West Yorkshire : Syrian schoolboy viciously attacked by pupil

[arista]

This was in today's news
went on last month
The bully/thug has been named on social media.


https://news.sky.com/story/syrian-schoolboy-viciously-attacked-by-pupil-as-police-investigate-11565400

[Officers are treating the incident in Huddersfield, West Yorkshire,
as a racially aggravated assault.
The victim is seen walking across a field when a fellow pupil appears to shove him
to the ground and squirt water in his face while saying: "I'll drown you".]

[Livia]

Despicable. But I hope it's remembered that kids are bullied every day for a wide variety of reasons. It shouldn't take a media outcry for schools and parents to get a handle on the problem.

[Alf]

My fights never made the national news when I was at school, didn't even make the local news.

[Kazanne]

it was awful to watch,but as Livia says a lot of it goes on,I have seen videos of girls beating another girl up,i don't know what compels people to bully, but it needs sorting out in the schools and at home,far too many kids are suffereing at the hands of bullies.people are so violent these days.

[Matthew.]

apparently he’s been charged, and rightly so as well

[armand.kay]

My fights never made the national news when I was at school, didn't even make the local news.

wth did they have to record them on?

[Jack_]

I don't watch stuff like this cause it makes me angry but I quite enjoy the thought of that kid waking up this morning to 100,00 Facebook notifications of abuse (which are still continuing) and the clip all over breakfast television and national radio stations :spin:

His world has closed in on him and he'll be living in fear, just like his victim did. Justice!

[Alf]

wth did they have to record them on?There were witness's around.

[Denver]

The bully was a supporter of the racist far right groups

[Denver]

Apparently the boy had 35k raised for him

While it's a nasty and horrible thing to happen what about all the others who suffer abuse at school ?

[jaxie]

Bullying is vile. This isn't the only kid in the country suffering from it. Let's make them all special, not just one, by being more proactive about stopping it.

[UserSince2005]

not seen it, but kids will be kids.

[Matthew.]

not seen it, but kids will be kids.

:umm2:

well if that’s your attitude then maybe you should watch it and see it’s not just a case of “kids being kids”

[Mitchell]

not seen it, but kids will be kids.

I never tried to simulate water boarding on a refugee who fled their country after seeing their country destroyed by war in my childhood but ok

[Marsh.]

My fights never made the national news when I was at school, didn't even make the local news.

Handbags are newsworthy?

[Babayaro.]

not seen it, but kids will be kids.

Don't comment shite then.


Troll.

[Greg!]

Watched it today and it made me sick to the pit of my stomach. A sad result of the hostility towards immigrants/asylum seekers from the media and a certain generation. The fact he tried to waterboard him and said 'I'll drown you' as well is DISGUSTING! A vile vile specimen who deserves everything that's coming to him.

[Mystic Mock]

I didn't have the sound up when I watched it as I was out in public, but the bully has deserved everything that he has gotten here imo, especially when the poor kid had cast (excuse the spelling) on his arm.

The bully was a coward.

[GoldHeart]

Disgusting! :oh:
Hope the bully gets punishment and made an example, he had the nerve to film it as well how stupid can you get to brag about it .

At age16 he knows right from wrong and if he doesn't want to be named & shamed then he shouldn't bully & pick on smaller school kids like the typical coward he is :nono:

[armand.kay]

they found the bullies twitter and he had shared a few nationalist /'alt right' posts also his mum has been arested before for hurling racial abuse at people.... but yeah just kids messin about

[armand.kay]

also I had a lot of dicks in my school but I think even they would've backed down on someone if they broke their ****ing arm!

[Maru]

This reminded me of this story, not too long ago. Not sure if I shared it or not:

Video of teens walking on student with cerebral palsy draws strong criticism
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/nova-scotia/glace-bay-high-school-student-cerebral-palsy-bullying-1.2663152

A video showing a teen with cerebral palsy being bullied into lying in a stream so his classmates can walk over him is being widely condemned online.

Brett Corbett is a Grade 9 student at Glace Bay High School. On Wednesday he was with other students at the stream, known as the Burr-Bank, near the school.

