'Nobody supports me in here'

[Amy Jade]

I've heard her say this numerous times now when she either causes an argument or gets cauggt up in one - yet last night Amelia and Jordan BOTH defended her against Jemma and she returned their kindness by being really rude to both.

Especially Amelia who just went to check on her only to be tols to go away...yet seconds later Chad was allowed to comfort Sarah (and kiss).

So my point is why does she constantly believe she is owed loyalty when she treats people like crap? I am quickly understanding why none of Girls Aloud like her anymore. She has the worst victim 'me me me' complex I have ever seen!

[Dominic]

I like her as a HM but she's a complete hypocrite and treats others terribly. I don't understand why her fans so blindly defend her when it's clear from what everyone in the house has said that she's awful to live with.

[Niamh.]

mm yeah, hard to disagree, I do think it's because of the drink and her view of what's happening is warped. Jemma is a nasty **** though

[Paula D]

What I don't like is how she's constantly trying to get Chad involved. She keeps telling him that he's not sticking up for her when she knows bloody well that Chad up against Jemma would be simply perceived as bullying and could potentially get Chad thrown out.

I'm delighted that Chad is not doing her bidding, he's much stronger than her.

He has repeatedly told her that she's the one that keeps things going and going.

The other night she deliberately went off on one at the guys when they were trying to have a bit of craic.

[Babayaro.]

Completely agree.

[Amy Jade]

I like her as a HM but she's a complete hypocrite and treats others terribly. I don't understand why her fans so blindly defend her when it's clear from what everyone in the house has said that she's awful to live with.

I adore her as a hm she is fascinating but it's a bit much now seeing people say sheis being bullied when the reality is most haven't had a cross word with her.

I've seen it claimed Brandi for instance is goading Sarah for telling her she is a cheat...but its true Sarah has even admitted she has an ongoing relationship outside so she is a cheat. Sarah has twice now attacked Paul for his drinking problems but Brandi can't say Sarah is a cheat? Its bull****.

[waterhog]

one word - vein.

[chuff me dizzy]

She tried to get Chad to defend her against them all,putting him in the firing line for nominations ,once its back to normal voting he's a massive chance of being chosen by association with her

[Paula D]

one word - vein.

If you're gonna be a poet hog you need to get a dictionary. :laugh::laugh:

[Amy Jade]

mm yeah, hard to disagree, I do think it's because of the drink and her view of what's happening is warped. Jemma is a nasty **** though

Jemma is horrid I don't think even her fans will argue that tbh :laugh: but I feel like Sarah is just as bad but because she cries and complains that she is feeling victimised people act like she is blameless but even Chad has told her she is guilty of poking the wasps nest in there

[Paula D]

Jemma is horrid I don't think even her fans will argue that tbh :laugh: but I feel like Sarah is just as bad but because she cries and complains that she is feeling victimised people act like she is blameless but even Chad has told her she is guilty of poking the wasps nest in there

I agree. My thinking on it is this:

With Jemma we know what she is, BB knew what she was when they put her in there, nothing she has done or said is unlike how she was expected to act.

With Sarah, it's the total inability to realise that she is pissing EVERYONE off and to stop doing it. And trying to pretend like she hasn't done a thing wrong.

In short I prefer a **** who knows she's a **** and owns it.

[Kazanne]

She tried to get Chad to defend her against them all,putting him in the firing line for nominations ,once its back to normal voting he's a massive chance of being chosen by association with her

i agree he will be up,thank God there is just one week to go,:laugh:

[AnnieK]

I have never liked Sarah - always had an intense dislike of her but I could never say why. Initially, I was warming to her and thinking I had possibly been wrong about her but now I realise I was right in my initial thinking. She is manipulative with a victim complex and really thinks the world owes her a break. I don't doubt she has her own demons she has been fighting with but she needs to own them demons and not blame her faults on anyone and everything but herself.

[Niamh.]

Jemma is horrid I don't think even her fans will argue that tbh :laugh: but I feel like Sarah is just as bad but because she cries and complains that she is feeling victimised people act like she is blameless but even Chad has told her she is guilty of poking the wasps nest in there

Yeah tbh I don't like either of them, Sarah is self obsessed and really messy but I dislike Jemma more because she seems like just an awful person :laugh:

[MTVN]

I have never liked Sarah - always had an intense dislike of her but I could never say why. Initially, I was warming to her and thinking I had possibly been wrong about her but now I realise I was right in my initial thinking. She is manipulative with a victim complex and really thinks the world owes her a break. I don't doubt she has her own demons she has been fighting with but she needs to own them demons and not blame her faults on anyone and everything but herself.

