I had a really bad experience with a guy last night

[Will.]

I’m in Marbella and I went to travel to meet this guy last night at around midnight in a taxi. He was extremely hot, he was 22 and was basically straight but was getting with guys.

But it ended really badly and it’s made me so depressed.

I just need to talk about it, he’s made me feel awful.

[Nicky91]

it seems a weird story, but sad for you that it felt like a bad experience :(

[Wizard.]

Well what happened?

[Ammi]

I’m in Marbella and I went to travel to meet this guy last night at around midnight in a taxi. He was extremely hot, he was 22 and was basically straight but was getting with guys.

But it ended really badly and it’s made me so depressed.

I just need to talk about it, he’s made me feel awful.

...Will..:hug:...it ended badly but it’s over, eh...try not to feel bad about it or be depressed about it because it won’t feel important in your life in the long term...a fleeting moment, you know..:hug:..

[Will.]

...Will..:hug:...it ended badly but it’s over, eh...try not to feel bad about it or be depressed about it because it won’t feel important in your life in the long term...a fleeting moment, you know..:hug:..

You’re right I need to forget about it but I’m emotionally very weak, I guess it will take time. :love:

[Oliver_W]

Going to meet a rando at midnight who specifies no kissing or cuddling? Yeah, that was always gonna end well.

[Will.]

I was close to just leaving as a soon as I felt uncomfortable but I was scared because I didn’t know what he was capable of.

[Dannyboy2003]

what a idiot

[Morgan.]

What happened to the guy from Portugal (I think it was Portugal :worry:)

[Ammi]

You’re right I need to forget about it but I’m emotionally very weak, I guess it will take time. :love:

..it’s not an emotional weakness, Will..you just are who you are and that’s fairly special, eh..:hug:..

[Will.]

I sucked him for like 45 mins, he said before we started “he takes a long time to cum”

And it got so tiring after a while

[Will.]

..it’s not an emotional weakness, Will..you just are who you are and that’s fairly special, eh..:hug:..

Awww :hug: :love:

[Ammi]

..I’ll leave the technical stuff up to you guys..:laugh:...you’re in the safe hands of TwoSugars, Riley and Blurry, Will...just try not to feel down and let it go, Will...one of those ‘it’s not you, it’s him’ things, I think...:hug:..have a good day and enjoy Marbella, it’s a gorgeous place with so many hidden wonders and beauties away from the tourist stuff..

[Will.]

Thank you Ammi, you’re words are helping, I’ve honestly never felt this depressed as I just feel so worthless and unloved right now.

[Will.]

Your mouth and knees must have gone numb :shocked:

It was on the bed lmao, but yeah it was getting boring. He kept telling me how to do it.

[ArgyESC]

I personally hate oral

[Will.]

When I got home I literally cried

[Tony Montana]

It’s his Loss at the End of the day, Will

[Will.]

I did message him saying sorry cause like he made me feel like I had done so many things wrong, and he was like “it’s fine don’t worry about it”

[ArgyESC]

Did you know this guy well? Or did you just get to know him today?

[Will.]

Not really, we talked a for a bit at his before

[ArgyESC]

Tbh either way it's not your fault he's an ass. Just be a bit more suspicious of such people in the future I guess

[Will.]

Yeah I reckon he’s not that into guys

[thesheriff443]

Stop meeting strangers for sex, you are un paid rent boy

[Wizard.]

Stop meeting strangers for sex, you are un paid rent boy

Um who asked you? Let him live!

[Denver]

Non of this actually happened

[Wizard.]

Yeah I reckon he’s not that into guys

He’s probably just using you as an experiment

[ethanjames]

god thats an awful experience straight guys who do that **** are always terrible honestly just try and find a gay next time who doesnt **** u around too much

[ArgyESC]

Stop meeting strangers for sex, you are un paid rent boy

This is partly true, I think you should get to know people first and then move on, so that you don't put yourself at risk of doing it with jerks

[Black Dagger]

Don't waste your time on guys who clearly only want one thing if it's going to upset you. Simple.

[Will.]

Yeah like you’d never know he was gay in a million years

[Will.]

He came across like a Jordan Davies type, that’s the only sort of housemate I can think to compare him too lol.

But he was extremely serious

[Will.]

I feel so worthless, like I feel cold and unloved.

[Will.]

I haven’t felt like this a long time

[Will.]

He was quite good at doing the deed

[Will.]

At least I know what it’s like to be with a straight guy

[Will.]

I’m so close to crying again, I feel like I’m not good enough

[Smithy]

Oh BORE OFF

[Will.]

Oh BORE OFF

oh LEAVE IT! IM EMOTIONAL

[Will.]