"At first it started as a dare," Corbett said. "But then someone threatened to push me in the Burr-Bank and said 'Get on your gut,' and a girl walked on my back."

The 14-year-old said it made him feel "sad and upset."

Bullying incidents will probably become more vicious and personal as the temperature rises in society. I think because people in general are less likely to intervene and more likely to be complicit when they've perceived the person being targetted as an "outsider" to their larger peer group. There's plenty of that behavior and groupthink in the adult world, so it's not at all unreasonable that those tensions to have started to play out in the schoolyard.

[lime]

it was awful to watch,but as Livia says a lot of it goes on,I have seen videos of girls beating another girl up,i don't know what compels people to bully, but it needs sorting out in the schools and at home,far too many kids are suffereing at the hands of bullies.people are so violent these days.

given now what we now see what happenned to Jamal and his sister...It's quite clear this is a racist attack...


racisim is awful to watch ....watching those who are flippant over racisim is painfull

[Denver]

There is also a video of his sister being attacked

[arista]

There is also a video of his sister being attacked


Yes and the the Syrian lad no longer wants to go
that school.
That Video has gone Worldwide.


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[Maru]

Yes and the the Syrian lad no longer wants to go
that school.
That Video has gone Worldwide.


https://storify.com/services/proxy/2/Z4Afw9t7RL5aD3kVuPivWQ/https/d2kmm3vx031a1h.cloudfront.net/4jXLu9OAQ4KKSCsorIYA_2911%20Metro.JPG

@headline Those words almost exactly crossed my mind. It is sad, but I think good will come of it (ultimately) with increased sympathy. It can't easy to migrate from a wartorn country, especially in and at such an age..

[user104658]

@headline Those words almost exactly crossed my mind. It is sad, but I think good will come of it (ultimately) with increased sympathy. It can't easy to migrate from a wartorn country, especially in and at such an age..

You only need to read this thread to know that sadly, that is not the case. "Why is it relevant that he is a refugee all that matters is the bullying let's JUST focus on that #AllBulliesMatter #BrexitFTW #RacismDoesntExist"

[Livia]

It is sad that he's come from a war-torn country to be bullied here. But really, this looks like it's come as a shock to a lot of people. The bit of film where his sister is grabbed, hit, pushed to the ground... that was a weekly occurrence for me at school. Sometimes more than weekly. And it was racist.... but the school didn't see it like that and did pretty much nothing for five years. And I have no reason to believe that this kind of behaviour stopped with me and then started again with this lad. It goes on ALLLL the time. One of my nieces was bullied and it ended up with HER being removed from the school by her parents because the school did **** all. Now they're at private school... and the bullying is just as bad, and the school just as unwilling to actually DO anything.

Bullying is destroying people's lives and it has been for years, all kinds of people, and schools rarely address the problem. I'd like to see the media focus on the WHOLE problem and not drag it up and act outraged when it's a refugee.

[lime]

It is sad that he's come from a war-torn country to be bullied here. But really, this looks like it's come as a shock to a lot of people. The bit of film where his sister is grabbed, hit, pushed to the ground... that was a weekly occurrence for me at school. Sometimes more than weekly. And it was racist.... but the school didn't see it like that and did pretty much nothing for five years. And I have no reason to believe that this kind of behaviour stopped with me and then started again with this lad. It goes on ALLLL the time. One of my nieces was bullied and it ended up with HER being removed from the school by her parents because the school did **** all. Now they're at private school... and the bullying is just as bad, and the school just as unwilling to actually DO anything.

Bullying is destroying people's lives and it has been for years, all kinds of people, and schools rarely address the problem. I'd like to see the media focus on the WHOLE problem and not drag it up and act outraged when it's a refugee.

Oh trust me Livia..I have first hand experienence of what it is like to be bullied ...more so racially abused because I'm a white south african.

There should be no "but" in this case.

I personally don't see what happened to Jamal as bulling..It's racial abuse..


