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Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 02:58 PM
Greg Rutherford's partner hits out after Strictly viewers criticise her toddler's outfit


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Susie Verrill faced abuse over the way she dressed her son Milo, 2
Tot was seen supporting dad Greg Rutherford on Saturday's Strictly show
Some viewers suggest that Verrill's clothes choice for Milo were too 'girly'
Journalist Verrill has now hit back at critics in a scathing blog post


The partner of Strictly Come Dancing star Greg Rutherford has issued a strongly-worded defence of her son Milo's clothes, after viewers of the show said the little boy 'looked like a girl'.

Toddler Milo, two, appeared on Saturday night's show during a training session with Olympic long jumper dad Greg and his dance partner Natalie Lowe.

Some viewers suggested that the toddler was 'dressed in girly clothes', a charge which Milo's mother, journalist Susie Verrill, has since responded to via a furious blog on her personal website.

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However, some viewers watching the VT suggested that Milo's hair, tied up in a top-knot, and his colourful outfit were 'girly'.

One critics of the little chap's outfit, which included a red top with cacti on it, black and white patterned leggings and blue shows with a flower print, suggested that wearing the clothes might 'mess with his head.'

Another suggested that perhaps Verrill 'had wanted a daughter'.


Her response: Of the colour choices for Milo's clothing, Verrill wrote: 'I don’t think boys should stick to blue, black, trucks, robots, footballs and monsters.

'Of course, we love all that stuff, but so will any future daughter of ours (if we happen to have one). Milo does wear blue, he just didn’t happen to today.'

Finally, the journalist said the comments hadn't bothered her and she was happy and confident about the way the couple dress their son, saying: 'I can gladly confirm I dress my son in "girl clothes."'

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3915952/I-m-glad-say-dress-son-girls-clothes-Greg-Rutherford-s-partner-hits-Strictly-viewers-criticise-child-s-outfit.html
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MR C SENSE, WITNEY, United Kingdom, 3 hours ago

Like many viewers I believed the child was a girl.

(same)


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Firewire
08-11-2016, 03:00 PM
Good for them :clap1:

Black Dagger
08-11-2016, 03:02 PM
What a fantastic family :clap1:

Niamh.
08-11-2016, 03:04 PM
They look like fairly gender neutral clothes to me :shrug:

Mokka
08-11-2016, 03:04 PM
Yep! She is in the right. Clothes are clothes... gender specific clothes are a societal construct... and who cares if the kid looks like a boy or a girl :shrug:

Some people have to much time on their hands to judge others.

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 03:08 PM
The reason why people dress babies in pink and blue is so that people do not say "oh what a beautiful girl" when its a boy what with babies looking like er babies

Mind you that child looks like a girl to me if I did not know, he needs to get a haircut and get rid of that silly top knot and maybe some tops with say Dinosaurs or a football top?

Firewire
08-11-2016, 03:09 PM
The reason why people dress babies in pink and blue is so that people do not say "oh what a beautiful girl" when its a boy what with babies looking like er babies

Mind you that child looks like a girl to me if I did not know, he needs to get a haircut and get rid of that silly top knot and maybe some tops with say Dinosaurs or a football top?

Does it matter?

I'm sure if someone misgendered him they would simply correct them, I don't see it as a problem.

Niamh.
08-11-2016, 03:10 PM
Does it matter?

I'm sure if someone misgendered him they would simply correct them, I don't see it as a problem.

What would happen if you dressed your baby in green though, it would be chaos I tell you, CHAOS!! :o

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 03:13 PM
What would happen if you dressed your baby in green though, it would be chaos I tell you, CHAOS!! :o

I never wore any green growing up, not a single item what with it being a Celtic colour

factoid

Firewire
08-11-2016, 03:14 PM
What would happen if you dressed your baby in green though, it would be chaos I tell you, CHAOS!! :o

:omgno:

Mokka
08-11-2016, 03:15 PM
What would happen if you dressed your baby in green though, it would be chaos I tell you, CHAOS!! :o

:laugh:

My daughter went about town in green and brown corduroy...and yellow and orange tops...

