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Redway
24-07-2018, 11:23 AM
At what age do we think a kid matures into an adult (in more than just a legal sense)?
Niamh.
24-07-2018, 11:25 AM
hhmmm tough one, depends on the person I think but somewhere between 20-23ish? having said that I have an 18 year old daughter and a 20 year old step son and the 18 year old is more of an adult. It also depends alot on their lives as well, how much responsibility they've had/had to take on from a younger age, there's lots of factors
AnnieK
24-07-2018, 11:26 AM
Totally depends. I have known some 16 year olds who are more mature then 25 year olds.
Redway
24-07-2018, 11:27 AM
hhmmm tough one, depends on the person I think but somewhere between 20-23ish? having said that I have an 18 year old daughter and a 20 year old step son and the 18 year old is more of an adult. It also depends alot on their lives as well, how much responsibility they've had/had to take on from a younger age, there's lots of factors
I know girls mature faster than boys so the age of maturity’s probably a little earlier for girls than boys too.
Cherie
24-07-2018, 11:30 AM
Gone for 21, as others have said it depends on the person, i think 25 is pushing it a bit though :laugh:
Crimson Dynamo
24-07-2018, 11:33 AM
certainly not below 20
Redway
24-07-2018, 11:55 AM
Gone for 21, as others have said it depends on the person, i think 25 is pushing it a bit though :laugh:
Mhm. Anything under 25 can still pass as youth.
Nicky91
24-07-2018, 11:58 AM
21 i think
Shaun
24-07-2018, 12:04 PM
the answer is "one year above whatever I currently am"
Vicky.
24-07-2018, 12:26 PM
Apparently the brain is not fully developed until (I think its...) 25
I think some people mature a lot earlier than others though. I lived on my own and had a job since being 16 and managed perfectly well. I do think I am a totally different person now though from then
arista
24-07-2018, 12:27 PM
At what age do we think a child matures into an adult (in more than just a legal sense).
In Some African nations
its 11.
Fetch The Bolt Cutters
24-07-2018, 12:32 PM
the answer is "one year above whatever I currently am"
Tea
Cherie
24-07-2018, 12:37 PM
Mhm. Anything under 25 can still pass as youth.
Youth yes, but the question is adulthood! You are definitely an adult at age 25
Probably 25 for men. 21ish for women.
A shudder at some people classing me as an adult!
the answer is "one year above whatever I currently am"
Spot on
Vicky.
24-07-2018, 12:46 PM
The rational part of a teen's brain isn't fully developed and won't be until age 25 or so.
https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentTypeID=1&ContentID=3051
Redway
24-07-2018, 12:46 PM
In Some African nations
its 11.
I said in more than a legal sense though didn’t I.
Redway
24-07-2018, 12:52 PM
https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentTypeID=1&ContentID=3051
21 to 24’s young adult and 25’s adult in my opinion. 18-20s are legal children for the most part. Especially the lads.
Cherie
24-07-2018, 12:56 PM
all the Peter Pans of the forum exposing themselves :laugh:
Eddie.
24-07-2018, 12:59 PM
21, the age where a teen has properly transitioned into an adult.
18 could work as well if the teen matures fast...
16 is too young and 25 is a bit too old, for most people.
Crimson Dynamo
24-07-2018, 01:46 PM
when you get a mortgage and a car and a ring
Id say you cant escape it then
Mystic Mock
24-07-2018, 02:40 PM
I think that people on average tend to start feeling more independent at around the 16-17 mark so I voted for that on the poll.
Withano
24-07-2018, 02:43 PM
I would say theres a huge difference between a young adult and an adult
24 is about the time when you stop having excuses for being bad at life
Crimson Dynamo
24-07-2018, 02:44 PM
I think that people on average tend to start feeling more independent at around the 16-17 mark so I voted for that on the poll.
that was not the question though?
Mystic Mock
24-07-2018, 02:45 PM
that was not the question though?
Yes it was as adulthood is normally about being more independent and fending for yourself for employment and even having a roof over your head.
Greg!
24-07-2018, 02:54 PM
I didn't read the question properly so put 18! I would say around 21/22. I'm 18 and I certainly don't feel like an adult
Crimson Dynamo
24-07-2018, 02:57 PM
Yes it was as adulthood is normally about being more independent and fending for yourself for employment and even having a roof over your head.
and what has that to do with 16 or 17 years old?
Redway
24-07-2018, 03:10 PM
I think that people on average tend to start feeling more independent at around the 16-17 mark so I voted for that on the poll.
To tell you the truth I left that 16/17 option up there to see who’d actually vote that young for adulthood.
I get your point though.
Mystic Mock
24-07-2018, 03:12 PM
and what has that to do with 16 or 17 years old?
Well 16/17 on average is when people start trying to get a job and be independent, even in this mess of a time it is still the case.
Mystic Mock
24-07-2018, 03:13 PM
To tell you the truth I left that 16/17 option up there to see who’d actually vote that young for adulthood.
I get your point though.
Thanks Redway.
Crimson Dynamo
24-07-2018, 03:14 PM
Well 16/17 on average is when people start trying to get a job and be independent, even in this mess of a time it is still the case.
Most are still at school and many hoping to go to further education?
They are not adults not nothing like adults, i really have no idea what you are on about?
:conf:
Mystic Mock
24-07-2018, 03:16 PM
Most are still at school and many hoping to go to further education?
They are not adults not nothing like adults, i really have no idea what you are on about?
:conf:
Okay LT you're clearly in a contrary mood today I see.:joker:
Crimson Dynamo
24-07-2018, 03:27 PM
Okay LT you're clearly in a contrary mood today I see.:joker:
No
I have a 16 year old and i have had another who was 16 and i know their pals and contemporaries, i have a nephew who is 17 and a niece who is 15 and i live with a 15 year old (the TL'S recalcitrant)and NONE of them are adults nor near adults yet
vile little brats, yes
adults, no
Redway
08-06-2019, 07:08 PM
Anyone else not feel like an adult till 23?
I'm 41 and still as immature as I was at 16, sometimes. I know people in their teens that are more mature than me in some situations. There's some on this forum.
RileyH
08-06-2019, 07:31 PM
I know people in their teens that are more mature than me in some situations. There's some on this forum.
@ me next time x
Kate!
08-06-2019, 07:53 PM
22.
Marsh.
08-06-2019, 08:30 PM
(the TL'S recalcitrant)
:skull:
LaLaLand
08-06-2019, 08:31 PM
I'm 29 in three days (the 11th) and I still don't feel like a proper adult so go figure :joker:
Marsh.
08-06-2019, 08:31 PM
Does anyone ever "feel" like an adult though?
Most people seem to be just scrambling and putting on a face of adulthood, but underneath they are a kid not knowing what the fook is going on. :worry:
Ramsay
08-06-2019, 08:35 PM
the answer is "one year above whatever I currently am"
I've always been a believer in this too
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