put the word out
LOL it's all good :D but ty kind sir :D
PS I bought some thicker skin on ebay I am good now ;)
Nicky91
22-09-2016, 12:58 PM
I change my opinion quite a lot based on here, there are a few people here who honestly make me think quite a lot about things I would normally pay little attention to.
Ammi, Livia, Niamh, Kirk, Josy, Jack, Cherie, Joey, Lostie and Ben in perticular.
okay, i feel sad that i'm not being mentioned, well you are my Queen Amy :love:
but i'm also quite passionate in supporting my favourites i've noticed that myself now as well, and i also like a lot of members on the forum
Amy Jade, Ammi, Joey, Mock, Argy, Natalie, Niamh, Cherie, LT and Josy :hee:
Crimson Dynamo
22-09-2016, 01:00 PM
okay, i feel sad that i'm not being mentioned, well you are my Queen Amy :love:
but i'm also quite passionate in supporting my favourites i've noticed that myself now as well, and i also like a lot of members on the forum
Amy Jade, Ammi, Joey, Mock, Argy, Natalie, Niamh, Cherie, LT and Josy :hee:
Yeah she missed me out too Nicholas so lets get her and steal her dinner money, the bitch
:fist:
LOL I changed my name due to being bullied/teased/missunderstood..
I remember when I first came to TIBB met people I thought were 'ok' only to find out they were 'insane' and talk outta their arse... so now I keep myself to myself I do know it can be very it's not 'what you know' but 'who you know' at times on here...
I love this, this should be in the official welcome pack when you sign up to the forum.
Sorry to hear about your experience, for the record I think sometimes harmless teasing and playfulness can come across to some people as being aggressive and bullying because really there's no context a lot of the time. We don't see people's faces so we don't have a lot to go on when deciding how to take things. Hopefully that's what really happened to you and nothing malicious even though that doesn't surprise me.
We see people's faces if they post in mtm kyle :hee:
I don't know I don't think I've changed really apart from being more thick skinned now, I do see some situations in a different light a lot of the time after reading the differing opinions from other members though.
Crimson Dynamo
22-09-2016, 01:06 PM
yeah Kyle
-Sue-
22-09-2016, 01:06 PM
I love this, this should be in the official welcome pack when you sign up to the forum.
Sorry to hear about your experience, for the record I think sometimes harmless teasing and playfulness can come across to some people as being aggressive and bullying because really there's no context a lot of the time. We don't see people's faces so we don't have a lot to go on when deciding how to take things. Hopefully that's what really happened to you and nothing malicious even though that doesn't surprise me.
Ty for your reply :D It's all good honest I just need to find my place to fit it.. other than just BB :)
It can be a tough crowd on here but sometimes I like that too ;) makes it something to discuss/challenge without breaking rules :D I am sure if I spent more time on here people would get to know me more and vice versa it's just finding that place to 'fit in' other than me talking the legs off a donkey hoping someone will reply ;)
We see people's faces if they post in mtm kyle :hee:
I posted a long time ago Josy and loads of people here have me on Facebook. You're more than welcome to if you're not too cool to have Tibb friends :hee:
Sue you should honestly just go into one of the chat threads and start posting I know it can seem a little daunting at first but not for long
-Sue-
22-09-2016, 01:10 PM
Sue you should honestly just go into one of the chat threads and start posting I know it can seem a little daunting at first but not for long
lol indeed its just finding the right one :D
I love Tibb been on here years (despite my lack of countable decent posts) just need to find that place to call home off season ;)
I posted a long time ago Josy and loads of people here have me on Facebook. You're more than welcome to if you're not too cool to have Tibb friends :hee:
I'm more an instagram type of person tbf
lol indeed its just finding the right one :D
I love Tibb been on here years (despite my lack of countable decent posts) just need to find that place to call home off season ;)
Well the main chat thread right now is in the private section at the top of this section. You should pop in.
lol indeed its just finding the right one :D
I love Tibb been on here years (despite my lack of countable decent posts) just need to find that place to call home off season ;)
Oh I wouldn't worry about that. LT has 37,000 and you can count on one hand the amount of quality insightful things he's said. Wheras I have just 5,000 and each one is lovingly crafted, hand sculpted and written with grate care for spelling and grammer to make sure it is the absolute top qualitee that befits a post from the Kyle name. It's all about the quality not the quantity :laugh:
I'm more an instagram type of person tbf
Bloody hipster :nono:
Cherie
22-09-2016, 01:16 PM
Ty for your reply :D It's all good honest I just need to find my place to fit it.. other than just BB :)
It can be a tough crowd on here but sometimes I like that too ;) makes it something to discuss/challenge without breaking rules :D I am sure if I spent more time on here people would get to know me more and vice versa it's just finding that place to 'fit in' other than me talking the legs off a donkey hoping someone will reply ;)
I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts :omgno: so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me :idc: or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only :nono:)
Cherie
22-09-2016, 01:16 PM
Oh I wouldn't worry about that. LT has 37,000 and you can count on one hand the amount of quality insightful things he's said. Wheras I have just 5,000 and each one is lovingly crafted, hand sculpted and written with grate care for spelling and grammer to make sure it is the absolute top qualitee that befits a post from the Kyle name. It's all about the quality not the quantity :laugh:
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:amazed: you read my mind
Basically you have to not expect a reply. I'm guilty myself sometimes of just going to a thread and posting without reading the other comments so basically I could be parroting what somebody else has said and they might think I'm quoting them and well, it's a mess.
Niamh.
22-09-2016, 01:19 PM
LOL I changed my name due to being bullied/teased/missunderstood..
I remember when I first came to TIBB met people I thought were 'ok' only to find out they were 'insane' and talk outta their arse... so now I keep myself to myself I do know it can be very it's not 'what you know' but 'who you know' at times on here...
awww :( well we miss you posting :love:
Cherie
22-09-2016, 01:19 PM
Basically you have to not expect a reply. I'm guilty myself sometimes of just going to a thread and posting without reading the other comments so basically I could be parroting what somebody else has said and they might think I'm quoting them and well, it's a mess.
:joker:
Niamh.
22-09-2016, 01:19 PM
I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts :omgno: so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me :idc: or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only :nono:)
This is my motto :hee:
-Sue-
22-09-2016, 01:20 PM
I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts :omgno: so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me :idc: or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only :nono:)
LOL nicely put :D and of course wine on fridays :) bonus :D
I think the knack is to say your piece and not expect a reply, I've noticed a lot of people join a thread and I can be guilty of this myself and not bother reading the previous posts :omgno: so I could be repeating what you said, and you might be thinking she could have just quoted me :idc: or agreed with me, also take some comments with a pinch of salt, or a vat of wine (Fridays only :nono:)
This is my motto :hee:
LT I'll let you take this one...
Shaun
22-09-2016, 01:33 PM
It's been nine years so almost certainly :laugh: annoys me when ancient threads are bumped and i've a post from 2008 that's rather embarrassing.
On a generally personal theme I've become a lot less open on here for obvious reasons... Don't have as much interest in chat threads or whatever any more whereas I was probably one of the main users in 2010-13 :laugh: but I still try to keep other stuff going so I don't feel too guilty... I'm not sure. I don't quite get the humour on here sometimes.
But I think I've become a bit more stubborn and less of a pushover since I joined.
Livia
22-09-2016, 01:40 PM
No... I was fabulous then and I'm fabulous now.
Although I didn't like Shaun at the start... that changed though x
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