So is this new? (infraction system)

[Amy Jade]

Your post gets red carded and it appears on your post by the edit feature you can click it and see what you did 'wrong'?

Anyone else noticed that?

[LukeB]

I think thats been there forever

Red is infraction
Yellow is warning

[Amy Jade]

Ahh i'd never noticed that!

[user104658]

I wouldn't know, I never get infractions because the mods gave up on me a long time ago. It's called permissive parenting and it's going to make me grow up all wrong and with cavities :(

Do any of these statements sound like you?

You set rules but rarely enforce them.
You don't give out consequences very often.
You think your child will learn best with little interference from you.
If those statements sound familiar, you might be a permissive mod.

Permissive parents are lenient. They often only step in when there's a serious problem.

They're quite forgiving and they adopt an attitude of "kids will be kids." When they do use consequences, they may not make those consequences stick. They might give privileges back if a child begs or they may allow a child to get out of time-out early if he promises to be good.

Permissive parents usually take on more of a friend role than a parent role. They often encourage their children to talk with them about their problems, but they usually don't put much effort into discouraging poor choices or bad behavior.

Kids who grow up with permissive parents are more likely to struggle academically. They may exhibit more behavioral problems as they don't appreciate authority and rules. They often have low self-esteem and may report a lot of sadness.

They're also at a higher risk for health problems, like obesity, because permissive parents struggle to limit junk food intake. They are even more likely to have dental cavities because permissive parents often don't enforce good habits, like ensuring a child brushes his teeth.

[Tom4784]

I wouldn't know, I never get infractions because the mods gave up on me a long time ago. It's called permissive parenting and it's going to make me grow up all wrong and with cavities :(

Spare the infraction, spoil the member!

[MTVN]

We always see that but I didn't know that members did. I guess the post that's infracted is normally deleted so it's not normally an issue