Love or Money?

[Tony Montana]

The Classic age old Question.

So which is it for you guys?

[RileyH]

Money

[AnnieK]

The poll result on this have shattered my illusions.....
Kirklancaster - money
And there was me thinking he was a traditional romantic.....sigh.....:laugh:

[smudgie]

Love.
Real love will last a lifetime and help you through most storms.
Money really can’t buy everything in life.

[AnnieK]

Love.
Real love will last a lifetime and help you through most storms.
Money really can’t buy everything in life.

:clap1: :love:

[Withano]

Love.
Real love will last a lifetime and help you through most storms.
Money really can’t buy everything in life.

Your most expensive bottle of champagne!
And how are you paying for that? Cash or card?
The power of love.

[RileyH]

Your most expensive bottle of champagne!
And how are you paying for that? Cash or card?
The power of love.

:laugh2:

[AnnieK]

Your most expensive bottle of champagne!
And how are you paying for that? Cash or card?
The power of love.

But after that champagne has been drunk and you go home alone, your fat wallet won't give you a cuddle

[Withano]

But after that champagne has been drunk and you go home alone, your fat wallet won't give you a cuddle

https://thumbs.gfycat.com/LegalInsecureBobolink-size_restricted.gif me not caring about cuddles

[AnnieK]

https://thumbs.gfycat.com/LegalInsecureBobolink-size_restricted.gif me not caring about cuddles

:laugh: fair play, I hope you'll be happy together and have a deep and meaningful relationship

[LukeB]

But after that champagne has been drunk and you go home alone, your fat wallet won't give you a cuddle

But a cat will :love:

[AnnieK]

But a cat will :love:

Unless you're too pissed from drinking your expensive champagne on your own that you forget to feed it and the poor but loved family down the road give it tuna then it will leave your ass......for love

[montblanc]

right now, money 100% but for long term i guess love

[montblanc]

well actually money because it's probably easier to find SOMEONE to love than it is to become rich

[Livia]

I'd give up money for love... but I'd rather not have to.

[Niamh.]

I'd give up money for love... but I'd rather not have to.

:laugh:

Same, love all the way for me :lovedup:

[Livia]

:laugh:

Same, love all the way for me :lovedup:

We're entitled to both, I'm sure. But yea, love...

Ask me again when we've been married twenty years.

[Niamh.]

We're entitled to both, I'm sure. But yea, love...

Ask me again when we've been married twenty years.

aww me and Gav are together 15 years and he's still the sunshine of my world :lovedup:



( :yuk: )

[Livia]

aww me and Gav are together 15 years and he's till the sunshine of my world :lovedup:



( :yuk: )

LOL... You two were meant to be x

[Eddie.]

Honestly love for me but the decision is very hard.

Though there is a bit of logic in my answer, if I fall in love and marry a rich man/woman (yes I’m bisexual), I may inherit lots of money :joker:

[Crimson Dynamo]

love

did no one watch Car Share last night???

this is what life is about


https://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2018/05/peter-kay-car-share-finale.jpg?w=748&h=420&crop=1

[Livia]

love

did no one watch Car Share last night???

this is what life is about


https://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2018/05/peter-kay-car-share-finale.jpg?w=748&h=420&crop=1

Not clicking your spoiler because I've not seen it yet!

[Niamh.]

love

did no one watch Car Share last night???

this is what life is about


https://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2018/05/peter-kay-car-share-finale.jpg?w=748&h=420&crop=1

aww the TL has melted your heart of stone :love:

[Livia]

aww the TL has melted your heart of stone :love:

We should be thinking about getting some kind of award for her...

[Gstar]

Money

[Niamh.]

We should be thinking about getting some kind of award for her...

I've already given her my 10pts in most loved tbh

[Livia]

I've already given her my 10pts in most loved tbh

LOL...

[Babayaro.]

Love

[Tony Montana]

Bump

[Alf]

Depends on how much money we're talking?

[Vicky.]

Money for sure. I just think how bloody easy life would be without having to worry about money tbh.

[Alf]

I'm un-loveable anyway and rather selfish when it comes to doing things I like and want to do. You have to make sacrifices for love and I just don't think that's in me.

[Nicky91]

Love

[Cherie]

I've already given her my 10pts in most loved tbh

:joker:

[Cherie]

love, although its a toughie as if you are worn out from being poor and trying to pay bills it can kill love so...

[user104658]

Money for sure. I just think how bloody easy life would be without having to worry about money tbh.

I'm a "money worrier" - I get very, very stressed if I'm having cashflow issues - but as I'm also someone who has had periods of very low income and periods of being pretty comfortable... I can say that this is sadly just not true. The worst and most stressful times in my life have had absolutely nothing to do with money. In fact the worst times I can think of are some of the "best off" times :shrug:.

First was in my teens living in a very unhappy household, my parents barely spoke, it was just... cold. A really empty environment. But at that point their combined income was decent / high, money wasn't any issue at all, but it meant nothing.

