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chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 08:24 AM
Has anyone remembered Roxanne is engaged and wildly flirting with Ben ,more than Jermaine has ever done but seems to float under the radar on here ? Any views on this ?

Crimson Dynamo
30-08-2018, 08:31 AM
Yes she seems to be getting away with this

GoldHeart
30-08-2018, 08:32 AM
Has anyone remembered Roxanne is engaged and wildly flirting with Ben ,more than Jermaine has ever done but seems to float under the radar on here ? Any views on this ?

Because people feel sorry for the silly bint ,as they feel both Ben & Roxanne are in love :laugh3: I couldn't keep a straight face .

I think It's dodgy their friendship and it's still wrong what they were doing , but notice Ben isn't as keen now and has moved onto Gabby, Roxanne is jealous a bit . And Ben even joked about taking Roxanne's dressing gown off :bored: .

Cal.
30-08-2018, 08:33 AM
How has Roxanne done the same as Jermaine?

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 08:46 AM
How has Roxanne done the same as Jermaine?

Shes not done the same .......Shes done a lot worse !!

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 08:47 AM
Because people feel sorry for the silly bint ,as they feel both Ben & Roxanne are in love :laugh3: I couldn't keep a straight face .

I think It's dodgy their friendship and it's still wrong what they were doing , but notice Ben isn't as keen now and has moved onto Gabby, Roxanne is jealous a bit . And Ben even joked about taking Roxanne's dressing gown off :bored: .

Roxanne will turn into a bunny boiler over it ....but its ok she wont get judged :pat:

GoldHeart
30-08-2018, 08:52 AM
Roxanne will turn into a bunny boiler over it ....but its ok she wont get judged :pat:

And I think because Roxanne & Ben haven't been passing secret notes to each other, and because she keeps mentioning her partner . So people don't see it as bad as Jermaine .
I know it's not the same ,but it's still weird how flirty both Ben & Roxanne were . But they'll always see Roxanne as innocent as she mentioned her partner everyday to convince everyone she's honest :rolleyes: .

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 08:55 AM
And I think because Roxanne & Ben haven't been passing secret notes to each other, and because she keeps mentioning her partner . So people don't see it as bad as Jermaine .
I know it's not the same ,but it's still weird how flirty both Ben & Roxanne were . But they'll always see Roxanne as innocent as she mentioned her partner everyday to convince everyone she's honest :rolleyes: .

A lot more real flirting going on ,the kissing of the finger tips ,her lecturing him about his new look ...oh yes shes playing a blinder and seen as the innocent little girl SHES 35 FFS !!

Crimson Dynamo
30-08-2018, 08:58 AM
she is going to react badly to Ben now flirting with Gabby

Josy
30-08-2018, 08:58 AM
I dont see her as innocent and the childish act, voice etc she puts on makes me uncomfortable.

She tbf never denied her fiance existed though

GoldHeart
30-08-2018, 09:00 AM
A lot more real flirting going on ,the kissing of the finger tips ,her lecturing him about his new look ...oh yes shes playing a blinder and seen as the innocent little girl SHES 35 FFS !!

Yeah she's annoying, the bratty reaction she made over Ben's look was pathetic she even ruffled his hair up :bored: :facepalm: .

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 09:09 AM
I dont see her as innocent and the childish act, voice etc she puts on makes me uncomfortable.

She tbf never denied her fiance existed though

But neither has Jermaine ,hes spoke often of his partner openly to everyone, Chloe must have been laid in the bathroom or putting her make up on at the time, but never did either of them fancy each other, he wanted the leg over and she wanted a storyline to make money on out of the house

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 09:09 AM
Yeah she's annoying, the bratty reaction she made over Ben's look was pathetic she even ruffled his hair up :bored: :facepalm: .

As you would if he was you're everyday partner

Beso
30-08-2018, 09:15 AM
Because people feel sorry for the silly bint ,as they feel both Ben & Roxanne are in love :laugh3: I couldn't keep a straight face .

I think It's dodgy their friendship and it's still wrong what they were doing , but notice Ben isn't as keen now and has moved onto Gabby, Roxanne is jealous a bit . And Ben even joked about taking Roxanne's dressing gown off :bored: .

