View Full Version : Do men prefer Blonde women?
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 08:54 AM
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Its a saying and it may date all the way back to the Scandinavian invasions of Britain but do you think men in the UK are naturally attracted to blonde women?
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Babayaro.
14-02-2018, 09:13 AM
It doesn't actually matter to me tbh. Blondes tend to be better looking on TV, etc but in real life you don't see as many 'good looking' ones
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 09:23 AM
It doesn't actually matter to me tbh. Blondes tend to be better looking on TV, etc but in real life you don't see as many 'good looking' ones
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Babayaro.
14-02-2018, 09:32 AM
Exactly
thesheriff443
14-02-2018, 09:43 AM
As a man who has been lucky to have had lots of women in my life with all hair colours I would say no.
Plus you can get great colour from a bottle and collars and cuffs don't match these days.
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 09:51 AM
As a man who has been lucky to have had lots of women in my life with all hair colours I would say no.
Plus you can get great colour from a bottle and collars and cuffs don't match these days.
Yes but the blonde hair and dark eyebrows look is very good
Underscore
14-02-2018, 09:55 AM
I'm gay, and I definitely 'prefer' men with blonde hair but I guess it's just preferences. I wouldn't not date someone if they had brown hair though.
thesheriff443
14-02-2018, 09:58 AM
Yes but the blonde hair and dark eyebrows look is very good
Il be honest I left a beautiful blonde ladies house one night because after spending the evening out with her, her voice was grating on me.
Barry.
14-02-2018, 10:03 AM
I'm gay, and I definitely 'prefer' men with blonde hair but I guess it's just preferences. I wouldn't not date someone if they had brown hair though.
Thought you were a girl lol. Blonde guys yes.
caprimint
14-02-2018, 12:54 PM
I'm female and prefer blonde girls :spin:
Vicky.
14-02-2018, 12:56 PM
I got more attention when my hair was dark (or purple) than I did when I was blonde.
Back in the day before I got old and fat :D
Niamh.
14-02-2018, 12:59 PM
I think men prefer good looking women, I don't think hair colour is much of a factor :laugh:
Cherie
14-02-2018, 01:01 PM
I think men prefer good looking women, I don't think hair colour is much of a factor :laugh:
this really, and personality has to appeal as well, otherwise they may as well bang a blow up doll :skull:
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:02 PM
I think men prefer good looking women, I don't think hair colour is much of a factor :laugh:
Then why do so so many women colour their hair blonde?
Cherie
14-02-2018, 01:04 PM
Then why do so so many women colour their hair blonde?
change of look, like changing a make up style...we don't all do it to attract blokes otherwise why would women in committed relationships do it :laugh:
Cherie
14-02-2018, 01:06 PM
I'm growing my hair out at the moment as I can't be arsed with colouring it anymore, so will be au naturel in about 6 months, there's some information nobody asked for :hee:
Niamh.
14-02-2018, 01:06 PM
Then why do so so many women colour their hair blonde?
Because they like it?
Cherie
14-02-2018, 01:08 PM
Because they like it?
Imagine LT's shock when TL goes brunette :hehe:
Niamh.
14-02-2018, 01:09 PM
Imagine LT's shock when TL goes brunette :hehe:
:laugh2:
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:10 PM
change of look, like changing a make up style...we don't all do it to attract blokes otherwise why would women in committed relationships do it :laugh:
Lol
Its solely because they think it will make them more attractive
LaLaLand
14-02-2018, 01:10 PM
I'm definitely a brunette kinda guy.
montblanc
14-02-2018, 01:13 PM
Lol
Its solely because they think it will make them more attractive
or just because they want blonde hair omg :joker:
Vicky.
14-02-2018, 01:15 PM
Everything a woman does must be about pleasing men :idc:
Niamh.
