Propose that moderators do not use their status to threaten or belittle other members

[bots]

The title says it all really

[Firewire]

That Josy is terrible for it, she called me an arsehole the other day :nono:

[caprimint]

Benjamin still acts like he's a mod :rolleyes:

[Crimson Dynamo]

agreed, dezzy abuses his moderating power to delete posts exposing his obvious failings and trolls members and bans members who disagree with his pov

all other mods are a credit to tibb

its time for tibb to act

[Cal.]

http://cdn.thisisbigbrother.com/customavatars/avatar91218_164.gif

[Crimson Dynamo]

and lets see him delete this thread if he dares

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

agreed, dezzy abuses his moderating power to delete posts exposing his obvious failings and trolls members and bans members who disagree with his pov

all other mods are a credit to tibb

its time for tibb to act

and lets see him delete this thread if he dares

https://m.popkey.co/ed227a/G0EXD.gif

[Jamie89]

and lets see him delete this thread if he dares

Yes I think he probably should

Ridiculous

[Rob!]

In before deletion

[Cal.]

You're grown men. Surely you have taxes or something to worry abouthttp://cdn.thisisbigbrother.com/customavatars/avatar91218_164.gif

[Ross.]

You're grown men. Surely you have taxes or something to worry abouthttp://cdn.thisisbigbrother.com/customavatars/avatar91218_164.gif

:joker:

[Ross.]

Leave Dezzy alone please

[Amy Jade]

Leave our Dezzy alone!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Just as in politics, you are always far more damned by your supporters..

.

[Cal.]

Oh so there's a problem with me, Jamie, Ross and Amy Jade is there?

[Ammi]

...the irony is that this thread is doing exactly what Dezzy is accused of doing...because it's only Dezzy's status as a moderator that has made you feel as though this thread could be made...for any other member...(and he is also a member..)...there has never and would never be anything like this.../I mean this is targeting and bullying someone, there really is no other way to describe it and it's extremely grim...as Cal said/someone so much younger but who can see the silliness in this...you're grown men...you choose to spend time on TiBB, you choose to spend leisure time here, those are your choices that you have made...just grow up and stop being so silly...when bans/infractions are given out, they're given for good reason and people need to stop looking for others to blame and take their ownership and responsibility...

[reece(:]

Why are the veterans acting the most childish?

[MB.]

Dezzy and his vastly superior opinions :love:

[EspeonBB]

I think Dezzy's a great mod :love:

[Jamie89]

...the irony is that this thread is doing exactly what Dezzy is accused of doing...because it's only Dezzy's status as a moderator that has made you feel as though this thread could be made...for any other member...(and he is also a member..)...there has never and would never be anything like this.../I mean this is targeting and bullying someone, there really is no other way to describe it and it's extremely grim...as Cal said/someone so much younger but who can see the silliness in this...you're grown men...you choose to spend time on TiBB, you choose to spend leisure time here, those are your choices that you have made...just grow up and stop being so silly...when bans/infractions are given out, they're given for good reason and people need to stop looking for others to blame and take their ownership and responsibility...

Well said!

[Shaun]

Maybe stop being a troll.

[bots]

...the irony is that this thread is doing exactly what Dezzy is accused of doing...because it's only Dezzy's status as a moderator that has made you feel as though this thread could be made...for any other member...(and he is also a member..)...there has never and would never be anything like this.../I mean this is targeting and bullying someone, there really is no other way to describe it and it's extremely grim...as Cal said/someone so much younger but who can see the silliness in this...you're grown men...you choose to spend time on TiBB, you choose to spend leisure time here, those are your choices that you have made...just grow up and stop being so silly...when bans/infractions are given out, they're given for good reason and people need to stop looking for others to blame and take their ownership and responsibility...

with respect Ammi, this thread was made because members have been targeted. I could of course just request my account is deleted and move on and to be quite honest, I will if issues such as these are not resolved with some common sense.

[Headie]

How about a proposal that all trolls are banned forever

[Mokka]

How about a proposal that all trolls are banned forever

Define troll...