Funny how they have both cooled it down a bit after seeing chloe evicted.:joker:

Josy
30-08-2018, 09:17 AM
But neither has Jermaine ,hes spoke often of his partner openly to everyone, Chloe must have been laid in the bathroom or putting her make up on at the time, but never did either of them fancy each other, he wanted the leg over and she wanted a storyline to make money on out of the house

Jermaine never told anyone he was married especially not Chloe, he said his relationship with his gf was badically over, he took his wedding ring off, slept in the same bed as Chloe

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 09:22 AM
Jermaine never told anyone he was married especially not Chloe, he said his relationship with his gf was badically over, he took his wedding ring off, slept in the same bed as Chloe

SHE got in his bed uninvited and unwanted ,thats why he made her have her own duvet !!

GoldHeart
30-08-2018, 09:26 AM
Jermaine never told anyone he was married especially not Chloe, he said his relationship with his gf was badically over, he took his wedding ring off, slept in the same bed as Chloe

Chloe arranged with Gabby to share a bed with Jermaine, why does that keep getting forgotten? .

Plus Chloe knew he had a girlfriend of some sort , even if she thinks his relationship is now over it wasn't when he entered the house .

But Jermaine is a sneaky rat . But I don't have sympathy for Chloe . Why is it ok to flirt share a bed who may or may not have a "girlfriend", it's still wrong and humiliating for the woman at home watching.

And if she was still unsure of his relationship status ,she should of confronted him earlier and then stayed away .

Josy
30-08-2018, 09:30 AM
SHE got in his bed uninvited and unwanted ,thats why he made her have her own duvet !!It wasnt unwanted at all c'mon chuff, Jermaine was well up for it until Ryan told him it would look bad...

So basically you are saying Jermaine has done nothing wrong when he is married with kids yet Roxanne who is engaged has done something wrong.

That right there is the exact definition of double standards tbh

MTVN
30-08-2018, 09:33 AM
It wasnt unwanted at all c'mon chuff, Jermaine was well up for it until Ryan told him it would look bad...

So basically you are saying Jermaine has done nothing wrong when he is married with kids yet Roxanne who is engaged has done something wrong.

That right there is the exact definition of double standards tbh

Lol exactly, this thread is trying to get people to hate on Roxanne for her behaviour but it's also trying to absolve Jermaine for his

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 09:34 AM
It wasnt unwanted at all c'mon chuff, Jermaine was well up for it until Ryan told him it would look bad...

So basically you are saying Jermaine has done nothing wrong when he is married with kids yet Roxanne who is engaged has done something wrong.

That right there is the exact definition of double standards tbh

What Im saying is its 50-50 ..... IF he had got in her bed i wouldn't have the same opinion, but he didnt ... and in the bathroom last nights hls, she called his couple of words note to her their"storyline" now that speaks volumes

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 09:37 AM
Chloe arranged with Gabby to share a bed with Jermaine, why does that keep getting forgotten? .

Plus Chloe knew he had a girlfriend of some sort , even if she thinks his relationship is now over it wasn't when he entered the house .

But Jermaine is a sneaky rat . But I don't have sympathy for Chloe . Why is it ok to flirt share a bed who may or may not have a "girlfriend", it's still wrong and humiliating for the woman at home watching.

And if she was still unsure of his relationship status ,she should of confronted him earlier and then stayed away .

You make crystal clear what someones relationship status is BEFORE getting in his bed ,if he's being cagey you don't go there simple as that but she wanted a storyline and she got one so job done for Chloe !! **** what hurt its brought on his family

MTVN
30-08-2018, 09:37 AM
He was still trying to get back into her bed 2 nights ago even after the fallout, once he'd had a drink he said to her 'I might have to get into your bed in a bit' or something like that until she refused to talk to him

In hindsight I'm sure Chloe will have regretted a couple of things she did but to make out that the blame is equal is clearly nonsense

MTVN
30-08-2018, 09:38 AM
Hell Chloe even apologised in her interview which is more than he will ever do

Niamh.
30-08-2018, 09:50 AM
SHE got in his bed uninvited and unwanted ,thats why he made her have her own duvet !!