When we were sitting outside I asked him if I disappointed him and he was like “I’m not even going to answer that”

[Smithy]

oh LEAVE IT! IM EMOTIONAL

your ALWAYS emotional, it’s BORING, play a different record

[ArgyESC]

I’m so close to crying again, I feel like I’m not good enough

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[ArgyESC]

when you have barely watched BB and you're here because Nicky brought you

[Greg!]

I feel so worthless, like I feel cold and unloved.

Me when my mum doesn't make fajitas for tea

[Greg!]

I wouldn't worry babes, he sounds like a twat anyway!

[Niamh.]

back ontopic please

[Niamh.]

Deleted loads of really inappropriate posts in here, Will if you want to go into that much detail about your sex life, take it to PM or the 18+ Social group.

[Will.]

I wouldn't worry babes, he sounds like a twat anyway!

Oh babes I’m close to tears

[Smithy]

back ontopic please

Deleted loads of really inappropriate posts in here, Will if you want to go into that much detail about your sex life, take it to PM or the 18+ Social group.

I was wondering why you put back on topic about a sex thread but didn’t delete the sex posts :joker:

[Niamh.]

I was wondering why you put back on topic about a sex thread but didn’t delete the sex posts :joker:

I have vertigo and my head isn't working well today :bawling:

[Jack_]

I have vertigo and my head isn't working well today :bawling:

Wasn't for Will either :hehe:

[Jack_]

Sorry I couldn't resist that one

[Nicky91]

when you have barely watched BB and you're here because Nicky brought you

:joker: :joker:

[Twosugars]

Will, it's not your fault, the guy was confused.
That doesn't reflect on you or your love-making skills :)
As to feeling unloved, hope you weren't looking for love in a one night stand

[Niamh.]

Wasn't for Will either :hehe:

:oh:

[Marsh.]

Don't believe a word!

[Smithy]

Michelle visage: how’s your head
Everyone else: never had any complaints
Will: -cries-

[Crimson Dynamo]

I am not feeling the romantic aspect of this story?

[Vanessa]

Don't go with someone only interested in one thing. It's better to get to know someone first.

[Amy Jade]

I dont want to be a bitch but if you met a guy who told you he was straight and met him to just be sexual why are you shocked by any of this?

You must be looking in totally the wrong places Will. You are not going to find love with people you meet up with just for sex :(

[Cherie]

:sad: what happened to you Will, I don't know if you are posting stuff like this as you think it is funny or you genuinely looking for love in all the wrong places, if the latter casual sex obviously isn't for you and your self esteem is on the floor, apart from the personal safety issues I think you are being very poorly advised and you appear to being making some very poor decisions, you are worth more than this Will.

[hijaxers]

:sad: what happened to you Will, I don't know if you are posting stuff like this as you think it is funny or you genuinely looking for love in all the wrong places, if the latter casual sex obviously isn't for you and your self esteem is on the floor, apart from the personal safety issues I think you are being very poorly advised and you appear to being making some very poor decisions, you are worth more than this Will.

:clap2: Well said Cherie.

[Glenn.]

This is what happens to thirsty queers abroad

[Cherie]

:clap2: Well said Cherie.

mmm imagine being his Mum or Dad...shudder

and another thing Will if you are going to post put it in private chat, stuff like this could come back to haunt you when you get your act together and become MP for Enfield or something :nono:

[bots]

Not wishing to appear blunt or anything, but it's pretty clear Will needs to exercise some self control across his entire life. Even this thread highlights a lack of it.

[y.winter]

Sorry to be harsh, but I really don't understand why would you go in there in first place. "straight but likes to get it on with guys"? Are we going to pretend it sounds promising?
It's like going on grindr/tinder expecting to have a deep meaningful conversation and then getting disappointed that it's mostly about sex.
I do understand the need to find love, to love and be loved, but not at any price and not for the sake of "doing it already". I think it's just doing it wrong and it's worthless that way. More harmful than worthless tbh.
Demand more for yourself, for your own good. And I'm saying it in a caring way. :hug:

[Cherie]

also why are we calling this guy straight, when he is clearly bi, or are there levels of bi now..

[Crimson Dynamo]

its because it is all a fabrication

hence the reason all Wills responses have just been him trolling about being worried whilst at the same time praising the alleged man for being good at sex. The thread should be closed tbh

[Gusto Brunt]

I’m in Marbella and I went to travel to meet this guy last night at around midnight in a taxi. He was extremely hot, he was 22 and was basically straight but was getting with guys.

But it ended really badly and it’s made me so depressed.

I just need to talk about it, he’s made me feel awful.

Life moves on and you will forget this experience. Do just that, put it down to experience.

Good luck forgetting about i. :)

[jaxie]

It's probably really is him and not you Will. If he thinks he's straight and is going with men he sounds like he is in denial. Don't let it depress you if he couldn't enjoy the situation enough that was down to him, not you.

Maybe you are looking in the wrong places for romance?