There are a few that have been allowed back after long or perma bans.... back at their old tricks.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

http://i.imgur.com/6F1KmEi.gif

[Headie]

Dezzy is a great mod, this thread is so pointless

[caprimint]

Define troll...

There are a few that have been allowed back after long or perma bans.... back at their old tricks.
:suspect: Not sure if shade.

In all seriousness, I think Dezzy is actually one of the best mods, he does his job well and from what I've seen has always been as fair as possible and just because he has strong opinions and voices them it doesn't lessen his mod status.

[Withano]

with respect Ammi, this thread was made because members have been targeted. I could of course just request my account is deleted and move on and to be quite honest, I will if issues such as these are not resolved with some common sense.

Maybe a direct quote would hep so we could judge for ourselves.. Bit reluctant to take somebodys word for it. I havent noticed it and neither have the majority

[Crimson Dynamo]

If you feel that dezzy is an awful mod please pm james and state why and if you have examples give them, i know its hard as he deletes most but to keep tibb alive do your best

:fc:

[Ammi]

with respect Ammi, this thread was made because members have been targeted. I could of course just request my account is deleted and move on and to be quite honest, I will if issues such as these are not resolved with some common sense.

...it would be sad if you did request your account to be deleted bots but if you felt that's what you wanted then it would be totally your decision and no one else the cause of it at all, let's be honest about that...It's always strange how no members who don't break rules are never 'targeted' and only the ones who do break them or don't like their 'own rules' restricted in any way who are the ones who cry 'targeting'...when other members quite often see something completely different and can see exactly why infractions/bans have been given...I have seen targeting in threads..but not from mods, from members who also cry 'target' themselves...and I have seen definite bullying as well but never from a mod...I have also seen members post aggressively and with hostility toward Dezzy and then take umbrage when they receive infractions or whatever...I think you'll find that your perspective is very much a limited one that many 'onlookers' don't see the same way as you do...this is a tantrum, this is spitting a dummy, this is just so childish and dumb...

[Crimson Dynamo]

:suspect: Not sure if shade.

In all seriousness, I think Dezzy is actually one of the best mods, he does his job well and from what I've seen has always been as fair as possible and just because he has strong opinions and voices them it doesn't lessen his mod status.

caprimint this is LONG running saga with multiple members, its not a new thing

do you think neem gets this or ANY other mod?

NO

this is about ONE Mod

[Maru]

Since somebody opened the can of worms and I also feel there is some reasonable tension here, I will get this off my chest...

I do think Dezzy needs to tone down the aggressive tone some, but only coming from a deescalating standpoint as a mod. Other than that, couldn't be arsed their opinion or what's done by staff here.

Mods can't always do right (much less always be right) and they get their fair share of crap thrown their direction on a daily basis. By some people's standards, they can never do right, and anyone who accepts that position has to accept that there it takes quite a bit of thick skin to do the job and unfortunately will receive some form of grievance for doing so. You can't take everything personally when in that position. A good mod shouldn't necessarily punish/globally target people for speaking their minds, but correct by being a better example... I'm surprised some posts aren't moderated more often...

Also I prefer deletions and posts being edited to having those posts remain and continuously draw out negative energy. In all the forums I'm admin-ed or participated in, when you let a locked thread hang around with personal assaults and then don't remove them, it tends to cause some problems. As long as it's handled consistently, appropriately and with great care is all that matters.

That said, people who are very emotionally involved in certain threads probably should not be moderating them and should delegate. I don't know if this is happening, but I would feel far less comfortable speaking my mind in threads with certain mods are present... if I ever got to that point where I felt targeted, I would probably be turned off and just leave the forum... people on the internet are so overly personal sometimes and I just don't think it's worth the anguish.

Anyway, thanks to mod team if this is read. I appreciate that it is a difficult job and don't stress the haters, Dezzy included... some people just don't get along. Happens more than we'd like sometimes...

Disclaimer: My opinion is my own and is not here to "back" anyone up. Some people posting here may or may not be on my ignore... :laugh:

[Ammi]

If you feel that dezzy is an awful mod please pm james and state why and if you have examples give them, i know its hard as he deletes most but to keep tibb alive do your best

:fc:

..here was me thinking the bullies were mostly in the playground at school as well.../grow up LT, this is a forum for spending chill time and for enjoyment..

