How old were you when you had your first relationship?

[Eddie.]

All in the title really...

With a boy: 18
With a girl: 16 (didn’t really care about dating when I was in my early teenage years)...

Now my bisexual self is single and proud! :joker:

Relationship as in your first SERIOUS fling with someone.

[Crimson Dynamo]

i think you need to define relationship a little?

[Tom4784]

I was 15 when I had my first relationship with a girl that went beyond anything physical but my first (and only) same sex relationship is a bit more harder to define. It's been on and off since we were 16 but we've never really committed to each other. It's a weird thing to explain.

I don't really like relationships in the traditional sense. I prefer my independence and privacy, I don't like to share my relationships with the world and I can't really live for someone else either. I need time on my own a lot and I think most of my relationships have ended in mostly peaceful breakups because we wanted different things. It's only ever been him that really understood what I want in a relationship and I think that's why we keep finding each other.

I don't know if I've explained that well, it's not like I want open relationships or anything, I'm very monogamous but I just need a lot of space. Yeah....I can't explain it very well.

[Eddie.]

I was 15 when I had my first relationship with a girl that went beyond anything physical but my first (and only) same sex relationship is a bit more harder to define. It's been on and off since we were 16 but we've never really committed to each other. It's a weird thing to explain.

I don't really like relationships in the traditional sense. I prefer my independence and privacy, I don't like to share my relationships with the world and I can't really live for someone else either. I need time on my own a lot and I think most of my relationships have ended in mostly peaceful breakups because we wanted different things. It's only ever been him that really understood what I want in a relationship and I think that's why we keep finding each other.

I don't know if I've explained that well, it's not like I want open relationships or anything, I'm very monogamous but I just need a lot of space. Yeah....I can't explain it very well.

Don’t worry I get what you are trying to say. :)

[ethanjames]

i was fourteen i think it didnt last long but none do at this age

[Josy]

13 D:

[Niamh.]

16 I think and it lasted 3 months

[LaLaLand]

13 for about 3 months?

[Jøsh]

ive never been in one

[Underscore]

16 and it lasted for about 6 months. I woke up to how toxic they were and that was that.

[Underscore]

ive never been in one

old cat lady

[Crimson Dynamo]

I snogged Lynne Fitzgerald in bushes when on a day trip to Holyrood house and it was like open mouthed kiss in primary 7?

fast forward 20 years and i saw her in my grannies local paper getting married, which was weird as i never saw her again after p7

I did also go out with Kim Cassidy for a time also in p7 as i remember i bought her a jigsaw and took it round to her house

It was all go in p7



:flutter:

[RileyH]

12 or 13 :p

[RileyH]

That's if we're not counting messy primary let's get married in t'playground relationships

[Elliot]

15 :x

[Black Dagger]

This is my first relationship I'm in now. I'm 23 lol.

[Babayaro.]

not been in one!

[Crimson Dynamo]

not been in one!

you must have had girlfriends at school ffs?

[smudgie]

First kiss...about. 6/7 with a boy called Keith.

[Babayaro.]

you must have had girlfriends at school ffs?

Nope!

[Jessica.]

I was 18 and I'm still in the same relationship seven years later. :lovedup:

[armand.kay]

Never had anything I would consider a relationship.The closest was dating someone for months

[Jessica.]

I don't think that kid you held hands with in primary school counts as a relationship. :joker:

[Jessica.]

Never had anything I would consider a relationship.The closest was dating someone for months

I think dating counts if it went on for months though, I guess you know better, probably depends how far it went.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Nope!

smallest boy LT has had a slew of girlfriends and he is just gone 12

what kind of schools are they running in Fife?

[Robodog]

No one around that i felt strongly about, until i hit 16

then....BAM! proper fell in love :flutter:


Teenage kicks are hard to beat :love:

[Babayaro.]

smallest boy LT has had a slew of girlfriends and he is just gone 12

what kind of schools are they running in Fife?

Good for ****ing him then!

[Cal.]

Had ‘girlfriends’ in primary school but I had ‘more serious’ girlfriends in high school from the age of 11-13 lmao. Still weren’t that series though and never went beyond snogging.

[Cal.]

And then I discovered I was gay and have NEVER committed to a man.

[Ant.]

I dated a girl from when I was 9 until I was 11

she was such a scream I ended up moving onto her street years after we broke up

she used to cry and tell people i beat ha up and she was so annoying

i remember we kissed in front of all the junior kids

Romance at its FINEST

I've just had to edit my comment bc I completely forgot my first relationship with a guy lmao (i was still 16 and it was a month before the relationship i was on about)

he was a friend I had known for years and I wanted to date him and i wont lie it was like. really awkward lol. anyway on the first date i had a seizure and he told me he loved me and we didnt even SNOG we just held hands and he did it so awkwardly all my friends messaged me that night like "can u not hold hands with ppl lmao"

[LaLaLand]

i remember we kissed in front of all the junior kids


Ugh this used to be such an event as a kid! Everyone would meet on the park at a particular time just to watch these two kids kiss for the first time and it'd be like the most shockingly scandalous thing ever :joker::joker:

[Maru]

12 to 14... I don't really remember how old I was tbh as those years are a bit of a blur for a few reasons... I want to say 13, may have been as late as 14... and it was as serious as it could be at that age (puppy love)... my first love in the mature sense was @ 16 and was very intense... I had a few meh ones before and after... loved them to death as friends, but they were just wasn't enough chemistry when were together...

[Mystic Mock]

ive never been in one

This.

Maybe it's my wonderful charm that's too much for women to handle.:joker:

[Behind_You]

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