Tamara Ecclestone Rutland Breastfeeds her 3 year old proudly : GMBHD itv

[arista]

The Fit Daughter of old Bernie
At 7:38AM
she had a Live debate on GMBHD itv


Other Parents
said at 3 years old
its a bit late to go public on Instagram.

Is it fair when the girl is older?


Tamara is Sitting Firm
Breast Stuck Out and feeding
in perfect lighted Photos

[user104658]

There's nothing wrong with extended breastfeeding but I'd suspect she has intentions beyond EBF awareness with the instagram angle.

[arista]

There's nothing wrong with extended breastfeeding but I'd suspect she has intentions beyond EBF awareness with the instagram angle.


Yes TS
the photos are "Shocking" Sexy Like
due to Pro Lighting.

[ebandit]

....hardly a 'story'...definitely not a 'new story'.................as always it's

personal choice.................

Mark L

[arista]

....hardly a 'story'...definitely not a 'new story'.................as always it's

personal choice.................

Mark L


Yes But whats her Angle
is she getting additional private funding
that is hard to find out.


She is Very Cocky

http://i3.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article6349150.ece/ALTERNATES/s615/Tamara-Ecclestone-breastfeeds-on-magazine-cover-Im-not-ashamed-main.jpg
This is from the Mirror newspaper
not shown on GMBHD

[Cherie]

At 3 years of age the child should have the skills to drink from a cup, the "baby" stage has long passed, nobody would be clapping if the 3 year old was running around drinking from a babies bottle and breast feeding is no different :umm2: from the looks of the photo the kid is still in a nappy as well, time to potty train...

[Crimson Dynamo]

she has been touting this around to all media for a week now, awful exhibitionism

[arista]

At 3 years of age the child should have the skills to drink from a cup, the "baby" stage has long passed, nobody would be clapping if the 3 year old was running around drinking from a babies bottle and breast feeding is no different :umm2: from the looks of the photo the kid is still in a nappy as well, time to potty train...


Yes Cherie
that is what so many have said.

This Lady has it Wrong

[Northern Monkey]

At 3 years of age the child should have the skills to drink from a cup, the "baby" stage has long passed, nobody would be clapping if the 3 year old was running around drinking from a babies bottle and breast feeding is no different :umm2: from the looks of the photo the kid is still in a nappy as well, time to potty train...

:clap1:
Both mine were drinking from a cup at two.

[ebandit]

she has been touting this around to all media for a week now, awful exhibitionism

tits oot.....................we all know it sells..............

Mark L

[Vicky.]

There's nothing wrong with extended breastfeeding but I'd suspect she has intentions beyond EBF awareness with the instagram angle.

This...

Edit. Though breastfeeding at 3 sounds icky to me I have to admit. All teeth and stuff :laugh:

[arista]

This...

Edit. Though breastfeeding at 3 sounds icky to me I have to admit. All teeth and stuff :laugh:


Yes Strange why Everyone wants to see her
on Instagram

I am sure mums net
are going bonkers over it.

[user104658]

At 3 years of age the child should have the skills to drink from a cup, the "baby" stage has long passed, nobody would be clapping if the 3 year old was running around drinking from a babies bottle and breast feeding is no different :umm2: from the looks of the photo the kid is still in a nappy as well, time to potty train...
EBF (extended breast feeding) doesn't mean they can't also drink from a cup and there is genuinely nothing wrong with EBF; it is healthy and historically completely normal (hundreds of thousands of years of human history, its only become "abnormal" in the last 100 years).

I hate having to go lactivist but I hate ignorance / the oversexualisation of breastfeeding even more sooo... :joker:

But yeah, my problem here with this particular lady isn't that she's breastfeeding a three year old... Or that I think it should be something that's hidden... It's that it's so obviously "posed" in this case and posted on instagram purely, in my opinion, for attention / publicity for the mother (not the issue) and that doesn't sit well with me. She's deliberately trying to "be controversial" and that doesn't help the stigma of EBF... It makes it worse.

[Cherie]

EBF (extended breast feeding) doesn't mean they can't also drink from a cup and there is genuinely nothing wrong with EBF; it is healthy and historically completely normal (hundreds of thousands of years of human history, its only become "abnormal" in the last 100 years).