As uncomfortable as that may be...It is not a case of bulling....It's racial abuse

[arista]

Yes The Bully's Mother
is reported to have
be charged with Racial abuse on someone

[Maru]

You only need to read this thread to know that sadly, that is not the case. "Why is it relevant that he is a refugee all that matters is the bullying let's JUST focus on that #AllBulliesMatter #BrexitFTW #RacismDoesntExist"

I think it's a mistake though to judge society on the whole based on what happens on an internet site tbh. Most of the people I know don't really "participate" online.

This doesn't detract though from your other point, that there are swaths of people, particularly partisan folk who will see it a drip in the ocean no matter how many facts are presented. Gaslighting is also very much a political/acultural thing.

[Alf]

It turns out it wasn't a racially motivated attack, and instead just two school children having a scrap in a school playground. But thanks to the hysteria and fake news, this lad and his family have had to be moved out of their home because of vigilantes groups. The school child has even been threatened with getting stabbed by an adult.

We'll done fake news

[Maru]

It turns out it wasn't a racially motivated attack, and instead just two school children having a scrap in a school playground. But thanks to the hysteria and fake news, this lad and his family have had to be moved out of their home because of vigilantes groups. The school child has even been threatened with getting stabbed by an adult.

We'll done fake news

Source? All I found was this through quick search. I'm guessing it is in reference to the @bold

Bullied Syrian refugee says he will not return to Huddersfield school
Protesters meet headteacher as new video allegedly shows boy’s sister being attacked

https://i.imgur.com/UxMPvIf.png

A 15-year-old Syrian refugee seen being pushed to the ground and having water poured on his face in a video shared on social media has said he will not return to the school where the incident took place.

Footage of the playground incident, which occurred at Almondbury community school on 25 October, went viral on Tuesday night. Since then, fresh footage has emerged that is said to show the boy’s sister being physically abused at the same school.

On Thursday afternoon around 30 protesters took part in a peaceful demonstration outside the school organised by the Huddersfield Pakistani Community Alliance. Four of the group then had a meeting with the school’s headteacher, Trevor Bowen.

The boy, who can be identified only as Jamal, and his father briefly made an appearance at the protest and thanked the local community for their support. The father added: “Thank you to Pakistan. Thanks to everyone.”

Speaking at his home, Jamal told the Guardian that he and his sister would not be returning to classes. “We are not going back to the school. We are just talking about what we are going to do now,” he said.

Nazia Hussain, 42, who attended the protest, said the community wanted to show their support after the “appalling” treatment of the refugee family, and called for schools in the area to run integration lessons to avoid similar incidents in the future.

She said: “It has caused uproar amongst local people and we just wanted to show this family that we are here for them. The racial undertones to this incident have been horrendous and schools in the area need to do more to integrate refugee families.”

The family came to Huddersfield two years ago after fleeing persecution under the Bashar al-Assad regime in Syria. Syed Rashad Bokhari, the chief operating officer of the Huddersfield Pakistani Community Alliance, questioned the placement of the family in a predominantly white area.

“There is a problem with the whole system, they should never have been placed here,” he said. “There are so many other areas locally which would have been better suited to their needs and we would have been able to avoid this situation.”

Mohammed Pandor, an imam, said the meeting with the headteacher was “very productive”. He said: “We are confident that school is taking this case very seriously. Clearly when someone comes from Syria, fleeing Assad’s regime, coming to a place like this, when you get treated that way, that’s an issue. And the whole world is looking at us.”

Tasnime Akunjee, a solicitor representing the family, previously told the Guardian that they were considering moving away from the area and had received offers to be re-homed in Oxford.

A fundraising page for the boy and his family has received more than £140,000 in donations since it was launched on Tuesday night.

Akunjee said: “They will be using this money to relocate from Huddersfield. They don’t want to live there any more, the level of abuse the children have received has become too much. They now need to take stock and get over the shock of it all. The children need to move on with this and get on with their lives.”

He said the couple’s 14-year-old daughter had been bullied by another group of pupils, and last week someone had forcibly removed her hijab. On Tuesday a girl was excluded from the school over that incident.

