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Denver
02-11-2016, 02:43 PM
Basically a friend of mine has gone to meet a girl who i believe is lying about her age as infact underage what should i do? also she told my friend that she been sleeping with an 14 year old while she is 18 but then claimed it was a joke and didnt happen im really not sure what to do?

Cherie
02-11-2016, 02:55 PM
All you can do is tell him you have concerns about her actual age and to be careful, after that it's up to him really

Denver
02-11-2016, 03:10 PM
All you can do is tell him you have concerns about her actual age and to be careful, after that it's up to him really

i have but he says she isnt

Daniel-X
02-11-2016, 03:20 PM
Try and do some snooping on her social media profiles, she's bound to have a picture in her uniform or something or have like 'happy ___ birthday' if she is underage Adam. Then just send him screenshots if you find out she is.

Denver
02-11-2016, 03:30 PM
Try and do some snooping on her social media profiles, she's bound to have a picture in her uniform or something or have like 'happy ___ birthday' if she is underage Adam. Then just send him screenshots if you find out she is.

tried that and its locked as we are not freinds but from the pic i seen she looks 13

Cherie
02-11-2016, 03:32 PM
i have but he says she isnt

Boys in lust are sometimes blind, that said its not really your issue now, you have told him, he's not having it, so you guys will probably fall out if you persist, just ready yourself to visit him in prison.

caprimint
02-11-2016, 03:38 PM
All you can do is tell him your opinion/thoughts or anything you know. Obviously if you have no factual information to prove anything then he's most likely not gonna listen anyway and follow his heart not his head.

I'm assuming you know her full name, try and do a bit of research on her if possible.

just ready yourself to visit him in prison.
:joker:

Jamie89
02-11-2016, 03:39 PM
All you can do is tell him you have concerns about her actual age and to be careful, after that it's up to him really

Yeah this, I can't think of anything else you could do tbh.

Denver
02-11-2016, 03:40 PM
Boys in lust are sometimes blind, that said its not really your issue now, you have told him, he's not having it, so you guys will probably fall out if you persist, just ready yourself to visit him in prison.

if he does go ahead and she i underage thats our friendship done

Ammi
02-11-2016, 03:44 PM
All you can do is tell him you have concerns about her actual age and to be careful, after that it's up to him really

Boys in lust are sometimes blind, that said its not really your issue now, you have told him, he's not having it, so you guys will probably fall out if you persist, just ready yourself to visit him in prison.

..this really, you've told him your concerns Adam and that is being a friend to him but we can't control the actions of our friends even with something like this...if he really likes her a lot then anything negative you say may also only make you the 'bad guy' so you have to be careful there as well in that you could just push him away...he knows your concerns now and it's just hoping that he'll heed them and be careful to be certain of her age...

Cherie
02-11-2016, 03:45 PM
if he does go ahead and she i underage thats our friendship done

Fair enough

Denver
02-11-2016, 03:46 PM
ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any and it doesnt matter to him

Ramsay
02-11-2016, 03:47 PM
ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any any it doesnt matter to him

Hahaha RUN FAR AWAY
I mean it could just be the fact that she might look at a bit young and still be legal i know a few girls like that, it happens but no ID at all? dodgy.

Daniel-X
02-11-2016, 03:50 PM
She obviously has a passport the lying cow

Cherie
02-11-2016, 03:53 PM
ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any and it doesnt matter to him

She would have a school id if in sixth form or college :suspect:

UserSince2005
02-11-2016, 03:55 PM
14 years old is old enough to be able to decide you want dick afaic. ask the germans.

Denver
02-11-2016, 03:59 PM
im going to ask him later if they did anything then if they have i may have to consider reporting

Alf
02-11-2016, 04:01 PM
Jesus, this threads getting deep and serious.

Denver
02-11-2016, 04:03 PM
Jesus, this threads getting deep and serious.

its a serious issue that im seeking genuine advice on if you dont like it log off

MTVN
02-11-2016, 04:07 PM
You're going to try and get your friend arrested for doing 'something' with someone who may or may not be underage and who your friend doesn't know whether she is or not?

Babayaro.
02-11-2016, 04:09 PM
A mess if Adam reports and she's actually 18

Ramsay
02-11-2016, 04:09 PM
Reporting him is a bit much. It's not like she said 'i'm 14' and he carried on anyway? Sounds like he genuinely believe's she's legal.

Babayaro.
02-11-2016, 04:09 PM
Him to get arrested for wasting police time?

Denver
02-11-2016, 04:10 PM
You're going to try and get your friend arrested for doing 'something' with someone who may or may not be underage and who your friend doesn't know whether she is or not?

well its so ****ing dodgy and id rather do the right thing

Denver
02-11-2016, 04:10 PM
tbh id make my mum

caprimint
02-11-2016, 04:42 PM
im going to ask him later if they did anything then if they have i may have to consider reporting
:umm2: Why would you report your friend? He's technically not doing anything wrong if she's telling him she's 18. If it's out of pride or something that's not cool.

caprimint
02-11-2016, 04:43 PM
A mess if Adam reports and she's actually 18
Him to get arrested for wasting police time?
:joker:

Denver
02-11-2016, 04:49 PM
what if i dont though

Crimson Dynamo
02-11-2016, 04:53 PM
Ask the girls father what age she is

This will bring the item to solution

Denver
02-11-2016, 04:55 PM
Ask the girls father what age she is

This will bring the item to solution

i dnt know him

caprimint
02-11-2016, 04:55 PM
what if i dont though
What if you don't report him? Well since he's your friend it's not really even something you should be considering imo. It's up to him at the end of the day to make his own mistakes, it's not really any of your business.

Cherie
02-11-2016, 04:55 PM
14 years old is old enough to be able to decide you want dick afaic. ask the germans.