:clap2:

She's still very much in the denial stage. When she first went in her public perception was all the fault of the media and now her perception in the house is all the fault of the other housemates. She is incapable of taking any accountability.

[Amy Jade]

I agree. My thinking on it is this:

With Jemma we know what she is, BB knew what she was when they put her in there, nothing she has done or said is unlike how she was expected to act.

With Sarah, it's the total inability to realise that she is pissing EVERYONE off and to stop doing it. And trying to pretend like she hasn't done a thing wrong.

In short I prefer a **** who knows she's a **** and owns it.

I agree. At least with Jemma she admits her faults. Sarah blames her faults on everyone else.

I mean it speaks volumes that all the housemates who have gone so far have said she hoards drinks and changes when she has had a few bevs, I feel like she should honestly be in rehab not BB.

Three times now I have seen her running around arguing clutching 2 or more cans of drink.

[Niamh.]

I agree. At least with Jemma she admits her faults. Sarah blames her faults on everyone else.

I mean it speaks volumes that all the housemates who have gone so far have said she hoards drinks and changes when she has had a few bevs, I feel like she should honestly be in rehab not BB.

Three times now I have seen her running around arguing clutching 2 or more cans of drink.

yeah, this is why I feel sorry for her though, she really has problems, I fear this CBB may be her rock bottom which is sad that it's so public.

[Littlegreen]

She's a very paranoid person, I said in a thread before she went in she'd be crying in the diary room quite a bit over everything.

Possibly the BB house isn't the idea place to rebuild your confidence and reconnect with others...

Still adore her though.

[Cal.]

It's sad she was using CBB to be the thing that built her back up but it's actually to be her rock bottom. I hope she wins to somehow be able to use it as a foundation for her future but I don't think her or Jemma will make the final.

[Ellen]

She's a very paranoid person, I said in a thread before she went in she'd be crying in the diary room quite a bit over everything.

Possibly the BB house isn't the idea place to rebuild your confidence and reconnect with others...

Still adore her though.

She said this about herself though. She said she was a very emotional person so will prob cry a lot, her friend said it on Bots as well.
Your right it is not the place to build yourself up but she prob wasnt expecting it to be like it is :joker:

[Pro Sniper]

Yes, the grossly entitled Harding has "had enough"

"They've(Note the word "they've".. obviously not content with pushing the singular act of victimization, she wants to have it believed that a big bad gang are after her) pushed me to my limits." As Jordan went to see if she was ok, he was met with an all too familiar, arrogant, stuck-up, spoiled little bitch attitude. Creating more self-made enemies that she can play the "poor me" victim off..as she laughably accused them all of being "calculating"..before running off to her salvation room(the place where she's handed all her treats, latest ideas on how to gain gullible support, phone calls from home, internet access etc..) and telling the clown behind the mic in a threatening manner that enemy #1(of her concocted 956,401) "has to go"..before going on a ridiculous rant about being in the "firing line". I thought that would be it for the day, and the "poor Harding" show would be back tomorrow..but it continued to roll on as we seen her babbling on about a "witch-hunt" against her..before she went off to the bathroom to have "cry" # 16,578. Even little innocent Amelia felt the wrath of the nasty brute when she went looking to comfort her. Harding then went back to tonguing Chad and disrespecting her bf.

HUGE lulz @ her face when no-nonsense, straight-talking Jemma was saved :joker: ..and also Jemma joining in the chants of "get Sarah out" :joker::joker:

[chuff me dizzy]

Me me me ,I I I :bored:

[Amy Jade]

yeah, this is why I feel sorry for her though, she really has problems, I fear this CBB may be her rock bottom which is sad that it's so public.

I mean it's being going for years now she must have known the risks...I hate to see someone genuinely in distress but I do question how real it all is. She just seems egotistical and entitled to me and anyone who doesn't walk on pins around her she accuses them of bullying her.

[Niamh.]

I mean it's being going for years now she must have known the risks...I hate to see someone genuinely in distress but I do question how real it all is. She just seems egotistical and entitled to me and anyone who doesn't walk on pins around her she accuses them of bullying her.

