Is there a place for raw emotion on TIBB or any other similar forum.

[TomToWin]

I like a good read of this forum and it is evident that a lot of posters post through raw emotion and the posts can sometimes seem OTT and end up being deleted.

So should forums be more open to the raw emotion that people feel with certain subjects?

[ChristmasNeeve]

Depends if their raw emotion involves insulting other forum members or not :laugh:

[Nicky91]

well if you insult forum members you get banned, right :fan:


so something like that is a no-go for me :hee:

[user104658]

We could have an opt-in raw emotion subforum where we all air our angers and... passions... :smug:

But if you're not interested in that sort of thing you can just opt out.

There could be some absolutely epic threads in a section like that :laugh:.

[TomToWin]

Depends if their raw emotion involves insulting other forum members or not :laugh:

Obviously that should never be allowed as nobody comes on a forum to be insulted but people feel very strongly about certain issues and it is just human nature for people to get worked up about those issues.

should we not think about allowing a little leeway here and there during a heated debate as long as members aren't insulting eachother?

[user104658]

well if you insult forum members you get banned, right :fan:


so something like that is a no-go for me :hee:

Don't you want to air your passions, Nicky?

[Smithy]

Yeah there should be a no holds barred thread!!!

[ChristmasNeeve]

That has come up over the years but you know it would end up messy as ****. That UBB thread we were only talking about recently is a prime example and you would still have people complaining when we allow you all to go to town on eachother

[Smithy]

Im sure its unhealthy to keep all of it inside though :think: surely having a thread is going to relieve the stress of it all

Keeping it in kills you off early :nono: TiBB trying to kill off even more members smh

[user104658]

Obviously that should never be allowed as nobody comes on a forum to be insulted but people feel very strongly about certain issues and it is just human nature for people to get worked up about those issues.

should we not think about allowing a little leeway here and there during a heated debate as long as members aren't insulting eachother?

TBF TiBB gives quite a bit more leeway than a lot of forums already.

But yeah, I've spoken before of a forum (similar size to this one) that I was a member of as a teenager. It had ONE moderator (the admin) and he was paid staff, 9 - 5 Monday - Friday. So all evening every day, and all weekend, the place was completely unmoderated.

And I seriously LOVED that forum :joker:. It was the Wild West, a total free-for-all, and forged some pretty meek and mild members into the best keyboard warriors I've had the pleasure to encounter. Simpler times. Sigh.

[user104658]

That has come up over the years but you know it would end up messy as ****. That UBB thread we were only talking about recently is a prime example and you would still have people complaining when we allow you all to go to town on eachother

Thats why you should make it opt-in, rather than opt-out, with a disclaimer! Like "If you accept access to this subforum, you forfeit any right to complain about anything posted inside".

With obvious exceptions e.g. posting people's personal details / stolen pictures of them (oh yes, I have seen that happen :umm2: )

[ChristmasNeeve]

Thats why you should make it opt-in, rather than opt-out, with a disclaimer! Like "If you accept access to this subforum, you forfeit any right to complain about anything posted inside".

With obvious exceptions e.g. posting people's personal details / stolen pictures of them (oh yes, I have seen that happen :umm2: )

That's happened here before too :worry:

[Smithy]

Thats why you should make it opt-in, rather than opt-out, with a disclaimer! Like "If you accept access to this subforum, you forfeit any right to complain about anything posted inside".

With obvious exceptions e.g. posting people's personal details / stolen pictures of them (oh yes, I have seen that happen :umm2: )

Thats quite tame compared to what has happened on here in the past :joker: :joker:

[TomToWin]

well if you insult forum members you get banned, right :fan:


so something like that is a no-go for me :hee:

My idea has nothing to do with insulting people

[user104658]

Thats quite tame compared to what has happened on here in the past :joker: :joker:

Were they pictures of someone

DP'ing herself with two dildos, alongside screenshots of the accompanying cybersex conversation?