[Cal.]

Omg this is so rude.

[Crimson Dynamo]

..here was me thinking the bullies were mostly in the playground at school as well.../grow up LT, this is a forum for spending chill time and for enjoyment..

i know you are still sore from child migrants but really..#:idc:

[caprimint]

caprimint this is LONG running saga with multiple members, its not a new thing

do you think neem gets this or ANY other mod?

NO

this is about ONE Mod
I can't really comment, it's the first I've heard of it :shrug:

[Cal.]

https://media.giphy.com/media/20t9dCpVeOaCQ/giphy.gif

[Ammi]

caprimint this is LONG running saga with multiple members, its not a new thing

do you think neem gets this or ANY other mod?

NO

this is about ONE Mod

..Niamh doesn't get spoken to the way that Dezzy does, she doesn't get the hostility that he does ...no mod gets the hostility and aggression aimed at them that Dezzy does...

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

i know you are still sore from child migrants but really..#:idc:

what the actual hell :umm2:

[Jamie89]

I don't think I've ever been more embarrassed on this forum than right now :umm2:

[Ammi]

i know you are still sore from child migrants but really..#:idc:

...you really are a silly child, LT...

[Crimson Dynamo]

..Niamh doesn't get spoken to the way that Dezzy does, she doesn't get the hostility that he does ...no mod gets the hostility and aggression aimed at them that Dezzy does...

jesus wept tears of blood gif

[Mokka]

..Niamh doesn't get spoken to the way that Dezzy does, she doesn't get the hostility that he does ...no mod gets the hostilit5y and aggression aimed at them that Dezzy does...

I think that is what is being said here though Dezzy gives aggressive tone and gets aggressive tone. I liked some of the suggestions Maru gave to curb this

[Crimson Dynamo]

...you really are a silly child, LT...

nice

personal attack

reported

[Ammi]

..I'm not going to give this thread any more attention.../maybe next time LT, make yourself a welcome back to yourself thread if you're craving for a bit of you time ...

[Crimson Dynamo]

..I'm not going to give this thread any more attention.../maybe next time LT, make yourself a welcome back to yourself thread if you're craving for a bit of you time ...

heat

kitchen

[Benjamin]

Benjamin still acts like he's a mod :rolleyes:

:dazzler:

[Amy Jade]

Dezzy is one of the nicest people on this site, he only gets **** because he takes no prisoners and speaks his mind - just because he's a mod doesn't mean he should have to hold back.

It actually pisses me off how much flak he gets because he genuinenly only treats people the way they treat him from what I have seen.

[Shaun]

I think true colours are finally being exposed.

[Benjamin]

Tbf to Dezzy, when I was a mod, he was one of the only few that actually did his job.

(This was way back when we had some mods who just wanted the status and is in no way an attack on the current mods)

[Crimson Dynamo]

Tbf to Dezzy, when I was a mod, he was one of the only few that actually did his job.

(This was way back when we had some mods who just wanted the status and is in no way an attack on the current mods)

well sadly its not relevant today

[MB.]

Dezzy and Ammi should run this site tbh

[Amy Jade]

nice

personal attack

reported

She's only speaking the truth to be honest.

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

https://media.giphy.com/media/20t9dCpVeOaCQ/giphy.gif

I want cookies :(

[Maru]

I think that is what is being said here though Dezzy gives aggressive tone and gets aggressive tone. I liked some of the suggestions Maru gave to curb this

Needs to be a give and take really. Modding could use some improvement, but in return certain members need to really be brought down a notch rather than some using the board as a sounding board of vitriol that happens too frequently on here... it's the lowest level discussion possible.

[Mokka]

Needs to be a give and take really. Modding could use some improvement, but in return certain members need to really be brought down a notch rather than some using the board as a sounding board of vitriol that happens too frequently on here... it's the loweest level discussion possible.

