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reecejackox
30-05-2018, 09:51 PM
I have been to three , two of my grandparents and my uncle

RileyH
30-05-2018, 09:51 PM
0

LaLaLand
30-05-2018, 10:02 PM
6.

3 of which have been in the past 12 months (with another to come shortly, terrible).

Lewismacfarlane
30-05-2018, 10:03 PM
0

montblanc
30-05-2018, 10:04 PM
0

kirklancaster
30-05-2018, 10:38 PM
Around 30 including 7 suicides - all men in their mid-20's to early 30's.

Sad.

JerseyWins
30-05-2018, 10:48 PM
Too many!

montblanc
30-05-2018, 10:51 PM
Too many!

you're the grim reaper confirmed?

BBfanUSA
30-05-2018, 10:53 PM
2 Grandmums, 1 Aunt, a middle school classmate (Cancer), a high school classmate (ATV accident), and a celebration of life for a high school mate (Suicide).

LaLaLand
30-05-2018, 10:57 PM
Around 30 including 7 suicides - all men in their mid-20's to early 30's.

Sad.

Jesus :(

AnnieK
30-05-2018, 11:00 PM
too many....including my mums, 3 grandparents, my best friends mum when we were kids and various other distant family members/ friends of the family, friends parent's etc

Marsh.
30-05-2018, 11:00 PM
Jesus :(

Ok, I know Kirk's old, but I don't think he was at Jesus' funeral.

Denver
30-05-2018, 11:02 PM
Does RileyH's next week count

Babayaro.
30-05-2018, 11:02 PM
5.

My Mum, Grandma (mum's mum), Grandad, (mum's dad), my friend's Grandad and my Gran & Grandad's next door neighbour's husband.

LaLaLand
30-05-2018, 11:05 PM
Ok, I know Kirk's old, but I don't think he was at Jesus' funeral.

https://i.gifer.com/56KC.gif

Tony Montana
30-05-2018, 11:09 PM
2

My Grandmother and My Aunty both in the Space of 3 months.

JerseyWins
30-05-2018, 11:17 PM
you're the grim reaper confirmed?
:joker:

Ok, I know Kirk's old, but I don't think he was at Jesus' funeral.
:joker: :joker: :joker:

RileyH
30-05-2018, 11:22 PM
Ok, I know Kirk's old, but I don't think he was at Jesus' funeral.

:joker::joker::joker::joker:

Eddie.
31-05-2018, 12:01 AM
5. My paternal Grandmother and maternal Grandfather (both due to cancer), my paternal great-Grandmother (old age), a family friend’s daughter (died while hiking during an earthquake, in fact it was a major news story here in Singapore, though I’m not going to share a link due to privacy reasons) and an old Friend of mine who jumped off a building...:(

Glenn.
31-05-2018, 12:40 AM
2.

A close family friend/member and my Grandad's.

Gstar
31-05-2018, 12:46 AM
6

Beso
31-05-2018, 08:33 AM
Can we move this thread please to general chat.

Cal.
31-05-2018, 08:36 AM
1. Just my uncles.

Crimson Dynamo
31-05-2018, 08:36 AM
Can we move this thread please to general chat.

yes this is not a serious debate


my answer is around 20 or so

Crimson Dynamo
31-05-2018, 08:37 AM
Ok, I know Kirk's old, but I don't think he was at Jesus' funeral.

:joker:

Cherie
31-05-2018, 09:08 AM
around 9 I am not a big funeral goer unless I knew the person or their family personally, I don't turn up 'just to be seen' like my family do in Ireland, they must average 3 funerals a month :hee:

Toy Soldier
31-05-2018, 09:38 AM
Only one, my mum's.

I am not a big funeral goer unless I knew the person or their family personally, I don't turn up 'just to be seen' like my family do in Ireland, they must average 3 funerals a month :hee:

This is the same for me, I wouldn't go to the funeral of "an acquaintance" (unless it was e.g. the parent of a close friend where I would go to show support, but none of my friends parents have died). A few of my staff like to go to the funerals of regular customers when they die... if I did that, I would have been to dozens :umm2:.

I would only go to a funeral if it was a family member or an actual friend and - thankfully - I haven't lost any friends thus far, and in terms of my own family, two of my grandparents died before I was born, one when I was 5, and one when I was 7 and my parents thought I was too young to go to those funerals. So I don't actually have any "elderly" relatives to have funerals :think:.

Three of my wife's grandparents are still alive however and now into their 80's, so I can sadly see my "number" increasing a bit over the next ten years.

MTVN
31-05-2018, 09:44 AM
I'm lucky that my Great Grandfather is the only one and he lived to the grand age of 107 so a good innings

Cherie
31-05-2018, 09:45 AM
Only one, my mum's.



This is the same for me, I wouldn't go to the funeral of "an acquaintance" (unless it was e.g. the parent of a close friend where I would go to show support, but none of my friends parents have died). A few of my staff like to go to the funerals of regular customers when they die... if I did that, I would have been to dozens :umm2:.

I would only go to a funeral if it was a family member or an actual friend and - thankfully - I haven't lost any friends thus far, and in terms of my own family, two of my grandparents died before I was born, one when I was 5, and one when I was 7 and my parents thought I was too young to go to those funerals. So I don't actually have any "elderly" relatives to have funerals :think:.

Three of my wife's grandparents are still alive however and now into their 80's, so I can sadly see my "number" increasing a bit over the next ten years.

It annoys me no end, people who never bothered with the person or their family when they were alive turn up to funerals... sod off!

Ashley.
31-05-2018, 09:52 AM
It annoys me no end, people who never bothered with the person or their family when they were alive turn up to funerals... sod off!

This happened when my best friend passed away last year. People who she hadn't seen and probably forgot about showed up, people who didn't even bother to get in touch with her when they found out she had cancer. And I just thought, the cheek of it, really.

smudgie
31-05-2018, 10:17 AM
8 I attended.
1 that I all but attended:conf:
2 in the past year that I declined to go to.

Josy
31-05-2018, 11:09 AM
Far too many was at one Wednesday and have another (a family member) next Tuesday

Nicky91
31-05-2018, 11:11 AM
Far too many was at one Wednesday and have another (a family member) next Tuesday

my condolences to you dear Josy :hug: :sad:

Cherie
31-05-2018, 11:52 AM
This happened when my best friend passed away last year. People who she hadn't seen and probably forgot about showed up, people who didn't even bother to get in touch with her when they found out she had cancer. And I just thought, the cheek of it, really.

People do it for various reasons, mainly for their own guilt

bots
31-05-2018, 12:21 PM
More than I can count, but not any in recent years.

They tend to come in cycles as the generations in your family and their friends hit a certain age

Withano
31-05-2018, 02:51 PM
1, but I was too young to remember it really.

Withano
31-05-2018, 03:14 PM
Can we move this thread please to general chat.

This isnt how you play the game