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Strictly Jake
04-09-2018, 06:21 AM
I find what she did absolutely disgraceful and she deserves a lot of backlash for it but...

I have seen a lot of social media posts etc taking it to the next level

She is a very messed up individual thats clear to see and I do hope that all of this has woke her up to her actions and that she can change for the better

But personally I feel that quite a lot of people are going too far with their backlash and im genuinely a bit worried for roxanne. Clearly not of a complete sane mind it could push her to take drastic action and I dont want to say what im meaning but im sure you might guess. I just feel a bit worried about it

If anything she needs professional help, i understand people attacking what she has done but people need to reign it in just a tad because some of the words they are using towards her are just as bad

JerseyWins
04-09-2018, 06:32 AM
I know what you mean... she already tried to do it in that pool in the house :worry:

But on a serious note, I do hope people aren't being too nasty to her. However, at the same time it depends on what her TRUE motives and mindset is... like if it's blatant lying and covering up or if she truly believes everything she said and then realized how dumb it was afterwards. :think:

Which I kinda do think it's the last part of what I said with her being very sensitive to the point of delusion but the first part would be dangerous, or scary really, and she would deserve further backlash for that. And I think a lot of people think that's the case and it's reasonable to think. :shrug:

Ammi
04-09-2018, 06:42 AM
...even without the extreme ..(..of what you mean, Jake..)...it’s also why I think that the interviews with her have been more delicately handled, which I know hasn’t been what some have wanted because of her behaviour and how damaging it was on so many levels..’let the questioning fit the crime’, type thing..?...but there is also a responsibility to not in any way contribute or enhance or escalate etc.. current negativity toward her which is being displayed in the extent it has and is being...especially by Big Brother and Emma’s interview with her...Emma made it plain that she thinks very little of her and her deliberate actions...while not being as harsh or direct as she may have felt like being on a personal level...there are multiple things coming out with Roxanne’s past behaviours of similarity..which a little research would have shown, with some anyway and with enough..and yet they hadn’t known something like this could ever happen...’totally unpredictable’.....hmmm, yeah they do have some responsibility as well and now a duty of care to not be contributing to escalating any hate involved from their fans and the public..while still directly questioning her..which they have...

Ammi
04-09-2018, 06:49 AM
...actually maybe the best thing would have been for all media..(..and including Big Brother themselves..)..to have refused any interview with her and not given her a voice right now...but that was never going to happen though as she’s an ‘exclusive scoop’ now, type thing...so everyone wants to give her attention, which is always going to be negative and ‘enhance’ because of the despicable nature of what she did which went way beyond any type of housemate ‘bad’ behaviour...she’s Ben all about the attention from the off ...and now she’s got it, she has everyone’s attention completely..ironic...

Elliot
04-09-2018, 07:07 AM
I get what you mean but like for me anyway I just think as a society morally a line has to be drawn SOMEWHERE, and I think this oversteps the line. It makes me wonder what use someone is to a functioning world that has gone out of their way to accuse 10’s of their costars of serious stuff (and probably getting away from it too). It might come from a bad place of continual hurt and I wish she’d have gotten a support network sooner, but like the most heinous of people in the world probably have a damaged life: where is their sympathy when they get a life sentence? I just think as a collective we have to draw lines and let it be known that we don’t tolerate people like that. Hopefully she can one day return to the limelight after serious professional help

Ammi
04-09-2018, 07:35 AM
I get what you mean but like for me anyway I just think as a society morally a line has to be drawn SOMEWHERE, and I think this oversteps the line. It makes me wonder what use someone is to a functioning world that has gone out of their way to accuse 10’s of their costars of serious stuff (and probably getting away from it too). It might come from a bad place of continual hurt and I wish she’d have gotten a support network sooner, but like the most heinous of people in the world probably have a damaged life: where is their sympathy when they get a life sentence? I just think as a collective we have to draw lines and let it be known that we don’t tolerate people like that. Hopefully she can one day return to the limelight after serious professional help

..but society has let her know it can’t be tolerated though..she’s become (..in her own words..)..the most hated woman right now and also in her own words because she ‘went too far’...and her actions can never be taken back or explained away or anything...it’s all in the footage with her intent for whatever vindictive reasons ..maybe she is very damaged but she still had choices within that damage and she chose something very awful with Ryan...she’s been totally exposed publicly to everyone, whether BB fans or not with the media interest this has all gained...there’s nothing really else that can be done to her by her own hand or anyone else’s ..other than any possible lawsuits etc if any can be pursued by Ryan or any of her victims...all that can be done now for me anyway...is to try to repair some of the damage with things like domestic abuse and the #metoo movement ...she’s caused a setback for so many things which were often a struggle anyway, sadly...but that setback can’t be undone either...it’s all just trying to get it all back on track now...the impact of one person on so many serious issues and for so many people ...but her repeating and repeating and repeating..I do take these things seriously, I have great awareness and support in them...is of no value at all now so I just wish the media would stop all attention now being given to her...so everything can now be moved on from in its repair...