Agreed

[Crimson Dynamo]

Dezzy and Ammi should run this site tbh

yes and they could forgive you all your nasty negative comments

it would be such a win win day for you

wow

:)

[Crimson Dynamo]

Needs to be a give and take really. Modding could use some improvement, but in return certain members need to really be brought down a notch rather than some using the board as a sounding board of vitriol that happens too frequently on here... it's the lowest level discussion possible.

:clap1:

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Needs to be a give and take really. Modding could use some improvement, but in return certain members need to really be brought down a notch rather than some using the board as a sounding board of vitriol that happens too frequently on here... it's the lowest level discussion possible.

Pot kettle tbh

[Smithy]

Can we just ban LT plz

[Crimson Dynamo]

oooh smithy, still sore?

lol

[Maru]

Can we just ban LT plz

Poor S&D :laugh:

[Crimson Dynamo]

looks like the establishment gotr a bloody nose tonight



and

they did not like it

1-0

[Ammi]

..maybe we should be more asking why people don't post in SD so much, don't get any enjoyment out of it, can't be bothered with threads they would like to join but just feel it's not worth it, that life is too short and the day would be too long to even try...I doubt the name 'Dezzy' would even be mentioned at all other than from the few who don't like that they can't have things their way all of the time/say whatever they want to, to whoever they feel like and troll as much as they want to ...strangely their names might be mentioned quite a few times though...

[Firewire]

oooh smithy, still sore?

lol

From anal?

Wow homophobia

[Crimson Dynamo]

..maybe we should be more asking why people don't post in SD so much, don't get any enjoyment out of it, can't be bothered with threads they would like to join but just feel it's not worth it, that life is too short and the day would be too long to even try...I doubt the name 'Dezzy' would even be mentioned at all other than from the few who don't like that they can't have things their way all of the time/say whatever they want to, to whoever they feel like and troll as much as they want to ...strangely their names might be mentioned quite a few times though...


why not ask people who keep that section alive?

coz it aint you or your pals

:idc:

[Amy Jade]

Ammi :clap1:

[Crimson Dynamo]

From anal?

Wow homophobia

that is so weak, jesus

[Pete.]

This thread still open? Close the door, lose the key

[Benjamin]

Where are all the mods at this time of night? :worry:

[Cal.]

I hope Dezzy locks ithttp://i.imgur.com/4ZAg5MZ.jpg

[Firewire]

that is so weak, jesus

It was just a wee joke

[Firewire]

Where are all the mods at this time of night? :worry:

Probably reading this and laughing

[EspeonBB]

We love you Dezzy!

[caprimint]

Where are all the mods at this time of night? :worry:
This is why you should be a mod again bc of your timezone difference :fist:

[Crimson Dynamo]

the reaching of the mafia..

i call a direct hit

[Mokka]

Where are all the mods at this time of night? :worry:

We actually don't have any mods anymore that are active

Part of the problem

[reece(:]

Dezzy for Admin and Serious News and Debates for shutdown? :clap1:

[Pete.]

We actually don't have any mods anymore that are active

Part of the problem
That's the only problem I have with mods, is perhaps we need a few more :omgno:

[Shaun]

#Maru4Mod

[Firewire]

Bring back Mark (Owner)!

[Amy Jade]

the reaching of the mafia..

i call a direct hit
Like 2 people agree with you. The rest of us think Dezzy is a great person and mod. All you've acheived is embarrassing yourself and hopefully a lengthy ban for bringing this up like this rather than acting your age and speaking to Josy or James

[caprimint]

..maybe we should be more asking why people don't post in SD so much, don't get any enjoyment out of it, can't be bothered with threads they would like to join but just feel it's not worth it, that life is too short and the day would be too long to even try...I doubt the name 'Dezzy' would even be mentioned at all other than from the few who don't like that they can't have things their way all of the time/say whatever they want to, to whoever they feel like and troll as much as they want to ...strangely their names might be mentioned quite a few times though...
I think (speaking personally, at least) it's because the same topics are recycled over and over again and it never really goes anywhere or is interesting. In all honesty I can't be bothered reading long posts about some of the topics discussed, either because I have little interest or because it's basically just opinions disagreeing with each other. I don't think members (or mods) are the main source of why a lot of people don't post in there.

[Mokka]

#Maru4Mod

I'd back this campaign

[Marsh.]