Why not tell her to get out though? That's what I'd expect my husband to do in that situation :shrug:

AnnieK
30-08-2018, 09:52 AM
Also, Ben is well aware of her relationship status so if Chloe is to be derided for the flirting with Jermaine and everything that went on, Ben surely should face the same criticism for this situation with Roxanne. Seems the women are getting all the negative threads and posts this series when the men are equally, if not more in Jermaine's case, to blame.

Elliot
30-08-2018, 09:54 AM
Also, Ben is well aware of her relationship status so if Chloe is to be derided for the flirting with Jermaine and everything that went on, Ben surely should face the same criticism for this situation with Roxanne. Seems the women are getting all the negative threads and posts this series when the men are equally, if not more in Jermaine's case, to blame.

80% of the last two days worth of threads have been on Jermaine, most of them calling him an awful person/one of the worst to appear on big brother.
50%+ of the people who use this website voted Jermaine as the worst housemate of the series.
I did a poll asking whether Jermaine was one of the worst housemates of all time and it was smth like 28-1 yes to no

AnnieK
30-08-2018, 09:56 AM
80% of the last two days worth of threads have been on Jermaine, most of them calling him an awful person/one of the worst to appear on big brother.

I was talking specifically about the thread yesterday placing the blame on Chloe and this one.....

The Jermaine threads only really started later.

Amy Jade
30-08-2018, 09:56 AM
More excusing the married men and throwing any woman possible under the bus I see.

Sad.

jaxie
30-08-2018, 10:04 AM
I dont see her as innocent and the childish act, voice etc she puts on makes me uncomfortable.

She tbf never denied her fiance existed though

Or took off her engagement ring. :shrug: And pretended it was 'banter'.

Still I don't like her or Ben and I hope her fiance puts her straight when she gets out.

Niamh.
30-08-2018, 10:06 AM
Also, Ben is well aware of her relationship status so if Chloe is to be derided for the flirting with Jermaine and everything that went on, Ben surely should face the same criticism for this situation with Roxanne. Seems the women are getting all the negative threads and posts this series when the men are equally, if not more in Jermaine's case, to blame.

Excellent point Annie

Crimson Dynamo
30-08-2018, 10:15 AM
What you see is what you get with the lads but the women ie Chloe and Roxy seem far more devious in this set up

Beso
30-08-2018, 10:29 AM
tonnes of blokes dont wear their wedding rings...i didnt

Crimson Dynamo
30-08-2018, 10:31 AM
tonnes of blokes dont wear their wedding rings...i didnt

I threw mine into a field, its still there now

Cherie
30-08-2018, 10:38 AM
I dont see her as innocent and the childish act, voice etc she puts on makes me uncomfortable.

She tbf never denied her fiance existed though

makes it even worse in some way the ways she let him constantly kiss and touch her, while waving her engagement ring at him :laugh:

Cherie
30-08-2018, 10:41 AM
Don't get me wrong Jerome is a first class **** who has got himself in all kind of bother but Ben and Roxanne haven't been much better

poppsywoppsy
30-08-2018, 10:41 AM
What Jermaine didn't do was kiss or hug Chloe at every opportunity.

This is not to negate his behaviour but to point out Bens. He didn't mention his "friend" was pregnant with his child whilst speaking of his newly formed feelings for Roxanne or when he was being touchy feely with her.

Yes, I think these two have behaved inappropriately but Roxanne was not actually married like Jermaine so has not been as culpable as him.

Elliot
30-08-2018, 10:43 AM
So much scum this series lmfaoo and y’all thought Natalie was bad

MTVN
30-08-2018, 10:48 AM
So much scum this series lmfaoo and y’all thought Natalie was bad

Natalies version of events is that Chloe was just being a 'slut' so she's pretty scummy herself

Jordan.
30-08-2018, 11:27 AM
It's the false pretence that annoys me about Roxanne, like don't allow Ben to flirt with you then go kiss your engagement ring infront of the cameras like it's all innocent :skull:

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 11:29 AM
What you see is what you get with the lads but the women ie Chloe and Roxy seem far more devious in this set up

Totally agree

GoldHeart
30-08-2018, 11:31 AM
It's the false pretence that annoys me about Roxanne, like don't allow Ben to flirt with you then go kiss your engagement ring infront of the cameras like it's all innocent :skull:

And the whole "you're still my boyfriend" rubbish :sleep: . Roxanne is to aware of the cameras, so when she's messed up she thinks of damage control so that's something Jermaine & Chloe has with her .