Vanessa
04-09-2018, 07:45 AM
I can't forget the way she stood there and just bare faced lied.

Jake.
04-09-2018, 07:46 AM
Kinda gives me Jade Goody vibes - Was only forgiven by the general public after something terrible happened to her

Elliot
04-09-2018, 08:00 AM
..but society has let her know it can’t be tolerated though..she’s become (..in her own words..)..the most hated woman right now and also in her own words because she ‘went too far’...and her actions can never be taken back or explained away or anything...it’s all in the footage with her intent for whatever vindictive reasons ..maybe she is very damaged but she still had choices within that damage and she chose something very awful with Ryan...she’s been totally exposed publicly to everyone, whether BB fans or not with the media interest this has all gained...there’s nothing really else that can be done to her by her own hand or anyone else’s ..other than any possible lawsuits etc if any can be pursued by Ryan or any of her victims...all that can be done now for me anyway...is to try to repair some of the damage with things like domestic abuse and the #metoo movement ...she’s caused a setback for so many things which were often a struggle anyway, sadly...but that setback can’t be undone either...it’s all just trying to get it all back on track now...the impact of one person on so many serious issues and for so many people ...but her repeating and repeating and repeating..I do take these things seriously, I have great awareness and support in them...is of no value at all now so I just wish the media would stop all attention now being given to her...so everything can now be moved on from in its repair...

I mean I don’t agree with people sitting on twitter sending her death threats either, like I don’t disagree with a part of this post. As horrible as people can be on social media, it also kinda embodies a moral stand of like no we don’t tolerate this. It’s always bound to happen with anything like this on social media. It would’ve been more alarming to me if it didn’t happen, not saying it should, but it’s a natural byproduct I guess. The world is ruthless but the internet is even more ruthless lol again like I said outside of her getting sued I hope she gets help and can move on with society

Cherie
04-09-2018, 08:13 AM
I find what she did absolutely disgraceful and she deserves a lot of backlash for it but...

I have seen a lot of social media posts etc taking it to the next level

She is a very messed up individual thats clear to see and I do hope that all of this has woke her up to her actions and that she can change for the better

But personally I feel that quite a lot of people are going too far with their backlash and im genuinely a bit worried for roxanne. Clearly not of a complete sane mind it could push her to take drastic action and I dont want to say what im meaning but im sure you might guess. I just feel a bit worried about it

If anything she needs professional help, i understand people attacking what she has done but people need to reign it in just a tad because some of the words they are using towards her are just as bad

Lets face it they are as bad as her...

poppsywoppsy
04-09-2018, 08:46 AM
She has never ever given the reason WHY she targeted Ryan in such a way.

She obviously went in to cause some sort of drama after her initial aborted attempt at blaming Hardeep for the swimming pool incident.

So was it a vendetta against Ryan which an unlucky punch gave her the chance or was it that she had planned something beforehand which she had used and had results in her favourite.

I do not think she could manipulate the actual punch, even as light as it was but she certainly manipulated it from that moment.

Was it against Ryan personally or could her plan have involved any of the housemates to cause drama and publicity for poor ickle Roxanne.

Her describing herself in the Emma interview, as a "girl" when she is 35 is interesting, she is verging on middle age, so it smacks of her using her small stature and young looks to make her seem less culpable.

It now is being said, a book deal is likely, I hope it bombs and shredded and placed in the bin alongside her career.

Niamh.
04-09-2018, 08:47 AM
In all fairness though if it's true that she's done this sort of thing alot over the years, the only reason she's reflecting and "sorry" now is because she was caught red handed with absolute evidence that she lied. She's probably happily ruined other people in the past

chuff me dizzy
04-09-2018, 08:49 AM
In all fairness though if it's true that she's done this sort of thing alot over the years, the only reason she's reflecting and "sorry" now is because she was caught red handed with absolute evidence that she lied. She's probably happily ruined other people in the past

The most sickening part of both interviews for me was the fact not once did she say she had lied, she skirted around using the word

Vanessa
04-09-2018, 08:51 AM
In all fairness though if it's true that she's done this sort of thing alot over the years, the only reason she's reflecting and "sorry" now is because she was caught red handed with absolute evidence that she lied. She's probably happily ruined other people in the past

Yes , because this time it was caught on camera. In the past it probably wasn't, so it was her word against them.,

rionablue
04-09-2018, 08:56 AM
I find what she did absolutely disgraceful and she deserves a lot of backlash for it but...