I hate having to go lactivist but I hate ignorance / the oversexualisation of breastfeeding even more sooo... :joker:

But yeah, my problem here with this particular lady isn't that she's breastfeeding a three year old... Or that I think it should be something that's hidden... It's that it's so obviously "posed" in this case and posted on instagram purely, in my opinion, for attention / publicity for the mother (not the issue) and that doesn't sit well with me. She's deliberately trying to "be controversial" and that doesn't help the stigma of EBF... It makes it worse.

Funnily enough I know what EBF is as I have a pair myself :hee: I'm not ignorant on the issue thanks, there is absolutely no need to breastfeed a child any longer than you would leave them on a bottle, it's personal choice of course but for most mothers whose children will be in nursery aged 3 hanging off a breast or running around in a nappy is not very practical is it? I love how as a man you advocate breastfeeding this late, given you have no idea have you how it would feel, most women don't want leaky breasts any longer than they need to either

[user104658]

Funnily enough I know what EBF is as I have a pair myself :hee: I'm not ignorant on the issue thanks, there is absolutely no need to breastfeed a child any longer than you would leave them on a bottle, it's personal choice of course but for most mothers whose children will be in nursery aged 3 hanging off a breast or running around in a nappy is not very practical is it? I love how as a man you advocate breastfeeding this late, given you have no idea have you how it would feel, most women don't want leaky breasts any longer than they need to either
I'm not the one making it not a personal choice, though, I'm not saying that anyone is duty bound to do it or "should" do it, I'm not judging anyone, I don't even care if people breastfeed at all or not :shrug:. You're the one judging people FOR doing it and furthering misconceptions, based on your own personal opinion of it :shrug:.

[Cherie]

I'm not the one making it not a personal choice, though, I'm not saying that anyone is duty bound to do it or "should" do it, I'm not judging anyone, I don't even care if people breastfeed at all or not :shrug:. You're the one judging people FOR doing it and furthering misconceptions, based on your own personal opinion of it :shrug:.

I am judging her yes as she has put herself out there to be judged, you judged her too :joker: If mothers want to breastfeed until the kid is in high school I don't care, just dont post it on social media otherwise people like you and I will judge :smug:

[user104658]

I am judging her yes as she has put herself out there to be judged, you judged her too :joker: If mothers want to breastfeed until the kid is in high school I don't care, just dont post it on social media otherwise people like you and I will judge :smug:
Youre judging overall by saying things like there's "no need" or comments like "hanging off the boob at nursery" (which isn't really what happens at all). :nono:

We seem to agree on the social media element though :joker:. My stance there isn't because it should be hidden for any reason though, if there was a normal snapped photo and someone happened to be breastfeeding in it I wouldn't bat an eye. It's the fact that it's been so obviously set up for a specific reason that bothers me. I hate people using their kids image to "make a point", no matter WHAT that point is.

[DemolitionRed]

The bairn is 2 not 3 and I don't think she's doing anything wrong.

[arista]

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/content/dam/news/2017/02/10/JS120199638-Tamara-Ecclestone-breastfeeding-large_trans_NvBQzQNjv4Bq_DJZA1HF5UM8JuzkelHHklVse9 JsN00kzbUr3IXHaGo.jpg

TS look at that
as used on GMBHD itv Live
before 8AM

[Alf]

Jim Carrey doesn't know what all the fuss is about.

http://33.media.tumblr.com/6d664e9f76db05925b22865da95729d7/tumblr_n6axtufOlZ1rhwe3do10_r1_400.gif

[Vicky.]

LOL...that picture. Clearly all about attention for the mother. idiot.

[jennyjuniper]

At 3 years of age the child should have the skills to drink from a cup, the "baby" stage has long passed, nobody would be clapping if the 3 year old was running around drinking from a babies bottle and breast feeding is no different :umm2: from the looks of the photo the kid is still in a nappy as well, time to potty train...

I'm thinking this too. I'm all for breastfeeding, but enough is enough and yes by that age he/she should be toilet trained.

[Vicky.]

I'm thinking this too. I'm all for breastfeeding, but enough is enough and yes by that age he/she should be toilet trained.