Probably a mix of both but a few HMs in there have said that she noticeably changes when she drinks

[jet]

Yes, the grossly entitled Harding has "had enough"

"They've(Note the word "they've".. obviously not content with pushing the singular act of victimization, she wants to have it believed that a big bad gang are after her) pushed me to my limits." As Jordan went to see if she was ok, he was met with an all too familiar, arrogant, stuck-up, spoiled little bitch attitude. Creating more self-made enemies that she can play the "poor me" victim off..as she laughably accused them all of being "calculating"..before running off to her salvation room(the place where she's handed all her treats, latest ideas on how to gain gullible support, phone calls from home, internet access etc..) and telling the clown behind the mic in a threatening manner that enemy #1(of her concocted 956,401) "has to go"..before going on a ridiculous rant about being in the "firing line". I thought that would be it for the day, and the "poor Harding" show would be back tomorrow..but it continued to roll on as we seen her babbling on about a "witch-hunt" against her..before she went off to the bathroom to have "cry" # 16,578. Even little innocent Amelia felt the wrath of the nasty brute when she went looking to comfort her. Harding then went back to tonguing Chad and disrespecting her bf.

Beautifully summed up. :clap1:

[Amy Jade]

Probably a mix of both but a few HMs in there have said that she noticeably changes when she drinks

But they've said it to her and she has a go at them, they can't win. Brandi was one of the first to point out Sarah is different after she drinks and she got slammed for being '2 faced' by Sarah but others have said it to her face (including Brandi) and then Sarah plays the victim and gets her violin out to say they are all bullying her.

[chuff me dizzy]

But they've said it to her and she has a go at them, they can't win. Brandi was one of the first to point out Sarah is different after she drinks and she got slammed for being '2 faced' by Sarah but others have said it to her face (including Brandi) and then Sarah plays the victim and gets her violin out to say they are all bullying her.

:clap1:

[Paula D]

But they've said it to her and she has a go at them, they can't win. Brandi was one of the first to point out Sarah is different after she drinks and she got slammed for being '2 faced' by Sarah but others have said it to her face (including Brandi) and then Sarah plays the victim and gets her violin out to say they are all bullying her.

If you think back to the beginning she said she wasn't going to drink every night and now all of sudden she's hiding the drink etc.

If she wanted to change her image she shouldn't be drinking at all. Nothing. Paul tried to say that to her, that she should treat it as a job but she hasn't, it's going to be her downfall but one she created herself.

[joeysteele]

:clap2:

She's still very much in the denial stage. When she first went in her public perception was all the fault of the media and now her perception in the house is all the fault of the other housemates. She is incapable of taking any accountability.

Yes.
This for me too.

She is an absolute mess in my view. Her lack of reasoning is actually getting worse.

[Niamh.]

But they've said it to her and she has a go at them, they can't win. Brandi was one of the first to point out Sarah is different after she drinks and she got slammed for being '2 faced' by Sarah but others have said it to her face (including Brandi) and then Sarah plays the victim and gets her violin out to say they are all bullying her.

Oh yeah I know but look, that's what an addict is going to do isn't it, if they admit that person is right then they have to face up to the fact that they have a problem. I'm actually starting to understand Paul a bit more now tbh, he was really probably trying to help Sarah out at the start when he said she should stay off the drink

[chuff me dizzy]

By what Jordan said last night ,she's just a horrible human being ,Trisha also told how horrid she is ,they both can't be wrong she cannot expect anyone to defend her if this is true

[chuff me dizzy]

Oh yeah I know but look, that what an addict is going to do isn't it, if they admit that person is right then they have to face up to the fact that they have a problem. I'm actually starting to understand Paul a bit more now tbh, he was really probably trying to help Sarah out at the start when he said she should stay off the drink

But its the BB house, not rehab

[Paula D]

By what Jordan said last night ,she's just a horrible human being ,Trisha also told how horrid she is ,they both can't be wrong she cannot expect anyone to defend her if this is true

I'd love to know what she did to Trisha. I definitely think that she did something that Trisha is not allowed to discuss.

[Paula D]

But its the BB house, not rehab

It's true, Sarah Harding has enough money to get the best rehab in Britain and she should have done that before going into BB.

[Niamh.]

But its the BB house, not rehab

I know but to me, it seems like that's where Sarah should have gone. I don't like the girl but I feel sorry for her and wouldn't like to kick a person while they're down either

[Kazanne]

I know but to me, it seems like that's where Sarah should have gone. I don't like the girl but I feel sorry for her and wouldn't like to kick a person while they're down either

This for me ^ I don't mind her,but feel sorry for her.