Further footage has emerged allegedly showing the girl being attacked by other pupils. The video shows a girl being pushed towards a grass verge. At the end of the clip she falls to the ground.

West Yorkshire police said they were investigating the latest incident. “The incident had not previously been reported to the police but we are now liaising with the girl’s family, who we are continuing to support,” the force said.

Police said on Wednesday that a 16-year-old boy had been interviewed in connection with the Jamal incident and would be charged with assault.

The video of that incident has been viewed thousands of times and attracted hundreds of comments of condemnation. The alleged perpetrator has been the subject of hundreds of violent threats online and on Thursday a police guard remained outside his home.

The far-right campaigner Tommy Robinson became involved in the saga, claiming Jamal had previously attacked two schoolgirls. The EDL founder reposted a screenshot of a message on his Facebook page from a mother claiming her daughter had been bullied.

However, the mother later posted on Robinson’s page denying that it was Jamal who had allegedly attacked her daughter.

The boy’s solicitor confirmed that he has written to Robinson saying that he would be taking legal action against him.

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Meanwhile, Jamal revealed that he does not want any violence aimed at the bully after online abuse was directed at the alleged perpetrator. He said: “I am very concerned about the violent comments going out on social media about the bully. I don’t want anything terrible to happen to him at all. I just don’t want anything bad to happen to anyone.”

Akunjee said that Jamal and his family had been alarmed at the violent threats being made online towards the alleged attacker and that the boy’s concerns for the bully were a symbol of his maturity and compassion.

He added: “He is concerned about the fact that no other children are harmed – including the bullies.”

Akunjee, who is a solicitor based in London, said: “It is a shocking video. But some people are calling for the bully to be bullied and that is certainly not what this boy or any of his family want. He just wishes this never happened and that none of the bullying ever took place. This is the mature attitude with which he has conducted himself even while being bullied.”

What is a solicitor? Like an attorney?

[Tom4784]

Given that both kids are facing horrific bullying and the type of bullying that the sister is facing in particular, it takes a special kind of refusal to acknowledge the facts and make out that this isn't racially motivated.

Also it's certainly not 'two children having a scrap', saying it's so is the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and going 'lalalalalala' to ignore reality. This was not a fight, the victim did not fight back at any point. To say it was a fight is to blame the victim for being bullied and to vindicate the bully of his abuse of the victim.

Finally, Tommy Robinson is a racist ******* that spreads fake news that racists know is fake but flock to it anyway since they rely on their **** to 'validate' their hate. I hope the victim's family take him for all his worth given how he has chosen to vilify a victim for having the 'wrong' skin colour.

[Alf]

Source Maru. He was charged with common assault. Not racially aggravated, as was reported.

[Alf]

Given that both kids are facing horrific bullying and the type of bullying that the sister is facing in particular, it takes a special kind of refusal to acknowledge the facts and make out that this isn't racially motivated.

Also it's certainly not 'two children having a scrap', saying it's so is the equivalent of putting your fingers in your ears and going 'lalalalalala' to ignore reality. This was not a fight, the victim did not fight back at any point. To say it was a fight is to blame the victim for being bullied and to vindicate the bully of his abuse of the victim.

Finally, Tommy Robinson is a racist ******* that spreads fake news that racists know is fake but flock to it anyway since they rely on their **** to 'validate' their hate. I hope the victim's family take him for all his worth given how he has chosen to vilify a victim for having the 'wrong' skin colour.He got threw to the ground, had some water thrown in his face, then he got up and walked off. I'm not saying that's acceptable, bur it happens in every school all over the world, all the time. School disciplinary system is as far as it should have gone, like every other similar case.

[Maru]

Source Maru. He was charged with common assault. Not racially aggravated, as was reported.