Second was the (roughly) 18 months / 2 years following my mum's death, which for various reasons were some of the hardest years of my life thus far. Yet I inherited a decent amount when she died, so it was also the most financially comfortable I've been in my adult life. Being debt free / being able to buy a new car, go on holiday, etc. was great but the bare facts are I have absolutely no idea where I would be without my wife & the girls. Nowhere good, basically.


I do think having enough money to make ends meet + have a decent disposable income for recreation is important, I'm not saying it isn't, but it's definitely secondary to having meaningful connections in life. Human connection is vital for good mental health, money is not, and when it comes right down to it, mental health is ALL that actually matters for living a happy life.

[Niamh.]

I'm a "money worrier" - I get very, very stressed if I'm having cashflow issues - but as I'm also someone who has had periods of very low income and periods of being pretty comfortable... I can say that this is sadly just not true. The worst and most stressful times in my life have had absolutely nothing to do with money. In fact the worst times I can think of are some of the "best off" times :shrug:.

First was in my teens living in a very unhappy household, my parents barely spoke, it was just... cold. A really empty environment. But at that point their combined income was decent / high, money wasn't any issue at all, but it meant nothing.

Second was the (roughly) 18 months / 2 years following my mum's death, which for various reasons were some of the hardest years of my life thus far. Yet I inherited a decent amount when she died, so it was also the most financially comfortable I've been in my adult life. Being debt free / being able to buy a new car, go on holiday, etc. was great but the bare facts are I have absolutely no idea where I would be without my wife & the girls. Nowhere good, basically.


I do think having enough money to make ends meet + have a decent disposable income for recreation is important, I'm not saying it isn't, but it's definitely secondary to having meaningful connections in life. Human connection is vital for good mental health, money is not, and when it comes right down to it, mental health is ALL that actually matters for living a happy life.

100% when you're on your death bed you're not going to be thinking about all the stuff you bought in life that's for sure

[Vicky.]

When I am on my deathbed I reckon all I will be thinking about is getting enough drugs to see me off happily, tbh :idc:

I understand what you mean TS, but emotional connections just are not a thing for me really. I only actually have strong feelings for my children anyway. I can 'act' 'normal' but I don't really fit with people I know as they are all so bloody emotional so often and I see it as either them acting ridiculously on purpose for attention (for example sitting in the middle of a crowded pub crying your eyes put as your partner has finished with you..like who the **** does that?! But it seems common), or them being a bit mentally unstable. So love, is not really something I care about at all. Nor is it..something I know I have ever experienced, despite being married for 2 years and with him for 11. Maybe it would be different if I had experienced this earth moving huge thing that people say they experience. Who knows. I am pretty skeptical that 'love; as described in novels and such is a real thing anyway, where I know money is a real thing :D

And having never really had a decent amount of disposable income, I would do pretty much anything to see what its like.

I guess a question I would have about it though, is it is ALL love? Or just romantic 'love' which I took the question to be. I would give up romantic connections in a heartbeat, it only becomes a hard question for me if it means like, everyone I know would totally hate me. And even then, I wouldn't care about friends and such tbh, but like, if it meant my kids would turn against me then its a no. Anyone else..I would still go for money

[Josy]

Love.
Real love will last a lifetime and help you through most storms.
Money really can’t buy everything in life./thread

[Tony Montana]

Bump

[armand.kay]

I was gonna vote love but thenI thought about how unbearable life would be without the people I love

[Glenn.]

Money. You can literally pay people to sleep with you and other relationship needs.

[armand.kay]

Money. You can literally pay people to sleep with you and other relationship needs.

Family?

[Glenn.]

I’ll buy one from Africa

[Glenn.]

Besides I already have a family. Don’t want kids anyway they’re annoying

[Cal.]

Money bc me and the qirlies could go shopping and I'd buy them all designer and they'd love me anyway

[reece(:]

Money while I'm young

Probably love when I'm old

[Jordan.]

I don't need the money I GOT MONEY

http://digitalspyuk.cdnds.net/18/26/480x319/gallery-1530261695-56a2834f8d5ac-maingemma.jpg

[Jase.]

Kind of a "duh" answer for me tbh.

Love eventually leads to heartache..

Money enables you to do everything you want..

[Matthew.]

i feel heartless and callous for doing so, but i voted Money

[RileyH]

I don't need the money I GOT MONEY

http://digitalspyuk.cdnds.net/18/26/480x319/gallery-1530261695-56a2834f8d5ac-maingemma.jpg

:joker:

[Ant.]

Money tbh

can always buy out a brothel

[Mystic Mock]

1. Money
2. Lust
3. Love

Maybe I'm a bad person for feeling this way, but love is to Disney-esque for my tastes.