Can't criticize there..I welcome advice on this tbh. My daughter is 4 and still not ****ing toilet trained. Where my son (2) is. My daughter just refuses to get it. She will sit and just piss or **** on the carpet/sofa/wherever she is and also doesn't even tell you that she is wet/dirty. Stressing me a lot as she starts proper school this year and I doubt they will take her because of this :(

[thesheriff443]

:clap1:
Both mine were drinking from a cup at two.

Two girls one cup:bawling:

[T*]

This isn't news and this isn't something to be debated
Just let her do what she likes tbh

[user104658]

I'm thinking this too. I'm all for breastfeeding, but enough is enough and yes by that age he/she should be toilet trained.
"Enough is enough" why? It has nothing to do with you and doesn't affect you in any way?

And as for "should" be toilet trained, children toilet train at different rates and trying to force the issue is not healthy. The fact that a child is in nappies doesn't mean that toilet training isn't in progress, and it takes as long as it takes.

[user104658]

Can't criticize there..I welcome advice on this tbh. My daughter is 4 and still not ****ing toilet trained. Where my son (2) is. My daughter just refuses to get it. She will sit and just piss or **** on the carpet/sofa/wherever she is and also doesn't even tell you that she is wet/dirty. Stressing me a lot as she starts proper school this year and I doubt they will take her because of this :(
All you can do is keep encouraging it, really. Is she otherwise developmentally on track in terms of starting school? If she is they literally can't refuse to educate in mainstream education her based on toilet training issues... They would have to make special provisions for her. Definitely in Scotland anyway. Though not sure if that's to do with GIRFEC... but still... I'd say it's highly unlikely that they'll be able to refuse your daughter state education.

[thesheriff443]

This isn't news and this isn't something to be debated
Just let her do what she likes tbh

She is doing what she wants, members are saying what they think of what she is doing.

[Vicky.]

All you can do is keep encouraging it, really. Is she otherwise developmentally on track in terms of starting school? If she is they literally can't refuse to educate in mainstream education her based on toilet training issues... They would have to make special provisions for her. Definitely in Scotland anyway. Though not sure if that's to do with GIRFEC... but still... I'd say it's highly unlikely that they'll be able to refuse your daughter state education.

Speech delay..but besides that everythings fine. I haven't looked into it too much tbh I am just freaking myself out based on old info...when Gavins other son was late training the school apparently told his mother that they would not take him in nappies/pullups and would not 'stand for' accidents everyday either :umm2: This was 5 years ago now mind

[Cherie]

Can't criticize there..I welcome advice on this tbh. My daughter is 4 and still not ****ing toilet trained. Where my son (2) is. My daughter just refuses to get it. She will sit and just piss or **** on the carpet/sofa/wherever she is and also doesn't even tell you that she is wet/dirty. Stressing me a lot as she starts proper school this year and I doubt they will take her because of this :(

I think you should ring the school to establish their policy, depends on the school, does she attend nursery Vicky and if so what happens there, does she use the toilet, if she does then it's likely she is using it at home as an attention thing maybe or a bargaining chip :laugh: lots of praise when she uses the potty, and try and resist comparing her to her younger brother no matter how tempting, also try not to react when she has an accident though I appreciate you might be at the end of your tether

[user104658]

Speech delay..but besides that everythings fine. I haven't looked into it too much tbh I am just freaking myself out based on old info...when Gavins other son was late training the school apparently told his mother that they would not take him in nappies/pullups and would not 'stand for' accidents everyday either :umm2: This was 5 years ago now mind

I don't know, maybe it is different south of the border. I do remember dealing with my sister in laws high school (she lived with us for a couple of months in her final year) who had a very similar demeanor to that. Being confrontational / dictating terms,when she was already having issues at home, it was a nightmare.

Meanwhile up here they're basically jumping through hoops for us... My daughter is 4 but is autistic and has a developmental age of around 2.5 and is also highly inconsistent. She will use a potty one day like it's the most normal thing in the world, consistently all day... Then dance around the room wetting the rug the next. She'll come up to me and say "Pooey! New nappy!" one day and then literally the next day, smear **** up the wall without a word. But like I said she is 100% diagnosed ASD, mostly non-verbal and has a statement of educational needs in place which I think makes a big difference. The local council have to basically whatever is needed to ensure she can have some form of education.

Obviously your daughter has nowhere near that level of additional needs but with both the toileting and the speech delay I would personally say it's worth discussing with someone about getting a statement of educational needs for her? Basically just outlines what additional support she needs and if you have one then the school can't refuse it, as far as I'm aware.

