Sibling Rows

[Cal.]

How do you solve sibling rows?

[LukeB]

Make them tea or coffee imo

[caprimint]

It's easy when you don't have siblings :spin:

[Cal.]

Well my sister has really upset me tonight and I said some very vicious things to her.

[Daniel-X]

I usually block them on everything and delete my profile on TIBB

[caprimint]

Well my sister has really upset me tonight and I said some very vicious things to her.
Sounds like an intense court case tbh

[LukeB]

Well my sister has really upset me tonight and I said some very vicious things to her.

You should let things cool down and see what it's like tomorrow. Apologise with tea or something as a I come in peace.

[reece(:]

It's easy when you don't have siblings :spin:

I didn't know you were an only child too! :o

[reece(:]

I usually block them on everything and delete my profile on TIBB

Bre tease

[caprimint]

I didn't know you were an only child too! :o
Yeah, I didn't know you were either :laugh:

[reece(:]

Yeah, I didn't know you were either :laugh:

Literally all my friends irl and most other people I know have siblings, I feel like we're in a special club

[caprimint]

Literally all my friends irl and most other people I know have siblings, I feel like we're in a special club
Same, when I find somebody else who doesn't I feel some special connection :dazzler:

[smudgie]

There is no law saying you can't fall out with siblings.
Easier in life if you all get on, otherwise you just need to get on without them.:shrug:

[Amy Jade]

I only have step siblings but if we ever argue I just leave it a day or so and then just forget it happened.

[T*]

don't talk to em

[Denver]

RKO them

[Deirdre]

There is no law saying you can't fall out with siblings.
Easier in life if you all get on, otherwise you just need to get on without them.:shrug:

this. sometimes you're better off without some people in your life. as much as people may say "but it's your sister", doesn't mean anything if they're not making you happy/want the best for you.

[Niamh.]

I have 3 brothers and we all get on very well, I very rarely argue with them and if we do argue we all pretty much handle it the same way, we all seem to calm down pretty fast and just make up and move on

[Livia]

My brother and I do argue, although not as much as when we were kids... then we'd have a row, maybe a bit of fisticuffs and it'd all be over. Now though, I like to get all my grievences out, deal with them and move on... while he likes to sulk for aaaages.

[Vanessa]

Me and my sister rarely argue. Could be because we live in different countries. :laugh:

[Livia]

Me and my sister rarely argue. Could be because we live in different countries. :laugh:

LOL... I notice I argue less with my brother when I'm out of the country. You may be on to something there, Ness...

[Vanessa]

LOL... I notice I argue less with my brother when I'm out of the country. You may be on to something there, Ness...

I'm also very tolerant with her. She can get away with murder, cause i'm a big softie when it comes to her. Can't stay mad at her for long :hee:

[LemonJam]

me and my sister have argued about twice in our whole lives. I actually don't know how we'd solve it :laugh:

[Cherie]

My sister and I row or get snippy with each other as we are totally different people but when we do, we just laugh about it the next time we speak. She is 5 years older so can be quite bossy which I find infuriating especially as you get older the gap become less, like we are both in our 40s now so stop bossing me around :oh: she has a heart of gold though and I can't stay mad at her for long, my brother on the other hand is the most selfish bastard as is his wife, I have zero respect for either of them so keep contact to the absolute minimum and that works a treat :hee:

[Brillopad]

My brother and I do argue, although not as much as when we were kids... then we'd have a row, maybe a bit of fisticuffs and it'd all be over. Now though, I like to get all my grievences out, deal with them and move on... while he likes to sulk for aaaages.

'A bit of fisticuffs' that brings up a funny memory/image for me of when one of my sons was about to 'fight' one of his friends when he was about 8 - with his arms out in front of him and his fits poised, with his head turned away to protect his face. It makes me smile every time.

[AnnieK]

My brother is still the only person who can make my temper go from 0-100 in 0.2 seconds just by looking at me. We rarely argue now....but we rarely speak either lol. Its got better since we both had kids but he still infuriates me.

[Livia]

'A bit of fisticuffs' that brings up a funny memory/image for me of when one of my sons was about to 'fight' one of his friends when he was about 8 - with his arms out in front of him and his fits poised, with his head turned away to protect his face. It makes me smile every time.

Awwwww haha.... I can picture it.

[Josy]

My 2 older sisters never spoke to each other for 7 years once :laugh:

[Brillopad]

My 2 older sisters never spoke to each other for 7 years once :laugh:

That's such a shame, I assume they regret that - life is short. Probably closer than ever now though.

[smudgie]

My 2 older sisters never spoke to each other for 7 years once :laugh:

My youngest sister and I have not spoken for just over 8 years, it is what it is.
Out of respect I will not attend her funeral when she dies.