MTVN
30-08-2018, 11:37 AM
What you see is what you get with the lads but the women ie Chloe and Roxy seem far more devious in this set up

Totally agree

What you see is what you get apart from his relationship status :skull:

Cherie
30-08-2018, 11:39 AM
So much scum this series lmfaoo and y’all thought Natalie was bad

I didn't think Natalie was scum, I would never use that word to describe someone on a reality tv show, I thought engineered fake arguments

Crimson Dynamo
30-08-2018, 11:44 AM
So much scum this series lmfaoo and y’all thought Natalie was bad

we did and we were right

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 11:47 AM
What you see is what you get apart from his relationship status :skull:

He never led Chloe on, far from it, not once did they snuggle up together, kiss and hug ,it was TWO tiny notes in a make up compact, nothing else but he's now Satans left hand man ?It was Chloe who called it a storyline as it suited her agenda ...... While Roxanne has kissed ,held hands and done a damn lot more with Ben ,who forgot to mention his expected baby,but thats ok ? As the title of this thread says its double standards

Beso
30-08-2018, 11:51 AM
And those notes could have been taken lots of ways and not just the narrative chloe believed.....or wanted us to believe...the facts are all there for all to see that it was chloe leading him on /offering herself on a plate.

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 11:55 AM
And those notes could have been taken lots of ways and not just the narrative chloe believed.....or wanted us to believe...the facts are all there for all to see that it was chloe leading him on /offering herself on a plate.

A wise voice young man

Beso
30-08-2018, 12:01 PM
I threw mine into a field, its still there now

Eh...i melted mine down and sold it.

Glenn.
30-08-2018, 12:08 PM
He never led Chloe on, far from it, not once did they snuggle up together, kiss and hug ,it was TWO tiny notes in a make up compact, nothing else but he's now Satans left hand man ?It was Chloe who called it a storyline as it suited her agenda ...... While Roxanne has kissed ,held hands and done a damn lot more with Ben ,who forgot to mention his expected baby,but thats ok ? As the title of this thread says its double standards

He led her on Chuff. Literally see it happen and also see him backtracking in last nights. If you don’t see that then you’re not paying attention.

Beso
30-08-2018, 12:10 PM
He led her on Chuff. Literally see it happen and also see him backtracking in last nights. If you don’t see that then you’re not paying attention.



What was she doing?...nothing but laugh and snigger about the whole thing as though she was revelling in it.

Glenn.
30-08-2018, 12:16 PM
What was she doing?...nothing but laugh and snigger about the whole thing as though she was revelling in it.

Then she found out he was in fact partnered and kept her distance whilst Jermaine thought of nothing but how he was gonna save what’s left of his now tattered marriage

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 12:19 PM
He led her on Chuff. Literally see it happen and also see him backtracking in last nights. If you don’t see that then you’re not paying attention.

Im sorry i cannot agree, he had nothing to gain by it apart from a quick one which Im sure he could get elsewhere, she was desperate for a storyline and silly Jermiane gave her one ..... A very tiny one in the form or a 3 or 4 lines note, which has been exaggerated to a near marriage proposal and 4 kids ...pathetic IMO

Glenn.
30-08-2018, 12:20 PM
We’ll have to agree to disagree then

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 12:21 PM
We’ll have to agree to disagree then

No problem :kiss:

Tom4784
30-08-2018, 01:21 PM
The difference being her one week engagement seems to be as fake as her persona in the house. I don't care about either of them but Jermaine has shown himself to be an utter **** on multiple occasions.

Epic.
30-08-2018, 01:45 PM
Roxanne never kissed the person, Jermaine did
Roxanne told the person she was married/due for marriage, Jermaine didn't
Roxanne didn't lead the person on for her own satisfaction, Jermaine did
Roxanne didn't lie and deceive the person while bad-mouthing them to others, Jermaine did

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 02:01 PM
Roxanne never kissed the person, Jermaine did
Roxanne told the person she was married/due for marriage, Jermaine didn't
Roxanne didn't lead the person on for her own satisfaction, Jermaine did
Roxanne didn't lie and deceive the person while bad-mouthing them to others, Jermaine did

When was this as it was missed by the cameras ?