[Livia]

I love my fella just as much if we were living in a tent. But the rest of my life would be sh1t, so.... love AND money, please x

[caprimint]

I'd change my vote to love now tbh

[Tony Montana]

Bumping this up due to Boredom and I’m curious to See more opinions

[Gusto Brunt]

Loads of money any day. I can buy all the love I want. :D

https://media.giphy.com/media/65pM9un5dmK08/giphy.gif

[smudgie]

I have never seen my son happier....he has bagged himself an American millionaire.
But they are besotted with each other so maybe the money is irrelevant :joker:

[Elliot]

https://i.gifer.com/Selo.gif

[Tony Montana]

I have never seen my son happier....he has bagged himself an American millionaire.
But they are besotted with each other so maybe the money is irrelevant :joker:

That’s nice to hear, smudgie. Looks like your Son has the best of Both worlds

[Daniel-X]

It’s too hard, I want BOTH of them!
http://digitalspyuk.cdnds.net/18/26/480x319/gallery-1530261695-56a2834f8d5ac-maingemma.jpg

[smudgie]

That’s nice to hear, smudgie. Looks like your Son has the best of Both worlds

Aye, don’t know how long it will last, but they are having a great time together.
Lovely girl, really down to earth and she works hard for her money.

[Jessica.]

Always love.

[user104658]

I know I've posted here already ady but just feel I should reiterate that at the end of the day, money doesnt really buy ****, and love and connection are always far more important, even if it isn't of the romantic variety. :hee: Namaste everyone.

[Oliver_W]

Probably money, in all honesty. I don't like when fags mess with my stuff, so I could be single but have really nice stuff, which would go unmessed with :D

[Daniel.]

Love tbh

[Jigs]

Love.

Money can be attained. Love is hard to find.

[Matthew.]

i feel heartless and callous for doing so, but i voted Money

https://66.media.tumblr.com/37a86344776bd2c13b9860023f7b967e/tumblr_o9x7ydJEfb1uyezdto1_250.gif

[Tony Montana]

Still money for me. Hasn't changed since then and I don't think it ever will

[RileyH]

I want love now :(

[montblanc]

still want money :dance:

[montblanc]

love would be nice though :(

[armand.kay]

I was gonna vote love but thenI thought about how unbearable life would be without the people I love

so after almost falling in love with someone i would like to retract this statement. Keep that love mess AWAY from me give me the money.

[JerseyWins]

I'm trying to make that money first like michael21 :dance:

[Tony Montana]

I want love now :(

What's made you change your mind?

[Niamh.]

so after almost falling in love with someone i would like to retract this statement. Keep that love mess AWAY from me give me the money.

:laugh2:

awww :hug:

[bots]

i have a deep and meaningful love of money

[Liam-]

You can’t live on love

[JerseyWins]

You can’t live on love
Yes you can

http://www.vegasnews.com/wp-content/uploads/10_21_10_hefner_kabik-96-588a.jpg

:fan:

[Dogeatdog]

A tough one but I’d say money, I’m just gonna blame Mr Krabs for this decision.

https://www.pedestrian.tv/content/uploads/2018/08/spongebob-squarepants-mr-krabs-money.jpg

[JerseyWins]

A tough one but I’d say money, I’m just gonna blame Mr Krabs for this decision.

https://www.pedestrian.tv/content/uploads/2018/08/spongebob-squarepants-mr-krabs-money.jpg
I loov me money! ahahaha

[Ant.]

I STILL stand by my decision to choose money. A husband will never pay bills (and knowing my taste in men, my future husband CERTAINLY will NOT be paying for any expenses. He'll be a selfish unemployed slob! And I won't love him because money will mean more to me than he ever will)

[Ant.]

I want love now :(

I think it's a 3 hour train ride from mine to yours?

[Tony Montana]

Yes you can

http://www.vegasnews.com/wp-content/uploads/10_21_10_hefner_kabik-96-588a.jpg

:fan:

:joker:

[Tony Montana]

A tough one but I’d say money, I’m just gonna blame Mr Krabs for this decision.

https://www.pedestrian.tv/content/uploads/2018/08/spongebob-squarepants-mr-krabs-money.jpg

Classic Mr Krabs. :clap1:

[Natalie.]

Money

[Ammi]

...love...:lovedup:...and a little bit of money to get by...

[Wizard.]

Love because love is not just romantic but it’s family and friends and money sounds lonely.

[Tony Montana]

Love because love is not just romantic but it’s family and friends and money sounds lonely.

You can literally pay people to be your best friend.

[Tony Montana]

Money leading the poll. :clap1:

[caprimint]

Make a new poll imo

[Tony Montana]

Make a new poll imo

Why? Would you rather pick love now instead?

[caprimint]

Why? Would you rather pick love now instead?
Yeah I wrote it earlier in the thread :bigsmile:

I think it's easy to say love when you're in a relationship/dating someone though and when you're not it's easy to say money. I honestly never imagined preferring love to money. :skull:

[Dogeatdog]

I still stand by my decision.

https://uploadir.com/u/c4cv5j8g

[Tony Montana]

Yeah I wrote it earlier in the thread :bigsmile:

I think it's easy to say love when you're in a relationship/dating someone though and when you're not it's easy to say money. I honestly never imagined preferring love to money. :skull:

Makes sense. Although I think even if I was dating, I'd still pick money over love as life would be very easy with money.

[Tony Montana]

I still stand by my decision.

https://uploadir.com/u/c4cv5j8g

:clap1: