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Ronald.
20-01-2017, 06:32 AM
Hello forum

Ronald here. It's my wife's birthday next week and I haven't the foggiest of what to get her. We're celebrating 40 years of marriage this year. Hard to think of ideas after such a time. We met on a fishing trip in Dungeness back in the 70s so I was thinking of getting her a fishing rod with her name printed on it. She likes fishing but hasn't been in over twenty years so I'm unsure if she would like it.

Any one on the forum have any other ideas? She also likes pottery, musicals and antiques.

Any ideas would be appreciated. R.

Alf
20-01-2017, 07:06 AM
What's our budget?

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 07:10 AM
In know that a lot of the tibb women would like a new fishing rod, lets see what they come up with?

Ronald.
20-01-2017, 07:19 AM
What's our budget?

The less I spend the better.

Willing to part with up to £50 for a gift for her.

R.

Cherie
20-01-2017, 07:26 AM
Free tickets to the BB final seeing as you are a fan

Alf
20-01-2017, 07:50 AM
So she likes fishing, Musicals, Pottery and antiques?

How about a 'Big mouth Billy Bass'?

https://i0.wp.com/newscientist.nl/assets/FISH.gif?ssl=1

It's a fish, it's musical, it could now possibly be considered antique. The only thing missing is pottery, maybe you could put it on a pot background?

Ronald.
20-01-2017, 09:32 AM
Those fish take me back a few years. My brother had one and his children used to hate it. He had to take it down off the wall in the end because it scared the children. Dont think my other half would appreciate a gift like this. I think I might go with fishing rod idea actually. I hope she will like it. R.

MTVN
20-01-2017, 09:40 AM
At least if she doesn't like it you've got a nice new rod to use yourself

Ronald.
20-01-2017, 09:42 AM
That's true but if I get it in engraved with "Margaret" I must admit I'd feel a little silly getting it out.
R.

Babayaro.
20-01-2017, 10:07 AM
Any upcoming musicals she would be up for seeing??

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 10:44 AM
I like to buy art for people as its something that they tend not to buy for themselves and is a great talking piece. How about something like this its available from Amazon

https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/61zT58QNCaL._SL1500_.jpghttps://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/31QLb7vr7KL.jpg

At £27.99 it comes in comfortably on budget?

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Garfunkel-Art-Pat-Butcher-Seductress/dp/B00F4ZENO0/ref=pd_sbs_201_4?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=MQ6ZD32SHY9HTQPG4GN2

Vicky.
20-01-2017, 11:05 AM
I am horrific with presents, I always get something thats really crap, or that I think has a huge meaning but the recipient just doesn't get it at all :laugh:

Because of this, I tend to favour trips and such rather than gifts. Spa breaks, short holidays etc. You might be able to get a spa break for 50 quid tbh...I'm going with my mother on Monday and it was only 40pp including treatments, nighttime meal, breakfast and an overnight stay and a bottle of prosecco (never tried the stuff before but I hear its nice :laugh: )

But of course not all women are into spa stuff and you would really have to go with her too as its a present...and a lot of men hate spas and anything 'girly'.

Vicky.
20-01-2017, 11:07 AM
I like to buy art for people as its something that they tend not to buy for themselves and is a great talking piece. How about something like this its available from Amazon

https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/61zT58QNCaL._SL1500_.jpghttps://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/31QLb7vr7KL.jpg

At £27.99 it comes in comfortably on budget?

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Garfunkel-Art-Pat-Butcher-Seductress/dp/B00F4ZENO0/ref=pd_sbs_201_4?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=MQ6ZD32SHY9HTQPG4GN2

The reviews on that are tempting me to buy one for myself tbh :D

Niamh.
20-01-2017, 11:08 AM
I am horrific with present, I always get something thats really crap, or that I think has a huge meaning but the recipient just doesn't get it at all :laugh:

Because of this, I tend to favour trips and such rather than gifts. Spa breaks, short holidays etc. You might be able to get a spa break for 50 quid tbh...I'm going with my mother on Monday and it was only 40pp including treatments and an overnight stay and a bottle of prosecco (never tried the stuff before but I hear its nice :laugh: )

But of course not all women are into spa stuff and you would really have to go with her too as its a present...and a lot of men hate spas and anything 'girly'.

I agree with this, me and Gav always get eachother weekends away for presents because we both really enjoy it. And yes to Prosecco, strawberries and a bath once you're there :hee:

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 11:21 AM
I have no idea why the surprise thing exists. Ask what they want and buy it, if they cant think of anything dont get anything.

Niamh.
20-01-2017, 11:23 AM
I have no idea why the surprise thing exists. Ask what they want and buy it, if they cant think of anything dont get anything.

You say this but I bet you're all flowers and chocolates and love poetry behind closed doors with TL :fan:

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 11:30 AM
You say this but I bet you're all flowers and chocolates and love poetry behind closed doors with TL :fan:

http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/bcme1.gif

Ronald.
20-01-2017, 11:32 AM
Love the artwork! I think that would be more a present for me than for my wife!

The idea of a spa trip sounds good. I will get her two passes so she can invite her sister or one of her bingo friends. She will appreciate that more than a fishing rod i think.

Thank you for helping me think outside the box. I will research into spas now. R.

Niamh.
20-01-2017, 11:33 AM
http://www.reactiongifs.com/r/bcme1.gif

https://media.giphy.com/media/qgC7CpgMCoLK0/giphy.gif

Vicky.
20-01-2017, 11:36 AM
I have no idea why the surprise thing exists. Ask what they want and buy it, if they cant think of anything dont get anything.

The default answer to 'what do you want' is 'nothing' though. And trust me, getting that even when they have said they want that does not go down very well...

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 11:39 AM
oh god and valentines bloody day is around the corner

:rolleyes:

Ronald.
20-01-2017, 11:41 AM
We don't celebrate valentines day in the Rogers household. Mainly because it's my second eldest's daughter. birthday Would feel strange celebrating her birthday by making love to my wife. R.

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 11:46 AM
We don't celebrate valentines day in the Rogers household. Mainly because it's my second eldest's daughter. birthday Would feel strange celebrating her birthday by making love to my wife. R.

It is my ex wifes birthday and its a pain in the neck but at least it killed 2 birds with one stone. I think it should just be for under 30s

Niamh.
20-01-2017, 11:50 AM
It is my ex wifes birthday and its a pain in the neck but at least it killed 2 birds with one stone. I think it should just be for under 30s

:nono:

I like valentines day, it's an excuse to go out for a meal :love:

Ronald.
20-01-2017, 11:52 AM
More meals is the last thing that my wife needs! R.

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 11:55 AM
:nono:

I like valentines day, it's an excuse to go out for a meal :love:

bleugh

sitting next to other soppy couples, no thanks


I have never been out for a meal with the TL, unless McDonalds counts:think:

Niamh.
20-01-2017, 11:56 AM
bleugh

sitting next to other soppy couples, no thanks


I have never been out for a meal with the TL, unless McDonalds counts:think:

:o


Take her out LT :nono:

Marsh.
20-01-2017, 11:57 AM
Give ha a rod stud muffin.

Ronald.
20-01-2017, 12:01 PM
Give ha a rod stud muffin.

I'll give it to her for our wedding anniversary. It'll serve as a practical gift with a nostalgic nod to our first encounter. R.

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 12:02 PM
:o


Take her out LT :nono:

:nono:

She is in Cardiff today, I am taking her to me mams Sunday

Marsh.
20-01-2017, 12:06 PM
:nono:

She is in Cardiff today, I am taking her to me mams Sunday
I hope your mam grills her.

Ronald.
20-01-2017, 12:07 PM
:nono:

She is in Cardiff today, I am taking her to me mams Sunday

Hope she will enjoy Cardiff. I am from Cardiff Leather. R.

Babayaro.
20-01-2017, 12:08 PM
I hope your mam grills her.

I love cannibalism

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 12:09 PM
Hope she will enjoy Cardiff. I am from Cardiff Leather. R.

Welsh lad eh, I think our only other Welsh member is Cherie

Marsh.
20-01-2017, 12:11 PM
Welsh lad eh, I think our only other Welsh member is Cherie
Our very own Imogen and Glynn :love:

Babayaro.
20-01-2017, 12:12 PM
Welsh lad eh, I think our only other Welsh member is Cherie

Poor Raph

Babayaro.
20-01-2017, 12:12 PM
I think

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 12:18 PM
OH yes Raph the Cardiff Bluebird too how could I forget

jennyjuniper
20-01-2017, 12:23 PM
Hello forum

Ronald here. It's my wife's birthday next week and I haven't the foggiest of what to get her. We're celebrating 40 years of marriage this year. Hard to think of ideas after such a time. We met on a fishing trip in Dungeness back in the 70s so I was thinking of getting her a fishing rod with her name printed on it. She likes fishing but hasn't been in over twenty years so I'm unsure if she would like it.

Any one on the forum have any other ideas? She also likes pottery, musicals and antiques.

Any ideas would be appreciated. R.

I haven't enquired how much you have got to spend, but if money isn't too much of a problem and she likes musicals, how about tickets for a show in London or one of the provinces if London is too far to go and finish off with a night in a nice hotel. Don't go for the fishing rod, unless you know she would like to take up fishing again.

jennyjuniper
20-01-2017, 12:26 PM
The less I spend the better.