Because that was one of the ones that went around :joker:

[Smithy]

Were they pictures of someone

DP'ing herself with two dildos, alongside screenshots of the accompanying cybersex conversation?

Because that was one of the ones that went around :joker:

:o :o

there was a 13/14 year old girl on here once who got exposed for performing on cam shows and half the forum saw

:worry: i think thats worse

[Christmas Dynasnow]

I just want to spread love and peace

[ChristmasNeeve]

:o :o

there was a 13/14 year old girl on here once who got exposed for performing on cam shows and half the forum saw

:worry: i think thats worse

omg I never knew about this :o

[user104658]

:o :o

there was a 13/14 year old girl on here once who got exposed for performing on cam shows and half the forum saw

:worry: i think thats worse

OK yes, at least the girl on the forum I was on wasn't underage.

Though I was on another large student forum (now HUGE student forum) where one of the admins (...yeah... now ex-admin) was soliciting nude / semi nude selfies of teenage forum members and storing them up / occasionally sending them on to other members. He also offered a few girls cash to meet up in hotels with him and "perform" on the bed, saying he just wated to smoke cigarettes and watch. Not quite as bad as again I;d say all of the girls would have been 18 - 21 (though I believe a couple were probably 17) but yeah. An ADMIN! :omgno:

I mean a couple of mods here have asked for dikpix but never an admin...

[ChristmasNeeve]

OK yes, at least the girl on the forum I was on wasn't underage.

Though I was on another large student forum (now HUGE student forum) where one of the admins (...yeah... now ex-admin) was soliciting nude / semi nude selfies of teenage forum members and storing them up / occasionally sending them on to other members. He also offered a few girls cash to meet up in hotels with him and "perform" on the bed, saying he just wated to smoke cigarettes and watch. Not quite as bad as again I;d say all of the girls would have been 18 - 21 (though I believe a couple were probably 17) but yeah. An ADMIN! :omgno:

I mean a couple of mods here have asked for dikpix but never an admin...

Dezzy :nono:

[TomToWin]

Do not let the past influence the future.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Do not let the past influence the future.

You would be silly not to let the past influence the future imo, you learn from experience and all that

[waterhog]

I like a good read of this forum and it is evident that a lot of posters post through raw emotion and the posts can sometimes seem OTT and end up being deleted.

So should forums be more open to the raw emotion that people feel with certain subjects?

a bit like a exclusive club ? come to Highgate tomtom = I will give you the VIP treatment.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

a bit like a exclusive club ? come to Highgate tomtom = I will give you the VIP treatment.

More like the DP treatment

:hehe:

[Nicky91]

Don't you want to air your passions, Nicky?

do you want to be creepy :creep:

[Christmas Dynasnow]

:omgno:

[ChristmasNeeve]

do you want to be creepy :creep:

D:

[Amy Jade]

This thread reminds me of the times I used to be on a site called Stardoll when I was about 10 and a girl who was 11 went on ******** and shoved a sky remote up herself and a 20 odd year old guy begged loads of us to send nudes or strip on cam and he kept flashing his dick

[Nicky91]

This thread reminds me of the times I used to be on a site called Stardoll when I was about 10 and a girl who was 11 went on ******** and shoved a sky remote up herself and a 20 odd year old guy begged loads of us to send nudes or strip on cam and he kept flashing his dick

yep you've got some disgusting people in the world, taking advantage of young naive children :worry:

[ChristmasNeeve]

This thread reminds me of the times I used to be on a site called Stardoll when I was about 10 and a girl who was 11 went on ******** and shoved a sky remote up herself and a 20 odd year old guy begged loads of us to send nudes or strip on cam and he kept flashing his dick

jesus :/

[TomToWin]

This thread reminds me of the times I used to be on a site called Stardoll when I was about 10 and a girl who was 11 went on ******** and shoved a sky remote up herself and a 20 odd year old guy begged loads of us to send nudes or strip on cam and he kept flashing his dick

I don't see how this thread remindes you of some random paedophile type thing.:shrug:

[Smithy]

omg I never knew about this :o

Zoe/zotler

[ChristmasNeeve]

I don't see how this thread remindes you of some random paedophile type thing.:shrug:

I'd imagine she's just talking about other comments in the thread rather than your OP tbf

[ChristmasNeeve]

Zoe/zotler

omg, who recorder her?