[chuff me dizzy]

It's true, Sarah Harding has enough money to get the best rehab in Britain and she should have done that before going into BB.

Or instead ,she cannot expect everyone to pussy foot around her while she hurls abuse at them,its not going to happen,nor should it,you give it out,you've got to expect it back

[Kazanne]

By what Jordan said last night ,she's just a horrible human being ,Trisha also told how horrid she is ,they both can't be wrong she cannot expect anyone to defend her if this is true

I wouldn't believe a thing that Jordan says tbh,he said he was more mature than some ,which is a lie:laugh:

[chuff me dizzy]

I wouldn't believe a thing that Jordan says tbh,he said he was more mature than some ,which is a lie:laugh:

But Kaz, she got 8 nominations, so that shows she's got big problem with 8 people

[Littlegreen]

Or instead ,she cannot expect everyone to pussy foot around her while she hurls abuse at them,its not going to happen,nor should it,you give it out,you've got to expect it back

We have only seen her previously do this in retaliation to the nasty treatment she received from others, she only shouted at Amelia because she was extremely upset/stressed and wanted to be left alone.

[jaxie]

I think to a degree Sarah is right because some of the housemates are deliberately pushing her buttons, mostly Jemma, Sam and Brandi but if she wasn't such a self absorbed, entitled whiner perhaps she would be less open to it. She has such a hard case of poor me syndrome that it's really hard to feel any sympathy for her when people do deliberately provoke her. Jemma is a horrible person who like any playground bully likes a target and has found one. The childishness of some housemates beggers belief. None of them are pretty when they've had a drink and they are all greedy with it, hence Sarah clutching what she sees as her entitled share to her bosom. I think she has problems, not convinced it's alcoholic proportions.

[Niamh.]

I think to a degree Sarah is right because some of the housemates are deliberately pushing her buttons, mostly Jemma, Sam and Brandi but if she wasn't such a self absorbed, entitled whiner perhaps she would be less open to it. She has such a hard case of poor !email syndrome that it's really hard to feel any sympathy for her when people do deliberately provoke her. Jemma is a horrible person who like any playground bully likes a target and has found one. The childishness of some housemates beggers belief. None of them are pretty when they've had a drink and they are all greedy with it, hence Sarah clutching what she sees as her entitled share to her bosom. I think she has problems, not convinced it's alcoholic proportions.

good post jaxie, I honestly don't like 90% of them tbh. Shaun seems the most lovely :love:

[Ellen]

I think to a degree Sarah is right because some of the housemates are deliberately pushing her buttons, mostly Jemma, Sam and Brandi but if she wasn't such a self absorbed, entitled whiner perhaps she would be less open to it. She has such a hard case of poor me syndrome that it's really hard to feel any sympathy for her when people do deliberately provoke her. Jemma is a horrible person who like any playground bully likes a target and has found one. The childishness of some housemates beggers belief. None of them are pretty when they've had a drink and they are all greedy with it, hence Sarah clutching what she sees as her entitled share to her bosom. I think she has problems, not convinced it's alcoholic proportions.

Great post, well said

[Vanessa]

Sarah attitude is starting to annoy me. She doesn't take any responsibility and blames others for he problems. She thinks everyone is out to get her. Which it's ridiculous. When housemates try to help she either screams at them or doesn't listen. :umm2:

[Vanessa]

But they've said it to her and she has a go at them, they can't win. Brandi was one of the first to point out Sarah is different after she drinks and she got slammed for being '2 faced' by Sarah but others have said it to her face (including Brandi) and then Sarah plays the victim and gets her violin out to say they are all bullying her.

Paul is right. She needs to stop drinking. She changes after she's had a drink.

[jaxie]

good post jaxie, I honestly don't like 90% of them tbh. Shaun seems the most lovely :love:

It is a house of unpleasant people for the most part and I don't like many of them either. I find Amelia weak, she is a people pleaser too fearful of upsetting people even in tasks and you can't really be mates with everyone in there, and she and Sam are incredibly immature. I am as interested in their showmance as I am to watch paint dry.

Derek's two faced behaviour with Sarah has put me right off him, it doesn't matter that I don't like Sarah either it's unkind to pretend to support someone then betray them behind their back.

Helen seems a bit dazed, Shaun and Sandi are likeable but I don't feel we are seeing enough of Shaun.

[Niamh.]

It is a house of unpleasant people for the most part and I don't like many of them either. I find Amelia weak, she is a people pleaser too fearful of upsetting people even in tasks and you can't really be mates with everyone in there, and she and Sam are incredibly immature. I am as interested in their showmance as I am to watch paint dry.