I've been waiting 8 years for the revolution to begin. :flutter:

[caprimint]

#Maru4Mod
This so much :worship:

Literally was gonna post this earlier

[Alf]

Can't beat a bit of anarchy.

[Firewire]

I've been waiting 8 years for the revolution to begin. :flutter:

Not you planting the seed

[Pete.]

Dezzy for Admin and Serious News and Debates for shutdown? :clap1:
Music Debates has made SN&D defunct anyway :clap1:

[Crimson Dynamo]

We actually don't have any mods anymore that are active

Part of the problem

look at the mess?

:smug:

[Cherie]

I've been waiting 8 years for the revolution to begin. :flutter:

:flutter:

[caprimint]

Mods are hardly inactive either. One of Josy/Dezzy/Niamh are usually online tbf.

[Firewire]

All this because Trump is over :/

[Rob!]

I've received more infractions off Dezzy than any other mod and frankly I think I'm a delight :hmph:

[Cherie]

LT rousing the dead :cheer2: on Halloween :cheer2:

[Crimson Dynamo]

I'd back this campaign

:clap1:

its got to be better than the ~shambles~

[Marsh.]

Not you planting the seed

But not where I'd like to plant it. :fan:

[Pete.]

All this because Trump is over :/
Dezzy singing Rise when Hillary wins

http://i.imgur.com/bqbes7t.gif

[Benjamin]

This is why you should be a mod again bc of your timezone difference :fist:

I did offer a while back but never heard back :laugh:

(I don't think they trust me as I went on a troll banning spree lol)

[Crimson Dynamo]

I've received more infractions off Dezzy than any other mod and frankly I think I'm a delight :hmph:

so has

kirk
johnny
cherie
me
biton

and anyone she gets exposed by

welcome to the reality

[Rob!]

But not where I'd like to plant it. :fan:

This is no time for your filth

[Cal.]

I did offer a while back but never heard back :laugh:

(I don't think they trust me as I went on a troll banning spree lol)

I'll be leaving the site if you get back into powerhttp://cdn.thisisbigbrother.com/customavatars/avatar91218_164.gif

[Crimson Dynamo]

ben would be a top mod and i would support his membership

:clap1:

[caprimint]

I did offer a while back but never heard back :laugh:

(I don't think they trust me as I went on a troll banning spree lol)
Here for your power hungry ways and getting threads dedicated to you :dazzler:

[Maru]

LT rousing the dead :cheer2: on Halloween :cheer2:

Just in time for the trick or treaters in the US :laugh:... setting the mood

[Daniel-X]

Let's stop slandering Dezzy! A bloody icon he is.

[Mokka]

I did offer a while back but never heard back :laugh:

(I don't think they trust me as I went on a troll banning spree lol)

This site just needs you back period

Your lighthearted humour has been missed :sad:

[Benjamin]

I'll be leaving the site if you get back into powerhttp://cdn.thisisbigbrother.com/customavatars/avatar91218_164.gif

oh so no loss. :tongue:

[Babayaro.]

Wait how do you know which mod infracts you? I thought it just says TiBB staff or something

[Firewire]

You can sometimes tell by the comment

[Daniel-X]

*puts her shades back on, seals her purse up, collects her cigarettes and tampons, throwing them into her messy Chanel clutch and leaves thread*

[UserSince2005]

I feel bullied by Dezzy tbf

[Crimson Dynamo]

Wait how do you know which mod infracts you? I thought it just says TiBB staff or something

oh marc

the delusion is real

[Crimson Dynamo]

I feel bullied by Dezzy tbf

the club welcomes you

[Daniel-X]

Will you all **** about Dezzy, you're saying you feel bullied by him but are slandering him in his absence.

[Firewire]

oh marc

the delusion is real

Don't you dare call him delusional

[Firewire]

I feel bullied by Dezzy tbf

Did he laugh at your nudes as well?

[Babayaro.]

oh marc

the delusion is real

No i'm being serious lmao. I can never tell who's gave me an infraction anyway :shrug:

[Babayaro.]