I'm the source? :laugh: (Joking aside)

I hadn't noticed there was could've been a distinction in the ruling, but the "lesser" charge is telling. If it were to be considered a hate crime (of sorts), then racism would have to be proven. One would think past comments could even come into play if there are witnesses? Though I don't think it's unreasonable to think at least his being bullied partially played off of racial/ethnic differences since that could've effectively made him an "outsider". I was on the receiving end of those nuances with where I grew up, when I was very often selected for bullying. I could say racially motivated, but I just think that my being white, very small and obviously "different" probably made me an easier target to isolate from my peers. That said, a victim mentality would've been panned majorly when I was growing up, so it's not something that was tolerated to go to the principal's office and go "That person is racist towards me!"... it would've had to been a staff/peer group thing where they saw it witness this beyond just "typical" bullying.

Back then it was just the B word (bully) that was thrown around.
Now it's the R word, but the B word is still as much of a problem... but I think stories like this that do shock people make them think about how they deal with people and how they treat others as human beings... puts things like our harsh words into perspective. I actually don't want the R battle to become a bigger deal than it is now, because I do think that coexistance should be a matter of who we choose to hang around with... but rather how we treat all human-beings in general. (To be clear, you've never made me feel the latter, Alf, I'm just making a very particular point)

There is something to be said as well about worrying about what happens in our own yard before attacking others... still, it isn't a bad thing to bring awareness to things like racial tensions. Which will certainly always exist in the same sense that all societies, even Intersectional ones, will have some sense of exclusionary behavior and prevailing priorities.

[Tom4784]

He got threw to the ground, had some water thrown in his face, then he got up and walked off. I'm not saying that's acceptable, bur it happens in every school all over the world, all the time. School disciplinary system is as far as it should have gone, like every other similar case.

You are saying it's acceptable though because you are trying to normalise it AND blame the victim in part by making out that it was a fight when it wasn't, it was an attack.

[Alf]

You are saying it's acceptable though because you are trying to normalise it AND blame the victim in part by making out that it was a fight when it wasn't, it was an attack.I'm not trying to normalise it, how could I possibly normalise it? when I'm saying it already is normal. You can try and change human behavior until your dying day, but it won't happen.This isn't the first school fight caught on camera and it won't be the last.

Right, now back to your turn to tell me what I really mean even though I haven't said what you say I mean.

[Livia]

Bullies will find something different in you, whether you're black, white, ginger, fat, spotty, wear glasses, dress weird... whatever it is. You don't feel worse if you happen to be a different colour and/or from another country. EVERYONE who faces senseless bullying like this is worth concern.

It seems to me that some people think it's somehow worse if it's purely racist... which this probably was. No one should suffer like this lad and his sister. No one. Not for any reason.

[Kazanne]

Bullies will find something different in you, whether you're black, white, ginger, fat, spotty, wear glasses, dress weird... whatever it is. You don't feel worse if you happen to be a different colour and/or from another country. EVERYONE who faces senseless bullying like this is worth concern.

It seems to me that some people think it's somehow worse if it's purely racist... which this probably was. No one should suffer like this lad and his sister. No one. Not for any reason.

:clap1:

[Tom4784]

I'm not trying to normalise it, how could I possibly normalise it? when I'm saying it already is normal. You can try and change human behavior until your dying day, but it won't happen.This isn't the first school fight caught on camera and it won't be the last.

Right, now back to your turn to tell me what I really mean even though I haven't said what you say I mean.

Says it all really.....

Also, you keep trying to make out that it was a fight, meaning that both sides are willing participants but that is bull****, it was a one sided attack and the latest in a seemingly long line of bullying incidents that the victim and his sister have suffered. How the **** could you ever describe that as a fight when one side is doing nothing to defend themselves?

I wonder if you would be saying the same if the roles of these two were reversed.

[Alf]

Says it all really.....

Also, you keep trying to make out that it was a fight, meaning that both sides are willing participants but that is bull****, it was a one sided attack and the latest in a seemingly long line of bullying incidents that the victim and his sister have suffered. How the **** could you ever describe that as a fight when one side is doing nothing to defend themselves?

I wonder if you would be saying the same if the roles of these two were reversed.What do you mean by roles reversed?

Roles reversed would be a boy, throwing another boy to the ground and throwing water in his face, it would be exactly the same.

Boys and girls fight to show dominence, always have done always will do, it's just human nature. The only difference with this fight is, people are playing politics with it, identity politics.