Willing to part with up to £50 for a gift for her.

R.

I should have read this before I started going on about tickets for musicals etc.,50 quid is not enough for that. Okay how about a dvd of a musical that she hasn't got, a box of good chocs and a bottle of wine and use the rest on flowers.:shrug:
But forget the fishing rod, engraved with her name or not.

jennyjuniper
20-01-2017, 12:27 PM
Any upcoming musicals she would be up for seeing??

Not if he's only willing to spend 50 quid?:shrug:

jennyjuniper
20-01-2017, 12:29 PM
I am horrific with presents, I always get something thats really crap, or that I think has a huge meaning but the recipient just doesn't get it at all :laugh:

Because of this, I tend to favour trips and such rather than gifts. Spa breaks, short holidays etc. You might be able to get a spa break for 50 quid tbh...I'm going with my mother on Monday and it was only 40pp including treatments, nighttime meal, breakfast and an overnight stay and a bottle of prosecco (never tried the stuff before but I hear its nice :laugh: )

But of course not all women are into spa stuff and you would really have to go with her too as its a present...and a lot of men hate spas and anything 'girly'.

That's good value Vicky.

Kazanne
20-01-2017, 12:31 PM
Hello forum

Ronald here. It's my wife's birthday next week and I haven't the foggiest of what to get her. We're celebrating 40 years of marriage this year. Hard to think of ideas after such a time. We met on a fishing trip in Dungeness back in the 70s so I was thinking of getting her a fishing rod with her name printed on it. She likes fishing but hasn't been in over twenty years so I'm unsure if she would like it.

Any one on the forum have any other ideas? She also likes pottery, musicals and antiques.

Any ideas would be appreciated. R.

What about a star ronaldrodgers, you can get a star named after her with the documents of authentication with it and a map of where it is,I had one off my husband a couple of years back,it's just a thought and something a bit different.:wavey:

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 12:34 PM
What about a star ronaldrodgers, you can get a star named after her with the documents of authentication with it and a map of where it is,I had one off my husband a couple of years back,it's just a thought and something a bit different.:wavey:

I bought this for ex-mrs lt when we were first married and named it in her maiden name as she was about to lose it. The children were always fascinated by it.

:flutter:

Niamh.
20-01-2017, 12:49 PM
I bought this for ex-mrs lt when we were first married and named it in her maiden name as she was about to lose it. The children were always fascinated by it.

:flutter:

ah look, I knew you were a bit of a romantic after all LT :hee:

Crimson Dynamo
20-01-2017, 12:53 PM
ah look, I knew you were a bit of a romantic after all LT :hee:

:oh: and look where it got me

waterhog
22-01-2017, 07:31 PM
Hello forum

Ronald here. It's my wife's birthday next week and I haven't the foggiest of what to get her. We're celebrating 40 years of marriage this year. Hard to think of ideas after such a time. We met on a fishing trip in Dungeness back in the 70s so I was thinking of getting her a fishing rod with her name printed on it. She likes fishing but hasn't been in over twenty years so I'm unsure if she would like it.

Any one on the forum have any other ideas? She also likes pottery, musicals and antiques.

Any ideas would be appreciated. R.


I personally would get my wife what ever she wanted. there is no limit.


I just need her to reveal herself to me :joker:

Ronald.
22-01-2017, 07:34 PM
It's her birthday tomorrow. I have bought two spa tickets for her and her sister. IT will be a surprise. R.

Will.
22-01-2017, 07:34 PM
dildo

Ronald.
22-01-2017, 08:05 PM
dildo

William...

Marsh.
22-01-2017, 08:29 PM
William...
I strongly advise you don't give her William.

Will.
22-01-2017, 08:35 PM
Roger to adopt me?

Ronald.
22-01-2017, 08:37 PM
Roger to adopt me?

How old are you ? My wife always wanted a boy. R.

Will.
22-01-2017, 08:38 PM
How old are you ? My wife always wanted a boy. R.

17 and a half Ronald.

Ronald.
22-01-2017, 08:41 PM
17 and a half Ronald.

Older than my youngest . Younger than my eldest. R.

Will.
22-01-2017, 08:45 PM
Older than my youngest . Younger than my eldest. R.

How nice.

thesheriff443
22-01-2017, 09:45 PM
:o


Take her out LT :nono:

It won't be long before someone else is taking her out Niamh
Lt is no ladies man

Ronald.
23-01-2017, 03:47 PM
Margaret was very happy with the spa tickets. She was surprised as it is not something I would normally give her. She asked where I got the idea from but my lips were sealed. Thanks forum. R.