[Cherie]

You need diagnosis of a condition to get a statement or EHC as they are now called, unless the speech delay is associated with a disability or global delay, I wouldn't go down that route, it's likely Skye will adapt once she gets to school. A week is a long time in potty training and Skye has months to comply, the problem the school will have is that they would have to devote two members of staff to change her nappy from a safeguarding point of view, it's best to ring them once you have her place confirmed, as they might be able to advise, I'm sure it will resolve itself though Vicky

[Kizzy]

It's better now then than it was, you couldn't start school unless they were dry through the day, as said Vicky might be an idea to get a referral to occupational health, they will be able to give you loads of help and support with training so it doesn't totally freak her out :)
The doc might want to assess she is getting the sensation to go too, my nephew was having similar issues.

As for the pics, they're ok bit twee and girly but if it raises awareness of breastfeeding so what? It shows it's not all nipple shields and mastitis :/
There is nothing to say the little girl can't use a cup/toilet either is there?

[Cherie]

It's better now then than it was, you couldn't start school unless they were dry through the day, as said Vicky might be an idea to get a referral to occupational health, they will be able to give you loads of help and support with training so it doesn't totally freak her out :)
The doc might want to assess she is getting the sensation to go too, my nephew was having similar issues.

As for the pics, they're ok bit twee and girly but if it raises awareness of breastfeeding so what? It shows it's not all nipple shields and mastitis :/
There is nothing to say the little girl can't use a cup/toilet either is there?



There's nothing to say she is either so that's a moot point. It does nothing to raise awareness for breastfeeding, its more off putting as the reality is a sink full of dirty dishes, tiredness, and leaky mammaries, no one is sitting in a gown with toddler on the side looking glamorous :joker:

[Kizzy]

[/B]

There's nothing to say she is either so that's a moot point. It does nothing to raise awareness for breastfeeding, its more off putting as the reality is a sink full of dirty dishes, tiredness, and leaky mammaries, no one is sitting in a gown with toddler on the side looking glamorous :joker:

Then why presume she can't if there is no evidence?
It's not moot it's just projecting your negative view on the issue without all the facts.
If I were considering it I'd be more swayed by that than your raincloud of doom view Cherie :hehe:

[Vicky.]

I don't know, maybe it is different south of the border. I do remember dealing with my sister in laws high school (she lived with us for a couple of months in her final year) who had a very similar demeanor to that. Being confrontational / dictating terms,when she was already having issues at home, it was a nightmare.

Meanwhile up here they're basically jumping through hoops for us... My daughter is 4 but is autistic and has a developmental age of around 2.5 and is also highly inconsistent. She will use a potty one day like it's the most normal thing in the world, consistently all day... Then dance around the room wetting the rug the next. She'll come up to me and say "Pooey! New nappy!" one day and then literally the next day, smear **** up the wall without a word. But like I said she is 100% diagnosed ASD, mostly non-verbal and has a statement of educational needs in place which I think makes a big difference. The local council have to basically whatever is needed to ensure she can have some form of education.

Obviously your daughter has nowhere near that level of additional needs but with both the toileting and the speech delay I would personally say it's worth discussing with someone about getting a statement of educational needs for her? Basically just outlines what additional support she needs and if you have one then the school can't refuse it, as far as I'm aware.

I have been thinking for a while that she may have learning difficulties of some sort. Gavin does, and one of his other children does also..so its definitely a possibility. I mentioned this to the GP and was told they couldn't diagnose kids under 5? And that speech therapy should flag up any problems, however speech therapy reckon shes not that far behind with speech, just a bit off with pronunciation and reckon Autism and such is not their department at all so they don't know what the GP is on about :bored: Mind this is the same surgery who told us you cannot get an asthma diagnosis in kids under 7, then weeks later the hospital diagnosed...asthma.

Can't shift surgeries either due to area. So annoying :S

[Vicky.]

It's better now then than it was, you couldn't start school unless they were dry through the day, as said Vicky might be an idea to get a referral to occupational health, they will be able to give you loads of help and support with training so it doesn't totally freak her out :)
The doc might want to assess she is getting the sensation to go too, my nephew was having similar issues.