[Tom4784]

What do you mean by roles reversed?

Roles reversed would be a boy, throwing another boy to the ground and throwing water in his face, it would be exactly the same.

Boys and girls fight to show dominence, always have done always will do, it's just human nature. The only difference with this fight is, people are playing politics with it, identity politics.

Why are you so hesitant to acknowledge the syrian boy as a victim? You keep ignoring what's in front of you to pretend that this was a fight instead of a bullying incident.

All you are doing is normalising bullying and you seem to be defending it by passing it off as something natural. It's quite suspect. You mentioned that your 'fights' never became news in your youth and given what your interpretation of what 'fights' consist of, it makes me wonder whether you were a bully and that's why you are hesitant to call this what it is because it's something you were guilty of as a child.

This wasn't a fight and calling it so will not change the facts, you're just spreading misinformation to suit your own agenda. This is an incident of bullying and trying to talk around it and vindicate the bully of blame by making out that they were both in the wrong won't work because the truth of the matter is common knowledge.

[Alf]

Why are you so hesitant to acknowledge the syrian boy as a victim? You keep ignoring what's in front of you to pretend that this was a fight instead of a bullying incident.

All you are doing is normalising bullying and you seem to be defending it by passing it off as something natural. It's quite suspect. You mentioned that your 'fights' never became news in your youth and given what your interpretation of what 'fights' consist of, it makes me wonder whether you were a bully and that's why you are hesitant to call this what it is because it's something you were guilty of as a child.

This wasn't a fight and calling it so will not change the facts, you're just spreading misinformation to suit your own agenda. This is an incident of bullying and trying to talk around it and vindicate the bully of blame by making out that they were both in the wrong won't work because the truth of the matter is common knowledge.You see, your problem isn't with this story, your problem is with me and about you trying to virtue signal.

If you look back at my posts in this thread, you'll see my first post was sarcastically mocking the media. My second post in this thread was again having a go at the media, for creating hysteria and the consequences of it
I've also said in one of my posts in this thread (post 36) '"i'm not saying that's acceptable' and it's not, but there are school disciplinary procedures to deal with this kind of incident, it's not a matter for the media to drum up public hysteria, and that was my point from the start.

Let's look at the incident, which yes, was not acceptable.

The bigger lad threw the little lad to the ground, now let's be honest, the big lad, if he really wanted to, could have punched and kicked him on the ground, but he didn:t, he squirted some water in his face and then let him go. Why would that be a national news headline?

You want me to admit the Syrian boy is a victim, but how do I know what lead up to the incident, how do I know that earlier in the day he wasn't mouthing off to the other boy, or am I just supposed to believe that the boy was attacked for no reason?

And again on the normalising part, I agree, it would be great if we could eliminate bullying, but I believe that it's impossible in a free world, and these incidents will always happen. That's not my fault, it's reality.

[Smithy]

It is sad that he's come from a war-torn country to be bullied here. But really, this looks like it's come as a shock to a lot of people. The bit of film where his sister is grabbed, hit, pushed to the ground... that was a weekly occurrence for me at school. Sometimes more than weekly. And it was racist.... but the school didn't see it like that and did pretty much nothing for five years. And I have no reason to believe that this kind of behaviour stopped with me and then started again with this lad. It goes on ALLLL the time. One of my nieces was bullied and it ended up with HER being removed from the school by her parents because the school did **** all. Now they're at private school... and the bullying is just as bad, and the school just as unwilling to actually DO anything.

Bullying is destroying people's lives and it has been for years, all kinds of people, and schools rarely address the problem. I'd like to see the media focus on the WHOLE problem and not drag it up and act outraged when it's a refugee.

This has nothing to do with him being a refugee its just because the video has gone viral online. It could have been a white person/PoC not a refugee and it would have still garnered the same attention.

[Maru]

Bullies will find something different in you, whether you're black, white, ginger, fat, spotty, wear glasses, dress weird... whatever it is. You don't feel worse if you happen to be a different colour and/or from another country. EVERYONE who faces senseless bullying like this is worth concern.