[Nicky91]

I'd imagine she's just talking about other comments in the thread rather than your OP tbf

yes i think the same, some are rather disturbing :(

[Smithy]

omg, who recorder her?

No one :suspect:

[Amy Jade]

I don't see how this thread remindes you of some random paedophile type thing.:shrug:

Not your post specifically but the discussions about girls who are underage showing themselves on cam

[ChristmasNeeve]

No one :suspect:

how do you mean she was "exposed" then? idgi?

[TomToWin]

Not your post specifically but the discussions about girls who are underage showing themselves on cam

Phew, I feel better now.

[Amy Jade]

I was such a good girl I just used to sit there dressing up dolls and this girl was shoving a tv remote up herself and some guy was swinging his dick around :laugh:

Thinking back it was so messed up but we just used to laugh about it and dress up britney spears

[ChristmasNeeve]

I was such a good girl I just used to sit there dressing up dolls and this girl was shoving a tv remote up herself and some guy was swinging his dick around :laugh:

Thinking back it was so messed up but we just used to laugh about it and dress up britney spears

Did your parents never look in on you when you were online? At 10 years of age?

[Smithy]

how do you mean she was "exposed" then? idgi?

Someone came into tinychát anonymously and posted a link iirc

[Nicky91]

I was such a good girl I just used to sit there dressing up dolls and this girl was shoving a tv remote up herself and some guy was swinging his dick around :laugh:

Thinking back it was so messed up but we just used to laugh about it and dress up britney spears

as a 10 year old you probably didn't know better, but yes pretty messed up


it is brave to talk about this now

[MB.]

How did this thread go from "let's be more open to raw emotion" to "I once saw an eleven-year old shove a Sky remote up herself"

[ChristmasNeeve]

Someone came into tinychát anonymously and posted a link iirc

Oh god, that should have been reported to someone, that's like child porn or something, surely?

[Christmas Dynasnow]

When I was 10 there was no internet and all the paedos were like teachers, vicars, people on buses and trains, neighbours and Scoutmasters

I would hate to live in this dangerous online world it is now

no one is safe, not like before

:worry:

[Nicky91]

When I was 10 there was no internet and all the paedos were like teachers, vicars, people on buses and trains, neighbours and Scoutmasters

I would hate to live in this dangerous online world it is now

no one is safe, not like before

:worry:

Another Brick in the Wall, Pink Floyd has got the lyric Teacher leave those kids alone :laugh:

[Kizzy]

What the hell?... Can I not leave you lot alone for a week without this shenanigans?! :/

[RileyH]

honestly why would you want to stick a sky remote up yer arse

[thesheriff443]

honestly why would you want to stick a sky remote up yer arse

Because there was ****e on tv.

The look on josys face as she reads this thread.

[thesheriff443]

If you are feeling raw emotion you could crush a grape, open up your hand hand and see how you destroyed it then throw its crushed body in the bin.

[user104658]

do you want to be creepy :creep:I have given this a lot of thought and I don't know Nicky. I just don't know.

[smudgie]

Depends what you meant by emotion.
Let off a little steam:fist::fist:
Tell a few little secrets:wink:
Some might find it easier to "talk" about emotional stuff online.

[Northern Monkey]

Atleast it was'nt a virgin remote

[Northern Monkey]

jesus :/

I don't think Jesus was a pedo

[RileyH]

I don't think Jesus was a pedo

you just never know