14-02-2018, 01:20 PM
Personally speaking I get blonde highlights because my hair was naturally blonde as a kid, it got a bit darker as I got older so I just wanted it back to how it was, it takes easier than dying my hair dark would as well because it's already naturally pretty light in colour, equally people I know who dye their hair darker colours usually have naturally darker hair. It's alot of effort to dye dark hair blonde
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:21 PM
Everything a woman does must be about pleasing men :idc:
Its our innate desire to be liked (attractive) and feel important. Its second only to the need to have sex which is linked.
read https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B004C055A4/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:22 PM
and ask yourself why red lipstick is so popular.....
:idc:
Cherie
14-02-2018, 01:23 PM
Lol
Its solely because they think it will make them more attractive
yes of course but you could argue the same about dying your hair any other colour, or wearing make up or whatever, its about feeling good about yourself, if I go to a meeting I always wear make up even if it is all women in attendence as it makes me feel more control and that works for both men and women, maybe I am a lesbian and I didn't know it..:fist:
Cherie
14-02-2018, 01:25 PM
and ask yourself why red lipstick is so popular.....
:idc:
serious question would you be annoyed if TL went brunette? in other words are you really that shallow :hee:
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:26 PM
yes of course but you could argue the same about dying your hair any other colour, or wearing make up or whatever, its about feeling good about yourself, if I go to a meeting I always wear make up even if it is all women in attendence as it makes me feel more control and that works for both men and women, maybe I am a lesbian and I didn't know it..:fist:
"feeling good about yourself"
is just a sterile way of saying exactly what i said
you feel good by feeling important and being attractive to the opposite sex because its a huge innate evolutionary desire that drives you.
although blonde does cover up grey hairs so their is that going on for women in their 40s
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:27 PM
serious question would you be annoyed if TL went brunette? in other words are you really that shallow :hee:
She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair
:shocked:
Niamh.
14-02-2018, 01:28 PM
She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair
:shocked:
Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT :hehe:
Cherie
14-02-2018, 01:28 PM
"feeling good about yourself"
is just a sterile way of saying exactly what i said
you feel good by feeling important and being attractive to the opposite sex because its a huge innate evolutionary desire that drives you.
although blonde does cover up grey hairs so their is that going on for women in their 40s
so by that reasoning I also want to be attractive to women :laugh: which I don't :idc:
Cherie
14-02-2018, 01:29 PM
She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair
:shocked:
I don't believe you :nono:
Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT :hehe:
:hehe:
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:33 PM
Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT :hehe:
I have not specified a preference in this thread :hee:
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:35 PM
so by that reasoning I also want to be attractive to women :laugh: which I don't :idc:
no, you want to be MORE attractive than other women
again its an innate desire established through many hundreds of thousands of years
(you see this in BB all the time)
Niamh.
14-02-2018, 01:35 PM
I have not specified a preference in this thread :hee:
Doesn't matter, she will think all men prefer blondes because of nature and animal instincts etc
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:40 PM
Doesn't matter, she will think all men prefer blondes because of nature and animal instincts etc
We were discussing this last night as we watched that Sex Doll docu (which was :umm2: odd)
The blonde hair thing dates back to Viking times as they brought blonde women and us lot were dark haired or red haired and so they became unusual and sought after
Niamh.
14-02-2018, 01:45 PM
We were discussing this last night as we watched that Sex Doll docu (which was :umm2: odd)
The blonde hair thing dates back to Viking times as they brought blonde women and us lot were dark haired or red haired and so they became unusual and sought after
That only makes sense if you live in a country where Vikings invaded though
JerseyWins
14-02-2018, 01:55 PM
Brunettes >>>>>
Blondes can be really hot too but usually I find more brunettes good looking. And redheads for some spice!
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 01:59 PM
That only makes sense if you live in a country where Vikings invaded though
yes a lot of europe but then we brits exported this to the USA and Oceania
Its not a thing in Africa or South America i dont think, or India or china/Japan
Marches
14-02-2018, 02:05 PM
Everything a woman does must be about pleasing men :idc:
Yeah women do up their hair and get nice make up not because they want to look nice and feel good about themselves, but because they want to appease the patriarchy
Niamh.
14-02-2018, 02:12 PM
yes a lot of europe but then we brits exported this to the USA and Oceania
Its not a thing in Africa or South America i dont think, or India or china/Japan
Probably because those ethnicities wouldn't really have natural blondes
Vicky.