You might ask Adam Johnson about that :laugh:

Cherie
02-11-2016, 04:57 PM
im going to ask him later if they did anything then if they have i may have to consider reporting


D:

Denver
02-11-2016, 05:01 PM
What if you don't report him? Well since he's your friend it's not really even something you should be considering imo. It's up to him at the end of the day to make his own mistakes, it's not really any of your business.

either way its lose lose in my situation

kirklancaster
02-11-2016, 05:10 PM
You're going to try and get your friend arrested for doing 'something' with someone who may or may not be underage and who your friend doesn't know whether she is or not?

:laugh::laugh::laugh:

Denver
02-11-2016, 05:15 PM
maybe i shouldnt report unless i have accurate eviedence

Jordan.
02-11-2016, 06:44 PM
You sound jealous, are you in love with him?

Denver
02-11-2016, 06:47 PM
You sound jealous, are you in love with him?

No thank you he not even good looking and is so thick plus i have a relationship

Cherie
02-11-2016, 06:54 PM
maybe i shouldnt report unless i have accurate eviedence


If you get the evidence, then you show it to him

Ithinkiloveyoutoo
02-11-2016, 07:00 PM
He needs to investigate. There's only so much you can do since you're not the one dating her otherwise you're just a nosy friend.

Babayaro.
02-11-2016, 07:03 PM
No thank you he not even good looking and is so thick plus i have a relationship

#Friendshipgoals

caprimint
02-11-2016, 07:14 PM
No thank you he not even good looking and is so thick plus i have a relationship
Sounds like an awesome friendship you have there.

:omgno:

Denver
02-11-2016, 08:03 PM
Sounds like an awesome friendship you have there.

:omgno:

Friendships are not best on looks and how brainy they are

Crimson Dynamo
02-11-2016, 08:06 PM
Someone send this thread to Hollyoaks for a Christmas ratings smash

Fetch The Bolt Cutters
02-11-2016, 08:12 PM
Someone send this thread to Hollyoaks for a Christmas ratings smash

omg :joker:

caprimint
02-11-2016, 08:30 PM
Friendships are not best on looks and how brainy they are
Obviously but if I heard a friend speaking about me like that (or considering reporting me) they would certainly not be a friend anymore.

Someone send this thread to Hollyoaks for a Christmas ratings smash
:laugh2:

Firewire
02-11-2016, 08:33 PM
Why are people believing this ****e

Ashley.
02-11-2016, 08:37 PM
If she is underage, you can do what you will with the evidence. By the sounds of it though, there's clearly some underlying issues that you have with this guy and you're going to fall flat on your face attempting to get him into a lot of trouble if he's innocent.

Denver
02-11-2016, 08:46 PM
Why are people believing this ****e

actually true so run along and play with your barbie dolls

Denver
02-11-2016, 08:47 PM
If she is underage, you can do what you will with the evidence. By the sounds of it though, there's clearly some underlying issues that you have with this guy and you're going to fall flat on your face attempting to get him into a lot of trouble if he's innocent.

ive decided to keep quiet for now anyway because im a good freind

T*
02-11-2016, 08:54 PM
messy

Josy
02-11-2016, 09:06 PM
Tell his maw if that doesn't work your next stop is the po po

Denver
02-11-2016, 09:21 PM
Tell his maw if that doesn't work your next stop is the po po

i actually love his mum she is a fantastic wench

Babayaro.
02-11-2016, 09:46 PM
actually true so run along and play with your barbie dolls

Well that's him scalped.

Firewire
02-11-2016, 09:47 PM
:(

caprimint
02-11-2016, 10:04 PM
This is the only (Ken)doll Jonathan wants to play with

http://imgur.com/4IUZoLZ.png

Fetch The Bolt Cutters
02-11-2016, 10:40 PM
Well that's him scalped.

:joker::joker::joker:

T*
02-11-2016, 10:44 PM
http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20161102/dd9b96bfd481333e23a47f47ce6a6818.jpg
Jonathan??

Firewire
02-11-2016, 10:45 PM
Leave

Firewire
02-11-2016, 10:46 PM
I just realised this is because of my avi

Which is Beyoncé by the way

Fetch The Bolt Cutters
02-11-2016, 10:48 PM
i thought it was nicole scherzinger

Vicky.
03-11-2016, 09:49 AM
ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any and it doesnt matter to him

Hes dodgy. Anyone who wouldn't care about this is ****ing dodgy

thesheriff443
03-11-2016, 10:03 AM
If you were my so called mate and I found out you have be talking about me on a big brother forum, I would put you in a and e.

Crimson Dynamo
03-11-2016, 10:06 AM
If you were my so called mate and I found out you have be talking about me on a big brother forum, I would put you in a and e.

ayoue

:shrug:

thesheriff443
03-11-2016, 10:11 AM
ayoue

:shrug:

Morning

Daniel-X
03-11-2016, 10:44 AM
Him to get arrested for wasting police time?

Dddd I don't know why but this made me scream.

Cherie
03-11-2016, 11:12 AM
If you were my so called mate and I found out you have be talking about me on a big brother forum, I would put you in a and e.

:worry: the Sheriff taking no prisoners :laugh:

thesheriff443
03-11-2016, 11:17 AM
:worry: the Sheriff taking no prisoners :laugh:

You know that, saying his mate is thick and not good looking also suggesting he is going to have under age sex.

jennyjuniper
10-11-2016, 07:15 AM
ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any and it doesnt matter to him

Tell him it SHOULD matter, because if their relationship goes wrong and she accuses him of rape (which unfortunately seems to be happening more and more often nowadays) AND she turns out to be underage, your friend could find himself on the sex offenders registry, which will ruin his job prospects and future relationships.