Whose side are you on: India or Amanda?

[Jake.]

Poll incoming

[Epic.]

Neither, that better be an option

[Samm]

both are a scream

[Jake.]

Silly thread. Nothing to see here.

:umm2:

[Daniel.]

Amanda

I get India is offended but she milking it to make Amanda look unpleasant

[Northern Monkey]

Almo one hunna

[EspeonBB]

I get why India was initially upset but Amanda apologized and seemed genuinely sorry. India was trying to make a big deal out of something minor

[Jamie89]

Amanda

I get India is offended but she milking it to make Amanda look unpleasant

This. I do feel sorry for India but her reaction towards Amanda was unjust.

[Vicky.]

Amanda. India was an utter dick there mind.

[Ashsleigh]

Amanda.

India's reaction was a joke.

[Withano]

Somewhere between the thord and fourth option. I do t think they came off great at all, but I see where they were both coming from.

[RileyH]

Amanda

India overreatced

[Good King Glennceslas]

Amanda.

India is repulsive

[RichardG]

Takes one to know one :joker:

editing out the insult to vicky

an edgy comeback

[joeysteele]

Amanda all the way.

India is coming across terribly.

[Daniel-X]

Amanda. India = pig.

[pontyboi]

What about everyone else calling her a he multiple times during the conversation after the argument? I felt bad for Amanda and agreed with Rachel when she stated that India was being manipulative.

[Cherry Christmas]

Hit the wrong button agreed with both I can understand India being annoyed but she dragged it on to ridiculous levels

[Pete.]

I get why India was initially upset but Amanda apologized and seemed genuinely sorry.

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[jaxie]

I think India was way OTT. I felt sorry for Amanda, she apologized it should have been dropped. While I was talking to my son about it, I misnamed him his dad's name. :facepalm: Luckily he has a sense of humour and thought it was hilarious.

[Wizard.]

America

[JerseyWins]

Amanda but the way India took it was still sort of amusing.

[Cal.]

See both sides.

It was a mistake on Amanda's part but it must be horrifying on India's part for this to happen

[_baileys_]

Amanda

India behaved like a 5 year old having a temper tantrum...

[smudgie]

Amanda.

India comes across as rude and petty.
Get over yourself for goodness sake.

[Spoon]

Amanda's. India has a right to not be misgendered, but she was VERY OTT in her reaction. Amanda clearly meant no harm and immediately, then repeatedly apologized.

[C_JEE]

I think Amanda chuckling afterwards made it worse for Indie. But, I think it was nerves/embarrassment that made Amanda giggle. I do think Indie let it upset her too much but it is a very sensitive issue for her & I think these things fuelled her upset:-
~Ann telling her that the apology should be sufficient;
~In the kitchen while Indie was speaking - several of the housemates verbally stepped in to diffuse the situation - which, when you are emotionally worked up must feel like someone is taking away your voice so must be very frustrating.

Don't get me wrong - I do think she came down too hard on Amanda in the kitchen but as Rachel said - by being referred to as 'him' - it must make Indie feel that she is not being seen/recognised as a woman & after all she has gone through - this must be incredibly upsetting. Hopefully since then, they've had a chance to chat & make up.

[Ant.]

I agree with India in the sense that she has every right to be hurt and lash out in the heat of the moment - she's vulnerable, especially only just recently transitioning, and it's happened a lot. Also, Amanda laughed - nervous laughter or not, it's not hard to see why India may have taken it as malicious

What I don't agree with is how she carried it on. The moment passed, she had time to calm down, and Amanda continued on apologising, trying to explain but not excuse herself, and asking for forgiveness... to which it was rejected? If India was honest and said "I appreciate it was a mistake, I'm still hurt by it, thank you for apologising and I accept it, please don't do it again", then I'd be 100% on her side, but India just made an enemy out of someone who's lovely and could've been one of her biggest supporters, for what?

[Vicky.]

Hopefully since then, they've had a chance to chat & make up.

Like when they were alone in the Garden and Amanda tried yet again to apologise and India behaved like a petulant 5 year old and finally ranted at Amandas back about it as Amanda was leaving?

Honestly, the only thing Amanda did wrong was apologise too many times. After the first refusal that would be me saying basically..fine **** you mate.

[Patricia4]

Amanda

[armand.kay]

both legendary, can we stop pitting women against each other.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

when all three called her he in the ensuing argument

:joker:

[Eddie.]

Amanda.

[chuff me dizzy]

Like when they were alone in the Garden and Amanda tried yet again to apologise and India behaved like a petulant 5 year old and finally ranted at Amandas back about it as Amanda was leaving?

Honestly, the only thing Amanda did wrong was apologise too many times. After the first refusal that would be me saying basically..fine **** you mate.

Me too ......... India milking it for all it was worth ,1st the drama in the bedroom, then into the freezing garden for over half an hour ,Amanda gave her the camera time she craved

[Parmy]

Im dressing to the right on this one.

[Nicky91]

Amanda, but i do not dislike India at all either