[jaxie]

My brother and I have absolutely nothing in common and we've never fallen out but don't have a lot to do with one another. He is a fair bit older than me. We used to fight when we were kids which was mostly over the tv me wanting to want kids things and him wanting to watch teenage things. He once kicked a panel of my mum's bedroom door in trying to get to me (it was the only room in the house with a lock), but I was fast. :hee:

[Beso]

Well my sister has really upset me tonight and I said some very vicious things to her.

Apologise.:douf:

[Marsh.]

My youngest sister and I have not spoken for just over 8 years, it is what it is.
Out of respect I will not attend her funeral when she dies.

Not you assuming she's going first. :omgno: Murder in mind?

[Beso]

'A bit of fisticuffs' that brings up a funny memory/image for me of when one of my sons was about to 'fight' one of his friends when he was about 8 - with his arms out in front of him and his fits poised, with his head turned away to protect his face. It makes me smile every time.

:joker:

I had a similar memory. My cousin aged 11 lived next door to us and i must have peed him off one day (dunno how:smug:) but he chased me aged 9 from his back garden to mine, in through the open patio doors onto the living room carpet and started punching me senseless in front of my bewildered mum and dad.

[Jason.]

Not you assuming she's going first. :omgno: Murder in mind?

:joker:

[armand.kay]

Things normally just resolve themselves here. Like everyone cools down then we're talking again like normal in no time.

[caprimint]

Not you assuming she's going first. :omgno: Murder in mind?
:joker:

[smudgie]

Not you assuming she's going first. :omgno: Murder in mind?

No assuming, she is hanging on to life, terminal cancer.
Then again I could fall downstairs or have some accident later today.:joker:

[Marsh.]

No assuming, she is hanging on to life, terminal cancer.
Then again I could fall downstairs or have some accident later today.:joker:
Omg. Sorry i didn't realise. :(

[Tozzie]

my sister betrayed my dead sisters memory and caused so much hurt and pain when my dead sisters children and I were already grieving so bad, all for her own selfish reasons with no regard to my nieces and nephew feelings that I can and will not ever forgive her. We haven't spoken to her in 2 years and I don't miss her condescending, patronising and selfish ways. She has never apologised and isn't even sorry for the hurt she has caused within our family so she doesn't deserve to be a part of us. I will always be loyal to my Sister who died and take care of her children and grandchildren. I adored her.

[Wizard.]

Yes when I lived at home me and my two brothers had fist fights well once I threw a pint glass at his head and luckily it hit the wall and smashes because I would have regretted that and I called the police on my teenage brother for vandalising my car :joker:

[smudgie]

Omg. Sorry i didn't realise. :(

Don't be daft, you weren't to know.
Just one of those things really.
Life can be a bitch at times:shrug:

[Cal.]

We’ve had another falling out. :(

[Ammi]

We’ve had another falling out. :(

...:hug:...do you want to talk about it, Cal...or no atm..?...

[Babayaro.]

I've not had a row with my siblings in years!

[Greg!]

Go on Jezza Kyle and get it sorted

[montblanc]

i haven’t socialized with my brother in about 9 months :skull:

[Kizzy]

Strangely the first thing I thought of when I heard ant partlins mum was in his car was his brothers/sisters are going to kill him! :/

[Marsh.]

We’ve had another falling out. :(

So childish. Bloody grow up the pair of you before I bang your heads together.

[hijaxers]

Mines dead . Never really rowed but i was bullied by him badly as a child. I don't miss him at all.

[JerseyWins]

Danielle-X getting naughty? :eyes:

[Cal.]

:(

[Tozzie]

this. sometimes you're better off without some people in your life. as much as people may say "but it's your sister", doesn't mean anything if they're not making you happy/want the best for you.

Spot on. My sister and I haven't spoken for 3 years and I have no intention of speaking to her again. Of course I don't wish any harm to come to her and I hope she has a nice life.......but I'd rather not include myself in it. My life is much easier without her. I do feel a bit sorry for my dad about it though because he cares for the both of us but he understands my reasons.

[Cal.]

This happened again :(

[Marsh.]

I usually smack her kids and then accuse them of being a liar like her when they burst into tears.

[Ant.]

I usually smack her kids and then accuse them of being a liar like her when they burst into tears.

OMG :laugh2:

[Livia]

My brother and I have had some monumental fights when we were younger. He's one of the few people I've ever thrown a punch at in anger. We get it all out, it erupts like a volcano, then we can get past whatever was causing the problem. As we've got older, we've become really good friends and I wouldn't swap him for the world.