Today she is an honour roll student, thoughtful, and a pleasure to be around

I can't say i did anything wrong when i set aside the dozens of pink items people gave me in baby showers.

kirklancaster
08-11-2016, 03:22 PM
WHY does it matter? And what has it got to do with ANYONE other than the OBVIOUSLY loving and doting parents?

Those commenting adversely, online or wherever, would be better off concerning themselves with the 10's of thousands of battered, abused and neglected children that their dogs of parents are responsible for in this country.

Jessica.
08-11-2016, 03:23 PM
I think he looks like a happy little boy. His clothes look stylish and comfy, I wouldn't object to dressing a kid like that myself. Regarding the hair, maybe they're trying to keep it out of his eyes with the little bun? Haircuts can be stressful for little kids anyway. :shrug:

Niamh.
08-11-2016, 03:24 PM
WHY does it matter? And what has it got to do with ANYONE other than the OBVIOUSLY loving and doting parents?

Those commenting adversely, online or wherever, would be better off concerning themselves with the 10's of thousands of battered, abused and neglected children that their dogs of parents are responsible for in this country.

Exactly.

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 03:28 PM
WHY does it matter? And what has it got to do with ANYONE other than the OBVIOUSLY loving and doting parents?

Those commenting adversely, online or wherever, would be better off concerning themselves with the 10's of thousands of battered, abused and neglected children that their dogs of parents are responsible for in this country.

they can do both


The article is about people watching Strictly and then commenting as people do, nowadays rather than just shout at the tv people tweet and post on forums and facebook and its journalistic gold for newspapers


hence the article

Niamh.
08-11-2016, 03:30 PM
they can do both


The article is about people watching Strictly and then commenting as people do, nowadays rather than just shout at the tv people tweet and post on forums and facebook and its journalistic gold for newspapers


hence the article

You have to wonder what sort of an idiot has a pop at a parent for not dressing their 2 year old manly enough though

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 03:35 PM
You have to wonder what sort of an idiot has a pop at a parent for not dressing their 2 year old manly enough though

We are still a very traditional nation (hence the reason Strictly is so popular, and Bake off)

Niamh.
08-11-2016, 03:37 PM
We are still a very traditional nation (hence the reason Strictly is so popular, and Bake off)

Some traditions are ridiculous though

arista
08-11-2016, 03:40 PM
They look like fairly gender neutral clothes to me :shrug:


Yes thats not for this World

Firewire
08-11-2016, 03:41 PM
Yes thats not for this World

Yes it is

Niamh.
08-11-2016, 03:43 PM
Yes thats not for this World

?

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 03:46 PM
this is what a wee laddie should be looking like

https://scotweb-objects.com/images/thumbnailer/225x364/items/sr_swhdr_boysargylloutfi.jpg


:clap1:

Mokka
08-11-2016, 03:47 PM
this is what a wee laddie should be looking like

https://scotweb-objects.com/images/thumbnailer/225x364/items/sr_swhdr_boysargylloutfi.jpg


:clap1:

In a skirt... yes

Niamh.
08-11-2016, 03:47 PM
this is what a wee laddie should be looking like

https://scotweb-objects.com/images/thumbnailer/225x364/items/sr_swhdr_boysargylloutfi.jpg


:clap1:

Dressing a boy in a skirt LT? Shocking

Firewire
08-11-2016, 03:47 PM
Dressing a boy in a skirt LT? Shocking

A BLUE skirt

Niamh.
08-11-2016, 03:48 PM
A BLUE skirt

LT was spotted last week.......

http://www.rcheliaddict.co.uk/gallery/data/500/medium/P4260004.jpg

Firewire
08-11-2016, 03:49 PM
LT was spotted last week.......

http://www.rcheliaddict.co.uk/gallery/data/500/medium/P4260004.jpg

:laugh2:

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 03:50 PM
:fist:

I would never wear pink

Denver
08-11-2016, 03:50 PM
LT does come across as one of those Cross Dressers

kirklancaster
08-11-2016, 04:22 PM
In a skirt... yes

:laugh::laugh::laugh:

Northern Monkey
08-11-2016, 04:33 PM
Well being honest.I wouldn't dress my boys like that and the kid does look like a girl.There's no denying it.