GoldHeart
30-08-2018, 02:08 PM
When was this as it was missed by the cameras ?

People probably think when he had that secret conversation in the toilet that he kissed her :bored: , but I don't think he did .

Jermaine only kissed Chloe in a dare on her thigh ,and she kissed him again in a dare when she pretended to be a cat and she kissed his eyes .

Ben keeps kissing Roxy on the cheek .

Withano
30-08-2018, 03:22 PM
I mean, telling somebody via sneaky messages that the relationship with your wife (the wife literally nobody knew about) was probably ‘****ed now’, isn’t really in the same ballpoint as an occaisional song, dance and hug with a man that isn’t your fiancé.

...but she’s not coming across great tbf. Just a hell of a lot better than Jermaine... because, obviously.

Beso
30-08-2018, 03:26 PM
Then she found out he was in fact partnered and kept her distance whilst Jermaine thought of nothing but how he was gonna save what’s left of his now tattered marriage


Give over...kept her distance..
Omgroflmao at that one:joker::joker:

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 03:54 PM
I'll just leave this here ,its Deja Vu


https://www.facebook.com/BigBrotherUK/videos/716708745356903/

All apologies gladly accepted

Withano
30-08-2018, 03:59 PM
I'll just leave this here ,its Deja Vu


https://www.facebook.com/BigBrotherUK/videos/716708745356903/

All apologies gladly accepted

That looks like an excellent task! I dont know what point you think youve proven though. The confirmation bias is strong in you, Chuff.

Beso
30-08-2018, 04:21 PM
That looks like an excellent task! I dont know what point you think youve proven though. The confirmation bias is strong in you, Chuff.

Double standards innit...roxy getting a free ride while jermaine dont.

Glenn.
30-08-2018, 04:31 PM
Double standards innit...roxy getting a free ride while jermaine dont.

Jermaine is a married man. There’s no excuse for the way he acted towards Chloe

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 04:40 PM
Double standards innit...roxy getting a free ride while jermaine dont.

Ben making a pact with Roxanne not to admit how it felt when they cuddled and her looking at him all doe eyed BOTH AS BAD AS JERMAINE

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 04:41 PM
Jermaine is a married man. There’s no excuse for the way he acted towards Chloe

And Ben has a baby on the way and Roxanne is engaged

Nicky91
30-08-2018, 04:54 PM
remember that i've said it first, about this Ben & Roxy showmance :smug:

Northern Monkey
30-08-2018, 04:59 PM
They’re both slimeballs.Jermaine wrote silly notes and Roxy has been touchy feely and possessive over Ben.

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 05:03 PM
They’re both slimeballs.Jermaine wrote silly notes and Roxy has been touchy feely and possessive over Ben.

I agree, all 4 as bad as each other

GoldHeart
30-08-2018, 05:05 PM
Ben making a pact with Roxanne not to admit how it felt when they cuddled and her looking at him all doe eyed BOTH AS BAD AS JERMAINE

Omg those 2 are so sickly cringe :facepalm:

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 05:06 PM
Omg those 2 are so sickly cringe :facepalm:

Have you seen how the dippy cow is looking at him in the eye and nodding in all the right places .....Bloody idiots the pair of them

GoldHeart
30-08-2018, 05:12 PM
Have you seen how the dippy cow is looking at him in the eye and nodding in all the right places .....Bloody idiots the pair of them

Is Ben going to keep going back & forth with Gabby & Roxanne :bored: . If the cameras were NOT there I bet he'd try and take things further,and Roxanne would happily go along with it . But she keeps playing the poor helpless card :sleep: .

Beso
30-08-2018, 05:16 PM
Jermaine is a married man. There’s no excuse for the way he acted towards Chloe

And none for the way roxy is "ACTING" with ben.

chuff me dizzy
30-08-2018, 05:16 PM
Is Ben going to keep going back & forth with Gabby & Roxanne :bored: . If the cameras were NOT there I bet he'd try and take things further,and Roxanne would happily go along with it . But she keeps playing the poor helpless card :sleep: .

Hes no oil painting is he ? But Roxanne like Chloe needed a storyline and Ben and Jermaine ( in a lesser way) gave them one