14-02-2018, 02:23 PM
Yeah women do up their hair and get nice make up not because they want to look nice and feel good about themselves, but because they want to appease the patriarchy
I don't fully understand patriarcy arguments if I am honest
But I do think a lot of things women do its because they are kind of pressured to do so by society. Stuff like shaving legs for example, of course some women may want to do it, some may do it to look more attractive, but some feel pressure to do it, because of the reaction they would get if they did not. If that makes sense.
Look at the reaction in the Lourdes pit hair thread tbh, for examples of this :laugh:
GoldHeart
14-02-2018, 02:23 PM
Then why do so so many women colour their hair blonde?
Blonde women change their hair colour too you know :idc:
caprimint
14-02-2018, 03:33 PM
Lol
Its solely because they think it will make them more attractive
For me it's because I prefer blonde (in general and it suits me more imo). I certainly don't do it for the benefit of anyone else :hee:
caprimint
14-02-2018, 03:34 PM
Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT :hehe:
:laugh2:
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 03:48 PM
For me it's because I prefer blonde (in general and it suits me more imo). I certainly don't do it for the benefit of anyone else :hee:
Its innate so you probably don't even realise
Marches
14-02-2018, 03:57 PM
I don't fully understand patriarcy arguments if I am honest
But I do think a lot of things women do its because they are kind of pressured to do so by society. Stuff like shaving legs for example, of course some women may want to do it, some may do it to look more attractive, but some feel pressure to do it, because of the reaction they would get if they did not. If that makes sense.
Look at the reaction in the Lourdes pit hair thread tbh, for examples of this :laugh:
The pressure from ‘society’, imo, is from both genders funnily enough lol some women get catty about this kinda **** and honestly Ik a lot of men who prefer women without make up, plastic hair and body features ect
But I don’t think there’s that much wrong with a little bit of work or bothering with your appearance. A lot of women enjoy getting dressed up and doing their hair and make up. People dye their hair certain colours and do different things to their body to make a statement and feel good about themselves. Of course this might imply a bigger problem with society. Maybe we are too dependant on looks. But this is a widespread problem with the modern day and social media that involves far, far more than wanting to impress those darn men that are holding women down,,l
Kazanne
14-02-2018, 03:58 PM
I have had my hair all colours,it's blonde at the moment, but I do love it dark aswell,I just do whatever the mood takes me , seriously thinking of that gorgeous red colour that's about now,but not sure it would suit me,so not been that brave yet.As for men preferring blondes I think some might go along with that thought of blondes have more fun,but a lot of men I know prefer brunettes, but it could just be down to how blondes are perceived.
I prefer dark haired guys oop
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 04:02 PM
My fave in Charlie's angels was always Sabrina
Nicky91
14-02-2018, 04:03 PM
My fave in Charlie's angels was always Sabrina
i don't remember tv show character names, but Jaclyn Smith is still a hottie :drool:
GoldHeart
14-02-2018, 04:07 PM
I have had my hair all colours,it's blonde at the moment, but I do love it dark aswell,I just do whatever the mood takes me , seriously thinking of that gorgeous red colour that's about now,but not sure it would suit me,so not been that brave yet.As for men preferring blondes I think some might go along with that thought of blondes have more fun,but a lot of men I know prefer brunettes, but it could just be down to how blondes are perceived.
Everyone is different some like blondes, some like brunettes and some like red hair. And other's aren't fussy .
Plus blondes dye their hair different colours as well :joker: , not everyone wants to be blonde.
