Is there such thing as a slut anymore?

[Wizard.]

Do you judge people who sleep with a lot of other people as sluts? The term slut has kind of rightly been abandoned. If straight guys can sleep with a new girl every weekend then why judge girls / gay guys? Even if you don’t call someone a slut, do you still judge someone who is highly sexual and has many sexual partners and why?

[montblanc]

as long as people are practicing safe sex and not knowingly or unknowingly spreading around std's then it doesn't matter to me

[Ashley.]

I'm against any word or phrase created by men to dehumanise women. If there is such a thing nowadays, there shouldn't be.

[Elliot]

It’s gotten so watered down idt it means anything in a lot of circles anymore. That isn’t to say there still aren’t hyper prudes out there who like to shame ppl because of sex

[Beso]

I brought home some crab paste sandwiches earlier for someone special..she spat them out shouting...they taste like **** where did you get them........I walked into the kitchen past her..the ****ing chemist you slut.



So yes, there is.

[Matthew.]

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[Northern Monkey]

At the end of the day.Anyone can sleep with as many people as they like.
It’s a free country.
But no one wants to settle down long term with the local bike.
That’s just how it is.
If you get a reputation around your area you’re probably limiting your options for long term relationships where you are known.
A kind of self fulfilling prophecy.
It’s not just men who judge women like this either.Women do it too I.E I’ve heard women say things like ‘er I wouldn’t go near her,She’s a right mucky cow’.

Why men aren’t judged in the same way.I’m not sure.Perhaps men having many sexual partners isn’t as much of a turn off for women?

[user104658]

I don't like the term and obviously it's down to individual choice how many people anyone sleeps with :shrug:. That said, I personally don't imagine it's a particularly fulfilling existence, but each to their own. It's not really about numbers, either, I just don't find the idea of rubbing off against a stranger appealing.

I also don't think it's even 100% true any more that women are judged for it and men aren't... there are plenty of women who would be put off by guys having a huge list of sexual "conquests".

[smudgie]

Sluts.
Thought that went out with equality way back in the seventies.
You can have one hell of a lot of fun cycling....:blush:
Personally it’s up to the individual, you can have plenty of fun and then meet your soulmate and settle down. Worked well for me.:shrug: