View Full Version : Which of these ABHORRENT deeds is worse?
Smithy
01-11-2017, 06:36 PM
Being left on unread after someone has been online OR someone reading your message and not replying
Marsh.
01-11-2017, 06:37 PM
If they've not read it they're unaware and it's fine.
If they've read it and not replied then they're deliberately avoiding or ignoring so DIE.
Smithy
01-11-2017, 06:40 PM
If they've not read it they're unaware and it's fine.
If they've read it and not replied then they're deliberately avoiding or ignoring so DIE.
But when someone has been online more than once then they obv have seen the notification
caprimint
01-11-2017, 06:47 PM
It does annoy me if someone's been online and is obviously not reading the message, but no reply is definitely the worst, can't stand being ignored
Marsh.
01-11-2017, 07:12 PM
But when someone has been online more than once then they obv have seen the notification
Well that's just as bad as leaving on read in that case. SCUM
Reading and not replying:omgno:
Cherie
02-11-2017, 04:52 PM
Reading and not replying:omgno:
yes :omgno:
Greg!
02-11-2017, 04:53 PM
Left on read is so much worse than being left on unread omg because then you know for certain they've chose to ignore you
Greg!
02-11-2017, 04:54 PM
Oh just realised I voted for the wrong thing oops
Crimson Dynamo
02-11-2017, 05:01 PM
i never check so would never know
most of the time i am glad when i pick my phone up and there is (rarely) no message
the amount of stuff I get from the girls, the TL, TL jnr and ex Mrs LT
:idc:
what i do know is if I reply to ^^^^ it generates tons of stuff and so i try not to reply too much
Jordan.
02-11-2017, 05:04 PM
I find left unread more rude if you know it's being done purposefully, at least if they open it and don't reply they've still taken the time to acknowledge what you've sent.
I will sometimes leave something unread if I've seen that someone's messaged me but don't think I have the time to reply to it or engage in a conversation with them right now. If I read it then don't reply it comes across like you don't want to talk to them imo
reece(:
02-11-2017, 05:29 PM
Left on read!
Smithy
02-11-2017, 07:03 PM
Reading and not replying:omgno:
wow a bit like that wall post I left you THREE DAYS AGO
I will sometimes leave something unread if I've seen that someone's messaged me but don't think I have the time to reply to it or engage in a conversation with them right now. If I read it then don't reply it comes across like you don't want to talk to them imo
BUT if someone goes online more than once after you send the message then you obv have the time to reply
caprimint
02-11-2017, 07:49 PM
I will sometimes leave something unread if I've seen that someone's messaged me but don't think I have the time to reply to it or engage in a conversation with them right now. If I read it then don't reply it comes across like you don't want to talk to them imo
Yeah I mean I've done it too, but I've seen people do it like literally all day long and stay online for a good few minutes when they do open the app (yes I was lame enough to watch) :inamood:
wow a bit like that wall post I left you THREE DAYS AGO
BUT if someone goes online more than once after you send the message then you obv have the time to reply
I dont see wall posts on my phone
Either that or i read it and just ignored you :idc:
Being honest here though if a message notification pops up on my messenger and I see who its from and the first little part of the message like without clicking on it (so they cant see if ive read it lol) I sometimes ignore it until I can be bothered :hee:
Apple202
02-11-2017, 09:07 PM
left on unread when they've been online which coincidentally is happening to me right now
Cherie
02-11-2017, 09:19 PM
left on unread when they've been online which coincidentally is happening to me right now
:amazed:
Jason.
02-11-2017, 09:21 PM
Being honest here though if a message notification pops up on my messenger and I see who its from and the first little part of the message like without clicking on it (so they cant see if ive read it lol) I sometimes ignore it until I can be bothered :hee:
I do this too. :joker:
Matthew.
02-11-2017, 09:26 PM
Opening it and not replying.
I have been known to just ignore it while answering other people though :joker:ahaha
Withano
02-11-2017, 09:33 PM
Oh wow, I need to change my ways. I always read messages asap and ignore them if I dont have a response lol.
I assumed people knew that ofc the recipient has read it even if it doesnt show up as read bc it comes up on the homescreen so whats the point.
Slightly confused by the results tbh
Smithy
02-11-2017, 10:03 PM
Oh wow, I need to change my ways. I always read messages asap and ignore them if I dont have a response lol.
I assumed people knew that ofc the recipient has read it even if it doesnt show up as read bc it comes up on the homescreen so whats the point.
Slightly confused by the results tbh
I don't have mine visible on the home screen bc i don't want people to know what I'm talking about :ninja2:
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