*puts her shades back on, seals her purse up, collects her cigarettes and tampons, throwing them into her messy Chanel clutch and leaves thread*

Ammi when she left?

[Crimson Dynamo]

No i'm being serious lmao. I can never tell who's gave me an infraction anyway :shrug:

that will be neem, she hates your bones

[Mokka]

You can sometimes tell by the comment

There are some that want to get a jab in rather then just do the job and give the infraction

[Crimson Dynamo]

Don't you dare call him delusional

mr delusional?

[Ross.]

This is embarrassing

[Firewire]

There are some that want to get a jab in rather then just do the job and give the infraction

"Pack it in" is normally Josy

[joeysteele]

My only input to this is that I do not think any mod has ever really used their status to belittle any other members.
There may have been times and particularly when I first joined here and for a couple of years that less was tolerated as to disruptive behaviour.

Again even at those times, any infractions I would say or bans were justified from the action of the disruptive member, not the mods.
I think this thread which is being used a a vehicle to get at Dezzy is wrong,even moreso in his absence,that is just my view, if people have issues with mods or other members take it to a mod, there are plenty of them and I have always found they do listen.

Of course if no member did anything to get into bother for in the first place, then there would be no need for infractions or even bans of any duration.

[Ross.]

I love you Dezzy and that's all that matters x

[Firewire]

I also love Dezzy

[Cherie]

This is what happens when Josy is busy drinking and Christmas shopping

[Ross.]

My only input to this is that I do not think any mod has ever really used their status to belittle any other members.
There may have been times and particularly when I first joined here and for a couple of years that less was tolerated as to disruptive behaviour.

Again even at those times, any infractions I would say or bans were justified from the action of the disruptive member, not the mods.
I think this thread which is being used a a vehicle to get at Dezzy is wrong,even moreso in his absence,that is just my view, if people have issues with mods or other members take it to a mod, there are plenty of them and I have always found they do listen.

Of course if no member did anything to get into bother for in the first place, then there would be no need for infractions or even bans of any duration.

:clap2:

Excellently put as always Joey

[Daniel-X]

Ammi when she left?

Are you trying to call me a sheep? *her mascara begins to run*

[Cherie]

I also love Dezzy


You love everyone with a penis though

[Firewire]

This is what happens when Josy is busy drinking and Christmas shopping

Gotta get em deals

[Firewire]

You love everyone with a penis though

I am not Vanessa

[Withano]

Can we just ban LT plz

.

[Cherie]

I am not Vanessa

:laugh: couldn't resist sorry :sad:

[Ross.]

You love everyone with a penis though

Did you mean to quote Marsh

[Firewire]

:laugh: couldn't resist sorry :sad:

I can't believe you just exposed me like that

[caprimint]

Did you mean to quote Marsh
*or insert 99% of members on this site*

[UserSince2005]

Did he laugh at your nudes as well?

aint nobody ever laughed over my nudes. **** load of cum though.

[UserSince2005]

you wish you could have a dick like mine..... inside you. you scruffy ****ing faggy bitch.

[LukeB]

How about a proposal that all trolls are banned forever

this will be a good idea :)

[James]

I'll look into it all. I guess.

[Josy]

Commenting on this now because I was offline last night (and no Cherie not shopping or drinking I've been unwell :fist:)

This thread is doing exactly what the title describes and being used to target and post attempts to belittle Dezzy, had this been aimed at any other member there would have been infractions given out for the comments/insults but no because Dezzy has moderator status some of you seem to think he's fair game for abuse, this is very childish behaviour when like actual adults you should be taking any problems you feel you have to a mod or admin in private and if they feel something needs to be dealt with it will be.

Yes moderators/admin have opinions on forum topics too but none of that is mixed with any moderating that takes place in the threads they are separate entities, in fact a few mods tend to not moderate during discussions they are taking part in and allow another mod to do it instead unless of course the thread is getting out of control/no other mod is available.

To the members continually saying there's no mods active etc, this is not true. Just because you don't see mods posting continuously does not mean they aren't around.

And lastly, it's been noticed more lately that some members have slipped back into 'trolling' ways, some that have been given chances in the past and some that have already been warned lately about this, but this will be dealt with.