I have seen a lot of social media posts etc taking it to the next level

She is a very messed up individual thats clear to see and I do hope that all of this has woke her up to her actions and that she can change for the better

But personally I feel that quite a lot of people are going too far with their backlash and im genuinely a bit worried for roxanne. Clearly not of a complete sane mind it could push her to take drastic action and I dont want to say what im meaning but im sure you might guess. I just feel a bit worried about it

If anything she needs professional help, i understand people attacking what she has done but people need to reign it in just a tad because some of the words they are using towards her are just as bad

Great post. Yes I totally agree but there are people who always have claws well sharpened to get stuck in once something like this happens. I am really really disappointed in Roxanne. I have always liked her and loved her in Emmerdale in particular. She and Ryan had bad blood between them for years and she decided to try and 'get him' and really and truly wanted to get him kicked out with her over dramatics and wanting not to sleep in the same room. SHE WAS WRONG. Huge huge mistake which she will pay for dearly. She will find it hard to get work and even her friends and family will find it hard to stay in her corner and back her. THAT IN ITSELF is enough punishment without people who dont know her wading in and calling her the worst of names and going way way too far. I hope Roxy gets the help she needs. Emma did a very good job in interviewing her and it was very clear (even though she is an actress) she genuinely feels sorry

Niamh.
04-09-2018, 08:57 AM
The most sickening part of both interviews for me was the fact not once did she say she had lied, she skirted around using the word

which, to me, totally proves that she's not doing it out of choice or guilt, it's damage limitation and that's it.

Vanessa
04-09-2018, 08:58 AM
Great post. Yes I totally agree but there are people who always have claws well sharpened to get stuck in once something like this happens. I am really really disappointed in Roxanne. I have always liked her and loved her in Emmerdale in particular. She and Ryan had bad blood between them for years and she decided to try and 'get him' and really and truly wanted to get him kicked out with her over dramatics and wanting not to sleep in the same room. SHE WAS WRONG. Huge huge mistake which she will pay for dearly. She will find it hard to get work and even her friends and family will find it hard to stay in her corner and back her. THAT IN ITSELF is enough punishment without people who dont know her wading in and calling her the worst of names and going way way too far. I hope Roxy gets the help she needs. Emma did a very good job in interviewing her and it was very clear (even though she is an actress) she genuinely feels sorry
Yes, because she was dating one of his mates apparently. Must have ended badly?

Niamh.
04-09-2018, 09:02 AM
Great post. Yes I totally agree but there are people who always have claws well sharpened to get stuck in once something like this happens. I am really really disappointed in Roxanne. I have always liked her and loved her in Emmerdale in particular. She and Ryan had bad blood between them for years and she decided to try and 'get him' and really and truly wanted to get him kicked out with her over dramatics and wanting not to sleep in the same room. SHE WAS WRONG. Huge huge mistake which she will pay for dearly. She will find it hard to get work and even her friends and family will find it hard to stay in her corner and back her. THAT IN ITSELF is enough punishment without people who dont know her wading in and calling her the worst of names and going way way too far. I hope Roxy gets the help she needs. Emma did a very good job in interviewing her and it was very clear (even though she is an actress) she genuinely feels sorry

See, I totally disagree with this, saying she needs "help" is almost excusing her for her actions and it's insulting to people with mental health issues imo. Neither do I believe she's genuinely sorry, just sorry she was caught.

Having said that I wouldn't endorse death threats or anything that extreme but I firmly believe that girl is a dangerous individual and am so disgusted that her actions have done nothing but make it even more difficult for genuine victims to be believed and she has done serious damage there

chuff me dizzy
04-09-2018, 09:14 AM
which, to me, totally proves that she's not doing it out of choice or guilt, it's damage limitation and that's it.

Yes it is, if she admits she lied she's leaving herself wide open

chuff me dizzy
04-09-2018, 09:16 AM
See, I totally disagree with this, saying she needs "help" is almost excusing her for her actions and it's insulting to people with mental health issues imo. Neither do I believe she's genuinely sorry, just sorry she was caught.

Having said that I wouldn't endorse death threats or anything that extreme but I firmly believe that girl is a dangerous individual and am so disgusted that her actions have done nothing but make it even more difficult for genuine victims to be believed and she has done serious damage there

Agree .........She would love people to believe she's mentally ill when she isn't,shes just a liar and an attention seeking evil woman, who knows exactly what shes doing

poppsywoppsy
04-09-2018, 09:17 AM
We have seen with Ryan how frustrating it is, when you know the allegations are untrue, yet others don't believe you or sit on the fence. Look how Ben tried to shut the conversation down because he fancied Roxanne.