Derek's two faced behaviour with Sarah has put me right off him, it doesn't matter that I don't like Sarah either it's unkind to pretend to support someone then betray them behind their back.

Helen seems a bit dazed, Shaun and Sandi are likeable but I don't feel we are seeing enough of Shaun.

Pretty much exactly my thoughts on them all. Pity it isn't VTE and we might get a bit more Shaun and Sandi (my top 2 also)

Paul confuses me, he's a bit off the wall but sometimes when I look back on things that happened with him I think maybe he was right

[Ellen]

Sarah attitude is starting to annoy me. She doesn't take any responsibility and blames others for he problems. She thinks everyone is out to get her. Which it's ridiculous. When housemates try to help she either screams at them or doesn't listen. :umm2:

It is probably because she does think that, in her eyes she cant do anything without it been wrong or someone will have a go at her about something. Why would she trust them to 'help her' when they bitch about her and she know's they do. I suspect she believes she is defending herself because no one else is even when they know she hasnt warranted been shouted at or bitched about, they let it go on. Not surprised she is going nuts on top of her own nuts! :joker:

[Vanessa]

IIt is probably because she does think that, in her eyes she cant do anything without it been wrong or someone will have a go at her about something. Why would she trust them to 'help her' when they bitch about her and she know's they do. I suspect she believes she is defending herself bencause no one else is even when they know she hasnt warranted been shouted at or bitched about, they let it go on. Not surprised she is going nuts on top of her own nuts! :joker:

Paul was at starting to get through to her on live feed. But Chad put a stop to it. Urgh.

[jaxie]

Pretty much exactly my thoughts on them all. Pity it isn't VTE and we might get a bit more Shaun and Sandi (my top 2 also)

Paul confuses me, he's a bit off the wall but sometimes when I look back on things that happened with him I think maybe he was right

I think both Paul and Brandi play people against each other and seem to have their own agenda in there.

Chad seems a nicer guy than I thought as he does seem to give Sarah a lot of his time and she must be hard work but I'm not convinced that he genuinely feels sorry for her and part of it isn't for a storyline.

[Vanessa]

I think both Paul and Brandi play people against each other and seem to have their own agenda in there.

Chad seems a nicer guy than I thought as he does seem to give Sarah a lot of his time and she must be hard work but I'm not convinced that he genuinely feels sorry for her and part of it isn't for a storyline.

He's using her to get airtime.

[Vanessa]

I'm starting to feel sorry for Sarah. Chad is keeping her isolated and she feels she has no one to turn to. But she needs to take responsibility for her actions. Stop drinking as well.

[Kazanne]

I

Paul was at starting to get through to her on live feed. But Chad put a stop to it. Urgh.

:joker::joker: i can't at this sudden dislike for Chad:joker: just because he said something about Paul, Sarah was in the garden for ages on her own waiting for Chad to come out the DR. so chad does NOT islolate her at all,yes Chad put a stop to Paul quizzing her all the time.

[Niamh.]

I think both Paul and Brandi play people against each other and seem to have their own agenda in there.

Chad seems a nicer guy than I thought as he does seem to give Sarah a lot of his time and she must be hard work but I'm not convinced that he genuinely feels sorry for her and part of it isn't for a storyline.

Yeah, I was surprised I like Chad alot more than I thought but I'm not sure how into Sarah he is really

[Vanessa]

Yeah, I was surprised I like Chad alot more than I thought but I'm not sure how into Sarah he is really

He had feelings for Amelia and now suddenly he's so into Sarah? I don't buy it.

[Paula D]

:joker::joker: i can't at this sudden dislike for Chad:joker: just because he said something about Paul, Sarah was in the garden for ages on her own waiting for Chad to come out the DR. so chad does NOT islolate her at all,yes Chad put a stop to Paul quizzing her all the time.

:clap1::clap1::clap1::clap1::clap1::clap1::clap1:: clap1:

It gets so boring on here when people jump on a HM because they something untoward to their fave. :smug:

[Niamh.]

Can people stick to the HMs please

[bots]

fewer and fewer support her on the outside too :hehe:

[chuff me dizzy]

Yeah, I was surprised I like Chad alot more than I thought but I'm not sure how into Sarah he is really

Im going off him more each show I think he's a weirdo

[Vanessa]

Im going off him more each show I think he's a weirdo

He's very manipulative. So much more than anyone else in there.