As for the pics, they're ok bit twee and girly but if it raises awareness of breastfeeding so what? It shows it's not all nipple shields and mastitis :/
There is nothing to say the little girl can't use a cup/toilet either is there?

It was for me :( Along with endless breastpumps, a stupid amount of 'domperidone' tablets and breasts the size, and firmness of bowling balls. Not good. No wonder I gave up 3 weeks in really :laugh:

[Kizzy]

It was for me :( Along with endless breastpumps, a stupid amount of 'domperidone' tablets and breasts the size, and firmness of bowling balls. Not good. No wonder I gave up 3 weeks in really :laugh:

Aw :( I was lucky I guess it was bad initially then settled down I think I managed 3 months though as expressing was a mare :)

[Cherie]

I have been thinking for a while that she may have learning difficulties of some sort. Gavin does, and one of his other children does also..so its definitely a possibility. I mentioned this to the GP and was told they couldn't diagnose kids under 5? And that speech therapy should flag up any problems, however speech therapy reckon shes not that far behind with speech, just a bit off with pronunciation and reckon Autism and such is not their department at all so they don't know what the GP is on about :bored: Mind this is the same surgery who told us you cannot get an asthma diagnosis in kids under 7, then weeks later the hospital diagnosed...asthma.

Can't shift surgeries either due to area. So annoying :S

Is she in nursery Vicky, if so you could ask that she be seen by an Educational psychologist, the nursery should be able to help with this? If not ring the school where she has a place and ask to speak to their SEN lead who should be able to get an assessment for you, it's in the schools interest to have an EHC in place for when she starts if there is a problem and it will take a while to sort out the assessment

[jennyjuniper]

Can't criticize there..I welcome advice on this tbh. My daughter is 4 and still not ****ing toilet trained. Where my son (2) is. My daughter just refuses to get it. She will sit and just piss or **** on the carpet/sofa/wherever she is and also doesn't even tell you that she is wet/dirty. Stressing me a lot as she starts proper school this year and I doubt they will take her because of this :(

That's the trouble with kids. No two are alike, so what worked for one doesn't always work for another. Have you tried sitting her on the potty and reading her a story? This worked with my daughter, who didn't want to sit on the pot, but loved being told stories.

[jennyjuniper]

"Enough is enough" why? It has nothing to do with you and doesn't affect you in any way?

And as for "should" be toilet trained, children toilet train at different rates and trying to force the issue is not healthy. The fact that a child is in nappies doesn't mean that toilet training isn't in progress, and it takes as long as it takes.

Stop jumping on me every time I offer an opinion. It is only my opinion and yes you are right, they are Tamara's tits and she's allowed to do with them what she likes.I can and will continue to have opinions about things and even though your dislike of me is obvious, back off.

[Vicky.]

Sorry for derailing the thread :p

Yes she goes at school apparently. The teacher says she loves going to the loo on the tiny toilets they have there and she does not have accidents there at all. Its only at home, and out (basically whenever I am there...) that she plays up. Sometimes she loves the potty. She gets praised for doing anything on it. Sometimes she prefers the loo where she declares that shes a 'big girl now' and is insanely happy that she has been to the toilet. But then it goes back randomly to peeing everywhere. Rather like a cat marking her territory :shrug:

Edit. I wonder if we should get rid of the toilet and get one of the miniature ones schools have. Can just imagine my 6ft 3 partner trying to hit the loo :D

[user104658]

Stop jumping on me every time I offer an opinion. It is only my opinion and yes you are right, they are Tamara's tits and she's allowed to do with them what she likes.I can and will continue to have opinions about things and even though your dislike of me is obvious, back off.

You're on a debate and discussion forum?

[Cherie]

Sorry for derailing the thread :p

Yes she goes at school apparently. The teacher says she loves going to the loo on the tiny toilets they have there and she does not have accidents there at all. Its only at home, and out (basically whenever I am there...) that she plays up. Sometimes she loves the potty. She gets praised for doing anything on it. Sometimes she prefers the loo where she declares that shes a 'big girl now' and is insanely happy that she has been to the toilet. But then it goes back randomly to peeing everywhere. Rather like a cat marking her territory :shrug:

Ah she's pulling your strings Vicky,:laugh: might be a bit of sibling jealousy, she is probably conflicted in loving her little brother to pieces and resenting him for taking your time up, don't react when she has an accident, just dettox it silently..it will probably kill you but if you don't react she will soon realise its not getting her anywhere

[jennyjuniper]

You're on a debate and discussion forum?