However he is only young and i don't think it would affect him later in life.I used to walk around in brown cords:laugh:

People who go on social media to attack people for how they dress their kid need to get a life though.

Shaun
08-11-2016, 04:35 PM
I generally don't bother criticising toddlers. That's all that needs to be learned from this.

Withano
08-11-2016, 04:42 PM
They look like fairly gender neutral clothes to me :shrug:

Same

Withano
08-11-2016, 04:44 PM
WHY does it matter? And what has it got to do with ANYONE other than the OBVIOUSLY loving and doting parents?

.

Babayaro.
08-11-2016, 05:00 PM
this is what a wee laddie should be looking like

https://scotweb-objects.com/images/thumbnailer/225x364/items/sr_swhdr_boysargylloutfi.jpg


:clap1:

Welp

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 05:05 PM
Welp

Marc you must have been dressed in the kilt as a wee boy?

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 05:06 PM
I generally don't bother criticising toddlers. That's all that needs to be learned from this.

No they are having a pop at the mum for his appearance (and tbh it may have been like a few tweets out of millions but that is modern journalism for you)

Babayaro.
08-11-2016, 05:07 PM
Marc you must have been dressed in the kilt as a wee boy?

At weddings, yes. Not to go to the park and that

Crimson Dynamo
08-11-2016, 05:08 PM
At weddings, yes. Not to go to the park and that

There are plenty folk that wander about my town in the kilt, mainly old mannies but we have a few businesses that the staff all wear kilts so you often see men in kilts around these parts

jaxie
08-11-2016, 06:02 PM
My sister in law was the same, wouldn't cut her son's brunette curls until he went to school. He turned out all right though, he still has long hair! People will rag anything on social media. I'll guarantee his mum won't be styling him at 15.

jaxie
08-11-2016, 06:09 PM
There are plenty folk that wander about my town in the kilt, mainly old mannies but we have a few businesses that the staff all wear kilts so you often see men in kilts around these parts

My son wanted to get a kilt for his job as he works during events and weddings but he wasn't sure if it was bad etiquette to wear one as it was my great grandmother who was a Ferguson so a few generations back.

Livia
09-11-2016, 12:02 PM
If you're going to call your child Milo, all bets are off.

Vicky.
09-11-2016, 12:44 PM
I hate this 'girls clothes' and 'boys clothes' malarky tbh. Good on them. More parents who allow their kid to wear what they like and play with what they like, the less kids grow up wanting to be sterylised medical patients their whole life.

Crimson Dynamo
09-11-2016, 12:46 PM
My son wanted to get a kilt for his job as he works during events and weddings but he wasn't sure if it was bad etiquette to wear one as it was my great grandmother who was a Ferguson so a few generations back.

I can confirm that there are no Kilt Police and you can wear what you like

I wore Rangers tartan when I got married

:hee:

Shaun
09-11-2016, 01:57 PM
If you're going to call your child Milo, all bets are off.

If I pay you in the form of cookies and muffins, could you personally hunt down and murder Milo Yiannopoulos?

Crimson Dynamo
09-11-2016, 02:09 PM
If I pay you in the form of cookies and muffins, could you personally hunt down and murder Milo Yiannopoulos?

I am pretty sure (not 100%) that ordering a Mossad hit is against forum rules?

If not can Livia pm me

Livia
09-11-2016, 02:36 PM
If I pay you in the form of cookies and muffins, could you personally hunt down and murder Milo Yiannopoulos?

No payment needed, Shauny, I would be willing to double-tap him, pro bono.



I am pretty sure (not 100%) that ordering a Mossad hit is against forum rules?

If not can Livia pm me

Is your 'kill' list as long as mine, I wonder...?

kirklancaster
09-11-2016, 03:16 PM
My son wanted to get a kilt for his job as he works during events and weddings but he wasn't sure if it was bad etiquette to wear one as it was my great grandmother who was a Ferguson so a few generations back.

I honestly do not think that there are many more resplendent sights than a Scotsman in full traditional regalia - kilt, sporran et al.