It seems to me that some people think it's somehow worse if it's purely racist... which this probably was. No one should suffer like this lad and his sister. No one. Not for any reason.

Yep. I wouldn't even say it's even worse for us if we're most of those things.. :laugh: It's about dominating the other person as Alf says, and by the same token, about obtaining other's submission, because the bully only wins if others kowtow to their self-perceived status. Their place in the "heirarchy" though is always precipitous, which is why so much of bullying can be very brutal.

[Livia]

This has nothing to do with him being a refugee its just because the video has gone viral online. It could have been a white person/PoC not a refugee and it would have still garnered the same attention.

Not true, Smiffy.

This whole thread's turning into a case of for and against with no middle-ground, the way of lot of threads go, in fact. If you don't think it's worse for him because he's a Syrian refugee, and if you don't accept that it's happening to all kinds of people, of all colours, backgrounds, religions etc. etc. then the rest of us are "normalising it".

[Livia]

Yep. I wouldn't even say it's even worse for us if we're most of those things.. :laugh: It's about dominating the other person as Alf says, and by the same token, about obtaining other's submission, because the bully only wins if others kowtow to their self-perceived status. Their place in the "heirarchy" though is always precipitous, which is why so much of bullying can be very brutal.

I agree with all of this.

[Tom4784]

You see, your problem isn't with this story, your problem is with me and about you trying to virtue signal.

If you look back at my posts in this thread, you'll see my first post was sarcastically mocking the media. My second post in this thread was again having a go at the media, for creating hysteria and the consequences of it
I've also said in one of my posts in this thread (post 36) '"i'm not saying that's acceptable' and it's not, but there are school disciplinary procedures to deal with this kind of incident, it's not a matter for the media to drum up public hysteria, and that was my point from the start.

Let's look at the incident, which yes, was not acceptable.

The bigger lad threw the little lad to the ground, now let's be honest, the big lad, if he really wanted to, could have punched and kicked him on the ground, but he didn:t, he squirted some water in his face and then let him go. Why would that be a national news headline?

You want me to admit the Syrian boy is a victim, but how do I know what lead up to the incident, how do I know that earlier in the day he wasn't mouthing off to the other boy, or am I just supposed to believe that the boy was attacked for no reason?

And again on the normalising part, I agree, it would be great if we could eliminate bullying, but I believe that it's impossible in a free world, and these incidents will always happen. That's not my fault, it's reality.

'It's not that bad! He only got thrown to the floor! The totally-not-a-bully-because-i-say-so could have punched or stamped on him as well BUT HE DIDN'T!! It's obviously just two lads having a fight! The white person isn't to blame!'

I would never find you a problem, the problem is that you're vindicating the bully by making out that he isn't a bully and you're trying to push an utter bull**** story of this incident being a fight thus blaming the victim in part for his own abuse. All you've done is basically victim blame and normalise and when that's failed you've tried to erase the story by making out that it shouldn't be a story. It's a story, deal with it and stop defending bullying because at this point it's fairly obvious that is what you are doing given that you have not said one word in condemnation towards the bully's actions but you've done a lot to try to balance things using a ****ed up scale to put as much blame at the victim's feet as his bully.

It's ****ed up and I will call you out on it.

[Alf]

7'It's not that bad! He only got thrown to the floor! The totally-not-a-bully-because-i-say-so could have punched or stamped on him as well BUT HE DIDN'T!! It's obviously just two lads having a fight! The white person isn't to blame!'

I would never find you a problem, the problem is that you're vindicating the bully by making out that he isn't a bully and you're trying to push an utter bull**** story of this incident being a fight thus blaming the victim in part for his own abuse. All you've done is basically victim blame and normalise and when that's failed you've tried to erase the story by making out that it shouldn't be a story. It's a story, deal with it and stop defending bullying because at this point it's fairly obvious that is what you are doing given that you have not said one word in condemnation towards the bully's actions but you've done a lot to try to balance things using a ****ed up scale to put as much blame at the victim's feet as his bully.

It's ****ed up and I will call you out on it.I submit, you win

Satisfied?