That's true and normally I like the parry and thrust of a reasoned argument and maybe I'm projecting here, but with you I get the feeling that if I said the sky is blue, you would argue that it wasn't.

[Cherie]

That's true and normally I like the parry and thrust of a reasoned argument and maybe I'm projecting here, but with you I get the feeling that if I said the sky is blue, you would argue that it wasn't.

:joker: that's our TS...

[jennyjuniper]

:joker: that's our TS...

Oh so it's not just my imagination then Cherie:laugh:

[Brillopad]

I'm thinking this too. I'm all for breastfeeding, but enough is enough and yes by that age he/she should be toilet trained.

Almost seems as though she is trying to keep he/she as a baby for her own selfish reasons. Could stunt the child's development if she isn't careful.

[Brillopad]

That's true and normally I like the parry and thrust of a reasoned argument and maybe I'm projecting here, but with you I get the feeling that if I said the sky is blue, you would argue that it wasn't.

I think you may be right.

[Marsh.]

Can't criticize there..I welcome advice on this tbh. My daughter is 4 and still not ****ing toilet trained. Where my son (2) is. My daughter just refuses to get it. She will sit and just piss or **** on the carpet/sofa/wherever she is and also doesn't even tell you that she is wet/dirty. Stressing me a lot as she starts proper school this year and I doubt they will take her because of this :(
Omg I don't want kids.

[Marsh.]

Two girls one cup:bawling:
:laugh2:

[user104658]

That's true and normally I like the parry and thrust of a reasoned argument and maybe I'm projecting here, but with you I get the feeling that if I said the sky is blue, you would argue that it wasn't.
Nah, there are quite a few members I disagree with 90% of the time but will still happily agree with when the stars align and an opinion happens to match. Livia, NM, Jaxie, Kirk may he rest in peace, LT before he became a full time troll etc.
I think you may be right.

Not this one though. Different galaxies I'm afraid. Those stars will never align.

[Brillopad]

Nah, there are quite a few members I disagree with 90% of the time but will still happily agree with when the stars align and an opinion happens to match. Livia, NM, Jaxie, Kirk may he rest in peace, LT before he became a full time troll etc.


Not this one though. Different galaxies I'm afraid. Those stars will never align.

Indeed!

[Marsh.]

Wait what happened to kirk?

[Cherie]

Wait what happened to kirk?

The snowflakes smothered him.

I think Kirk will be chuckling away at being included in a thread about breasts though.

[Marsh.]

Omg I thought he'd died.

You daft sod TS :fist:

[Kazanne]

Nothing wrong with breastfeeding at all,but keep the pictures to yourself ,this is obviously about HER and not the toddler which insidently is not baby anymore and should be feeding it's self

[user104658]

Omg I thought he'd died.

You daft sod TS :fist:
He's quite old, one of these days I'll be right :think:

[Kizzy]

The snowflakes smothered him.

I think Kirk will be chuckling away at being included in a thread about breasts though.

Hey, I'm 'snow' angel, but you can't blame anyone for fm choosing not to post...
https://24.media.tumblr.com/34ac552285a5ce06d321ee3994177f18/tumblr_mxv4f7iK2c1r6ffb6o1_400.gif

#Happypunday

[user104658]

Hey, I'm 'snow' angel, but you can't blame anyone for fm choosing not to post...
https://24.media.tumblr.com/34ac552285a5ce06d321ee3994177f18/tumblr_mxv4f7iK2c1r6ffb6o1_400.gif

#Happypunday
You are Blizzy, a high ranking lieutenant of Captain Snowflake, with the power to create blizzards and freezing gales.

[Kizzy]

You are Blizzy, a high ranking lieutenant of Captain Snowflake, with the power to create blizzards and freezing gales.

Kizzy blizzy1 love it with the power to freeze peoples keyboards obv... :joker:

[Marsh.]

He's quite old, one of these days I'll be right :think:
:joker:

[arista]

Wait what happened to kirk?

He left after being picked on
I wish Kirk would pop back

[arista]

TS said
"LT before he became a full time troll etc. "

That is not true
on this section.