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 04:13 PM
A good looking blonde will always turn more heads
Factoid
montblanc
14-02-2018, 04:18 PM
A good looking blonde will always turn more heads
Factoid
it's funny because during Love Island last year (which i doubt you watch :joker:) EVERY SINGLE guy said that they prefer brunettes to blondes as they're type :skull:
most of the guys ended up with blondes ironic enough bc there were so many :joker:
Crimson Dynamo
14-02-2018, 04:19 PM
it's funny because during Love Island last year (which i doubt you watch :joker:) EVERY SINGLE guy said that they prefer brunettes to blondes as they're type :skull:
most of the guys ended up with blondes ironic enough bc there were so many :joker:
I'd imagine they lied to try and not appear shallow on tv
caprimint
14-02-2018, 04:20 PM
Its innate so you probably don't even realise
I realize the reasons for the things that I do :conf:
GoldHeart
14-02-2018, 04:21 PM
A good looking blonde will always turn more heads
Factoid
Loads of brunettes turn heads as well. It's a myth that men prefer blondes .
thesheriff443
14-02-2018, 04:25 PM
A good looking blonde will always turn more heads
Factoid
Not if a brunette got her fanny out
Vicky.
14-02-2018, 05:10 PM
The pressure from ‘society’, imo, is from both genders funnily enough lol some women get catty about this kinda **** and honestly Ik a lot of men who prefer women without make up, plastic hair and body features ect
But I don’t think there’s that much wrong with a little bit of work or bothering with your appearance. A lot of women enjoy getting dressed up and doing their hair and make up. People dye their hair certain colours and do different things to their body to make a statement and feel good about themselves. Of course this might imply a bigger problem with society. Maybe we are too dependant on looks. But this is a widespread problem with the modern day and social media that involves far, far more than wanting to impress those darn men that are holding women down,,l
Of course. It comes from both men and women. Possibly women more at times as they (speaking broadly of course) seem to judge other women far more harshly than they judge men.
GoldHeart
14-02-2018, 05:22 PM
Of course. It comes from both men and women. Possibly women more at times as they (speaking broadly of course) seem to judge other women far more harshly than they judge men.
I still don't know why people think blondes get more attention. From some men they do but other hair colours get attention too .
Tozzie
14-02-2018, 07:18 PM
I like men with dark hair yet I married a blonde man, mind you his hair is skin colour now :hehe:
waterhog
14-02-2018, 08:10 PM
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Its a saying and it may date all the way back to the Scandinavian invasions of Britain but do you think men in the UK are naturally attracted to blonde women?
https://www.ukhairdressers.com/style/hairstyles/20843/Celebrity%20Hairstyles-Long-Blonde-Straight-hairstyles.jpghttps://media.glamour.com/photos/5695a0a793ef4b09520da005/master/w_1280,c_limit/beauty-blogs-girls-in-the-beauty-department-2011-07-21-0721-victorias-secret-Candice-Swanepoel_gb.jpg
getting older as I type - its not what I like - its if they like me :joker:
Tozzie
14-02-2018, 08:16 PM
getting older as I type - its not what I like - its if they like me :joker:
:joker::joker:
-Sue-
15-02-2018, 01:30 PM
Most men these days appear to like any woman with a pulse and a fake tan subscription!
Mystic Mock
20-02-2018, 02:40 AM
I really do think that it comes down to the individual in this case as we all have different ticks that make us get sexually attracted to someone.
Personally I tend to find that I like alot of blonde women, redheads, and gothic looking women, but I have fancied all kinds of women in the past, even overweight women on some occasions.
Mystic Mock
20-02-2018, 02:53 AM
it's funny because during Love Island last year (which i doubt you watch :joker:) EVERY SINGLE guy said that they prefer brunettes to blondes as they're type :skull:
most of the guys ended up with blondes ironic enough bc there were so many :joker:
Love Island is a scripted Soap Opera though, even down to the fact that all of the guys had the same preference in women which just isn't believable.
Eddie.
20-02-2018, 03:43 AM
As a bisexual male, I really don't mind the looks one bit, more on the personality...
user104658
21-02-2018, 08:58 AM
Generally, the darker the better for me :shrug:. Although different people suit different colours.
There is SOME evidence that in general Westerners are more immediately attracted to blonde hair though. But that doesn't mean that everyone secretly prefers it :think:.
Crimson Dynamo
21-02-2018, 09:04 AM
As a bisexual male, I really don't mind the looks one bit, more on the personality...
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