Isn't this how those who have been on the end of her vitriol have been feeling for years with little or no comeback which can be proved against her. So the backlash must be some sort of payback for them.

Again, what did she actually do? Apart from a couple of people, no one has said exactly how she works. Is it allegations, bad mouthing, letting others down and of course walking out of productions.

She has been sacked but again, what for?

Niamh.
04-09-2018, 09:20 AM
Agree .........She would love people to believe she's mentally ill when she isn't,shes just a liar and an attention seeking evil woman, who knows exactly what shes doing

I have the radio on here in the background and they just mentioned the incident and the DJ said "She single handedly destroyed the metoo movement"....... it's so true

saiwong
04-09-2018, 12:40 PM
I find what she did absolutely disgraceful and she deserves a lot of backlash for it but...

I have seen a lot of social media posts etc taking it to the next level

She is a very messed up individual thats clear to see and I do hope that all of this has woke her up to her actions and that she can change for the better

But personally I feel that quite a lot of people are going too far with their backlash and im genuinely a bit worried for roxanne. Clearly not of a complete sane mind it could push her to take drastic action and I dont want to say what im meaning but im sure you might guess. I just feel a bit worried about it

If anything she needs professional help, i understand people attacking what she has done but people need to reign it in just a tad because some of the words they are using towards her are just as bad


Yes I agree, some people have taken things way too far.

I see a growing social media lynch mob mentality.

I was watching 'This Morning' today and Colleen Nolan was on and
she broke down due to a confrontation with Kim Woodburn on
Loose Women. The internet lynch mob went crazy on Colleen.

I see this as a growing trend of bullying, where people feel they cannot
be touched behind a computer screen, and on-mass target people with
abuse because they feel they can without consequence.


I call social media..... unsocial media ...as this is what it is turning into :sad:

poppsywoppsy
04-09-2018, 12:50 PM
Yes I agree, some people have taken things way too far.

I see a growing social media lynch mob mentality.

I was watching 'This Morning' today and Colleen Nolan was on and
she broke down due to a confrontation with Kim Woodburn on
Loose Women. The internet lynch mob went crazy on Colleen.

I see this as a growing trend of bullying, where people feel they cannot
be touched behind a computer screen, and on-mass target people with
abuse because they feel they can without consequence.


I call social media..... unsocial media ...as this is what it is turning into :sad:


I wouldnt feel sorry for Coleen Nolan blubbering. Her and her sisters treatment of Kim who felt ambushed by them both was just awful. To see them harangue Kim, then mutter insults under their breath about her abusive childhood was sickening.

So she got a huge reaction turned on her and turned the Waterworks on. The bully bullied and didn't like it.

She didn't know what she said? Well look at the tapes, 3 harpies against a 78 year old woman.


Three disgraceful women on TV this week.

saiwong
04-09-2018, 12:58 PM
I wouldnt feel sorry for Coleen Nolan blubbering. Her and her sisters treatment of Kim who felt ambushed by them both was just awful.

So she got a huge reaction turned on her and turned the Waterworks on. The bully bullied and didn't like it.

Three disgraceful women on TV this week.

I am not taking any side between Coleen/Kim as I am not a fan of either. But what I dislike is the social media lynch mob mentality.

It seems in todays society, I feel that if you even cough at the wrong time you will get lynched.

People are getting hyper sensitive and have excessive and over the top reactions that don't equate with the original action in mind.

poppsywoppsy
04-09-2018, 01:09 PM
I am not taking any side between Coleen/Kim as I am not a fan of either. But what I dislike is the social media lynch mob mentality.

It seems in todays society, I feel that if you even cough at the wrong time you will get lynched.

People are getting hyper sensitive and have excessive and over the top reactions that don't equate with the original action in mind.

I do not like the over the top mentality either. I don't go on twitter and can say what I need to say without the need to use profanities or other choice words.

However, I do not feel that those who act the way Colleen, Linda and Roxanne, who are media savvy and use it for their own ends, shouldn't be censored for it either.

The Nolan's have been nasty to others for a long time and this is well overdue. If they hadn't instigated this on Kim, they wouldn't have got the backlash.

Same with Roxanne, they all had a hand in their own downfall.

Isn't it therefore, if they don't like the fallout, do not start the fight.

saiwong
04-09-2018, 01:37 PM
in summary

I feel any response should be a measured response equivalent to the original action

Elliot
04-09-2018, 01:38 PM
I mean roxannes original action(s) were ruining lives ???

Aaliyah
04-09-2018, 01:39 PM
She deserves everything she gets, no mercy! The worst is yet to come for that bitch, trust me!

Niamh.
04-09-2018, 01:40 PM
in summary

I feel any response should be a measured response equivalent to the original action

I mean roxannes original action(s) were ruining lives ???

ummm yeah exactly :laugh:

Vanessa
04-09-2018, 01:41 PM
It's not the first time she does this either. My sympathy is with Ryan and the people she wrongly accused.

montblanc
04-09-2018, 03:05 PM
i saw a youtube comment saying they're predicting that she'll kill herself by next year and people were actually cheering it on

disgusting!

Jack_
04-09-2018, 03:08 PM
Didn't know where else to put this but I'm in ****ing tears here

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Niamh.
04-09-2018, 03:08 PM
i saw a youtube comment saying they're predicting that she'll kill herself by next year and people were actually cheering it on

disgusting!

Some of the people who comment on You tube are really disgusting though, about all manor of topics

Niamh.
04-09-2018, 03:10 PM
Didn't know where else to put this but I'm in ****ing tears here

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:laugh:

Don't even ask her about that time she went to get fish and chips, she got some battering :bawling:

Tom4784
04-09-2018, 03:11 PM
I don't feel sorry for her at all. She's calculated af and obviously has a history of trying to do this to other people.

Her tears and reactions to how she's been perceived are not tears of remorse, they are tears for the fact that she's torpedo'd her own career and she wants to make people feel sorry for her because her whole game is emotional manipulation and nothing has changed in the wake of her backlash.

Elliot
04-09-2018, 03:14 PM
Didn't know where else to put this but I'm in ****ing tears here

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Omfg best account on twitter

rionablue
04-09-2018, 03:24 PM
Agree .........She would love people to believe she's mentally ill when she isn't,shes just a liar and an attention seeking evil woman, who knows exactly what shes doing

I never said she is mentally ill but she certainly has issues that she needs to sort out. By 'help' I mean that she tries to sort out her life which is now in tatters and people have good memories. I dont want to kick someone just because what they did was absolutely outrageous. I am sure she will be punished enough by lack of work and people admonishing her everywhere she goes

Lampfan
04-09-2018, 03:55 PM
See, I totally disagree with this, saying she needs "help" is almost excusing her for her actions and it's insulting to people with mental health issues imo. Neither do I believe she's genuinely sorry, just sorry she was caught.


100% agree with this. She's not mentally ill, just a thoroughly unpleasant individual and attention seeker who has finally been called out for her bad behaviour. Hopefully she'll tone it down after this for the good of anyone unfortunate to cross paths with her in future.

Niamh.
04-09-2018, 04:06 PM
100% agree with this. She's not mentally ill, just a thoroughly unpleasant individual and attention seeker who has finally been called out for her bad behaviour. Hopefully she'll tone it down after this for the good of anyone unfortunate to cross paths with her in future.

Yeah best result out of all this is that she will think twice before trying to hang someone again, not because she's seen the error of her ways though but because she might fear getting caught out again

hijaxers
04-09-2018, 04:10 PM
The most sickening part of both interviews for me was the fact not once did she say she had lied, she skirted around using the word

Yes and i like a lot of other people feel she acted her way through both interviews and really has no remorse at all , she is just sick as a pig she got caught - bang to rights !

I would urge her to get help and as fast as possible before she can damage anyone else.
Oh and please Roxanne don't blame going into CBB for destroying your career as you and you alone are responsible for that.

JerseyWins
04-09-2018, 04:48 PM
Didn't know where else to put this but I'm in ****ing tears here

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Lmao :laugh2:

GoldHeart
04-09-2018, 07:20 PM
I mean I don’t agree with people sitting on twitter sending her death threats either, like I don’t disagree with a part of this post. As horrible as people can be on social media, it also kinda embodies a moral stand of like no we don’t tolerate this. It’s always bound to happen with anything like this on social media. It would’ve been more alarming to me if it didn’t happen, not saying it should, but it’s a natural byproduct I guess. The world is ruthless but the internet is even more ruthless lol again like I said outside of her getting sued I hope she gets help and can move on with society

Obviously death threats is a bit OTT , but people are angry and disgusted by Roxy's actions . I honestly don't want to see her on tv again . The 2 interviews with Emma & Vine were more than enough and only Emma called her out .

I don't have sympathy for Roxy , she needs to realise she can't go through life hurting other's . And she would of probably continued if she hadn't been found out so it's a scary thought that someone can be so nasty and spiteful for so many years while still working in the media .